17 Signals: A Girl Is Flirting With You

If you want to know what a woman really wants, you are going to have to invest some time figuring out her language.

Yes, women speak a different language of love when compared to a man’s version and the more you know, the better off you will be. Particularly, when you are looking to figure out whether or not a girl has the interest for you.

Here are clear cut signals that she isn’t interested in you and on the flip side, some super hot signs that this girl really enjoys flirting with you.

Signs She Doesn’t Want Your Attention: 

@1# Not looking at you at all.

@2# Not paying attention to you at all while you are trying to strike up a conversation with her.

@3# Arms crossed rigidly across her chest.

@4# Only one or two word replies.

@5# Touching you too much - means she just wants to be friends.

@6# Leaning away from you.

@7# Not contributing at all to the conversation.

Now let’s take a look at the pointers to figure out if a girl is flirting with you.

How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You?

17 Signs Which Suggest That A Girl Is Flirting With You:

Signal 01: She’s Got Her Smile On 

This move is one of the toughest to figure out because women smile for all different reasons. She might be nervous or shy, just trying to be friendly, or she might really be trying to flirt with you.

A good rule of thumb to follow is if a girl smiles at you from a far and the smile is slow and deliberate, then she wants to connect with you. This means she’s flirting with you and you better take action and flirt back.

Signal 02: Touching The Chin or Twirling The Hair 

When a girl wants to flirt with a man or wants him to notice her, she is going to show him with her body language. So she might bashfully twirl her hair or maybe bat her eyelashes at you.

Touching her lips, chin and face are also proven body language signals that a girl likes you and is trying to flirt.

These are all feminine flirty signs a girl is trying to turn a man on.

Signal 03: Cleaning Herself Up

If a woman heads to the bathroom and comes back with her hair brushed, lip gloss on, and perhaps she’s wearing her shirt a little lower. These are all clear signs that a girl is flirting with you.

What you do with this information is of course up to you.

Signal 04: Damsel In Distress

If a girl is looking for you to help her, she could very well be flirting with you.

For instance, if she happens to ask you to help her lift something heavy or maybe help her figure out something on her phone, she is seriously trying to get your attention.

All of which she is usually totally capable of handing on her own but she’s just looking to grab your attention. This is a straight in your face flirting technique.

Signal 05: Reaches Out And Touches You

If a girl reaches out to touch you when you’re talking, this is a sure fire sign she likes you. This is telling you that she is totally into you but doesn’t want to be too obvious about it just yet.

Beware: If she is constantly touching you and just doesn’t stop, that’s not good news for you. This means she is crazy comfy with you and just wants to be friends. So just be careful to pinpoint the difference between “flirting” and “just friends.”

Signal 06: Simple Body Language

This signal can be a little confusing. If a cute girl is talking with you but alternates between facing you and twisting away from you, then she’s flirting. Girls like to be mysterious too.

This also helps a woman stay relaxed and calm. Pay attention to this one and make sure you interpret it accordingly.

Signal 07: Twitching And Fidgeting

If a girl is fidgeting around you and acting a little twitchy-jumpy, chances are pretty good she’s trying to flirt with you. Remember, not all girls are skilled flirters off the hop.

She might play with her hair-band, twist her watch and maybe fiddle with her necklace. As long as she is making eye contact with you and not looking like she is so uncomfortable she wants to bolt, then she’s telling you with her body that she’s into you.

Signal 08: Getting Closer

When a woman is obviously trying to get close to you, she’s flirting. If on the other hand she is repeatedly trying to move away from you, then she’s not looking to be anything more than friends.

A girl that likes a man is going to invade his private space as much as she safely can. This may even get a little claustrophobic for you but it’s all with good intention. She just wants you to pay attention and notice her that’s all.

Why is she doing this?

Well, most girls believe the guy should be making the first move so this is all she’s going to give you so that you will make your move.

Better act fast if you like her.

Signal 09: Attentive Laughter

If a girl is laughing at all your jokes, even the lame ones, then she’s trying to tell you she likes you. This one is a little hard to understand but when a girl likes a guy, she is fascinated with him.

Don’t worry, it doesn’t last long. So you better take action fast if you like the idea of this girl flirting with you.

Signal 10: Puts You On The Spot

When a girl flirts with a guy, she might signal this by asking you lots of questions about you. Don’t think of these questions as interrogation, just that she is genuinely interested in you.

And don’t forget to give her good answers because unlike most boys, she is paying attention.

Signal 11: Makes Complements

If a girl is giving you compliments and taking stabs at you, she is probably flirting. Pay attention to this one or you just might miss out.

