For a gender that enjoys new challenges and adventures and laughs in the face of danger, you'd think something simple like the word 'marriage' wouldn't scare them off. But alas it's not that case. Men often get very scared by the idea of committing more to their partner. Often it's fatal to the relationship.
Some men get so scared off that they have to leave their partners. And this happens again and again throughout their dating life. Though, don't worry, this isn't the majority of men. The majority of men need simple coaxing and helping through the commitment stage. You can help your man by not putting added pressure on him. Let him know that you do want more commitment, but if he isn't willing to give it then you understand. You can wait and you still love him.
To get a person to change you first have to accept them as they are. If people feel accepted then they are more likely to put positive changes into action in their lives.
