Are you still seeking your soul mate?
Or are you just looking for friends with the same interests?
Well, online dating is definitely a great way to widen your circle of friends. It is really fun to meet many interesting people and sometimes addictive for many people. Some have even met their soul mate by meeting their perfect lifetime match through an online dating portal! It is just amazing the convenience and the benefits that online dating brings to the busy people.
If you are new to online dating, there maybe risks which you may put yourself in even without you knowing. Good thing you are reading this! Here are some dangers of online dating that you might face and and if you face sometime you can do these to reduce such risks:
#1# The very first danger of online dating is when you become a scam victim. Not everyone in the online dating scene is a good guy or girl. Many scam artists masked their real identity in order to cheat someone not only of their money but emotions, feelings as well. Sad but true - many women "catch" men and ask them for money by giving empty promises. Then after the money comes to them, they disappear. There are even cases when men sexually assault the women when meet up for a date after they "meet" on an online dating site.
So, do not be over-credulous. The person who you are communicating with can write anything in his or her profile and he or she may not be whoever they tell you. In fact, you cannot be completely sure if it is a she or a he. In case you decide to meet your dating partner - do some background checks. Moreover, to be safe, your first date should be during daytime in a busy public place. Better still, get a friend to come along.
#2# Another possible danger of online dating is to give out your real address and personal information. Well, the person who is asking for your address might seem completely normal and harmless, you may even "know" him online for quite time. In any case, you should never give your home or work address as you don't really know who you are dealing with.
Thus, remember - never give out your personal information. No real phone number or address. Some people do not even share their real name (as you can find the address and even the phone number using it), but use nicknames instead. If things get serious and if enough time has passed you may consider sharing such information with your dating partner.
#3# Another danger of online dating is to get lots of unsolicited email messages. There will be many people asking for your email address in order to continue your relationship off the online dating site and only in a few hours, you will discover that you have become a spammer victim with your email box flooded with spams.
So, if you can stick by those general guidelines, online dating can be a great and safe experience. When in doubt, do not hesittate to consult your friends or families on what to do. Most importantly, never meet someone you met online in person alone without informing anyone else.
Happy Dating!!
One final word : trust your gut feeling and never take chances. If your feel a person is right and genuine go ahead,you might have found the love of your life. However, it is better to be very careful and do not rush things. Take one-step at a time and think over it many times before you actually do it.
Loneliness can lead people into strange bonds and unknown alleys of life. It makes them so desperate that they knowingly walk into frivolous affairs for a night, called “one-night stands”, to feel loved for a single night. If you’re an adult and choose to opt for a ‘no strings attached’ relationship, it is perfectly fine. But do remember that this comes with some responsibilities you must shoulder.
Here are 5 essential precautions that you must observe for your very own safety.
#1# Take appropriate protection.
You don’t want to be punished forever for one fun-filled night, so be alert and take precautions. Make this a rule to never ever jump into the act without taking proper protection. Pills don’t work always so insist on the guy wearing a condom. If the guy refuses on wearing a condom, get out of there fast. It’s not worth the fun at all.
#2# Be sure of what you want and inform your partner about the same.
Before you get into something, ensure that you have the capability to get in and out of such bonds. Talk to your ‘partner in fun’ openly and let him know about your short-term intentions in time. Also keep your heart in check so that you don’t start getting emotionally involved or all hell will break loose. After all, you don’t want to keep dreaming about someone who desired you only for a night. At the same time you don’t want to be haunted and followed by someone for months for the act of a night. So ensure that you and your partner are on the same page.
#3# Keep friends out of it.
When you are not going to see him again then what’s the point in telling friends about him or introducing him to them? He is not going to become a part of your life so don’t make him a part of your social circle either. Don’t go to such a place for dinner with him where you are likely to run into friends. Order in food if you can. If you stay with roommates and you are shacking up at your place, ensure that your roommate is away and is unlikely to catch you with him. Though she won’t have a right to comment on your involvements, why let her in on your secrets that will leave her uncomfortable. Similarly, don’t meet his friends. Simply because it’s a small world and if you run into his friends while at work or when you are with a prospective love interest, you don’t want them to question you about your one-night guy.
