These areas are all tied into each other and once combined will create a magnetic gut level attraction that most women just won’t be able to resist.
They will sense you when you walk into a room, feel the urge to look over and grab a glimpse of you, maybe even send one of their friends over to talk to you because they’re too damn shy to do it themselves.
Once you pull this stuff off correctly, you can have your pick whilst other guys will just look at you in amazement, thinking to themselves, “Why is every girl in here looking at that guy?”
Now, let us talk about the 4 techniques which help to attract women without saying a single word.
Step 1# The First Impression #
First impressions are everything, not just with women but with everything in life so you need to treat it with top priority.
(a) Have fun with your friends: When you’re in the moment and having fun with your friends, nothing else matters. You’re not seeking approval from anyone, you’re just having fun. This is very attractive to women, so do this more.
(b) Smile and banter casually: Most guys will stand at a bar and use fake smiles or talk about crap, just so they can look like they’re talking about something interesting. Never do this, you should always be genuine and banter about real things, smile and focus on your friends primarily. This is your reality and you’re inviting others to be a part of it if they wish, you’re not pandering to anyone else.
(c) Creating a positive vibe: Let’s say you’re in a bar with one friend, you’re both laughing and joking, feeling great and just chilling… however to your right, there are two other guys just standing there, not saying a word to each other and looking all uncomfortable. Who do you think looks more attractive to a woman? Of course it’s you, because you’re creating an enticing energy that women want to be involved in.
First impressions are everything, not just with women but with everything in life so you need to treat it with top priority.
(a) Have fun with your friends: When you’re in the moment and having fun with your friends, nothing else matters. You’re not seeking approval from anyone, you’re just having fun. This is very attractive to women, so do this more.
(b) Smile and banter casually: Most guys will stand at a bar and use fake smiles or talk about crap, just so they can look like they’re talking about something interesting. Never do this, you should always be genuine and banter about real things, smile and focus on your friends primarily. This is your reality and you’re inviting others to be a part of it if they wish, you’re not pandering to anyone else.
(c) Creating a positive vibe: Let’s say you’re in a bar with one friend, you’re both laughing and joking, feeling great and just chilling… however to your right, there are two other guys just standing there, not saying a word to each other and looking all uncomfortable. Who do you think looks more attractive to a woman? Of course it’s you, because you’re creating an enticing energy that women want to be involved in.
Step 2# Attractive Body Language #
There is some terrible advice out there on body language, so avoid any of the over hyped stuff and just focus on the following:
(a) Alpha male stance: Remove your hands from your pockets and leave them by your sides, with your thumb and forefinger together so you don’t feel the need to move your hands. Then widen your feet so they are shoulder width apart, this is a very alpha stance.
(b) Don’t sway side to side: It’s natural to sway when you’re nervous and self-conscious. Fight the urge to do this, because it shows that you’re uncomfortable.
(c) Don’t fidget: Fidgeting is the number one way to scream to women that you’re not confident with yourself. You look like a lost child who needs his mummy.
(d) Don’t make jerky movements: Making any swift jerky movement just projects a nervous energy which is not attractive, so stop it!
There is some terrible advice out there on body language, so avoid any of the over hyped stuff and just focus on the following:
(a) Alpha male stance: Remove your hands from your pockets and leave them by your sides, with your thumb and forefinger together so you don’t feel the need to move your hands. Then widen your feet so they are shoulder width apart, this is a very alpha stance.
(b) Don’t sway side to side: It’s natural to sway when you’re nervous and self-conscious. Fight the urge to do this, because it shows that you’re uncomfortable.
(c) Don’t fidget: Fidgeting is the number one way to scream to women that you’re not confident with yourself. You look like a lost child who needs his mummy.
(d) Don’t make jerky movements: Making any swift jerky movement just projects a nervous energy which is not attractive, so stop it!
Step 3# Eye Contact #
Your eyes allow you to communicate everything you need to without saying a word, so use them to your advantage.
(a) Don’t break downwards: If you look at a girl and then look downwards, you are subconciously saying that you’re a bitch. So never look downwards, if you’re not interested in her always look to the side.
(b) Hold eye contact until she breaks it: When you see an attractive girl and you both lock eyes, hold it until she looks away first. This shows that you’re a dominant character and the alpha male.
(c)Stop looking around nervously: If you have shifty eyes it just says to others that you’re a shifty kind of person, so try your hardest to focus on your friend and slow down your eye movements in general.
Your eyes allow you to communicate everything you need to without saying a word, so use them to your advantage.
(a) Don’t break downwards: If you look at a girl and then look downwards, you are subconciously saying that you’re a bitch. So never look downwards, if you’re not interested in her always look to the side.
(b) Hold eye contact until she breaks it: When you see an attractive girl and you both lock eyes, hold it until she looks away first. This shows that you’re a dominant character and the alpha male.
(c)Stop looking around nervously: If you have shifty eyes it just says to others that you’re a shifty kind of person, so try your hardest to focus on your friend and slow down your eye movements in general.
Step 4# Reading Subtle Signals #
Women give off ridiculously subtle signals when they are interested in a guy and they wonder why we never go over to them. It actually becomes a bit of an art after a while, so you need to make sure you ask yourself these three questions the next time you have your eye on a girl.
(a) Is she close to you? The longer she stands close to you, the more interested she is in you. Say for example you’re in a bar and she’s been standing very close to you for well over 30 minutes, it means she’s attracted to you, so make a move.
(b) What does she do when you look at her? The moment you look at her and she looks at you, notice if she looks away instantly or gives you small smile, adjusts her hair, nudges her friend etc. These are all ways of her saying “I think you’re hot”.
(c)How did she react? If you get some positive reactions from her, then make a move; or if you get some obvious negative reactions from her, then move on.
So that’s pretty much exactly how to attract women without saying anything to them. Non-verbal game does take a few hours to master, so you must practice every time you’re out and stop yourself when you do something wrong.
Women give off ridiculously subtle signals when they are interested in a guy and they wonder why we never go over to them. It actually becomes a bit of an art after a while, so you need to make sure you ask yourself these three questions the next time you have your eye on a girl.
(a) Is she close to you? The longer she stands close to you, the more interested she is in you. Say for example you’re in a bar and she’s been standing very close to you for well over 30 minutes, it means she’s attracted to you, so make a move.
(b) What does she do when you look at her? The moment you look at her and she looks at you, notice if she looks away instantly or gives you small smile, adjusts her hair, nudges her friend etc. These are all ways of her saying “I think you’re hot”.
(c)How did she react? If you get some positive reactions from her, then make a move; or if you get some obvious negative reactions from her, then move on.
So that’s pretty much exactly how to attract women without saying anything to them. Non-verbal game does take a few hours to master, so you must practice every time you’re out and stop yourself when you do something wrong.
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