Monday, December 31, 2007

Are You Single For Too Long?

In this world full of stress and strife, we all desire a caring partner who dotes on us. However, some women find their ‘dream guy’ more easily than others. Call it their charm, the magic of their magnetic personality or destiny, they are simply adept at attracting men by the dozens. Then there are some who don’t manage to pull on their date to even a second one. But there may be some reasons behind your failing dates. Maybe you have forgotten how to play the dating game because you have been single for far too long. But how do you figure that you have maintained the single status for longer than you should have. Here are seven signs:

#1#. You're awkward around men


A valid reason for the lack of a guy in your life is your clumsy and awkward behaviour around them. You don’t know what to talk to them about.

You don’t know how to react when they give you a compliment. When a guy makes a subtle pass, you either get miffed like a child instead of getting flattered or react too excitedly, as a result turning him off completely. When you actually string together a few dates with a guy, you blow it all up by doing something weird like fighting over the bill with him and telling him that hey I know you can take me out but I have an ego too.

#2#. Loneliness is making you desperate

On those lonely nights, you actually log on to chat rooms for singles and chat to strangers for hours online about estranged love and life and much more. You have actually registered yourself on matrimony sites looking for a guy ‘who will provide you with love and care’. You spend a quarter of your day looking though profiles on line for a ‘suitable’ guy. Really, if you indulge in any of this, you have been out of sorts for sure.

#3#. You think that every guy you meet is making a pass at you

Women in relationship get attention from their men. Women, who date, get attention from their dates. But women who hardly even meet men get no attention from anywhere. This lack of attention can do things to their head. When you start thinking that every random guy who looks at you, speaks to you or smiles at you is making a pass at you and desires you immensely then you really have been single for too long.

#4#. Valentine’s day rolls by and no guy asks you out

You know you have been single for more that you should have been, when guys don’t ask you out simply because they have never seen you going out with a guy. They are left thinking that you never go on dates so why should they spend their energy asking you out.

#5#. You have started looking like Ethel from Archie Comics

Presence of a guy in a woman’s life keeps her conscious about her appearance and she stays busy looking after herself. Though a guy is never the only reason for which she dresses up but an absence of a guy can surely make a woman disinterested when it comes to dolling herself up. If your hair haven’t been pruned for months and your skin is full of blemishes, your hands are unkempt and you have been putting on weight insanely then you know that you are getting where you shouldn’t.

#6#. Most of your friends are always trying to hook you up with someone

When every third day from someone or the other you hear things like, “Hey I am meeting this really interesting friend of mine who also happens to be single, why don’t you join us” then you know that people have seen you single for far too long.

#7#. Stop hanging out with only girls

Because you don't hang around with guys at all, people might start thinking that you aren’t straight. If guys think that you swing the other way, however attractive you may be, they will never ask you out. But don’t blame people. If you spend all your time chilling out with your girl friends and never step out with a guy then what are they to think? If this isn’t a sign of your long retained single status, then what is?

If you relate to three or more of these signs then the label of being single has been on you sleeve for rather long and you need to dump it SOON. Read these signs for what they are and get back into the dating game. After all, everyone needs to experience that lovely thing called love.

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

Men Love The Mysterious Girl

A woman is known for her mysterious side. A secret which every man dreams to uncover. It is said that you “never understand a woman” and this is the only thing which pulls a man towards her. Her secrets, her unpredictable nature, her sobs which often bursts into a series of laughter is always a puzzle for the man who aspires to solve it one day. Let us see how you can use this mysterious side of yours into a treasure hunt for your man, laying a trail which can definitely unlock the secrets of your heart. It’s your key to getting your partner more interested in you.

@1# Creating an impression

What could be a better colour for our ‘secret lady’ than a dress in black. Apply a dash of mascara with a silver lining or smoky grey eye shadow leaving behind a dusky effect for your eyes to narrate a tale which was never told to him.

Wear a dress which is not so revealing yet it conceals the contours of your body in a perfect manner that sets off a trail of imagination.

@2# Talking secrets


Speak to him about the innocent girl in you who believes in a fairy and Prince Charming riding a horse. Also do not forget to mention about the daring and passionate side of yours which has the power of steel and can bend the universe with your impregnable confidence. Give him a taste of your indecisive nature that does not know what to shop at times and the focus that you have on your goals which does not waver and has the stillness of an ice-berg. Yes, have him a bit confused.

@3# Where to go?

If you really want to intrigue him, take him to a place which has a theme of the unknown. Where else can you floor him with your deadly secrets?

@4# The way to man’s heart

Last but not the least serve him with a home made dessert prepared by you as we all know that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This way he will be all set to explore your hidden treasures better.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

The Chemistry Behind Love

Love is as much a hormonal issue as is an emotional one. Ever wondered why you blush and go weak-kneed while meeting your special other? Why does the person appear "sexy" and attractive after a few interactions? As much as it is a mind game, the body and hormones too play a major role in deciding our love lives. Here is how…

• The weak-kneed reaction is triggered by an overdose of a chemical called phenylethylamine (PEA). Popularly known as the “love molecule” this one is found in the brain and has high levels of nitrogen. Chocolates are also known to trigger off PEA secretion…

• The weak-kneed reaction is usually followed by lust which is triggered by “testosterone” -the male hormone. Body’s secretion of hormone shoots up when the mind is “in love”.

• Sweaty palms are a result of increased blood pressure or adrenaline rush. This leads to fastened heart rate, heavy breathing and blushing. An excess intake of oxygen is the reason behind the “giddy”, “light headed” feeling.

• Adrenaline and Serotonin (low levels) lead to attraction.

• PEA also releases dopamine, “a feel good” neuro-transmitter that controls emotional responses and our ability to react to stimulus (pleasure and pain).

• This neuro-transmitter is responsible for crystallizing lust into attraction, leading to the birth of a relationship.

• Dopamine also produces oxytocin, the “cuddle chemical”.

So the next time your heart goes racing, you just blame the hormones at work…

Monday, October 29, 2007

How To Reduce Online Dating Dangers

Are you still seeking your soul mate?
 

Or are you just looking for friends with the same interests?
 

Well, online dating is definitely a great way to widen your circle of friends. It is really fun to meet many interesting people and sometimes addictive for many people. Some have even met their soul mate by meeting their perfect lifetime match through an online dating portal! It is just amazing the convenience and the benefits that online dating brings to the busy people.
 

