17 Signals: A Girl Is Flirting With You

If you want to know what a woman really wants, you are going to have to invest some time figuring out her language.

Yes, women speak a different language of love when compared to a man’s version and the more you know, the better off you will be. Particularly, when you are looking to figure out whether or not a girl has the interest for you.

Here are clear cut signals that she isn’t interested in you and on the flip side, some super hot signs that this girl really enjoys flirting with you.

Signs She Doesn’t Want Your Attention: 

@1# Not looking at you at all.

@2# Not paying attention to you at all while you are trying to strike up a conversation with her.

@3# Arms crossed rigidly across her chest.

@4# Only one or two word replies.

@5# Touching you too much - means she just wants to be friends.

@6# Leaning away from you.

@7# Not contributing at all to the conversation.

Now let’s take a look at the pointers to figure out if a girl is flirting with you.

How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You?

17 Signs Which Suggest That A Girl Is Flirting With You:

Signal 01: She’s Got Her Smile On 

This move is one of the toughest to figure out because women smile for all different reasons. She might be nervous or shy, just trying to be friendly, or she might really be trying to flirt with you.

A good rule of thumb to follow is if a girl smiles at you from a far and the smile is slow and deliberate, then she wants to connect with you. This means she’s flirting with you and you better take action and flirt back.

Signal 02: Touching The Chin or Twirling The Hair 

When a girl wants to flirt with a man or wants him to notice her, she is going to show him with her body language. So she might bashfully twirl her hair or maybe bat her eyelashes at you.

Touching her lips, chin and face are also proven body language signals that a girl likes you and is trying to flirt.

These are all feminine flirty signs a girl is trying to turn a man on.

Signal 03: Cleaning Herself Up

If a woman heads to the bathroom and comes back with her hair brushed, lip gloss on, and perhaps she’s wearing her shirt a little lower. These are all clear signs that a girl is flirting with you.

What you do with this information is of course up to you.

Signal 04: Damsel In Distress

If a girl is looking for you to help her, she could very well be flirting with you.

For instance, if she happens to ask you to help her lift something heavy or maybe help her figure out something on her phone, she is seriously trying to get your attention.

All of which she is usually totally capable of handing on her own but she’s just looking to grab your attention. This is a straight in your face flirting technique.

Signal 05: Reaches Out And Touches You

If a girl reaches out to touch you when you’re talking, this is a sure fire sign she likes you. This is telling you that she is totally into you but doesn’t want to be too obvious about it just yet.

Beware: If she is constantly touching you and just doesn’t stop, that’s not good news for you. This means she is crazy comfy with you and just wants to be friends. So just be careful to pinpoint the difference between “flirting” and “just friends.”

Signal 06: Simple Body Language

This signal can be a little confusing. If a cute girl is talking with you but alternates between facing you and twisting away from you, then she’s flirting. Girls like to be mysterious too.

This also helps a woman stay relaxed and calm. Pay attention to this one and make sure you interpret it accordingly.

Signal 07: Twitching And Fidgeting

If a girl is fidgeting around you and acting a little twitchy-jumpy, chances are pretty good she’s trying to flirt with you. Remember, not all girls are skilled flirters off the hop.

She might play with her hair-band, twist her watch and maybe fiddle with her necklace. As long as she is making eye contact with you and not looking like she is so uncomfortable she wants to bolt, then she’s telling you with her body that she’s into you.

Signal 08: Getting Closer

When a woman is obviously trying to get close to you, she’s flirting. If on the other hand she is repeatedly trying to move away from you, then she’s not looking to be anything more than friends.

A girl that likes a man is going to invade his private space as much as she safely can. This may even get a little claustrophobic for you but it’s all with good intention. She just wants you to pay attention and notice her that’s all.

Why is she doing this?

Well, most girls believe the guy should be making the first move so this is all she’s going to give you so that you will make your move.

Better act fast if you like her.

Signal 09: Attentive Laughter

If a girl is laughing at all your jokes, even the lame ones, then she’s trying to tell you she likes you. This one is a little hard to understand but when a girl likes a guy, she is fascinated with him.

Don’t worry, it doesn’t last long. So you better take action fast if you like the idea of this girl flirting with you.

Signal 10: Puts You On The Spot

When a girl flirts with a guy, she might signal this by asking you lots of questions about you. Don’t think of these questions as interrogation, just that she is genuinely interested in you.

And don’t forget to give her good answers because unlike most boys, she is paying attention.

Signal 11: Makes Complements

If a girl is giving you compliments and taking stabs at you, she is probably flirting. Pay attention to this one or you just might miss out.

Signal 12: Future Talk 

This one sends many boys running but when a girl starts talking about the future, what’s down the road, then she is flirting with you.

She might talk about a band that is coming to town next month that she wants to see or maybe a party in a few weeks that you might like to come to.

When a girl is flirting with a man, she wants him to know that she would like to see him more than in the now and when you talk about things down the road, you are sealing the deal.

It’s important for you to semi-commit to events down the road if you want the flirting to continue. Otherwise she will just shut the door and move on fast.

Signal 13: Proving Herself

When a girl tries to validate herself to you with things she has accomplished, she is playfully flirting with you. Essentially, she is trying to show you she has value and deserves your attention.

Some girls go overboard and actually start to brag. Keep it in a positive light and understand it’s just her way of flirting with you.

Too bad girls never seem to be straight up when it comes to flirting. They like to send off signals but none of them are concrete.

