Seducing a woman involves a lot to do with her brain and her thinking process. The experts of the field say, “Many guys crash and burn in their quest to be a great lover because they forgot that the most important part of her body is her mind.”
Given below are 7 ways by which make a man more attractive to a woman and ultimately help him to seduce her.
7 Ways to Be More Attractive to a Woman:
#1@ Have Patience.
When you have a new woman’s attention and you’re working to close the deal, don’t rev your engines prematurely. You don’t want to come across like a predator. No girl wants to hook up with a creeper.
To avoid that vibe, don’t stare too much, don’t be too touchy-feely, or get too physical too soon. When a woman is worried you could hurt her, it’s over. So much of her enjoyment is about feeling safe.
#2@ Think About Ambience.
Girls instinctually appreciate that candles and mood lighting are romantic. That’s probably not your own natural instinct, but it’s an easy idea that steers girls in a sexy direction.
Guys don’t care if candles are lit or not. We don’t care if it’s dark and we can’t see or if all the lights are on. But girls may be more insecure about their bodies, so setting the lighting so that it’s dim enough that she doesn’t have to be overly self-conscious will up your odds of a steamy night.
#3@ Play to Her Sense of Smell.
A pleasant aroma (mixed with a cocktail of pheromones) goes a long way toward turning everyone on, since your olfactory sense is the strongest. Incense and natural smells are always better than cheesy cologne.
Individual smell preferences differ from woman to woman, so impress her even more by asking if she prefers the scent of sandalwood, roses or a garlicky tomato sauce instead.
#4@ Turn On Some Music.
The music needs to go with the theme of the night, but it shouldn't be too distracting. The focus should be on you and her, not your own personal playlist.
I think music is less specific than smells. You can throw on some Sade or Marvin Gaye, and at the worst she’ll think it’s cheesy, but at least it’s not something distracting. There is certain music that goes with a little bit of romance, but other music is a turnoff. Again, asking her what she likes to listen to is a surefire way to impress.
#5@ Find Common Ground.
Before you launch into your come-back-to-my-place lines, talk about shared moments from the night you’ve shared.
For women, it’s all about mood and timing, and sex talk too early is a big risk. So much of the seduction talk is a dance. You meet a woman in a bar, and she knows it could go somewhere and so do you. So roll with it. Eventually you will get her back to your place, but don’t talk about it. If you tell her she should see your bed, it looks like you’re predetermined, and for a woman, that usually ruins it.
#6@ Be Confident, Not Egomaniacal.
There’s a very fine line between the two. Confidence is rooted in, ‘I am comfortable with myself and I believe in what I’m doing,’ and being ego-driven is primarily based in insecurity. Confidence comes from the inside out, and ego is coming from the outside in. So don’t brag about your sweet wheels. Let the cool things about you leak out more subtly. A guy with humility is far sexier to a woman than a show-off.
The guys who are most comfortable in their own skin get the most women. A six-pack doesn't hurt, but it's not necessary.
#7@ Make Her Laugh.
Appealing to a woman’s sense of humor immediately ups your odds of getting her to be with you. Just make sure she's laughing with you and not at you. But even if you’re being funny, if you come across like you're reciting a guy's pick up manual, you're going to blow it. Be yourself. Be at your natural best.
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