If you are new to online dating, there maybe risks which you may put yourself in even without you knowing. Good thing you are reading this! Here are some dangers of online dating that you might face and and if you face sometime you can do these to reduce such risks:
 

#1# The very first danger of online dating is when you become a scam victim. Not everyone in the online dating scene is a good guy or girl. Many scam artists masked their real identity in order to cheat someone not only of their money but emotions, feelings as well. Sad but true - many women "catch" men and ask them for money by giving empty promises. Then after the money comes to them, they disappear. There are even cases when men sexually assault the women when meet up for a date after they "meet" on an online dating site.
 

So, do not be over-credulous. The person who you are communicating with can write anything in his or her profile and he or she may not be whoever they tell you. In fact, you cannot be completely sure if it is a she or a he. In case you decide to meet your dating partner - do some background checks. Moreover, to be safe, your first date should be during daytime in a busy public place. Better still, get a friend to come along.
 

#2# Another possible danger of online dating is to give out your real address and personal information. Well, the person who is asking for your address might seem completely normal and harmless, you may even "know" him online for quite time. In any case, you should never give your home or work address as you don't really know who you are dealing with.
 

Thus, remember - never give out your personal information. No real phone number or address. Some people do not even share their real name (as you can find the address and even the phone number using it), but use nicknames instead. If things get serious and if enough time has passed you may consider sharing such information with your dating partner.
 

#3# Another danger of online dating is to get lots of unsolicited email messages. There will be many people asking for your email address in order to continue your relationship off the online dating site and only in a few hours, you will discover that you have become a spammer victim with your email box flooded with spams.
 

So, if you can stick by those general guidelines, online dating can be a great and safe experience. When in doubt, do not hesittate to consult your friends or families on what to do. Most importantly, never meet someone you met online in person alone without informing anyone else.
 

Happy Dating!!
 

One final word : trust your gut feeling and never take chances. If your feel a person is right and genuine go ahead,you might have found the love of your life. However, it is better to be very careful and do not rush things. Take one-step at a time and think over it many times before you actually do it.

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

ONE NIGHT STANDS – The Rules Revealed
Loneliness can lead people into strange bonds and unknown alleys of life. It makes them so desperate that they knowingly walk into frivolous affairs for a night, called “one-night stands”, to feel loved for a single night. If you’re an adult and choose to opt for a ‘no strings attached’ relationship, it is perfectly fine. But do remember that this comes with some responsibilities you must shoulder.
 

Here are 5 essential precautions that you must observe for your very own safety.
 

#1# Take appropriate protection.

You don’t want to be punished forever for one fun-filled night, so be alert and take precautions. Make this a rule to never ever jump into the act without taking proper protection. Pills don’t work always so insist on the guy wearing a condom. If the guy refuses on wearing a condom, get out of there fast. It’s not worth the fun at all.
 

#2# Be sure of what you want and inform your partner about the same.

Before you get into something, ensure that you have the capability to get in and out of such bonds. Talk to your ‘partner in fun’ openly and let him know about your short-term intentions in time. Also keep your heart in check so that you don’t start getting emotionally involved or all hell will break loose. After all, you don’t want to keep dreaming about someone who desired you only for a night. At the same time you don’t want to be haunted and followed by someone for months for the act of a night. So ensure that you and your partner are on the same page.
 

#3# Keep friends out of it.

When you are not going to see him again then what’s the point in telling friends about him or introducing him to them? He is not going to become a part of your life so don’t make him a part of your social circle either. Don’t go to such a place for dinner with him where you are likely to run into friends. Order in food if you can. If you stay with roommates and you are shacking up at your place, ensure that your roommate is away and is unlikely to catch you with him. Though she won’t have a right to comment on your involvements, why let her in on your secrets that will leave her uncomfortable. Similarly, don’t meet his friends. Simply because it’s a small world and if you run into his friends while at work or when you are with a prospective love interest, you don’t want them to question you about your one-night guy.
 

#4# No photographs please.

It’s not a bond for even a few weeks, forget a lifetime, so why create memories. Memories of someone you don’t intend meeting again makes no sense and will create only heart ache and will give birth to unanswerable questions. So don’t take any photographs and don’t allow the guy to click any either. He’s in it for ‘no strings attached’ fun as well, then why should he need to create memories.
 

#5# Avoid personal conversations and exchange of personal information.

Just like you don’t need to create memories, you don’t need to create routes for staying in touch either. If you run into each other again, it’s destiny. But don’t exchange phone numbers or addresses or your personal blog details on your own because it might create hope in his heart or yours for a little more. If he insists on your contact information, give wrong details and get out of there.
 

The rules of this game are simple. Once you have gotten into a one-night stand, you must stick to your decision of keeping it as a one-night stand, unless you both talk it out to take it further mutually. In that case, it no longer remains a one-night stand and becomes a beginning to a new love story. But for one-night stands, ‘take precautions, have fun, get-in and get-out and don’t look back’ is the funda.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

8 Inviting Flirting Signs That Women Usually Send

Do you want to know how to tell if a woman is attracted to you?
 

I bet you do!
 

One joke I used to tell with my friends is how I wished women had a "magical light bulb" which shines every time they were attracted to me. It would take all the guesswork out of trying to figure out which women to approach.
 

Unfortunately there's no such thing as a magical light bulb!
 

In order to understand if a woman has attraction, you have to study her body language. If you can detect certain signs of flirting when observing her, then you'll know she's attracted to you.
 

So what are these signs of flirting?
 

Well in the next few paragraphs, I'll reveal 8 flirting cues which women send you. If you see ANY of these, you'll know she's attracted to you:
 

Flirting Cue #1#- She's laughing with her friends and looking back at you


Women understand the fact that men are attracted to girls who have a sense of humor. If you see a woman laughing with her friends and then quickly glancing in your direction, you know she's trying to demonstrate a sense of humor.
 

By showing off this type of behavior she hopes you'll pick up on her "fun lifestyle" and will be interested in her.
 

Flirting Cue #2#- She keeps on looking right at you
 

One way women get men to approach them is to directly look at you and maintain prolonged eye contact. Some will even give a nice smile.
 

This is probably one of the most obvious flirting signs you'll receive from a woman!
 