#4# No photographs please.
It’s not a bond for even a few weeks, forget a lifetime, so why create memories. Memories of someone you don’t intend meeting again makes no sense and will create only heart ache and will give birth to unanswerable questions. So don’t take any photographs and don’t allow the guy to click any either. He’s in it for ‘no strings attached’ fun as well, then why should he need to create memories.
#5# Avoid personal conversations and exchange of personal information.
Just like you don’t need to create memories, you don’t need to create routes for staying in touch either. If you run into each other again, it’s destiny. But don’t exchange phone numbers or addresses or your personal blog details on your own because it might create hope in his heart or yours for a little more. If he insists on your contact information, give wrong details and get out of there.
The rules of this game are simple. Once you have gotten into a one-night stand, you must stick to your decision of keeping it as a one-night stand, unless you both talk it out to take it further mutually. In that case, it no longer remains a one-night stand and becomes a beginning to a new love story. But for one-night stands, ‘take precautions, have fun, get-in and get-out and don’t look back’ is the funda.
Do you want to know how to tell if a woman is attracted to you?
I bet you do!
One joke I used to tell with my friends is how I wished women had a "magical light bulb" which shines every time they were attracted to me. It would take all the guesswork out of trying to figure out which women to approach.
Unfortunately there's no such thing as a magical light bulb!
In order to understand if a woman has attraction, you have to study her body language. If you can detect certain signs of flirting when observing her, then you'll know she's attracted to you.
So what are these signs of flirting?
Well in the next few paragraphs, I'll reveal 8 flirting cues which women send you. If you see ANY of these, you'll know she's attracted to you:
Flirting Cue #1#- She's laughing with her friends and looking back at you
Women understand the fact that men are attracted to girls who have a sense of humor. If you see a woman laughing with her friends and then quickly glancing in your direction, you know she's trying to demonstrate a sense of humor.
By showing off this type of behavior she hopes you'll pick up on her "fun lifestyle" and will be interested in her.
Flirting Cue #2#- She keeps on looking right at you
One way women get men to approach them is to directly look at you and maintain prolonged eye contact. Some will even give a nice smile.
This is probably one of the most obvious flirting signs you'll receive from a woman!
Flirting Cue #3#- She's checking you out
Yes it's true...
Women often check out guys!
To detect if a girl is checking you out, watch if she does the 'vertical scan'.
This is where she'll look at your face and then moving her eyes from her feet to your heard.
This flirting signal means she's found something attractive about you and would like see more.
Flirting Cue #4#- She'll try to look best for you
When a woman knows you've observed her, she'll make a quick effort to look her best for
you.
To do this, she'll preen her hair and clothes.
What's great is these actions are subconscious, so she has little control over doing this. When you see this flirting cue, you know she's trying to look her best for you.
When you see any of these 4 flirting cues, approach and start talking to her!
Flirting Cue #5#- She will open herself up to you
Now once you've approach her, you should try to detect a few different flirting cues to detect if she wants you to kiss her or take things to the next level.
The first sign to look for is if she's trying to open herself up!
When a woman displays an "openness" with her body language, she's demonstrating a classic sign of attraction.
Open body language means her arms will be spread and her wrists will be turned towards you.
Flirting Cue #6#- She'll stroke herself
When a woman is talking to you she'll show a sign of flirting by stroking her neck or touching her hair. Also she might even her thigh!
I personally LOVE seeing these signs of flirting!
That's because when a woman touches these sensitive areas, she's probably thinking about what YOU could do to them.
Flirting Cue #7#- She'll draw closer to you
Another great sign of flirting is when a woman will draw closer to you during your conversation. She'll do this to show a desire to create more intimacy during your conversation.
Another trick is she'll lower her voice to have you draw closer to you!
When you see this, you're receiving an incredible sign of attraction!
Flirting Cue #8#- She'll scan your face including your eyes and lips
This final flirting cue demonstrates a desire that she wants to be kissed!
When a woman moves her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth, she's showing a classic sign of flirting where she's thinking about you kissing her.
When you see this flirting sign, act right away...
Start kissing her!
Once you do this, you'll be on the road towards making things more intimate!
