How To Seduce A Woman With Touch?

It’s always true. At the time of seducing a woman, you should say the right thing at the right time. However, so many men focus on what to say or what not to say that they often forget to focus on what they should do.

Sometimes, seducing a woman isn’t about your words; it’s about your actions and how they make her feel.

How to Seduce a Woman with Touch?

Here are some basic steps which one can follow to seduce a woman.

@1# The Casual Touch

So you are talking and you guys are having fun. In fact, you are having so much fun that both of you are laughing. So the next time you throw your head back and laugh, try and very lightly touch her shoulder with one hand while wiping your tear away with the other. Immediately look away so that she thinks this first touch from your side to be subconscious or genuine instead of being fake or forced.

@2# Sit Smartly

When I say smartly, I mean in a manner that lets you touch her. So what is the easiest way to do that? Well, you sit right next to her. Never make the mistake of sitting opposite to her, because in this way you might get a good look at her face but seducing her with touches will become that much harder. This is one of the most important pointers to keep in mind when working on how to seduce a woman with touch.

@3# Play With Her Stuff

If you have never noticed a woman’s jewelry before, then now is the time. Earrings, bracelets or rings; they provide a perfect opportunity for you. Lightly touch them and compliment on her choice. Tell her how they suit her attire and how gorgeous she is looking. She spared no effort to look good for the date, so you better make her feel good.

@4# Go For Emotional Hand Holding

Be a gentleman and ask her to tell you more about herself. And then be a sly little fox and encourage her to talk about topics she is passionate or emotional about. She is sure to get emotional while discussing those topics, which it could be her pet dog who died or starving kids in Africa, doesn’t matter. And when she gets emotional, be there to comfort her.

No, don’t hug her. That’s too soon unless she starts crying. Hold her hand and tell her it’s going to be okay. She’s going to remember that one. If she is hesitant to share personal stories, then go ahead and share a story close to your heart. That will make her trust you enough to share one of her stories with you.

@5# Go For Phone Number Touch

This one is a genius hack for how to seduce a woman with touch. So now your date is about to finish and you are confident she wants to meet up for a second date. Instead of asking her to give you her number so that you can note it down, give her your phone and ask her to save her number there herself. When you hand over the phone, touch her hands ever so little, and do the same when she returns it to you.

@6# Walk Hand In Hand

So now the date has ended and it’s time to walk her home. Remember to always opt for walking her home, until and unless she lives really far away. This way you not only get to talk to her and know more about her, but you can hold her hands with her permission while doing so.

@7# Hugging Really Matters

Now that you have reached her apartment, tell her, “We should do this again” and then lean forward to hug her. And the “hello again” hug. Do hug her when you meet her again for the second date.

@8# Never Forget The Kiss

And now that she has responded positively to all your physical moves, it’s obvious she is comfortable being in close proximity to you. So go ahead, and kiss her. No tongue, please. Be a gentle man. And don’t linger on her lips for too long. You don’t want to come off as a desperate person. This is a very obvious thing that most men often forget, and thus need to be told when working on how to seduce a woman with touch.

@9# Use Your Arm

This step should be applied in the second or third date. So when you are on your next date with her and are sitting beside, casually slid your arm around her shoulder, resting it on the head of the sofa you guys are sitting on, and let it stay there. She is sure to notice it and in all probability she is going to let it stay there, because if you people are on your second date, then she obviously is attracted to you.

@10# Gently Touch Her Leg

Well, come on. You guys have kissed, you have hugged, and you have hugged again. She’s obviously into you so why not make a move? But first, create an emotional connection with her and win her trust. Bear in mind that the more she opens up to you, the more she will trust you. The more her brain tells her to trust you, the easier it will be to seduce her with your touches.

So go ahead, and ever so gently rub your hand on her thigh. But be a little careful; some women assess this move to be too intimate and it may backfire. So if you are not confident of her reaction, then keep this aside for the third date.

How To Influence With Touch?

Several research studies have found that touching is influential and persuasive. In other words, when you touch other people, they are more likely to agree to your request.