Flirting Cue #3#- She's checking you out
 

Yes it's true...
 

Women often check out guys!
 

To detect if a girl is checking you out, watch if she does the 'vertical scan'.
 

This is where she'll look at your face and then moving her eyes from her feet to your heard.
 

This flirting signal means she's found something attractive about you and would like see more.
 

Flirting Cue #4#- She'll try to look best for you
 

When a woman knows you've observed her, she'll make a quick effort to look her best for

you.
 

To do this, she'll preen her hair and clothes.
 

What's great is these actions are subconscious, so she has little control over doing this. When you see this flirting cue, you know she's trying to look her best for you.
 

When you see any of these 4 flirting cues, approach and start talking to her!
 

Flirting Cue #5#- She will open herself up to you
 

Now once you've approach her, you should try to detect a few different flirting cues to detect if she wants you to kiss her or take things to the next level.
 

The first sign to look for is if she's trying to open herself up!
 

When a woman displays an "openness" with her body language, she's demonstrating a classic sign of attraction.
 

Open body language means her arms will be spread and her wrists will be turned towards you.
 

Flirting Cue #6#- She'll stroke herself
 

When a woman is talking to you she'll show a sign of flirting by stroking her neck or touching her hair. Also she might even her thigh!
 

I personally LOVE seeing these signs of flirting!
 

That's because when a woman touches these sensitive areas, she's probably thinking about what YOU could do to them.
 

Flirting Cue #7#- She'll draw closer to you
 

Another great sign of flirting is when a woman will draw closer to you during your conversation. She'll do this to show a desire to create more intimacy during your conversation.
 

Another trick is she'll lower her voice to have you draw closer to you!
 

When you see this, you're receiving an incredible sign of attraction!
 

Flirting Cue #8#- She'll scan your face including your eyes and lips
 

This final flirting cue demonstrates a desire that she wants to be kissed!
 

When a woman moves her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth, she's showing a classic sign of flirting where she's thinking about you kissing her.
 

When you see this flirting sign, act right away...
 

Start kissing her!
 

Once you do this, you'll be on the road towards making things more intimate!
 

Women give subtle signals to men which indicate attraction.
 

When you take the time to look for flirting cues, you'll discover she's sending signals which mean she wants to get to know you better and make things more intimate!
 

So, pay attention and you'll be happy with the results!

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

How To Date A Married Woman ?

Dating with a married woman would be a fantastic idea for any man. It does not matter whether you are younger or senior to that woman. Just think a little bit and you would be able to get answers ready at hand.
 

If she is really attractive, mature and compassionate, there is no harm in making a relationship even if she is married… In this world, nobody knows which relationship is perfect and is going to stay till the end except your association with the God. You may be thinking of the consequences of making love or dating a married woman. Do never feel so, if you really feel to make a relationship with her - go and tell her straightforward.
 

I am telling the real story that happened with one of my closest friends only a few days ago. He had fallen in love with one of his neighbors. She was a real beauty and every young heart wished to meet her and dreamt of spending a few hours with her. My friend used to stare at her whenever he had an idle time. He tried many times to propose her, but could not do so due to hesitation. One fine afternoon, seeing his heartthrob roaming around the lake with young a boy surprised my friend. They were in an intimate position and my friend came straight back home feeling depressed. So, to avoid such an awkward situations, you should march forward and express your thoughts to your lover.
 

Dating with a married woman would be a fantastic idea for any man. It does not matter whether you are younger or senior to that woman. Just think a little bit and you would be able to get answers ready at hand. 

Since married women are experienced in every respect, you would not face any problem to quench your thirst for sex. You would have to play according to the directions of your lover and by doing so you may find infinite pleasure. You cannot expect so much fun from any inexperienced girl. If you want to enjoy sexual intercourse from an inexperienced girl you would have to take initiative for enjoying the pleasure. You cannot expect getting pleasure from her without toiling hard. On the other hand, experienced women can satisfy you and lessen your apprehensions at the time of having sex. She knows very well how to stimulate different organs quickly. Apart from that, she would tell you what is the exact way to arouse her sexually. Accurate position and technique is required for enhancing extended sexual action and that can be certainly expected from an experienced woman.
 

If you want to have relationship with a married woman, you can expect unconditional love, which you may not get from an unmarried one. Think of the situation – a married woman will only come close to you when she would feel unsatisfied with her legal husband. To gratify her thirst for sex, she would come to you and would do whatever is necessary. In such condition, she would expect nothing more than a happy sexual relationship. On the other hand, your aim would also be to satisfy your heart to the fullest by playing with her different parts. In addition to all these, you can satisfy your libido without wasting any material things. This relationship would be an unconditional one.
 

She needs nothing from you except love and sexual pleasure. As she is married, she is supposed to have all the material things that are required to live on the earth. The following story would surely make you understand a little bit: One day, feeling deeply depressed about her sexual life a married woman decided to commit suicide. She wrote a suicidal note and left it open at their study. Finding this note, her husband’s friend rescued her from danger. There was none in the flat and listening the entire story of her, that young handsome boy decided to satisfy her. Soon, they became friend, lover and partner to each other. In absence of her husband, they used to meet in their flat and get into the act until they both were fully satisfied. Within a few days, that married woman found out reasons to live for more days on the earth. They never exchanged any material gifts or any expensive items, but continued making love for a couple of years.
 

Thus, you can enjoy your life without really burning your pocket. Apart from this, it would be your safest relationships on the earth. Since the married woman would never try to reveal the relationship that exists between you and her, you are rest assured of playing safely. In this way, you can continue making love with your girlfriend and that married woman at the same time.
 

To get rid off from the monotony of life, you can sometime go for a long drive with that married woman and can get pleasure from her. Nobody would be aware of your relationship, but both of you can fulfil your desire. So, what are you waiting for? Just be ready to start dating a married woman and bring utmost satisfaction to your life.

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Few Things That Women Love To Hear

Women always crave for real admiration. She doesn’t want to be complimented for something that she doesn’t have in her. Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are right…her man’s words. But, what kind of words?

Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are right…her man’s words. But, what kind of words?

Most women crave for compliments than anything else. Nothing can surpass those genuine and honest words of compliments that you whisper into the ears of your ladylove. A flattering remark at the right time, at the right place, by the right person and in the right way can create sheer magic. But, your admiring comments must not sound fake or superficial. And remember; never go over the top with your accolades. Otherwise, your romantic date can get marred.
 

