For initiating and maintaining physical connection, one needs to start with the small gestures and then he needs to escalate progressively to intimate touching. The more personal you become with her, the more attraction, trust and chemistry she will develop.
Here are 21 ways which can be helpful to touch her and initiate the fire within:
Low Level Touching:
1. When introducing, shake hands and hold hers for an extra second.
2. Give her a high-five in excitement.
3. Gently touch her elbow to emphasize your points.
4. If she’s going outside with you, you can grab her coat and help her put it on.
5. Touch her shoulder when she is opening up and sharing something with you.
6. When saying goodbye, give her a hug.
Medium Level Touching:
1. Stand close to her and let your arms touch.
2. When leading her to the bar or to grab a seat, hold her hand or guide her with your hand on the small of her back.
3. Stand to her side, lean close to her, and whisper into her ear.
4. Rest your thigh against hers when sitting next to her.
5. As she laughs at something you said, say something like “You’re so cute/adorable” while placing your hand on her stomach and playfully push her.
High Level Touching:
1. Play footsie under the table if sitting across from her.
2. Place your hand on her thigh when sitting next to her.
3. Brush a lock of hair off her face and around her ear.
4. While standing close, lean into her and smell from the base or her neck to her ear. You can say something like “Damn, you smell amazing.”
5. When talking, lightly play with her hand or fingers.
6. Run your fingers through her hair while looking in her eyes.
7. Grab her around the waist and pull her hip against yours. You can also pull her directly towards you and have your waists touching.
8. Touch a necklace she’s wearing while brushing your fingers on her neck.
9. While sitting close, run your fingers toward her inner thigh under the table. Continue talking casually. Getting more intimate while keeping your cool will drive her wild.
10. Pause during conversation, look deeply in her eyes, and kiss her.
The biggest difference between a friend and a romantic partner is physical intimacy. So if you ever want more than friendship, you’re going to have to bite the bullet and touch her.
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