Women give subtle signals to men which indicate attraction.
When you take the time to look for flirting cues, you'll discover she's sending signals which mean she wants to get to know you better and make things more intimate!
So, pay attention and you'll be happy with the results!
Dating with a married woman would be a fantastic idea for any man. It does not matter whether you are younger or senior to that woman. Just think a little bit and you would be able to get answers ready at hand.
If she is really attractive, mature and compassionate, there is no harm in making a relationship even if she is married… In this world, nobody knows which relationship is perfect and is going to stay till the end except your association with the God. You may be thinking of the consequences of making love or dating a married woman. Do never feel so, if you really feel to make a relationship with her - go and tell her straightforward.
I am telling the real story that happened with one of my closest friends only a few days ago. He had fallen in love with one of his neighbors. She was a real beauty and every young heart wished to meet her and dreamt of spending a few hours with her. My friend used to stare at her whenever he had an idle time. He tried many times to propose her, but could not do so due to hesitation. One fine afternoon, seeing his heartthrob roaming around the lake with young a boy surprised my friend. They were in an intimate position and my friend came straight back home feeling depressed. So, to avoid such an awkward situations, you should march forward and express your thoughts to your lover.
Dating with a married woman would be a fantastic idea for any man. It does not matter whether you are younger or senior to that woman. Just think a little bit and you would be able to get answers ready at hand.
Since married women are experienced in every respect, you would not face any problem to quench your thirst for sex. You would have to play according to the directions of your lover and by doing so you may find infinite pleasure. You cannot expect so much fun from any inexperienced girl. If you want to enjoy sexual intercourse from an inexperienced girl you would have to take initiative for enjoying the pleasure. You cannot expect getting pleasure from her without toiling hard. On the other hand, experienced women can satisfy you and lessen your apprehensions at the time of having sex. She knows very well how to stimulate different organs quickly. Apart from that, she would tell you what is the exact way to arouse her sexually. Accurate position and technique is required for enhancing extended sexual action and that can be certainly expected from an experienced woman.
If you want to have relationship with a married woman, you can expect unconditional love, which you may not get from an unmarried one. Think of the situation – a married woman will only come close to you when she would feel unsatisfied with her legal husband. To gratify her thirst for sex, she would come to you and would do whatever is necessary. In such condition, she would expect nothing more than a happy sexual relationship. On the other hand, your aim would also be to satisfy your heart to the fullest by playing with her different parts. In addition to all these, you can satisfy your libido without wasting any material things. This relationship would be an unconditional one.
She needs nothing from you except love and sexual pleasure. As she is married, she is supposed to have all the material things that are required to live on the earth. The following story would surely make you understand a little bit: One day, feeling deeply depressed about her sexual life a married woman decided to commit suicide. She wrote a suicidal note and left it open at their study. Finding this note, her husband’s friend rescued her from danger. There was none in the flat and listening the entire story of her, that young handsome boy decided to satisfy her. Soon, they became friend, lover and partner to each other. In absence of her husband, they used to meet in their flat and get into the act until they both were fully satisfied. Within a few days, that married woman found out reasons to live for more days on the earth. They never exchanged any material gifts or any expensive items, but continued making love for a couple of years.
Thus, you can enjoy your life without really burning your pocket. Apart from this, it would be your safest relationships on the earth. Since the married woman would never try to reveal the relationship that exists between you and her, you are rest assured of playing safely. In this way, you can continue making love with your girlfriend and that married woman at the same time.
To get rid off from the monotony of life, you can sometime go for a long drive with that married woman and can get pleasure from her. Nobody would be aware of your relationship, but both of you can fulfil your desire. So, what are you waiting for? Just be ready to start dating a married woman and bring utmost satisfaction to your life.
Women always crave for real admiration. She doesn’t want to be complimented for something that she doesn’t have in her. Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are right…her man’s words. But, what kind of words?
Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are right…her man’s words. But, what kind of words?
Most women crave for compliments than anything else. Nothing can surpass those genuine and honest words of compliments that you whisper into the ears of your ladylove. A flattering remark at the right time, at the right place, by the right person and in the right way can create sheer magic. But, your admiring comments must not sound fake or superficial. And remember; never go over the top with your accolades. Otherwise, your romantic date can get marred.