In the beginning, keep your compliments subtle. For instance, you can admire the color of her clothes or rave about the dish she has cooked for you. Keep away from sexual comments at the start of your relationship. Otherwise, she may feel insulted.

As your association grows, you can opt for more sensual compliments. She will feel aroused if you praise her hairstyle and perfume. But, the time has not yet come to pass on overtly sexual remarks.
 

Once your relationship gets steadier, you can cross the threshold of ‘Danger Zone’. If you have that feeling that the girl is all yours, you can resort to compliments that are directly sexual or related to various body parts of the lady. You can say a word or two on her legs or fingers.
 

It is always guaranteed that the heart of a woman always melts hearing the words ‘Beautiful’, ‘Gorgeous’, ‘Pretty’ etc. So, keep uttering them regularly. Make her feel special by saying ‘You look stunning tonight’ or other such lines.
 

While getting intimate with her in bed, keep on murmuring words of praise. Hot compliments like ‘I like the smell of your body’ or ‘your skin is satin-smooth’ will surely make her turned on. Say these words in your own way. She will get floored in seconds.
 

Women always crave for real admiration. She doesn’t want to be complimented for something that she doesn’t have in her. So, be careful before praising her.
 

Sometimes, remind her of the special place she has in your heart. But, don’t repeat these things too often. It may ruin the whole situation.
 

Tell her why she is different from other girls. But, don’t make her feel like an extraterrestrial object.
 

Don’t carry on shooting one-way compliments for too long. Instead, try to converse with her on some general topic, because most women love to chat. Insert your kind words in between the discussion.
 

Say her that you go gaga over certain behavioral traits of hers. For example, you may tell ‘I love the way you wear your scarf’ or ‘your dance movements make me crazy’.
 

Telling her that she has great skills in bed definitely gives her a high. Saying things like ‘Last night, you were just like a tigress’ will leave her blushing.
 

Besides raving about her physical attributes, if you point out her mental assets through your compliments, then she will surely be more than happy. Just say ‘You’re such a smart girl!’ spontaneously and it will make her day.
 

A woman always tries to find her best friend in her lover. If you acknowledge her as your ‘best friend’, then she will be on the 7th seven.
 

Hail your girl as the most important thing in your life. It will make her flattered.
 

Assure her by saying ‘I will never cheat on you’. These lines help in building trust, which is essential in a relationship.
 

Let her know that she is indispensable in your life. Once she is convinced that you need her more than anything else, she will embrace you with all her love and affection.
 

Though quite a few men feel tongue-tied before uttering the three simple words ‘I love you’, there’s hardly any other line that has a better effect on the women-folk. This one sentence, if sounds genuine, makes a woman go weak in their knees immediately.
 

Always try to tickle her funny bone with your jokes and one-liners. Most women yearn for a hubby who is high in humor quotient. So, make her giggle all the time with your gags.
 

Make her aware that she is more than a pretty face. Say her that you are besotted with her personality rather than her looks.
 

Compliment on her intelligence. Applaud on her way of handling a crisis.
 

Tell her she is your pillar of strength. Appreciate her by saying, ‘You are the one who always brings out the best in me’.
 

Keep an eye on every detail of her clothes, accessories and make-up. Appreciate on the most trivial things like the color of her nail polish.
 

Emphasize on her sexual attractiveness. She may not be an ‘Angelina Jolie’ or ‘Nicole Kidman’. But, you can definitely make them feel that way.
 

Tell her that she will become a great mom someday. Hearing this, she can be the happiest person on earth, because the ultimate dream of every woman is to become a mother.
 

But keep in mind; all the words that you pour into her ears should carry some amount of respect. You must also mind your body language while showing your appreciation and don’t shower compliments just for the heck of it!

Friday, October 5, 2007

How To Be Friends With An X-Girlfriend
Strangeness is a part of our life…it helps us to cope up with all kinds of situations. Even if you encounter opposition in due course of your life, you can easily sort them out by your presence of mind and experience. In reality, we lose friends not merely by our faults, but of unfriendly circumstances too. If you have ever mistaken to leave your girlfriend alone in the way of life, do not make the same mistake again by overlooking her through the rest part of your life. Your new girl friend may have made a way into your soul, but that doesn’t mean that you will completely forget your old flame. New girl friend may seem diamond to your heart, but to wear that diamond you need gold, which surely replicates the idea of your old girl friend. 

So, there is no point in discussing about the idea whether it is good to have any relationship with x-girlfriend or not. You should always keep good relationship with your x-girlfriend. Since, there are multiple facilities of keeping in touch with x-girlfriends, we should not try to spoil it at any cost. People may think that an x-girlfriend would create problem in social life and also can bring misfortune for your new life partner. But, actually, it is just the opposite. As you know her extremely well, you would not find any problem in satisfying her. You are well aware of her needs and expectations, which will help you to deal with her more freely. You may think that every relationship revolves around ‘’Give and Take’’ policy and your x-girlfriend only comes to you to meet her needs. Yes!!! You are right, but to some extent. She comes to you to fulfil her physical and mental demands, because she is your friend. If you position yourself in place of your girlfriend, you would realize what loneliness costs. To drive away loneliness your x-girlfriend may come to you; and you should reciprocate well to that situation.
 

In reality, keeping good relationship with your x-girlfriend would definitely not hamper your social life. She is well aware of the fact that someone has taken her position in your life. If she really loves you, she would not come to interfere, but would definitely help you to prosper in life. She may come to you to carry on a secret relationship, which your new girlfriend may not be aware of. Whenever you get time, meet your x-girlfriend and fulfill her desire. Arouse her sexually if she intends to become so and give her mental support if she needs so. Your present lover may be out of your house for some specific reason. Now, make the most out of the opportunity. Invite your x-girlfriend at your own place and gift heavenly pleasure to her. No matter how much you enjoy with her, never disclose it to your present girlfriend. Secrecy will pay you a lot of thing.
 

