Are You Single For Too Long?

In this world full of stress and strife, we all desire a caring partner who dotes on us. However, some women find their ‘dream guy’ more easily than others. Call it their charm, the magic of their magnetic personality or destiny, they are simply adept at attracting men by the dozens. Then there are some who don’t manage to pull on their date to even a second one. But there may be some reasons behind your failing dates. Maybe you have forgotten how to play the dating game because you have been single for far too long. But how do you figure that you have maintained the single status for longer than you should have. Here are seven signs:

#1#. You're awkward around men

A valid reason for the lack of a guy in your life is your clumsy and awkward behaviour around them. You don’t know what to talk to them about.

You don’t know how to react when they give you a compliment. When a guy makes a subtle pass, you either get miffed like a child instead of getting flattered or react too excitedly, as a result turning him off completely. When you actually string together a few dates with a guy, you blow it all up by doing something weird like fighting over the bill with him and telling him that hey I know you can take me out but I have an ego too.

#2#. Loneliness is making you desperate

On those lonely nights, you actually log on to chat rooms for singles and chat to strangers for hours online about estranged love and life and much more. You have actually registered yourself on matrimony sites looking for a guy ‘who will provide you with love and care’. You spend a quarter of your day looking though profiles on line for a ‘suitable’ guy. Really, if you indulge in any of this, you have been out of sorts for sure.

#3#. You think that every guy you meet is making a pass at you

Women in relationship get attention from their men. Women, who date, get attention from their dates. But women who hardly even meet men get no attention from anywhere. This lack of attention can do things to their head. When you start thinking that every random guy who looks at you, speaks to you or smiles at you is making a pass at you and desires you immensely then you really have been single for too long.

#4#. Valentine’s day rolls by and no guy asks you out

You know you have been single for more that you should have been, when guys don’t ask you out simply because they have never seen you going out with a guy. They are left thinking that you never go on dates so why should they spend their energy asking you out.

#5#. You have started looking like Ethel from Archie Comics

Presence of a guy in a woman’s life keeps her conscious about her appearance and she stays busy looking after herself. Though a guy is never the only reason for which she dresses up but an absence of a guy can surely make a woman disinterested when it comes to dolling herself up. If your hair haven’t been pruned for months and your skin is full of blemishes, your hands are unkempt and you have been putting on weight insanely then you know that you are getting where you shouldn’t.

#6#. Most of your friends are always trying to hook you up with someone

When every third day from someone or the other you hear things like, “Hey I am meeting this really interesting friend of mine who also happens to be single, why don’t you join us” then you know that people have seen you single for far too long.

#7#. Stop hanging out with only girls

Because you don't hang around with guys at all, people might start thinking that you aren’t straight. If guys think that you swing the other way, however attractive you may be, they will never ask you out. But don’t blame people. If you spend all your time chilling out with your girl friends and never step out with a guy then what are they to think? If this isn’t a sign of your long retained single status, then what is?

If you relate to three or more of these signs then the label of being single has been on you sleeve for rather long and you need to dump it SOON. Read these signs for what they are and get back into the dating game. After all, everyone needs to experience that lovely thing called love.

Men Love The Mysterious Girl

A woman is known for her mysterious side. A secret which every man dreams to uncover. It is said that you “never understand a woman” and this is the only thing which pulls a man towards her. Her secrets, her unpredictable nature, her sobs which often bursts into a series of laughter is always a puzzle for the man who aspires to solve it one day. Let us see how you can use this mysterious side of yours into a treasure hunt for your man, laying a trail which can definitely unlock the secrets of your heart. It’s your key to getting your partner more interested in you.

@1# Creating an impression

What could be a better colour for our ‘secret lady’ than a dress in black. Apply a dash of mascara with a silver lining or smoky grey eye shadow leaving behind a dusky effect for your eyes to narrate a tale which was never told to him.

Wear a dress which is not so revealing yet it conceals the contours of your body in a perfect manner that sets off a trail of imagination.

@2# Talking secrets

Speak to him about the innocent girl in you who believes in a fairy and Prince Charming riding a horse. Also do not forget to mention about the daring and passionate side of yours which has the power of steel and can bend the universe with your impregnable confidence. Give him a taste of your indecisive nature that does not know what to shop at times and the focus that you have on your goals which does not waver and has the stillness of an ice-berg. Yes, have him a bit confused.

@3# Where to go?

If you really want to intrigue him, take him to a place which has a theme of the unknown. Where else can you floor him with your deadly secrets?

@4# The way to man’s heart

Last but not the least serve him with a home made dessert prepared by you as we all know that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This way he will be all set to explore your hidden treasures better.