Signal 12: Future Talk 

This one sends many boys running but when a girl starts talking about the future, what’s down the road, then she is flirting with you.

She might talk about a band that is coming to town next month that she wants to see or maybe a party in a few weeks that you might like to come to.

When a girl is flirting with a man, she wants him to know that she would like to see him more than in the now and when you talk about things down the road, you are sealing the deal.

It’s important for you to semi-commit to events down the road if you want the flirting to continue. Otherwise she will just shut the door and move on fast.

Signal 13: Proving Herself

When a girl tries to validate herself to you with things she has accomplished, she is playfully flirting with you. Essentially, she is trying to show you she has value and deserves your attention.

Some girls go overboard and actually start to brag. Keep it in a positive light and understand it’s just her way of flirting with you.

Too bad girls never seem to be straight up when it comes to flirting. They like to send off signals but none of them are concrete.

Signal 14: Higher Voice And Faster Talk 

Experts say one of the easiest routes to figure out if a girl is flirting with you is to listen to how fast she is talking and the tone of her voice.

Girls seem to talk faster to the men they are interested in. So the next time you are with a group of girls, test the theory out.

Often when a girl likes a guy, her pitch will start to rise. This is all happening subconsciously so don’t hold it against her please.

Signal 15: Body Language

Understanding body language is very important when you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl likes you.

(a) Mimicking: If she is unconsciously following your movements, she is flirting. So when you cross your arms, scratch your head or yawn, pay attention to see if she follows suit.

Psychologists say people who like each other will try and mimic their behaviors. This one is derived from evolution and the need to find your place or fit in.

(b) Shoulders Pointed Toward You: When a girl is flirting with a man, she will keep her shoulders pointed in or toward him. This shows that she is trying to get your attention and she is paying attention to what you are saying and doing.

(c) Toes Pointed Toward You: If a girl is interested in a man, her feet will be pointed toward him. This is another unconscious move that people do when they like someone.

Signal 16: Showing Hands

When you are talking with this girl, pay close attention to what her hands are doing. Her hands will tell you a lot about what she is thinking and feeling.

If she is flirting with you, she will use her hands to tell you this by ‘talking’ with her hands. She might gesture with her hands when she is explaining things to you and use her hands to reach out and touch you.

Beware: If she is sitting on her hands, hiding them or sticking them in her pockets, she might be telling you she doesn’t want your attention.

Signal 17: Smooth Verbal Communication

Yes, it’s important that you pay attention to her body language, but you also need to listen to what she is saying.

If your conversation is easy, quick and smooth, seemingly effortless, then she’s into you.

On the flip side, If you happen to be the only one talking and she’s pretty much keeping to herself, with her mouth shut, then she might not be interested in you at all.

Beware: There are women that are just natural flirts with everyone and likely have no romantic interest in you whatsoever.

She is likely skilled in most everything we’ve talked about thus far, but just likes the thrill of the flirt.

Don’t get mixed up with this one or you will get shot down.

So how do you tell if she’s just a natural flirt?

Pay attention to how she is acting around everyone else. Is she giving all the signs and signals to every other man in the room?

When you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl is flirting with you or genuinely not interested, it becomes sort of a puzzle.

You need to pay attention to the signals, the body language, words, and overall vibe.

And make sure you don’t get stuck on a natural flirter that just enjoys flirting for the sake of flirting and nothing more.

Who Is A True Alpha Male?

The concept of the ‘alpha male’ is one that you frequently hear in modern pop culture. Unfortunately, very little of this demonstrates understanding of what an alpha male truly is and what he represents.

One substrata of the Internet is especially fond of the ‘alpha male’ concept. Read through any community of self-proclaimed ‘pick up artists’, and you will learn plenty about the topic. In their view, attaining ‘alpha male’ status is the apex of winning the attention and admiration of females.

In many ways, this is correct; men and women alike are drawn to the so called ‘alpha’ in any group. The term is an appropriation from animal psychology meaning the ‘leader’ in any pack of animals. It is most commonly applied to dogs, and the ‘alpha dog’ is looked to by the other pack members for guidance, security and structure.

More often than not, attempts to transfer the ‘alpha’ concept to human culture get it completely wrong. That’s why there is a misconception that associates ‘alpha male’ status with loud, boorish behavior or a desire to be the center of attention at all times to the point of obnoxiousness. In reality, this type of behavior is the precise antithesis of ‘alpha’.

So, what are some legitimate traits of a true alpha male?

Major Traits of A True Alpha Male:

@1# If You Have To Ask, You Are Not An Alpha Male.

There’s a great line about poker that goes, “If you can’t spot the sucker at the table, it’s you.”