In the beginning, keep your compliments subtle. For instance, you can admire the color of her clothes or rave about the dish she has cooked for you. Keep away from sexual comments at the start of your relationship. Otherwise, she may feel insulted.
As your association grows, you can opt for more sensual compliments. She will feel aroused if you praise her hairstyle and perfume. But, the time has not yet come to pass on overtly sexual remarks.
Once your relationship gets steadier, you can cross the threshold of ‘Danger Zone’. If you have that feeling that the girl is all yours, you can resort to compliments that are directly sexual or related to various body parts of the lady. You can say a word or two on her legs or fingers.
It is always guaranteed that the heart of a woman always melts hearing the words ‘Beautiful’, ‘Gorgeous’, ‘Pretty’ etc. So, keep uttering them regularly. Make her feel special by saying ‘You look stunning tonight’ or other such lines.
While getting intimate with her in bed, keep on murmuring words of praise. Hot compliments like ‘I like the smell of your body’ or ‘your skin is satin-smooth’ will surely make her turned on. Say these words in your own way. She will get floored in seconds.
Women always crave for real admiration. She doesn’t want to be complimented for something that she doesn’t have in her. So, be careful before praising her.
Sometimes, remind her of the special place she has in your heart. But, don’t repeat these things too often. It may ruin the whole situation.
Tell her why she is different from other girls. But, don’t make her feel like an extraterrestrial object.
Don’t carry on shooting one-way compliments for too long. Instead, try to converse with her on some general topic, because most women love to chat. Insert your kind words in between the discussion.
Say her that you go gaga over certain behavioral traits of hers. For example, you may tell ‘I love the way you wear your scarf’ or ‘your dance movements make me crazy’.
Telling her that she has great skills in bed definitely gives her a high. Saying things like ‘Last night, you were just like a tigress’ will leave her blushing.
Besides raving about her physical attributes, if you point out her mental assets through your compliments, then she will surely be more than happy. Just say ‘You’re such a smart girl!’ spontaneously and it will make her day.
A woman always tries to find her best friend in her lover. If you acknowledge her as your ‘best friend’, then she will be on the 7th seven.
Hail your girl as the most important thing in your life. It will make her flattered.
Assure her by saying ‘I will never cheat on you’. These lines help in building trust, which is essential in a relationship.
Let her know that she is indispensable in your life. Once she is convinced that you need her more than anything else, she will embrace you with all her love and affection.
Though quite a few men feel tongue-tied before uttering the three simple words ‘I love you’, there’s hardly any other line that has a better effect on the women-folk. This one sentence, if sounds genuine, makes a woman go weak in their knees immediately.
Always try to tickle her funny bone with your jokes and one-liners. Most women yearn for a hubby who is high in humor quotient. So, make her giggle all the time with your gags.
Make her aware that she is more than a pretty face. Say her that you are besotted with her personality rather than her looks.
Compliment on her intelligence. Applaud on her way of handling a crisis.
Tell her she is your pillar of strength. Appreciate her by saying, ‘You are the one who always brings out the best in me’.
Keep an eye on every detail of her clothes, accessories and make-up. Appreciate on the most trivial things like the color of her nail polish.
Emphasize on her sexual attractiveness. She may not be an ‘Angelina Jolie’ or ‘Nicole Kidman’. But, you can definitely make them feel that way.
Tell her that she will become a great mom someday. Hearing this, she can be the happiest person on earth, because the ultimate dream of every woman is to become a mother.
But keep in mind; all the words that you pour into her ears should carry some amount of respect. You must also mind your body language while showing your appreciation and don’t shower compliments just for the heck of it!
Strangeness is a part of our life…it helps us to cope up with all kinds of situations. Even if you encounter opposition in due course of your life, you can easily sort them out by your presence of mind and experience. In reality, we lose friends not merely by our faults, but of unfriendly circumstances too. If you have ever mistaken to leave your girlfriend alone in the way of life, do not make the same mistake again by overlooking her through the rest part of your life. Your new girl friend may have made a way into your soul, but that doesn’t mean that you will completely forget your old flame. New girl friend may seem diamond to your heart, but to wear that diamond you need gold, which surely replicates the idea of your old girl friend.