Actually, every relationship that a man or woman once creates does remain part of their lives forever. It is simply impossible to get rid off people who have been once close to you. You can found hundreds of examples where x-friends are in touch with each other despite one or both being in new relationships. In most of the cases, the conversation may be friendly or intimate, but it is not the same as between husband and wife. It can rather be compared to tête-à-tête between two old friends. The most important factor that plays a role in such situations is jealousy. Your old girlfriend may be jealous of the relationship that you have formed with your new counterpart. But the situation can be easier for you if you have self-confidence and trust on your x-girlfriend. Spare some time for your ex pal and let her maintain a friendly relation with you and your family. It will definitely enhance your emotional health, which ultimately pays in the long run.
 

If your present girlfriend is aware of the fact that you had a healthy relationship with another girl, she may ask you to cut off relationship with your old pal. But, she may even say something positive regarding your relationship. If she allows you to continue the same relationship that you had cherished earlier, you would surely be the happiest person in the world. In the last few years, many celebrities have set up examples of enjoying good relationships with their old girlfriend or boy friend. They are enjoying their present associations and also have good understanding with their old friends. If they can continue…you would also be able to continue two relations at the same time. If you can do so, nobody would be happier than you and the world may seem a better place.

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

Online Adult Dating : How To Search Online Dating Personals

Thanks and lot of thanks to Internet! Information retrieval is at one's fingertip. Dating is an important aspect of a person's life and hence very popular human activity. No wonder online dating on Internet has become so popular that it is one of the most frequently searched information on the Internet.
 

# Internet - Great Advantages

Internet dating has great advantage over using traditional brick and mortar set-ups. Online dating offers a vast database of free personals from all over - not only local. Internet has tremendous reach and information transfer is magical. Messaging is lightening fast and very economical. Internet dating provides anonymity for discreet dating. This is must in first few instances, as one would not like to disclose personal details to a prospective date until one feel very sure, secure, and safe. All this is not possible offline. Offline the first meeting is face to face which can be embarrassing if there is a denial.
 

# Search Your Sex Partner

When one goes for searching, a sex partner, the Internet is an unavoidable media for search as written above. Dating is sub-categorized into many divisions online depending upon the type of dating and the purpose of building relationship. Among popular categories are adult dating, match dating or matchmaking, singles dating, swinger dating. In alternative dating category bisexual, gay dating and lesbian sex dating on Internet are very popular features. Religious dating and Interracial dating is popular too where people of same faith or ethnicity meet.
 

# Age Restriction

Adult dating is synonymous with dating as in many countries, age restriction apply for a person to be qualified as adult and hence fit for sex relationship with any person in full agreement of each other. Although this term is applicable, today it undoubtedly is symbolized for sex dating or sex partner search.
 

# Adult Dating Site - Search Personals for Sex Relationship

Hence, when you come across an adult dating site you can be sure of finding people interested in sexual liaisons. Well not all, but many, for there would be member profiles in adult personals interested in love and romance or long-term relationship based not entirely on sex.

You can get sex all right on adult dating website. If you register and become a member, you can search free online adult dating personals on the website and come in contact with one who matches your criteria for a sex partner. Whether you wish the relationship to be long term or limited to casual sex encounters the choice is yours. For much shorter sex encounters like one night stand or no strings attached sex there are specific dating website for casual dating on Internet.

Monday, October 1, 2007

4 Things To Be Done Immediately After First Date

The first date with a woman can be a nerve-wracking time. You've spent the past hour or so with her and you start to wonder 'what's the next step'?
 

So what should you do at this point? Well your actions at this point should be based on how well the date went.
 

If you've had a great time, then you know you can try for another date. On the other hand, if you two didn't click, then you should cut your losses and not try for a second date.
 

To give you an idea of what you should do, I've included four different outcomes that'll happen once your date has concluded.
 

When you're coming to the end of the date, you should do a quick evaluation and make a decision based on which of these four results you want.
 

Result #1: Go Your Separate Ways
 

Let's be honest here...There are going to be first dates where you don't hit it off with a woman.
 

Either there was no chemistry or your personalities don't mesh, it'll be obvious the two of you won't going on a second date.
 

Once you realize it won't work, end the date and cut your losses!
 

Since the date was brief, you really haven't wasted that much time or money. By ending the date quickly, you'll be able to avoid hurt feelings and will move on to the next woman.
 

So when you realize the date has gone badly, just end and tell her you have stuff to do.
 

But please be honest and don't promise to call her you're never planning on speaking to her again.
 

Result #2: You Set Up A Second Date
 

Many guys think a first date is only successful if you end up having sex. In my opinion, this is wrong!
 

There are a lot of times when you want to have a lot of fun on a first date, but don't want it to lead to sex. This is especially true if you're looking for a long-term relationship.
 

During your first date, you'll probably get an idea if there is chemistry between the two of you. At this point, you can try two things:
 

First you can suggest a 'venue change' and go on an immediate second date. Or you can end the date if one of you has already made plans after the first date.
 

Now if one of you has to leave after the first date, I suggest you immediately set up a follow up date.
 

Here's how to do it...
 

As you're ending the date, take something from the conversation and playfully turn it into concrete plans for landing that second date.
 

For instance if she expressed interest in a particular type of music mention that you're checking out a band which is similar to her taste. Then ask if she wants to 'tag along' with you.
 

Or even now that you've broken the ice, you could go out to dinner or promise her a home cooked meal. The point is one the first date has ending, immediately make plans for the second plan.
 

Result #3: Transition Immediately To The Second Date
 

One technique many guys use at the end of a first date is to do a 'venue change'. This is where you leave the location of your first date and immediately go another place.
 

Since you're changing locations the woman will subconsciously think you've gone from the first date to a second date.
 

As I mentioned before, your first date should be real casual. But if you feel a lot of chemistry has been built, you can use a venue change to continue the positive emotions and go someplace where the two of you'll get to know each other better.
 

The best way to do a venue change is to plan it out before the first date. If things go well, you can casually mention you're planning on meeting some friends at this place and ask if she wants to 'tag along'.
 

If she agrees you should immediately leave the location of your first date and transition right into the second.
 

Result #4: Make Things Sexual
 

Regardless of whether you've pulled a venue change or just had a single date, there might be an opportunity to have sex with a woman on the first date.
 

Now before we proceed, I just want to mention that having sex on the first date is an event that doesn't happen very often, especially if you're trying to build a relationship. So don't be too disappointed if it doesn't happen.
 