A similar concept applies to being an alpha male: if you have to ask if you are an alpha male, you are not.

If you read books or pour through ‘pick up forums’ for validation of your ‘alpha male’ status, you’re not one. A true alpha male doesn’t need external validation of his status.

@2# A True Alpha Male Doesn’t Sweat While “Picking Up” Girls.

An alpha male’s attraction to women is not a ‘cause’ but an ‘effect’. In other words, women are attracted to the alpha male but learning pick up ‘routines’ to ‘pull chicks’ doesn’t make you one.

In fact, being too desperate and needy about your desire for women automatically disqualifies you. Women are attracted to the alpha male for the cause who he is and not because he is ‘smooth’ or has strong ‘game’.

@3# A True Alpha Male Is Comfortable And Confident Around Women.

The true alpha male isn’t intimidated by women. He’s comfortable and confident around them.

Unfortunately, the misguided tactic of so called “pick up gurus” that involves taking away a woman’s confidence by “insulting” her with a snide remark so she works to earn your approval is about as ‘non alpha’ as it comes.

You can’t build yourself up by knocking others down. And you certainly can’t ‘fake’ alpha male status, especially by being a jerk.

The true alpha male is just the opposite; his self-confidence allows him to be kind and empathetic to others.

@4# A True Alpha Male Takes Care Of Others.

In much of today’s pop culture, the ‘alpha male’ is conflated with thugs and other egocentrics. The true alpha male doesn’t have a ‘win at all cost’ attitude. Instead, his confidence derives from strength of character and a desire to be a leader.

In no way, shape, or form is he a ‘bully’ nor does he try to intimidate those who are weaker. The ‘true alpha’ looks out for others. He doesn’t take advantage of them.

@5# A True Alpha Male Doesn’t Care About His Persona.

Another mistake you will find in pick up forums suggests that an ‘alpha male’ has a ‘bad boy’ personality. In fact, a true alpha male doesn’t worry about superficialities like ‘image’ or ‘persona’.

Clothes, tattoos, or whatever current styles are supposed to be the hallmark of ‘bad boys’ have no ability to convey ‘alpha status’. A true alpha male might be an ‘outlaw’ but he doesn’t have to be. He knows who he is and is comfortable with it.

He doesn’t need to follow trends; he sets them through his actions.

Alpha male status can’t be ‘faked’. In fact, the last thing that a ‘true’ alpha male is concerned with is convincing others of his status.

The more you worry about being an alpha male, the less chance you have at attaining the status. The only way to become a legitimate alpha male is to ‘earn’ the status by developing your character, confidence, and intellect.

5 Things That A Woman Wants In Her Date

Most men and women are still trying to crack what works and what doesn't, for the opposite sex. Despite the grand assortment of tips and advice being offered by the Internet, magazines and best friends, we follow our hearts and make our own mistakes. Dating is not for those having a faint heart, but when you find 'the one', it's all well worth the madness.

In the meantime, it helps to know what the opposite sex is thinking, sitting across the table, on a date.

So here are the top 5 things that a lady wants in her date:
@1# Dress For The Date

It's the first opportunity to get to know each other and since both of you have been courageous enough to call it a date, it's definitely a special occasion. A guy who knows what looks good on him and carries it off with modesty and charm, is a huge turn on for any girl.

What a man wears should enhance his personality, not distract from it. It's great if you have biceps worth showing off, but a date is hardly the occasion to flaunt them from under a body hugging t-shirt.

Needless to say, body odor of the slightest kind is a total deal breaker.

@2# Be A Little Chivalrous

Getting her a drink, holding that door open and dropping her home; have absolutely nothing to do with a girl's independence. Don't let anyone tell you differently. Of course she can do all that herself! But the charm of being on a date, or even in a relationship for that matter, is to feel cared for. The expectation for chivalry is hard wired into every girl's psyche and it's a great turn on if done moderately and effortlessly. Every door doesn't need to be held open and every chair doesn't need to be pulled out for her. But on a date; absolutely!

@3# Mind Your Words

A guy with an intellect and humility is a sure shot, guaranteed turn on for any girl. And usually, it takes a girl less than 10 minutes to figure out if the guy across the table has these qualities working in his favor or otherwise.

Men who brag about their achievements or the net worth of their father's business, don't stand a chance against those who share their thoughts and are genuinely interested in hearing about their date's. What really helps is if you stick to a language you're comfortable with. Grammatical mistakes and SMS abbreviations in spoken language are hilarious not endearing.

