Here are some of the most common body language signs or gestured displayed by girl which shows that she likes you. In order to conclude if a girl likes you try to notice these gestures in her body language:
#1# She Touches or Adjusts Herself
Once you make eye contact with a girl, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For example, she will play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry, or fiddle with something in her hands. This behavior shows you that making eye contact with you had an emotional effect on her.
#2# She Exposes Her Palms to You
Most girls will expose their wrists and palms of their hands only to people that they are either interested in or already comfortable with. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying “I’m attracted to you, and waiting for you to make a move”. This is a gesture used frequently by girls who are shy, so when dealing with a girl who may be a bit lacking in social skills, always keep an eye out for their wrists and palms.
#3# She Points Her Shoulder at You
Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction, simply because this gesture is the most common nonverbal indicator of interest that almost all girls frequently use. Her upper body will most likely be facing you if she is interested with her shoulders facing you, and on the flip side her shoulders will be pointed in a different direction if she is not interested in you. In essence, she will point her shoulders at what she wants. This gesture is also one that can change quite frequently, so as you are gaming a girl always be aware of the changes in her shoulder orientation; if she points them away from you unexpectedly then you just made a mistake, and if she points them at you all of a sudden, you just did something right.
#4# She Leans In Towards You
Leaning forward is also an easy sign to pick up, and is a very strong sign that the girl leaning towards you is attracted to you. If her shoulders point at you and she is also leaning in towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, you are making a lot of the right moves. Beware however, because at any time she could lean back into a normal upright position, and if she does so directly after you’ve done/said something questionable it may be a sign that you just lost a few “points”. If that happens, make a mental note of the mistake to ensure that you do not repeat it in the future.
#5# She Opens or Crosses Her Legs
When sitting and her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you. Be careful when observing this, if there are other men in the area then it may not be you who is making her comfortable! Also, the more sophisticated and classy a girl is, the less likely she is to ever use this gesture. That is something to keep in mind because if you are truly looking for girls of the highest caliber, that means this gesture should always be an instant turn-off for you. The classiest girls will never widen their legs in public under any circumstances.
#6# Her Pupils Dilate Looking at You
Her pupils will dilate (grow larger) while looking at a person that she likes, and in turn will get smaller while looking at a person she does not.
Keep in mind that lighting can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and in a dark night club her pupils may appear to be extremely dilated even if she has no attraction towards you. Bright lights make pupils shrink, while the absence of light will make them grow. This fact makes using pupil dilation tricky business as indicators of interest. The best method to use for testing this effectively is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else. If she looks at an obviously unattractive man, then looks back at you and you notice her pupils grow, this is a clear sign that she is feeling you.
#7# She Always Smiles at You
This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her. Smiling is not technically classified as body language in the traditional sense because smiles can either come from the conscious or the subconscious mind, while almost all other body language gestures are completely done subconsciously. Basically, that means that smiles can be easily “faked”.
However, in many cases, distinguishing a fake smile from a genuine smile is not a very difficult feat to accomplish. Furthermore, there is not much incentive for a girl to throw a fake smile at a man that she has not interest in anyway.
#8# She Laughs at All of Your Jokes
One of the best signs you can hope for is when a girl will laugh at just about every comical thing that you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny, but in most cases you will be wrong. She just likes you a lot, and that’s even better!
Of course there are some of you guys out there that genuinely are really funny, but for the average man this is a good indicator to look out for because a vast majority of girls display it when in the presence of men that they desire. The bottom line is this: if she is laughing at your comments much more frequently than most people usually do, chances are that she is just really digging you and wants to show it.
#9# She Flirts With You Using Touch
If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, like tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, touching your hair, feeling your muscles, or running her hand across your upper back, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning. Most girls cringe at the though of touching men they are not in the least attractive to, so if a girl if touching you frequently or in any type of intimate fashion that is plainly obvious it simply means that she has a very high level of interest in you. Be cautious however, because this gesture is frequently used by promiscuous girls that are the type you won’t want to end up in a relationship with. That doesn’t mean that it isn’t used by normal girls as well, just that it should throw up a red flag and keep you on your guard until you can determine what type of girl you are dealing with.
#10# She Makes Prolonged Eye Contact
If a girl is interested in you and finds you to be attractive, she may attempt to make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer period of time than is the norm, almost uncomfortably long by some standards. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested as well and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty to get over there and give her what she wants. In situations like this success is almost guaranteed, so the only way you can lose is to choke and not approach her at all.
#11# She Flips Her Hair To Get Attention
If you notice a girl flip her hair and immediately afterward glance your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye. This is a good opportunity for you to make eye contact with her and wait for another indicator of interest. This gesture is fairly rare in contrast to most of the other open gestures, but it still exists so don’t be surprised if you notice it happen to you out of the blue every so often.
#12# She Mimics Things That You Do
Here is a fun trick to use when you want to find out if a girl is checking you out: Look at your watch, count to 3; then look at her. If she looks at her watch also, then she was checking you out. It is a natural human reaction to mimic the actions of someone that you are interested in. By looking at your watch, you will spark her curiosity and she will be wondering what you are waiting for, and with no other source to gather information from she will look at her own watch to try to at least determine the time of your expected event. You can also use your phone for this, but to a lesser effect.
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