Touch is certainly persuasive and influential. People who are touched end up being more agreeable, in better moods, and see requests in a more pleasant light. Touching others makes them want to help, agree, or do as you ask.

How to Influence with Touch?

By proper touching, you can influence and persuade your lover. If you want your date or mate to do something for you, touch them before you ask. Here are some examples:

(a) Touch the hand or upper arm of a potential date as you tell them about a great place you would like them to go with you for dinner.

(b) Touch a lover’s shoulder or back as you ask them to buy you a drink, dinner, or a present.

(c) Give your mate a quick snuggle and a kiss before you ask them to take the trash out or tackle those dirty dishes.

(d) Rub a partner's back before making a gesture to get more intimate.

In any case, find an excuse to touch and increase your chances of hearing a ‘yes’. Touch while you suggest that second date. Touch when you offer them a drink back at your place. Touch when you want them to make dinner tonight. Touch them at proper time and place and get what you want.

Conclusion:

Touching is influential and persuasive. If you don't touch a date, lover, or mate, then they might not be as attentive or agreeable as you would like. So, make sure to rub your lover the right way. Find excuses, opportunities, and ways to touch as often as possible. Get comfortable with touch and increase your ability to persuade your lover.

How To Touch A Girl?

During the initial part of the relationship while you are still flirting with the girl, it’s important to start touching. Not only does it help you feel good, but if done right it can arouse a lot of attraction in her to the extent of charging her with intimacy desire. But it’s also important to understand that going overboard with touching during this phase of the relationship can be detrimental. Remember the thumb rule ‘less is more’. Be subtle and be patient; there are rich dividends to be reaped later.

Now is the time for the ‘passing touch’. Girls are intensely aware of the skin to skin feel and they love to be touched. Guys on the other hand love touching. It’s usual for guys to feel attracted to the soft areas on the girl’s body. Whenever a guy sees a pretty girl it’s common for him to imagine her without clothes; most of the time he would think about how it would feel to touch her. This initiates a craving inside for him to have sex with that girl. This entire act of imagination is so unconscious that many guys, who are not very comfortable with their sexuality, actually feel embarrassed about thinking that way.

You need to remember that your mind is wired for sex; it is a very biological thing and hence is unconsciously triggered. It’s natural and of course it’s fun. But you also need to realize that this need or craving can interfere and lead to disastrous consequences if you lose self control; you risk coming across as a needy weirdo.

Girls love sex as much as guys do, even more, but the approach has to be right, else it spoils everything. 

The Passing Touch:

During the initial part of the flirting process, even as soon as the second time of your meeting, you can start with the process of touching very subtlety. The passing touch refers to touching her almost imperceptibly, a touch which lasts only for a second. She will feel it, either consciously or unconsciously, so don’t worry it will have its effect.

The best areas to touch initially would be her hands and shoulders. Girls take a lot of care to ensure that their hands look good. There is a lot of pain endured in waxing their hands and arms to keep them looking sexy.

As mentioned earlier, initially you should touch her without conscious intention; you need to act as if you did not touch her consciously. For example, when you are standing and talking with her, just touch her upper arm slightly as if you are trying to look beyond her on the floor. When she looks back just say something like ‘I think I saw a rat pass by or something’, that will have her squealing and coming close to you. I am sure you can come up with a lot of similar excuses to touch her. Just ensure that the touch does not last for more than a second. Touching her skin is more effective than touching her clothes of course. 

Tricks For Touching For The Newbie:

If you are new to the game it’s natural to feel very conscious while touching the girl. She might even sense that and feel a weirdo alarm going up in her head. It’s important to do this in a subtle manner. Unconscious touching is always okay, remember that. So get started with pulling off ‘unconscious touching’ while being very conscious.

Don’t be intimated at the prospect of touching her, no matter how much in awe you are of her. That’s a mistake to start with though; don’t be in awe of her, just think of her as another girl. Know that there are plenty to choose from if this does not work out. Keep it cool and keep it relaxed. Be subtle and everything will look natural.

Here are a few touching tips, all these touches should be a passing touch.

@1# Touch her shoulder from behind whenever you approach her.