@4# Never Be Shy

Be generous with compliments and praise. In fact, most women appreciate that quality in men. But the key is to be genuine. That's what makes a man stand out. An honest “I really enjoyed this and would love to see you more” or a “You have a gorgeous smile” is a zillion times better than any pick up line in the world. A guy who speaks his mind and spells out how he wants to take things forward wins hands down, as long as he doesn't enter the creepy zone. Additional brownies for a guy who manages to steer clear of the “Let’s be friends” zone and goes straight for the “I want to date you” target.

@5# Be Yourself 

Because when you try to be someone you're not, you're being a clown. Everyone has flaws. Everyone has had moments they're not proud of and most of us don't have smashing looks. Wait a minute...doesn't that put us all in the same boat? It's a big turn on for a girl to see a guy who is confident, sincere and unpretentious. If you don't put on a fake accent, assert yourself unnecessarily over restaurant staff and come dipped in cologne sporting a fake Rado, chances are you will actually get a smile from the girl across the table. It's not so hard to just be your normal self. Try it.

12 Reasons Why People Go For Extramarital Affairs

People all around the world are having extramarital affairs, regardless of their socioeconomic background or location. Some instances come as a shock because when things seem to be going well in the marriage. You can't help but wonder- Why?

Something obviously went wrong somewhere. Here are some possible reasons as to why people indulge in an extramarital affair.

12 Possible Reasons Why People Have Extramarital Affairs:
@1# Early Marriage

People who marry in their early 20s would most likely have achieved some level of stability and social standing by their mid-30s. At that point, they feel that they did not really enjoy life in their 20s, and find it exciting to indulge in an extramarital affair. It is their way of experiencing the thrill and excitement of dating.

@2# Married For The Wrong Reasons

Many people enter into marriage for the wrong reasons. Pressures from family and society top the list in the country. After a point, many people agree to marriage without even getting to know their life partner. Once the deed is done, they realize the mistake they have made in terms of the choice of their life partner. If they meet someone who is in any way a better match than their current spouse, they are immediately attracted to him/her. And what starts as a simple friendship usually ends up in an affair.

@3# Inability To Deal With Changes

Life throws changes at us almost every day. Most of us are able to deal with the small changes. But the bigger ones are tougher to deal with - a serious illness in the family, death, loss of employment, financial loss, etc. Many turn to people, apart from their spouses to deal with such changes. They find more comfort in the arms of someone new, perhaps someone not connected to their tough circumstances in any way.

@4# Becoming Parents

Becoming a parent changes everything about a husband-wife relationship. Priorities change, the time you can give each other reduces and your immediate living environment alters drastically. While most women give their 200% to being mothers, there are several men who suddenly feel lost and unimportant at home, and indulge in extramarital affairs. And since most women are usually so busy being mothers, they probably don't even realize this for a long time.

@5# Physical Dissatisfaction

This is probably one of the most common reasons for people to get involved in an extramarital affair.

@6# Emotional Disconnection

Sometimes a couple grows emotionally disconnected from each other, the top reasons being lack of time and lack of communication with each other. To be emotionally connected, you need to share, you need to talk, you need to express, you need to listen, you need to laugh, you need to care and show that you care.

If you don't do this, over a period of time, chances are you will get emotionally disconnected from each other as a couple and start getting emotionally connected with someone else. What starts out as an emotional bond with someone can eventually leads to an extramarital affair.

@7# Disagreements On Core Values

Sometimes when you experience a tough situation in life, your core values are tested. And you have to make decisions which may not be palatable to your family, especially to your spouse. Sometimes this could be the cause for irreconcilable differences, which triggers an extramarital affair.

@8# Differing Life Priorities

When a couple gets married, often they don't speak about life priorities; simply because it is not so important or people are not so clear. With time, the priorities start getting clearer and more pronounced, and increasingly divergent. Over time, these become so different that it becomes tough to live together and agree on even basic things on a daily basis.

This can be a catalyst for an extramarital affair. Some people get into a relationship simply because they believe it can advance their career.

@9# No Common Interests

If you have nothing in common with each other, you will eventually get absorbed in pursuing your own divergent interests. You will end up not spending enough time together. As you spend time away from each other, you get opportunities to interact with others. And gradually start building a bond with those who share your interests. Many times this leads to an extramarital affair.

@10# Need For Excitement

Sometimes it is sheer boredom or a need to break the monotony and drudgery of everyday life that is the reason for an extramarital affair. Just for fun, for a change or for some excitement.

@11# Personal Finances

Difficulties in personal finances (excess debts and liabilities), or lack of agreement on personal financial management can sometimes be the trigger for constant bickering within the four walls. And at such a vulnerable time, anyone who gives a hearing to your woes or some financial support is welcome. And this can lead to an extramarital affair.