On the other hand, if you're determined to have sex then you should first find out if she is interested in you in a sexual way. The best way to determine this is to kiss her. What I like to do is use 'The Kiss Test' from the Double Your Dating system.
 

If you determine she wants to make things more intimate, you can try going back to one your places. Then once you're in private, you can allow nature to take its course and let the rest of the evening evolve...

Sunday, September 30, 2007

Online Dating As A Tool For Single Parents
One of the most useful features of online dating for single parents is the flexibility that many online dating services offer. For single parents who are easing themselves back into the dating arena, online dating can be a useful tool. Free online dating sites are particularly useful, since saving money can be challenge enough as it is, whether singles have children or not.

Many single parents may be wary of entering back into the dating world, but online dating provides a way for parents to slowly ease back into the process. New members can start by simply browsing around free online dating websites to get a feel for how they work and what type of people they might be able to meet. Single parents often find other free dating websites devoted to single parents to be an inviting way to meet other single parents and find contacts with whom they can discuss issues ranging from romance to their children.

With most online dating websites, members are in control of who they message with, and who they will meet in person. Of course, members have the right to accept or decline invitations. Single parents also have the ability to control how often they sign in and out, making it an extremely flexible way for working parents to balance their home, work, and social lives.

The flexibility of being able to meet people online is another appealing feature of online dating for single parents. Meeting people online frees single parents from having to find ways to get out and meet people, which can often cost people valuable time away from the children, and create the burden of finding a suitable babysittter, on top of the other costs and hurdles that come with keeping an active dating life. Since saving time and money are often highly valued by many single parents, free online dating is a great way for people to save on both.

Saturday, September 29, 2007

Dating Online : Be Cautious
Online Dating industry has been witnessing an upsurge since the time of inception. The industry is on a boom and the number of people getting hit by this plague increase manifold by each passing day. As the industry progresses, more and more of its problems and faults come under the microscopic scanner of the critics. Hers a list of what plagues the industry and what needs to be sorted out to let the industry continue with its booming ways.

The most conspicuous problem with most of the online dating sites is that they expect the users to sign-up ‘blindly’, that is without showing you a preview of what kind of profiles to expect from it. Then there are ones that do give you an access but to profiles that are not real but serve the purpose of being ‘baits’ to attract new members. Also, most online sites do not update the member’s list and profiles for years altogether. Hence, even ifa member has stopped using the service his name would continue to appear in the member’s list.

Trial memberships make up for another problem faced by the users on online dating sites. They do not give you all the facilities that are given to the regular members and sometimes, the trial membership is automatically transformed to a regular membership without any further action by the user. In this way, the credit card information given by the users is misused.

Mistrust among members of such online dating sites is a common phenomenon owing to the lies that members might divulge about their height, weight and vital statistics! Sometimes, even the photographs are not real. Hence, there are more chances of members being misled by such liars on the online dating sites.

Just a little caution on your part and honesty on the part of the site owners can amend these problems easily. Enjoy the benefits of Online Dating sites and get a dream partner for yourself. The only pre-condition being that you discreetly choose a site that is reliable and trustworthy.

Friday, September 28, 2007

5 Of The Top Online Dating Services

Online dating services are thriving and growing in members everyday. Some people actually find their true love. Others do not. But like them or not online dating services are here to stay and are providing a valuable service to people all around the world. Here are 5 of the top dating online services, their rates, and a little bit of information on each one.
 

MatchMaker.com, with a monthly rate of $9.95 to $119.95 for a year. They have an approximate number of 2 million members and over 50,000 singles joining every week. Communication is carried out either through IM or e-mail. It boasts of two major features, a user-friendly site and one of the most comprehensive profiles online. The profiling consists of an extensive questionnaire and an optional essay.
 

YahooPersonals has a monthly rate of $24.95 and has more than 10 million members. IM and e-mail is the form of communication with this online dating service. It is loved for its refined search engine. Categories such as living area, age and interests can be used to improve the search process. YahooPersonals has this Premier version that offers a more in-depth profile for those in search of more than casual dating. They also offer a free trial version.
 

FriendFinder has over 2.5 million members and a silver and gold package. They have many different features for members to use such as Blogs, Friend Network and Interest Groups. The FriendFinder Network of Sites probably offers the most to it's members in terms of the number of features available to use. This is a very feature oriented dating service.
 

AmericanSingles.com is available for the monthly fee of $16.50 to $24.95. Its more than 7 million members communicate through IM, e-mail or chat. If you are interested in allowing communication with a person who has shown interest, but are not totally at ease with them, with American Singles, you can remain anonymous. They offer a great video and audio chat feature.
 

Match.com is one of the largest online dating sites in the world. It has a monthly membership fee of between $9.95 and 24.95. Its 15 million members communicate through email or chat. It takes pride in its user friendly website that offers side by side comparisons of each others requirements to facilitate the search.
 

These 5 online dating services are among the best you will find. Figuring out which features mean the most to you and the price you are willing to pay will help you choose the best online dating service for your situation.

Thursday, September 27, 2007

4 Sizzling Ways To Be The Charming Guy She Wants

Behaving in a cocky/funny manner is a great technique for building attraction. But there is more to know about attracting women. In this article, I discuss 4 ways to become a charming guy that women desire.

There is a secret to attracting women!
 

If you're like me, then you've probably heard a lot about the different techniques for attracting women. The most famous of them is called 'cocky/funny'.
 

Now I personally think cocky/funny is an incredible to build attraction when you initially meet a woman, but relying just on this technique can get you in a lot of trouble.
 

Let me explain...
 

The idea behind cocky-funny is to tease a woman while talking to her and act in a slightly arrogant manner. The problem is many guys read about cocky/funny and think all they have to do is act like a jerk then women will instantly fall in love with them.
 

Unfortunately this technique rarely works!
 

While cocky/funny is a great way to add spice to a conversation, it shouldn't be your only tool to attracting a woman. . In fact, many women are turned off by guys who only use cocky/funny techniques.
 

So how can you attract women without relying solely on cocky/funny?
 

Well it's simple! All you to do is to learn how to be charming.
 

If you've watched the men who are successful with women, you've probably noticed that they all have one thing in common. They all know how to be charming.

While it's always important to be confident, you have to learn how to speak to a woman and make her attracted to you.
 