So, there is no point in discussing about the idea whether it is good to have any relationship with x-girlfriend or not. You should always keep good relationship with your x-girlfriend. Since, there are multiple facilities of keeping in touch with x-girlfriends, we should not try to spoil it at any cost. People may think that an x-girlfriend would create problem in social life and also can bring misfortune for your new life partner. But, actually, it is just the opposite. As you know her extremely well, you would not find any problem in satisfying her. You are well aware of her needs and expectations, which will help you to deal with her more freely. You may think that every relationship revolves around ‘’Give and Take’’ policy and your x-girlfriend only comes to you to meet her needs. Yes!!! You are right, but to some extent. She comes to you to fulfil her physical and mental demands, because she is your friend. If you position yourself in place of your girlfriend, you would realize what loneliness costs. To drive away loneliness your x-girlfriend may come to you; and you should reciprocate well to that situation.
In reality, keeping good relationship with your x-girlfriend would definitely not hamper your social life. She is well aware of the fact that someone has taken her position in your life. If she really loves you, she would not come to interfere, but would definitely help you to prosper in life. She may come to you to carry on a secret relationship, which your new girlfriend may not be aware of. Whenever you get time, meet your x-girlfriend and fulfill her desire. Arouse her sexually if she intends to become so and give her mental support if she needs so. Your present lover may be out of your house for some specific reason. Now, make the most out of the opportunity. Invite your x-girlfriend at your own place and gift heavenly pleasure to her. No matter how much you enjoy with her, never disclose it to your present girlfriend. Secrecy will pay you a lot of thing.
Actually, every relationship that a man or woman once creates does remain part of their lives forever. It is simply impossible to get rid off people who have been once close to you. You can found hundreds of examples where x-friends are in touch with each other despite one or both being in new relationships. In most of the cases, the conversation may be friendly or intimate, but it is not the same as between husband and wife. It can rather be compared to tête-à-tête between two old friends. The most important factor that plays a role in such situations is jealousy. Your old girlfriend may be jealous of the relationship that you have formed with your new counterpart. But the situation can be easier for you if you have self-confidence and trust on your x-girlfriend. Spare some time for your ex pal and let her maintain a friendly relation with you and your family. It will definitely enhance your emotional health, which ultimately pays in the long run.
If your present girlfriend is aware of the fact that you had a healthy relationship with another girl, she may ask you to cut off relationship with your old pal. But, she may even say something positive regarding your relationship. If she allows you to continue the same relationship that you had cherished earlier, you would surely be the happiest person in the world. In the last few years, many celebrities have set up examples of enjoying good relationships with their old girlfriend or boy friend. They are enjoying their present associations and also have good understanding with their old friends. If they can continue…you would also be able to continue two relations at the same time. If you can do so, nobody would be happier than you and the world may seem a better place.
Thanks and lot of thanks to Internet! Information retrieval is at one's fingertip. Dating is an important aspect of a person's life and hence very popular human activity. No wonder online dating on Internet has become so popular that it is one of the most frequently searched information on the Internet.
# Internet - Great Advantages
Internet dating has great advantage over using traditional brick and mortar set-ups. Online dating offers a vast database of free personals from all over - not only local. Internet has tremendous reach and information transfer is magical. Messaging is lightening fast and very economical. Internet dating provides anonymity for discreet dating. This is must in first few instances, as one would not like to disclose personal details to a prospective date until one feel very sure, secure, and safe. All this is not possible offline. Offline the first meeting is face to face which can be embarrassing if there is a denial.
# Search Your Sex Partner
When one goes for searching, a sex partner, the Internet is an unavoidable media for search as written above. Dating is sub-categorized into many divisions online depending upon the type of dating and the purpose of building relationship. Among popular categories are adult dating, match dating or matchmaking, singles dating, swinger dating. In alternative dating category bisexual, gay dating and lesbian sex dating on Internet are very popular features. Religious dating and Interracial dating is popular too where people of same faith or ethnicity meet.