@12# Career Advancement

It’s sad but true. Some people get into a relationship simply because they believe it can advance their career.

While these are the broad reasons, usually it is a combination of many of these which drives people into an extramarital affair. All said and done, it is tough to see a couple go through the stress of an extramarital affair. Relationships are broken, children are affected. There could be lifelong issues with guilt and trust. It's not an easy situation for anyone.

10 Steps To Seduce A Girl

As a guy, you must know how to seduce a girl with full enjoyment and amusement.

Here are the rules and steps to seduce a woman. Whether she is your girlfriend or wife, these tricks will definitely support you to achieve the goal.

Seducing a Girl: The Preparation Stage

@1# Being Romantic

Being romantic is the first and foremost weapon to seduce a girl. Generally, the girls expect their boy would be romantic. Talk with romanticism and behave romantically. You can easily seduce her if you follow some romantic strategies. For example: you must use some romantic words or phrases when you want to seduce a girl. Also, learn how to be creative with the approach with romance and love.

@2# Doing Romantic Things

Doing romantic things means that you are romantic and it is the second step that you want to seduce her after you have turned yourself as a romantic guy. Don’t forget to be insane for your girl. Being mad and insane sometimes boosts the relationship.

@3# Inviting Her For A Date

Inviting her for a date can open the door that can make her seductive. Choose the place that she enjoys to spent time in. It will show your loyalty to her and at the same time you will seduce her and make her prepare for the sexy time.

@4# Knowing Her Well

Knowing her well will ease your way to achieve her consent to you. There are many guys who don’t know the girls, even with whom they are having a relationship. It is true that whatever way you approach, you must know her well to make it effective. It will let you know how to stand in front of her, how to behave, how to dress and all the things. For example, an introvert girl likes a man with less talk while an extrovert and ultra-modern girl likes her guy would be Yo! Yo!

@5# Dressing Well

Dressing well helps you win almost any girl. Be careful how you will dress and what you will wear. Prefer the things that she likes to find you in. To make this step successfully, you can carefully notice her behavior or attitude with some special feelings. ‘You look fresh in this color’ or ‘This attire makes you adorable’ type sentences denote that she likes you in this approach. So, pay her your highest concern to seduce your girl easily.

@6# Touching

Touching a girl is the first step that shows that you are in the process to charm your girl. You have planned many things and it is the real chance to make that true. Don’t touch here and there and as you wish. Rather be thankful and creative to touch a girl. Remember that it is the stage when you must have to win her to get her.

@7# Playing Nasty Games

Playing nasty games leads you to attract her to you. Flirt! Use slang a little bit. Choose words that evoke her body and sensual part. For example: invite her to play a hide and seek game with you. Ask her to close eyes. Now, pretend to touch or have your hands on a particular body part of her. Now, invite her to guess. If she can, let her chance to play such with you. If she cannot, ask her for a gift like a kiss or a warm hug.

@8# Wording Sexy And Hot

Use some words that can make her sexy. Compliment her. Ask her different questions that can make her hot and seduced. For example: ask about her sizes (if you are not married), or the favorite underwear color. Compliment her that she has big and alluring assets. These types of sexy and hot questions are bound to make her seduced.

Seducing a Girl: The Final Stage

Now you are done with the process part and it is the final stage to let her know that you love her or you want to spend tonight together or such. Don’t jump all of a sudden. Rather, you can follow these steps:

@9# Making Commitment

Making commitment is the best way to seduce a girl. But, remember that, both of you are in a romantic mood and don’t say any strict thing that can break all your effort to make her seduced. Rather, say the soft but warm things that can raise her feelings. ‘I love you’ or ‘don’t leave me’ type words can help you out here. These will bring her more close to you.

@10# Forming A Habit of Happy Couple Formula

Forming a habit of happy couple formula can make her closer to you. There are many things that the happy couples do to be happy in life. Let your lips whisper. This will instantly work to make your girl seduced. This not only works to seduce her but also works to strengthen the relationship between you.

Attracting or seducing a girl is the easiest thing if you go with the right approach. If you are not, it will seem as more difficult than climbing up the Everest.

5 Types of Men Every Woman Needs

All women claim to have their set of dependable male friends. Be it for a liberal dosage of honest advice, shopping tips or some harmless flirting, these are 5 guys every gal needs:

@1# Mr Charmer: This guy is the ultimate feel good dude. Being his pal ensures you feel happy even on days when everything else in your life is falling apart. The best part about hanging out with a charmer is that he helps you feel more beautiful from within.