@2# Touch her clothing while remarking on how nice the fabric feels, say something like ‘nice dress’ and touch it. The upper arm would be the best place for this act.

@3# Ask her for a high five in a casual manner. This works wonders, because now she will have to touch you consciously. It should be a bland ‘give me five’, no flowery expressions allowed on your part else you might end up in the ‘friends zone’ with her.

@4# If you have big hands you can try this ruse. Tell her how small her hands look, ask her to place it on your hand to compare the sizes. Say something like ‘you got small hands, just see how small they are, keep them on mine’. Any girl would follow up on it. Once she places her hand on yours, just laugh and leave it at that. Don’t prolong the touch for more than two seconds. If done right this is highly sexual.

@5# While crossing the road or in a crowded mall, you can extend your arm for her to hold. It should have a very unconscious gesture on your side. It should show that as a guy you are worried about her safety. If she holds your arm or hand, well you have it made. If she doesn’t there is no sweat because you can always pretend that it was unconscious on your part and go about it casually. Don’t ever look sheepish if your attempt fails, always keep a straight face as if you are not aware of what happened. You get the lay of it right?

@6# You can even dare to touch her waist, the area slightly above her butt, on the pretext of guiding her through a crowded mall or a pub. It works as long as you do it very subtly. She can feel it of course, don’t apply any pressure, just a feather touch.

@7# The whisper technique is much abused, but it looks better on girls than on guys. So if you wish you can try it but be cautious, it might get you in an awkward position if done wrong. The best tip while doing this is to avoid getting too close to her ear, just lean towards her shoulder and whisper something pretty bland like ‘this class sucks’.

@8# The reading her palm technique is very common and known to most girls. Almost every guy on the block has tried it. So if you want to stand apart don’t try it. Of course it’s your wish, if you are genuinely good at reading palms you can give it a try. Don’t blame me if she gives you a wry ‘I know this trick’ look.

Given a situation, just use your ingenuity to come up with excuses to touch her. While touching, remember that ‘less is more’. Each touch has the capacity to raise attraction in her, mostly physical attraction. You can even sense the sexual tension in her eyes at times, when you get it just right. Just make sure the touching feels as if it was unconscious on your part, this will have her more attracted. 

She will Get Close:

If you are playing your cards right, she will feel sexually attracted to you. All girls have the tendency to lean towards guys they find attractive. On some pretext or the other she will try to come close to you, may be with an excuse of showing you something or telling you something secretive. She might even whisper in your ears especially with that soft sensual voice. When she does all this make sure you keep a straight face and look disinterested for the most part. Any excitement on your part can be a turn off.

Remember the golden rule ‘Girls love guys who seem to care for nothing’. Be relaxed and don’t get carried away, one mistake can reduce attraction and you don’t want that to happen. Each bit of attraction built leads to a high sexual charge inside her to the point where she is craving for your physical closeness.

If you see her touching you a lot for one reason or the other then you know that she is feeling the heat. 

Taking It To The Next Level:

Remember that less is more initially. Don’t keep touching her every now and then. This reduces the intensity of each touch. Keep it less and far in between. Once she feels attracted she will start doing her bit of the touching. So relax. Let her touch you, but don’t follow it up by touching her. Keep it real and don’t ever get excited while touching.

If you work it right it won’t be long before you will get signs of her closeness. She will let you know that you have the permission to touch on the other areas of her body. Just sense the subtle signals, sometimes they won’t even be subtle, she will try to lean across to you, she will find every reason to whisper something, she will find a reason to touch your hand, pat your shoulder, give you a childish tap on your cheek, get close to you while sitting or standing. When she starts doing all this you are ready to start the second level, touching the more intimate areas.

@1# Touch her hair and feel its texture. Tell her that it feels like silk or something. Less is more; don’t go overboard with flowery compliments. Something like ‘your hair feels soft to touch’ or ‘your hair is silky’ is cool enough.

@2# Touch her cheek on the pretext of removing a speck of something. The girl wouldn’t care if there was a speck in the first place, as long as you do it right. Do it almost unconsciously without being too involved. She will feel great.