# Age Restriction
Adult dating is synonymous with dating as in many countries, age restriction apply for a person to be qualified as adult and hence fit for sex relationship with any person in full agreement of each other. Although this term is applicable, today it undoubtedly is symbolized for sex dating or sex partner search.
# Adult Dating Site - Search Personals for Sex Relationship
Hence, when you come across an adult dating site you can be sure of finding people interested in sexual liaisons. Well not all, but many, for there would be member profiles in adult personals interested in love and romance or long-term relationship based not entirely on sex.
You can get sex all right on adult dating website. If you register and become a member, you can search free online adult dating personals on the website and come in contact with one who matches your criteria for a sex partner. Whether you wish the relationship to be long term or limited to casual sex encounters the choice is yours. For much shorter sex encounters like one night stand or no strings attached sex there are specific dating website for casual dating on Internet.
The first date with a woman can be a nerve-wracking time. You've spent the past hour or so with her and you start to wonder 'what's the next step'?
So what should you do at this point? Well your actions at this point should be based on how well the date went.
If you've had a great time, then you know you can try for another date. On the other hand, if you two didn't click, then you should cut your losses and not try for a second date.
To give you an idea of what you should do, I've included four different outcomes that'll happen once your date has concluded.
When you're coming to the end of the date, you should do a quick evaluation and make a decision based on which of these four results you want.
Result #1: Go Your Separate Ways
Let's be honest here...There are going to be first dates where you don't hit it off with a woman.
Either there was no chemistry or your personalities don't mesh, it'll be obvious the two of you won't going on a second date.
Once you realize it won't work, end the date and cut your losses!
Since the date was brief, you really haven't wasted that much time or money. By ending the date quickly, you'll be able to avoid hurt feelings and will move on to the next woman.
So when you realize the date has gone badly, just end and tell her you have stuff to do.
But please be honest and don't promise to call her you're never planning on speaking to her again.
Result #2: You Set Up A Second Date
Many guys think a first date is only successful if you end up having sex. In my opinion, this is wrong!
There are a lot of times when you want to have a lot of fun on a first date, but don't want it to lead to sex. This is especially true if you're looking for a long-term relationship.
During your first date, you'll probably get an idea if there is chemistry between the two of you. At this point, you can try two things:
First you can suggest a 'venue change' and go on an immediate second date. Or you can end the date if one of you has already made plans after the first date.
Now if one of you has to leave after the first date, I suggest you immediately set up a follow up date.
Here's how to do it...
As you're ending the date, take something from the conversation and playfully turn it into concrete plans for landing that second date.
For instance if she expressed interest in a particular type of music mention that you're checking out a band which is similar to her taste. Then ask if she wants to 'tag along' with you.
Or even now that you've broken the ice, you could go out to dinner or promise her a home cooked meal. The point is one the first date has ending, immediately make plans for the second plan.
Result #3: Transition Immediately To The Second Date
One technique many guys use at the end of a first date is to do a 'venue change'. This is where you leave the location of your first date and immediately go another place.
Since you're changing locations the woman will subconsciously think you've gone from the first date to a second date.
As I mentioned before, your first date should be real casual. But if you feel a lot of chemistry has been built, you can use a venue change to continue the positive emotions and go someplace where the two of you'll get to know each other better.
The best way to do a venue change is to plan it out before the first date. If things go well, you can casually mention you're planning on meeting some friends at this place and ask if she wants to 'tag along'.
If she agrees you should immediately leave the location of your first date and transition right into the second.
Result #4: Make Things Sexual
Regardless of whether you've pulled a venue change or just had a single date, there might be an opportunity to have sex with a woman on the first date.
Now before we proceed, I just want to mention that having sex on the first date is an event that doesn't happen very often, especially if you're trying to build a relationship. So don't be too disappointed if it doesn't happen.
On the other hand, if you're determined to have sex then you should first find out if she is interested in you in a sexual way. The best way to determine this is to kiss her. What I like to do is use 'The Kiss Test' from the Double Your Dating system.
If you determine she wants to make things more intimate, you can try going back to one your places. Then once you're in private, you can allow nature to take its course and let the rest of the evening evolve...