@2# Mr Frankness: Most women when brutally honest with each other end up in an alpha-female battle. But guys can often get away with calling a spade a spade and not have us feel offended. Most women dig cerebral men who force them to think because in a way these discussions and heart-to-heart chats highlight how men see women.

@3# Mr Geeky: While women are hugely turned off by bespectacled geeky dudes, geeks are not all risky business. This guy's linear outlook to life is often a breather for women. Geeks may be socially awkward but his technical prowess is a great high, especially if you don't even know how to fix your own laptop. Plus, chances are he's highly qualified and thus he's likely to be a great counterpoint to your social butterfly image.

@4# Mr Platonic Guy: Men can make great friends. If there is no hidden sexual agenda, a man and woman can share a strong and authentic relationship. Guy buddies such as these should be on your speed dial - he will be the one to restore your confidence in the male species after your heart is shattered.

@5# Mr Adventurer: With him, you will never get bored. This guy will push you out of your comfort zone and show you there's always opportunity for wild escapes. But the flip-side to such free spirited guys is that you can never tie this guy down, as he needs lots of space.

6 Major Reasons Why Women Have Extramarital Affairs

“Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave.” - Martin Luther

Unfortunately, the situation in the Indian household is quite the contrary. The husband dreads coming back home, and the wife is more than glad to see him leave.

Let us talk about the major reasons why women have extramarital affairs.

6 Major Reasons Why Women Have Extramarital Affairs:

Gone are the days when women used to hide under a five inch veil and obediently play the various roles of a chaste wife, a devout daughter in law and a libido less mother.

This is the 21st century and women are successfully playing the new role called infidels. But this is not what is infuriating the patriarchy - the audacity of an ‘Indian’ woman to commit an extramarital affair. What is more shocking to the patriarchy is the infiltrated morality of today’s Indian women who no longer consider an extramarital affair as taboo and are openly articulating their emotional and sexual needs.

Reason 1 @ Desire

Desire is the mother of all sins. It is not a new fact that in all marriages, sooner or later, the charm of the youthful days fades. Women desire to rekindle something new and passionate in their relationship.

Reason 2 @ Faulty Partner

Not everyone is blessed with a beautiful and loving partner. Halfway in their marriage, women realize that they are not being given the love, respect and companionship they deserve in a marriage. So, they simply start looking for it elsewhere.

However, it is not necessary for the relationship to be at fault in order to justify the person’s infidelity. Sometimes, it’s just the person’s personality type.

Reason 3 @ Suppressed Sexuality

If a man couldn’t suppress his sexual passions or was dissatisfied with his wife, he could easily spend a night in a brothel. No one asked him any questions because he was the head and the caretaker of the family.

But a woman’s sexual needs have always been suppressed. She was and still is taught to preserve her chastity and virginity. And women did so because they were uneducated and were not capable of standing up on their feet.

But times have changed. As the woman of today rises, she is willing to take a look at her own needs and, if necessary, honor them, be it inside or outside the house.

And sexual gratification rules a woman’s needs. Perhaps that is the reason why they have no qualms in accepting an extramarital relation for satiating the urge of physical intimacy.

Reason 4 @ The Modern Attitude Towards Marriage

There is a fundamental flaw in the very nature of married Indian couples. Everyone hungers for quick satiation. Everyone wishes to speak but no one is willing to listen. Intolerance is on the rise and hypocrisy is ruling marriages. People are more into flaunting their love lives on social media than having a heart to heart conversation.

Moreover, like with objects, couples are getting bored with their partners too. If one relationship doesn’t work, they plan and plot to develop another. The values of commitment, sacrifice, love, companionship, forgiveness and moreover the attitude of ‘fixing a broken thing’ have been lost. So instead of making a marriage work, women as well as men look for a new dalliance.

Reason 5 @ The Bane Called The Internet

The Internet has always been a boon and a bane. A lot of affairs owe their existence to electronic communications. The sheer ease and secrecy of mobile communication is an enabling factor.

To aid women, extramarital affair websites are making it easier to have clandestine online affairs.

Reason 6 @ The Working Lady

Chances of extramarital affairs increase when both the partners are working. Women don’t find that time to nurture their marital relationship with their husbands at home.

Rather, the same bonding happens with their colleague at the workplace. Both men and women work the same number of hours and often travel together for business trips. As a result, there are more instances of extramarital affairs in the corporate sector.

Whatever might be the reason, extramarital affairs are never healthy for a relationship. At times, they leave irreparable scars on both the offenders and their partners.

Therefore, as adults, it is the duty of every married woman to take conscious and informed decisions, especially in the Indian society, where a marriage is not just a union of two individuals, but two families.

How To Propose To An Indian Girl?