Here are a few ways you can become charming to a woman during a conversation:
 

##1)) Be Pleasant Company
 

One of the best ways to be charming is to be a fun person around women. If you're a source of fun and excitement to a woman, then you're on your way to being charming.
 

In essence you have to tell interesting stories, bring her on exciting adventures and be a funny person to her. So even if you're teasing her or being cocky/funny, you're still a source of excitement in her life.
 

##2)) You Smile And Have Body Language
 

A charming guy always has a warm and inviting personality. In order to be like this, you have to know how to become the suave guy who attracts women. While I don't have enough space to list all the ways to become charming, let me give a quick rule for behaving in a charming manner:
 

All you have to do is remember to smile during your conversation and be 'open' with your body language.
 

##3)) Have Interesting Conversations Instead Of Routines
 

One huge mistake guys make is to use memorized routines on women. While it's important to use stories and other attraction building techniques, you should never use the same routine with every woman you meet.
 

Instead of reenacting a boring routine, you should ask her questions which spark curiosity and make you unique. The charming guys are the ones can make instant connections to women and make them enjoy themselves during the conversation.
 

##4)) You Treat Her Well
 

While I love using the cocky/funny technique I know it's useful up to a point. If she's having fun and you're enjoying the playful interaction, then you know it's working. But even if you're having success, you should remember a charming man knows the importance of always treating a woman well.
 

In other words, you should always treat women with respect.
 

This means you act in an honest manner and don't deal in lies. While you might want to have sex and play around with women, you have to remember to behave in a manner where you're not using and taking advantage of them.
 

Only guys with low self-esteem enjoy hurting women.
 

If you want to succeed with women and move beyond cocky/funny, you have to learn how to be charming.
 

By following the previous four tips, you'll be on your way to becoming the charming man all women love!

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Women Can Approach Any Guy For Conversation With This Technique

Winning on the outside by successfully conversing with the guy you want starts by winning on the inside. You're inner self or what I like to call inner game tends to be overly negative that you are drowning yourself and suffocating any chances you had in starting a good conversation. Here is how to destroy approach anxiety for a woman.

Being able to converse with anyone is a great communication skill to possess. Too often starting a conversation is like going to war for many and not just for girls talking to guys. They want to experience the joy of winning by having a great conversation but what lies ahead of the person is a massive uphill fight as they battle with fear, anxiety, uncertainty, and lack of belief leading them to avoid the 'war' altogether by not even starting the conversation.

I'm going to hone in on how girls can start a conversation with a guy by discussing your inner game, routine questions, learning about the guy, listening, and picking up on small details, but these are fundamental conversational rules that can be used for anyone in many situations.

Say a girl comes across this guy at a shopping center who she would really like to get to know. However, she has inner voices telling her negative things such as "You can't do this", "He won't even like you", "You'll just make yourself look bad and embarrass yourself." You see, she has already lost the war.

Your inner self or what I like to call inner game is overly negative that you are drowning yourself and suffocating any chances you had in starting a good conversation. Winning on the outside starts with winning on the inside. Why should you even begin to worry about learning what to say when you can't even speak?

Learn to be self-aware of what is going on in your mind. I know it is easier said then done so I am going to teach you a technique to be positive and fight the negative.

Motivational speaker Wayne Dyer uses the phrase "no limit thinking" as a means of releasing yourself from your self-limiting beliefs. You have got to release yourself from these beliefs so you can confidently start and maintain the conversation with this guy. You need to stop placing limits within yourself by using a technique called "reframing".

Reframing Your Mind:

Reframing is not at all a difficult technique to use. What it involves is changing how you interpret the situation you are having trouble in. Your aim in reframing is to create thoughts congruent with your goals and repeatedly affirm yourself of these thoughts. The girl at the shopping center would use the reframing technique by repositioning her current negative thoughts to positive ones about having a great conversation with the guy.

The more positive thoughts you create, the more you will improve your confidence and adopt a "no limit thinking" approach. Here are some negative thoughts the girl is overcoming and to the right of each one is a reframe the girl could use which she'd repeatedly say to herself:

- "I'm nervous." to "I'm nervous because I care about the situation."

- "I won't start the conversation well." to "I will start the conversation well as I can do with my other friends and other people."

- "I'm afraid." to "I wasn't afraid last week when talking to a new guy so I don't have to be afraid now."

- "He is so amazing and too good for me." to "He farts, burps, and itches himself like any other human."

- "He won't like me." to "I don't care if he won't like me because I'm the prize. He is the one losing."

Can you see now how easy and powerful it is to overcome your self-limits? Reframing is truly an amazing technique.

It may take a minute or two to come up with a positive interpretation of the situation but with practice you'll become better at it. It can be used in almost any situation to boost your confidence, to improve your happiness, and lead you to success.

Now that you've fought off your doubts, fears, anxieties, and uncertainties about having a conversation with the guy, you can now approach him and start a conversation. You just need to learn effective techniques to start a conversation with a guy.

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

An Idiot's Approach To Online Dating

If there's one thing that shows someone up as an idiot, it's their dating manner. Dating is quite a complicated process, and you really need to understand the woman or man you're pursuing in order to make the most of the experience. Whether you're looking for a long term partner or not, it's important to remember that dating can go very wrong, and can ruin your chances with a person forever. For that reason, it's worthwhile taking a look through this basic idiot's guide, to make sure you don't fall for some of the classic dating blunders that many have tried and failed in the past.
 

Unfortunately, there is no set out procedure for dating, and there is no way we can be sure that we're doing things correctly. The best way to master dating is to experience it first hand, and to think about what you're saying and doing, and the way this will be interpreted by the other party. Confidence is important, but arrogance is catastrophic, and it is important to remember not to over-sell yourself to your would-be partner. Dating anyone should start off like meeting someone for the first time, or like chatting to a friend. Any undercurrent of further intentions could be good enough to ruin things, although it may be acceptable to make minor physical contact with your date towards the end of the evening.
 

A good deal of value is attached to integrity in dating, and you should try not to give off the impression that you are an untrustworthy or sinister character. It is important also not to play the joker card, but to focus on being charming and witty as the mood requires. Most of all, try to relax in the company of your date and try to be yourself. There's no point in trying to live up to someone's expectations – if you can't act naturally around them, there really can be no long-term hope.
 