@3# Touch her waist more, on the pretext of guiding her through busy roads or malls. She wouldn’t mind you touching her waist, now.

@4# Hold hands while walking through crowded places. If done right she will like you for being protective, girls love it.

@5# Let your hand rest on her thighs when she is wearing something over it of course, while watching a movie or on the pretext of being tired.

Touching is the intimate exchange between a guy and a girl. It has a great capacity to generate sexual desires in the girl. Getting her charged up sexually will increase her attraction for you a hundred fold. If you are doing it right, the girl will continue wanting more. Remember the thumb rule, in your case ‘less is more’. So don’t get too generous with the touching. When you touch following these rules, it will be highly intense.

21 Ways To Touch Her

For initiating and maintaining physical connection, one needs to start with the small gestures and then he needs to escalate progressively to intimate touching. The more personal you become with her, the more attraction, trust and chemistry she will develop.

Here are 21 ways which can be helpful to touch her and initiate the fire within:

Low Level Touching:

1. When introducing, shake hands and hold hers for an extra second.

2. Give her a high-five in excitement.

3. Gently touch her elbow to emphasize your points.

4. If she’s going outside with you, you can grab her coat and help her put it on.

5. Touch her shoulder when she is opening up and sharing something with you.

6. When saying goodbye, give her a hug.

Medium Level Touching:

1. Stand close to her and let your arms touch.

2. When leading her to the bar or to grab a seat, hold her hand or guide her with your hand on the small of her back.

3. Stand to her side, lean close to her, and whisper into her ear.

4. Rest your thigh against hers when sitting next to her.

5. As she laughs at something you said, say something like “You’re so cute/adorable” while placing your hand on her stomach and playfully push her.

High Level Touching:

1. Play footsie under the table if sitting across from her.

2. Place your hand on her thigh when sitting next to her.

3. Brush a lock of hair off her face and around her ear.

4. While standing close, lean into her and smell from the base or her neck to her ear. You can say something like “Damn, you smell amazing.”

5. When talking, lightly play with her hand or fingers.

6. Run your fingers through her hair while looking in her eyes.

7. Grab her around the waist and pull her hip against yours. You can also pull her directly towards you and have your waists touching.

8. Touch a necklace she’s wearing while brushing your fingers on her neck.

9. While sitting close, run your fingers toward her inner thigh under the table. Continue talking casually. Getting more intimate while keeping your cool will drive her wild.

10. Pause during conversation, look deeply in her eyes, and kiss her.

The biggest difference between a friend and a romantic partner is physical intimacy. So if you ever want more than friendship, you’re going to have to bite the bullet and touch her.

3 Best Ways For Physical Contact

Physical touch or physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction.

You can't successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility - i.e. before you can move in for the kill by kissing and/or sleeping with her, you must first have a regular, healthy amount of touching that works both ways: she flirtatiously puts her hand on your knee, you encircle her waist with your arm and pull her a little closer - whatever form the physical contact takes, it has to be present for you to achieve your final goal of actual seduction.

For this purpose, you need to play a simple little mind game called ‘The Scrambler’ that has the power to make a girl chase you, even if she wasn't attracted to you to begin with.

And right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girl's not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Often men just ‘go for it’ and consequently end up making the girl feel uncomfortable or even slightly violated because of their rushed attempt at physical closeness. Other men decide they don't want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact - doing so usually sends out the wrong message: that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that he's simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl.

Okay, so what's the solution to this awkward problem?

Quite simply, you just need to follow a few basic rules or procedures, all of which conform to the personal boundaries of most girls but at the same time clearly indicate that you're a confident guy who's not afraid of getting to know girls and even showing it through casual, relaxed physical contact.

Here are 3 best ways to handle physical contact:

@1# Most of the men think that touching girls in any way when they first meet is an absolute no-no. But that's simply not true. 

To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.

The outside of a woman's arm is not intimate enough a place for the touch to feel strange or out-of-place but at the same time it's a clear-cut sign that you're a personable, socially adept kind of guy. Don't be afraid to give it a try, you'll notice the benefits immediately.