Flirting, being friends or very good friends and going out on a special date with a girl; all are very different situations from proposing a girl.

Men who are going to propose an Indian girl should do this with utmost care. It hurts very much to get denial after proposing a girl. When it comes to proposing an Indian girl, men need to take several factors into account.

Here are some key pointers which can be helpful to know the ways to propose an Indian girl. 

@1# Duration of Your Relationship.

If you are friends with an Indian girl for just 1 or 2 weeks, do not propose her. Give time to your relationship so that it can grow. When a man, who knows a girl for a very short period of time; proposes her; the girl gets to know that the person is just fooling around. However, if you know a girl very well for many months then proposing seems acceptable.

@2# The Quality of Your Relationship.

If you know a girl for a year but have spent only a few lonely moments with her then you should not propose her. Before proposing a girl, think yourself that how it will appear to propose a girl whom you just don’t know very well. On the other hand, if you share a very enjoyable relationship with a girl then it will not appear abnormal to propose on your part. You need to understand that there should be strong reasons for your proposal. Only then the girl would trust you. It is very difficult for an Indian girl to understand that a man who does not know her well really has honest feeling for her.

@3# Timing.

Choose a day when you are on a date with your girl. Observe the mood of the girl whom you are going to propose. If the girl is in a bad mood then don’t propose her. You will suffer without any reason just because of wrong timing. Also, keep on giving hints about your proposal before really proposing a girl. This helps in creating a good platform before you really propose her.

@4# The Style For Proposal.

This is the most important part of proposing an Indian girl. Men should understand that there is no rigid style of proposing a girl. Every girl wishes to get proposed in a unique manner. Keep this in mind and propose her in your own unique style. Be creative and avoid copying someone else. Propose her in such a manner that she feels like a princess or the most beautiful woman in the whole universe. Assure her that you will always take care of her and do anything for her happiness. Avoid proposing in a direct manner. It sounds boring and Indian girls would not like it. If they ask for some time to give response then give it to her. Remember that patience always pays.

@5# Getting Prepared.

Doing Your Homework could be the Difference Maker. So, you are sure about getting your timing right and you have decided upon the style of proposing your Indian girlfriend. However, an important question remains to be asked ‘have you done your homework?’

Yes, this might sound a bit strange, but when proposing to a girl, it is vital that you come across as somebody who is seriously interested in her. This means having observed her closely and taking the initiative to find out more about her. If she is your colleague at the office, digging information about her likes and dislikes isn't that difficult. If she is within your extended circle of friends, the task becomes even easier. When you propose to her, it should seem that you know about her preferences and her personality type.

Is she the upfront type who has only dated bold, macho guys in the past? If yes, your style of proposing would be better-off being quick and blunt about it.

If she is the sporty types, it would be better if you propose going out on a small adventure trip as a part of the proposal or initiate the conversation with how you have always wanted to try rock climbing.

This combination of asking her out and mentioning something that she really likes will make her think that yes, you do understand her and there is something common to build upon.

If she is the shy type, ensure that it doesn’t seem like you are hitting upon her. Before you actually propose, do some homework. Identify her closest friends. Send her some subtle reminders and teasers about the fact that you really like her. In this manner, you would have taken out the sting of shock or awe at the time of actually proposing to her. Think of this as establishing a reasonable base when proposing an Indian girl.

@6# Your Choice of Words.

Even after the best of preparations, if you end up saying the wrong things at moment of proposing, you are bound to make things difficult for yourself. Rather than leaving it all to spontaneity, it is better to being a bit prepared about how you are going to put forth your proposal. The fact is that unless she is a total stranger to you, you don’t need to explain yourself to her.

All you need to do is directly ask her out without using the words ‘date’. There is nothing wrong with using this word but it may give things a rather typical perception.

You are better off proposing in a manner that is both direct and a bit subtle. Your lines should include phrases like ‘I have been observing you for a long time’ or ‘I have a gut feeling that you wouldn’t mind going out with me’. Don’t bombard her with flowers or gifts before actually saying something. That just seems like a lame attempt to melt her a bit before hitting her with proposal.

Being a bit apprehensive, anxious or even stammering a bit is not an issue as you say it. Don’t try to act too cool or someone you are not. Don’t behave like some overconfident schmuck who couldn’t care less.

@7# Your Body Language Should Be Confident.

When you propose to a girl or a lady from any part of the world for that matter, your body language makes a huge difference. If you are naturally confident, most issues are resolved and you don’t need much help.

If you are a bit apprehensive or unsure about her reaction, ensure you follow some basics. This includes, looking her in the eye when you propose. You should be facing her, without your hands in your pockets or waving around too much in the air. If you seem a bit vulnerable or emotional, it works towards your favor as it lends an emotional depth to your actions.

