But this is perhaps the single biggest mistake men make.
Most men have a terrible ability to gauge if a woman is really interested in them.
As a guy, it’s probably hard to admit to yourself that you might have been missing come-ons from interested women.
Well it turns out, a man’s brain just isn’t wired to see many of the subtle and unusual signals women send.
This leads to all sorts of serious problems, like guys just blatantly walking away from women who are trying to show they are interested. Usually, this just leaves the woman confused or she just assumes you don’t like her back.
This also causes increased rejection. Because men typically confused ‘Friendship Signs’ with ‘Romance Signs’ it causes a lot more guys to get embarrassed or turned down.
This discovery allows you to drastically cut down on the amount you get rejected and have a way clearer awareness of which women are interested.
You may have always wondered how that one guy back in high school got all the girls and never got turned down, there’s a high chance he was just able to read their ‘interest signals.’
And because he could see these signals, he never risked talking to the wrong girls, so he never put himself in a situation to get turned down.
So you can probably see just how important it is for you to know these signals. So with that said, here are the 7 most important signals to look for:
The 7 Most Important Signals To Look For In A Woman:
@1# She Makes Long Eye Contact.
People make eye contact for many different reasons, but if a woman is making eye contact with you, it’s best to play it safe and assume she likes you. The risk of letting her walk out of your life is too big to take.
If you are engaged in a conversation, then the level of eye contact she keeps can show how interested she is. If she is always looking around or at her phone, then it’s a sign she could be trying to avoid a conversation with you.
@2# She Smiles With Her Eyes.
Smiling might sound obvious, but men tend to convince themselves a woman is only smiling because she’s “just being friendly.”
Does this look like a real, genuine smile or like someone posing for a photo? The difference can be seen with the eyes. If the smile is genuine, she will ‘smile with her eyes’ meaning you will see a crease at the edge of her eyes ever-so-slightly.
@3# She Puts Herself Close To You.
In a busy place like a bar, club or party, a girl will put herself close to you if she is interested. Women are much less likely to strike up a conversation than a man. Instead women make themselves available. They put themselves in a position in which they can be noticed and easily approached.
For example, she may move or stand somewhere closer to you in hopes that you will talk to her. She is trying to make life easy for you to increase her odds. If you see a girl come up next to you at a bar and order a drink, it may be more than just a coincidence. Keep your eyes out for these opportunities.
@4# The Right Touches.
If you are already getting to know each other, then you might see a girl naturally touch your hand, shoulder or chest. If you have just made a joke, she may playfully and lightly slap you.
Also, if you are sitting next to each other, there is a chance that your legs or shoulders naturally begin to touch just because of how close you are sitting together. If this happens and she seems ok with it, then it’s a good sign.
Finally, women also sometimes touch you or bump into men ‘by accident’ to get noticed in a crowded place like a bar or party.
@5# The Dance Signal.
Women use dancing as a big way to draw attention to themselves. Dancing does not always mean this, but it often can. It’s comparable to a man showing off his strength, talents or wealth.
Especially look for a woman who might be the only one of her friends dancing. This means she is not just going with the group, and could be actively looking to catch someone’s interest.
@6# The Feet Never Lie.
If a girl’s feet are facing toward you even though she’s looking away, this is a sign that she may be interested in you.
@7# She Still Talks To You.
Whether you have just met her or you are in the courtship stages, if she is still talking to you or responding to your texts, she is obviously still interested.
Too many men psych themselves out or read too much into words and convince themselves a girl is not interested, but if she is still talking to you, then it means she is taking time out of her day to focus on you. It’s a good rule of thumb to assume she is interested.
In most cases, if a woman is truly disinterested in you, she will have no problem to leave the conversation or to leave your text messages unanswered.
Once you see these signs, you will need to do something to ensure everything goes smoothly.
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