Every guy wants to know how to charm a girl into liking him. But many fail in their pursuit because they don’t know “the necessary five things” in order to charm a girl. Find out what those five things are, and how to use them to your advantage.
You may have seen some guy chatting with a girl, and the
girl laughing in delight and calling him a charmer.
Being complimented as a charmer by a girl is one of the best
compliments any guy can ever get from a girl. It’s not about your looks, it’s
not about your physique or your geek quotient.
It’s purely your wit and how amazing you are at charming a
girl.
How To
Charm A Girl?
So what exactly is charming a girl? Charming a girl is not
about flirting with her or touching her in places.
You would know you are charming a girl when you make her
feel so happy that she could kiss you right there.
In this article, you will find the five really important
things you need to know to charm your way into a girl’s heart. You can exchange
a lot of looks and share an intense eye contact with a girl, but you can’t
charm her with that.
To charm a girl, you need to create an impression beyond
looks and your swagger.
Charming a girl starts with a conversation and it pretty
much ends there. It is all about how you communicate with her and make her feel
happy and glad. Use these five tips and you will get there even before you know
it.
5
Important Things To Charm A Girl:
Step 1@
Talk About What She Likes
You may think this is unnecessary. Most guys do. Most guys
wonder why they have to talk only about something a girl likes. Why can’t girls
talk about what a guy likes too?
Of course, girls can. Girls do take an active interest in
trying to get to know what guys like to talk about too. But at times,
especially when you are trying to make an impression, it’s always better to be
aware of what is going on in a girl’s mind. Now talking about what a girl likes
doesn’t really mean couture, diamonds or cosmetics. The bridge between girls
and guys has narrowed down a lot these days. It’s really easy to have an
interesting conversation without breaking into a sweat. Stay away from tech
reviews, calculations and sports and you should be fine.
Step 2@
Flatter Her
When you talk to a girl, it’s easy to get her talking back
to you. But that is not enough. If you want to know how to charm a girl, you
need to make her feel comfortable, and let her know you are interested in her.
Friends don’t charm each other. So if you are going to talk
to her like a friend, she may think you are a great guy. But she won’t think
you are a charming guy. To be seen as a charming guy in a girl’s eyes, she
needs to see you as a dating potential. And to do that, you need to flatter
her.
Don’t go saying yawn inspiring things like ‘you look
beautiful’, ‘you are so pretty’, or something along those lines. It’s too
boring and so not genuine. Instead, be vaguely specific when you compliment
her. She’s got a new hairdo? Say something like “You look really cute today. Is
that a new hairstyle?” Cute is a nice word to use because men hardly ever use
that word. So when you do use it, she knows how much you mean it.
By flattering her, you can do three things with one line.
You can warm her up and make her smile. You can make her realize that you find
her pretty. And thirdly, you can let her know that you find her attractive. All
of which you need to do to make her look at you as a dating potential.
Step 3@
Be Funny
Now that you have got her all smiling with a good flow of
flattery and great conversations, it’s time to get into her personal space. All
of us have personal spaces and we feel very uncomfortable when someone steps
into it unless we are comfortable with them. To make her feel comfortable, you
have got to make her have a good time with you. To make her feel comfortable,
here are two pointers. Don’t tell her any jokes. Be happy when you talk to her.
Firstly, telling jokes straight out of a book is stupid. Instead,
tell her about a funny real or made-up incident she can relate too.
And be happy when you talk to her if you want to charm her.
When you are happy, the whole world smiles with you. If you are smiling and
feeling happy, she will smile back and be happy too. But if you are nervous,
you will definitely make her feel uncomfortable.
Step 4@
Flirt With Her
Guys flirt with girls all the time, but sometimes, a girl
can think a flirty guy is creepy. So don’t overdo your flirting skills and
gross her out. One of the best ways to start flirting is by being casual. Ask
her what she does on weekends or after work, ask her about her favorite
hangouts and restaurants, and just about anything that can be remotely
personal. She will know you are hitting on her because no one really asks all
these questions otherwise.
And out of the blue, ask this question.
“Hey, this is personal, but do you have a boyfriend? If you
do, my heart’s just going to shatter into a million pieces right now.” This is
something corny, but it always works its magic.
She will laugh, but this line gets your intentions across
straight, and she will know you are interested in her. But don’t make things
awkward by pausing after she answers the question. Go on talking about
something else like that question meant nothing to you. Your intentions will be
made clear, and at the very same time, you wouldn’t make her feel uncomfortable
around you.
Step 5@
Touch Her
This is a dangerous ground, but something you need to learn.
Touching her at the right time completes the five pointers you need to know
about how to charm a girl. If you get this right, you have obviously made a
great impression.
Now touching a girl is like playing with fire. Too quick a
touch and you don’t feel the warmth. Too long a linger, and you will burn. See
how dangerous it can be.
You can send a tingle up her spine with a simple touch if
you have warmed her up already. But remember this. Touch her only if there is a
reason to touch her, like touching her ear lobe when you are complimenting her
earrings, brushing her hair aside when there is a gust of wind, or placing your
hand on her back while crossing the street.
A touch is very personal, so you really need to be careful
and see how she reacts to your touches before you touch her again.
If you want to charm a girl and impress her, use these five
steps the next time you meet a girl you like. And you will see how great an
impression you can make in the very first conversation.
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