All in all, try to avoid coming across as a sleazy individual, and you shouldn't expect affection or adoration immediately from your partner. Act courteously and politely, and try to make a good impression of yourself short of coming across as a complete walkover. By playing by the rules of general manners and social skills, you should be able to communicate effectively with your date, which is the best way to secure a longer term romance.
 

And that's pretty much all there is to it. Although dating isn't a fine art, there are a few obvious ways in which you can help make the right impression for you, to give you the best possible chance of success with your chosen partner. Remember, it's all about being yourself and allowing your true personality to shine through – after all, if you're looking for someone long term, you need to be able to act comfortable around them. Provided you relax, and stick within the boundaries of manners and etiquette, your dating should work out well and provide you with the best opportunity for a meaningful relationship.

Monday, September 24, 2007

4 Ways To Master The Seduction Of Women

Seducing women is a hard process if you don't know what you're doing. This article gives great information on 4 ways to master the art of seduction.

If you're like me, then you one of your desired outcomes from dating women is to end up in your bedroom.

Now in order to make things more intimate, you have to know how to seduce a woman. But how can you do this without looking like a fool.

Well, there is actually a pretty simple process for mastering the art of seduction. In this article, I'll show you 4 simple ways you can transform yourself into a guy who seduces women with confidence and ease

Let's get started...

@1#- Focus On Improving Yourself

Knowing how to seduce women doesn't come naturally for many men.

In fact, it takes lots of practice. So how do you get practice?

It's simple- get out there and start meeting women!

The more women you meet, the more you can work on improving your seduction techniques. Use every interaction with a woman to practice your skills and techniques training. In essence, you're learning how to master seduction by increasing your opportunities.

Now if you feel have limited time, then start prioritizing things in your life.

For instance, you might want to get rid of the non-essential things in your life like playing video games or watching TV.

Think of it this way...

Would you rather watch a show about life or actually go out and live it?

@2#- Plan Everything

Like a general in the army, you have to formulate your plan of attack.

Unlike other guys, who have fail with women, you'll achieve great success by creating a plan of action to seduce more women.

What you want to do is plan out the seduction process from the moment you talk to the woman to the moment that you have sex.

The most important aspect to this process is to know your 'escalation points'. In essence, an escalation point is the action that'll help advance to the next step in the seduction process.

So if you want to seduce a woman, you have to plan out the following:

* Where you go on the date

* How to seduce her in the conversation

* How to transition from talking to kissing her

* How to get her back to her place

* The way to initiate foreplay

* How to transition from foreplay to sex

@3#- Have Patience

One mistake guys make is to rush things and put too much pressure on women. Usually doing this can have disastrous results!

In order to become a master seducer you have to learn how to take your time and have patience. This means focusing on creating the right mood, talking to her in a seductive manner and properly doing foreplay.

Typically taking your time and enjoying the experience will increase your likelihood for seducing a woman.

@4#- Learn To Deal With Rejection

I want to be honest here...

There WILL be times where you'll be rejected by women!

But instead of being frustrated and annoyed, you should learn how to deal with it in a positive and upbeat manner.

Just remember there will be moments when some women aren't in the mood for sex or won't feel it's time to make things intimate.

When this happens, just move on and don't act weird. Furthermore don't get angry and take it out on her.

My rule of thumb is when you act like you don't care about having sex you'll end up having more of it!

But if you follow my advice on how to seduce a woman and time things right, you'll probably eliminate most chances of rejection.

Bottom line- if you sit down, plan out your seduction process and practice the steps in this article, you'll become a master at seduction!

Sunday, September 23, 2007

4 Ways To Seduce A Woman During Conversation

Seducing women is a hard process if you don't know what you're doing. This article tells men, specially grown up boys, how they can seduce a woman during conversation. 

Many guys make this mistake...

They go on a date with a woman and wait till the very END to try seducing her.

What is this is the mistake?

Well...

When you wait to the end of the date to try to seduce a woman, you're wasting HOURS of time which could be spent building attraction and making her want to have sex. In essence, your goal is to build your entire interaction with a woman towards sleeping with her.

This means that seduction starts with your initial conversation. From the moment you see her every action should be working towards getting her in the bedroom.

How do you start?

In my opinion, the best place to start is during your conversation. If you know how to create a seductive interaction, then getting her into the bedroom will be a very simple process.

In the paragraphs below, I'll reveal 4 ways you can create a seductive conversation with a woman that'll make her beg you for things to become intimate.

@1#. Use An Interesting Opener

The way you approach a woman will make or break your chances of seducing her.

As a result, you must use an opener that is both unique and interesting. What you want to do is make her automatically attracted to what you're saying to her.

To make her interested in you, tray asking a woman's opinion on something that'll spark her curiosity. Then once you have her attention, you can segue in to other topics.

@2#. Ask The Right Kind Of Questions

If you want to create a seductive conversation, you should avoid "interview" type questions like "Where do you work?" or "Where are you from?" Instead, try asking her interesting questions which are completely unique.

The best way to do this is to bring up questions that'll create an interesting conversation. Some example questions would be "What would you do if ___ happened to you?" or "How would you spend a million dollars?"

What I like about "What if" questions is you're able to discover a woman's real feelings and aspirations. Once you do this, you'll be able to connect to something she feels passion about.

@3#. Be Cocky And Funny

When you use cocky/funny, you tease a woman while trying to make her laugh. What you want to do during your conversation is keep on her toes while making her laugh.

With cocky/funny, she'll think you're a funny and interesting personality, but she'll also wonder if you like her. By not being overt in your actions, you'll make her work hard for your interest.

@4#. Discuss Sex During Your Conversation

Discussing sex during a conversation is the best way to get it!

When you mention sexual innuendos and talk about it in a general manner, you're introducing the topic into a conversation without being too sleazy.

A great way to do this is to ask her about "Girls Gone Wild" and what she thinks of it. Then when the conversation progresses, try teasing her and saying she's probably done something like that before.

If you can tease her and be cocky/funny, you'll mention sex in a funny and interesting manner.

Now once the conversation is flowing and you're comfortable with casually talking about sex, you'll be on your way to seducing her.

So remember- if you're serious about turning a date into an intimate encounter, you have to know how to be seductive during your conversations. All you have to do is follow these four tips and you'll become the kind of guy who can instantly seduce a woman!