If you tend to get tense when approaching such situations, just take some time to do some last minute preparations to keep yourself calm. This can include deep breathing and doing some neck rotations.

How To Tackle The Post Proposal Period?

Let us assume the positive outcome of your proposal. Even then, it is not necessary that she out rightly says, yes. Most Indian women still carry a bit of coyness that makes them so unique. Her approval might be in the form of blinking her eyes and smiling. If she is the waiting type or wants to play the hard-to-get sort of games, she might tell you to wait for her phone call. The ideal way to handle the outcome of your proposal is to give her time and not force the issue.

Don’t seek immediate answers. Don’t pressurize her into being very clear about her response. You need to understand that she might need a few moments to recollect herself. Yes, being spontaneous about the entire thing would be ideal but it isn't bound to happen with every girl.

So, allow her the liberty to handle things the way she wants. Don’t call her and ask for her impending answer. After having proposed to her, take a back step and allow fate to take its own course.

Don’t approach the proposal with any fixed notions in your head, it is better to be prepared for the worst-case scenario and hope for her immediate acceptance.

Tips And Tricks To Date Married Women

Most of the men are attracted towards married women and find them more attractive compared to younger girls. Practicing monogamy has reduced and couples due to lack of control and pure love are getting into extra marital affairs. Dating married women is an ideal idea for majority of men regardless of the age gap.

If the woman is attractive, pretty and matured, the man will likely fall for her and would like to date that married woman. The experiences of married women make men love them and the wish to get along with them increases. Even women want a change in their lives if they are bored of their existing ones. Women love to be adored, loved and cared, so if a man fulfills her needs then she falls for him.

If you are thinking about dating a married woman, then here are some tips and tricks to apply for.

Tips And Tricks To Date Married Women:

@1# Give Her Time.

The new and close relationship needs time to develop. Many women are not ready to ditch her husband and go for another man. If the man likes a married woman, he should gradually try to develop the relationship between them and make her feel that she is doing the right thing.

@2# Build Comfort.

It is very important to make her feel comfortable in your company. Try to become close to her by knowing her likes and dislikes. If she needs time to get close to you then give her the required time and space. She will come to you.

@3# Become Her Support.

A married woman generally gets into an extra marital affair if she is not happy with her life and husband. Try to become her support and stand by her side when she wants you.

@4# Never Befriend Her Husband.

Try not to be friends with her husband. In some cases, husband's close friend are involved in relationship with the wife. If you are really thinking about dating a married woman, then it’s best to avoid being friends with her man.

@5# Know What She Expects.

A man should know that ‘the married woman is dating him to fulfill her expectations’ which were not catered to by her husband. Get to know what she wants and expects and try to fulfill them.

You can use these tips and tricks to date married women and be prepared to share your love as the woman you like or love is already married to someone.

3 Common Ways To Seduce Your Woman

What do all great lovers have in common? They are masters of seduction and they know it. Confidence may be key to seduce your lover, but you can also pick up a few tips and tricks along the way to keep her coming back for more.

Here are most common 3 ways to seduce a woman:

@1# Compliment Her.

You want to be intimate with her, right? Then tell her. Let her know that she is the object of your desire and ply her with compliments. Telling her that she looks good won’t suffice. You need to seduce her by describing in detail everything you like about her. Think about all five senses and compliment glow of her skin, the scent of her hair, the taste of her lips, the beauty of her curves and the sweet sound of her breath. Be an animal and let her know just how badly you want to get between her legs.

@2# Be Aggressive.

Sometimes a poke in the backside just won’t cut it for a woman who craves seduction.

The anticipation of being seduced is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs, but all that sexual energy comes to a grinding halt if your lover lacks enthusiasm and confidence. Initiating intimacy and sex should be a shared responsibly. If tonight is your night then embrace it with passion!

Be aggressive by holding her by the hair as you kiss her or pull out a few silk ties to strap her wrists to the bedposts. Give her a chance to be submissive and play up your role as the aggressor.

@3# Touch Slowly.

If being aggressive isn’t your style or you simply want to switch it up for a change, then slowing things down may be the perfect addition or complement to your sexual repertoire.

When we are excited we have a tendency to rush into things. We start grabbing and kneading and sucking and fingering without giving our bodies a chance to ease into the natural sexual response. By slowing things down, you allow the tension to build as the blood rushes to her most sensitive regions and they start yearning for more of what you’ve got to offer.

Delayed gratification is a compelling tool of seduction, so never underestimate the power of teasing her body and slowing down the things.