Sunday, October 7, 2007

Few Things That Women Love To Hear


Women always crave for real admiration. She doesn’t want to be complimented for something that she doesn’t have in her. Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are right…her man’s words. But, what kind of words?

Have you ever wondered what stirs women the most? Yes, you are right…her man’s words. But, what kind of words?

Most women crave for compliments than anything else. Nothing can surpass those genuine and honest words of compliments that you whisper into the ears of your ladylove. A flattering remark at the right time, at the right place, by the right person and in the right way can create sheer magic. But, your admiring comments must not sound fake or superficial. And remember; never go over the top with your accolades. Otherwise, your romantic date can get marred.
 

In the beginning, keep your compliments subtle. For instance, you can admire the color of her clothes or rave about the dish she has cooked for you. Keep away from sexual comments at the start of your relationship. Otherwise, she may feel insulted.

As your association grows, you can opt for more sensual compliments. She will feel aroused if you praise her hairstyle and perfume. But, the time has not yet come to pass on overtly sexual remarks.
 

Once your relationship gets steadier, you can cross the threshold of ‘Danger Zone’. If you have that feeling that the girl is all yours, you can resort to compliments that are directly sexual or related to various body parts of the lady. You can say a word or two on her legs or fingers.
 

It is always guaranteed that the heart of a woman always melts hearing the words ‘Beautiful’, ‘Gorgeous’, ‘Pretty’ etc. So, keep uttering them regularly. Make her feel special by saying ‘You look stunning tonight’ or other such lines.
 

While getting intimate with her in bed, keep on murmuring words of praise. Hot compliments like ‘I like the smell of your body’ or ‘your skin is satin-smooth’ will surely make her turned on. Say these words in your own way. She will get floored in seconds.
 

Women always crave for real admiration. She doesn’t want to be complimented for something that she doesn’t have in her. So, be careful before praising her.
 

Sometimes, remind her of the special place she has in your heart. But, don’t repeat these things too often. It may ruin the whole situation.
 

Tell her why she is different from other girls. But, don’t make her feel like an extraterrestrial object.
 

Don’t carry on shooting one-way compliments for too long. Instead, try to converse with her on some general topic, because most women love to chat. Insert your kind words in between the discussion.
 

Say her that you go gaga over certain behavioral traits of hers. For example, you may tell ‘I love the way you wear your scarf’ or ‘your dance movements make me crazy’.
 

Telling her that she has great skills in bed definitely gives her a high. Saying things like ‘Last night, you were just like a tigress’ will leave her blushing.
 

Besides raving about her physical attributes, if you point out her mental assets through your compliments, then she will surely be more than happy. Just say ‘You’re such a smart girl!’ spontaneously and it will make her day.
 

A woman always tries to find her best friend in her lover. If you acknowledge her as your ‘best friend’, then she will be on the 7th seven.
 

Hail your girl as the most important thing in your life. It will make her flattered.
 

Assure her by saying ‘I will never cheat on you’. These lines help in building trust, which is essential in a relationship.
 

Let her know that she is indispensable in your life. Once she is convinced that you need her more than anything else, she will embrace you with all her love and affection.
 

Though quite a few men feel tongue-tied before uttering the three simple words ‘I love you’, there’s hardly any other line that has a better effect on the women-folk. This one sentence, if sounds genuine, makes a woman go weak in their knees immediately.
 

Always try to tickle her funny bone with your jokes and one-liners. Most women yearn for a hubby who is high in humor quotient. So, make her giggle all the time with your gags.
 

Make her aware that she is more than a pretty face. Say her that you are besotted with her personality rather than her looks.
 

Compliment on her intelligence. Applaud on her way of handling a crisis.
 

Tell her she is your pillar of strength. Appreciate her by saying, ‘You are the one who always brings out the best in me’.
 

Keep an eye on every detail of her clothes, accessories and make-up. Appreciate on the most trivial things like the color of her nail polish.
 

Emphasize on her sexual attractiveness. She may not be an ‘Angelina Jolie’ or ‘Nicole Kidman’. But, you can definitely make them feel that way.
 

Tell her that she will become a great mom someday. Hearing this, she can be the happiest person on earth, because the ultimate dream of every woman is to become a mother.
 

But keep in mind; all the words that you pour into her ears should carry some amount of respect. You must also mind your body language while showing your appreciation and don’t shower compliments just for the heck of it!

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