@2# When you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like, it's important to keep up the physical contact. When you start a conversation with a girl, it becomes very important to initiate and maintain physical contact. 

Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport you've already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction.

You can use something called 'Stealth Tactility' to do this. Quite simply, stealth tactility involves making physical contact with the girl in a disguised way.

For example, if she wants to go to the bar or bathroom but doesn't know the way, you can use stealth tactility by placing your hand on her shoulder, drawing her in a little closer, swiveling both of your bodies round until you face in the right direction, then point past other people or obstacles with your other hand to where she needs to go.

@3# At the time you become ready to finish your conversation with a girl, always try to use a 'contact close' when you finish your conversation with a girl.

For example, after swapping numbers or arranging to meet again, give her a kiss on the cheek or a hug and a kiss.

Most of the men think that the hard work's been done once something's been arranged for a later date but making physical contact before you part with a girl is always a great way of ensuring she remembers you and really cannot wait to see you again.

How To Touch A Woman

“I hate being touched!”,

“Don’t touch me like that!”,

Or, “Can you move your hand?”

This is what women say to men who don’t know how to touch them right. When you’re touching a girl the objective is to do it firmly and make it all seem natural. Your goal is to put her at ease with your touch and make her want you touch her.

It’s all about the certain vibe that you have. When meeting a girl, the longer that you go without touching each other the more awkward that it begins feeling for the both of you.

There are certain rules to follow on how to touch a woman, in a way that are attractive and makes them horny.

How to Touch Women: Tricks You Need to Know

There are a certain set of tips and rules that you must follow and adhere to, if you wish to be successful at touching women in a way that turns them on and is attractive.

The men who fail to adhere to the following list of rules are the men who girls usually end up calling ‘creepy’ and ‘weird’.

(1) You Must Break the Touch Barrier

Shake her hand, and then examine it. It’s so powerful when you walk up to a girl, make strong eye contact, shake her hand, and then hold onto it for five seconds.

You want to give the girl the impression that she just met one sexy man. A lot of guys are simply afraid of touching girls.

(2) You Must Close the Distance

It doesn’t matter if you’re sitting or standing, you want to be close to a girl. You can ‘accidentally’ touch a girl. Your legs can bump into each other while sitting. Your hands might touch if you’re walking together.

The reason why girls react weird to when some guys touch them is because the guy makes the touch ‘awkward’ or ‘creepy’. He either touches too little or when he does touch, he’s looking at his hand while touching her. It just seems completely unnatural.

If a guy touches too much, he is constantly grabbing a girl and trying to do it creepily. He’s trying to touch her in a sexual way without framing the interaction as sexy.

(3) Focus on the High Points

Touch a girl during high points of a conversation.

Touch her with your fingers and palm, don’t use the back of your hand. This will come off as cold and distant.

Girls love feeling the connection between her and the guy she likes. That’s why you need to seal connection and smooth that sexual tension with your touch.

Don’t be afraid even when you’re walking with a girl in the club to grab her hand so you don’t get separated. You can also, touch her back while walking across the street. She’ll see it as a protective touch. You want a girl to feel safe with you.

(4) Put Your Focus on Escalating Physically

You can escalate physically with a girl using romantic touch and sexual touch. These are some off the most powerful tools that you can use to overcome last minute resistance and escape any consideration for the ‘Friend Zone’.

The only drawback is you want to use these when you isolate the girl. Otherwise social pressure will kick in and she’ll excuse herself to not seem ‘too easy’.

Romantic Touch: This includes holding hands, stroking her cheeks, kissing her and playing with her hair. These can be used to prime a girl and get her ready for the next stage.

Sexual Touch: This includes playing with her private parts. Basically anything that you would use for foreplay can go into this category.

The biggest thing about learning how to touch women, is realizing that it isn’t complicated. The difference between a seducer and a flirt is their ability to touch women in a way that is attractive, which turns them on, and gets them feeling horny.

When you become a master at touching women, you instantly become attractive to women, make them feel an immense amount of attraction for you and cause them run after you.