Signal 14: Higher Voice And Faster Talk 

Experts say one of the easiest routes to figure out if a girl is flirting with you is to listen to how fast she is talking and the tone of her voice.

Girls seem to talk faster to the men they are interested in. So the next time you are with a group of girls, test the theory out.

Often when a girl likes a guy, her pitch will start to rise. This is all happening subconsciously so don’t hold it against her please.

Signal 15: Body Language

Understanding body language is very important when you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl likes you.

(a) Mimicking: If she is unconsciously following your movements, she is flirting. So when you cross your arms, scratch your head or yawn, pay attention to see if she follows suit.

Psychologists say people who like each other will try and mimic their behaviors. This one is derived from evolution and the need to find your place or fit in.

(b) Shoulders Pointed Toward You: When a girl is flirting with a man, she will keep her shoulders pointed in or toward him. This shows that she is trying to get your attention and she is paying attention to what you are saying and doing.

(c) Toes Pointed Toward You: If a girl is interested in a man, her feet will be pointed toward him. This is another unconscious move that people do when they like someone.

Signal 16: Showing Hands

When you are talking with this girl, pay close attention to what her hands are doing. Her hands will tell you a lot about what she is thinking and feeling.

If she is flirting with you, she will use her hands to tell you this by ‘talking’ with her hands. She might gesture with her hands when she is explaining things to you and use her hands to reach out and touch you.

Beware: If she is sitting on her hands, hiding them or sticking them in her pockets, she might be telling you she doesn’t want your attention.

Signal 17: Smooth Verbal Communication

Yes, it’s important that you pay attention to her body language, but you also need to listen to what she is saying.

If your conversation is easy, quick and smooth, seemingly effortless, then she’s into you.

On the flip side, If you happen to be the only one talking and she’s pretty much keeping to herself, with her mouth shut, then she might not be interested in you at all.

Beware: There are women that are just natural flirts with everyone and likely have no romantic interest in you whatsoever.

She is likely skilled in most everything we’ve talked about thus far, but just likes the thrill of the flirt.

Don’t get mixed up with this one or you will get shot down.

So how do you tell if she’s just a natural flirt?

Pay attention to how she is acting around everyone else. Is she giving all the signs and signals to every other man in the room?

When you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl is flirting with you or genuinely not interested, it becomes sort of a puzzle.

You need to pay attention to the signals, the body language, words, and overall vibe.

And make sure you don’t get stuck on a natural flirter that just enjoys flirting for the sake of flirting and nothing more.

30 Body Language Signs Which Show Cheating

There are some obvious signs of cheating and infidelity. These signs of infidelity can be sensed through knowing the top body language signs of lying.

The following are 30 body language movements which show you signs of lying. No more being oblivious to behavioral signs of infidelity, here is how you can help yourself to learn the truth.

Body Language Signs Which Show Lies And Cheating:

@1# Limited physical movements and face expression. This is due to the fact that lying is stressful and a cheater would try to maintain control of the situation making sure you accept the lie.

@2# Tighter lips.

@3# Forehead tightens; often you can see wrinkles between the eyebrows.

@4# The cheater takes less space literally. Shoulder may be pulled back or elbows are pulled back to the side of body.

@5# Speaking in monotonous tone, leaving out lots of pronouns in sentences.

@6# Trailing off end of sentences, hesitation in the tone of voice.

@7# Talking a little faster than normal and the voice pitch is higher than normal.

@8# Answering questions a little slower than normal, especially if followed by excessive eye movements.

@9# Often a cheater will touch his face especially nose, mouth and chin area subconsciously. Earlobes and behind the ear are also areas to watch out for.

@10# Pale face and hands or extremely red face and hands.

@11# Breathing more heavily. You can even hear it at times.

@12# Avoiding eye contact, squinting or even closing eyes while talking to you.

@13# Increased heart rate. This is not easy to detect.

@14# Palms are not revealed. It’s in a closed position.

@15# Emotional gesture is longer than usual and it suddenly stops or changes.

@16# The expression of the lower part of face does not match the eyes.

@17# Emotional expression does not match words being said.

@18# Avoiding certain subjects by using humor or sarcasm.

@19# Placing objects between you and the cheater or standing far from you.

@20# Standing a little too close to you to imitate closeness.

@21# He may turn his body away when being asked something he is not comfortable to answer.

@22# He gets defensive rather than offensive.

@23# He will also be very happy if you change the subject rather than getting confused why you brought up the previous subject in the first place.

@24# His sentences are complex and seem to be perfect to convince you of his lies.

@25# He uses longer sentences to take time so that he can lie on the spot better.

@26# His answers are not direct.

@27# He is uncomfortable with silence as he is wondering whether or not he’s about to get caught lying.

@28# The cheater will make meaningless comments and statements to distract your attention.

@29# His words and facial expressions don’t seem synchronized.

@30# The cheater will use more words and reasons to explain actions he does that show signs of infidelity.

18 Signs: She Is Flirting With You

Honestly speaking identifying flirting behavior is a difficult endeavor for straight men everywhere. How can you possibly tell the difference between a woman who’s making an effort to flirt and one who’s simply being nice?

The following indicators will give you some promising signs to look out for in a potential female admirer. 

@1# She Angles Her Body Towards You.

Body language is the key when it comes to discerning if a woman is into you. Crossed arms indicate that she is guarded, while tilting forward with her legs angled towards yours communicates that she’s fine with the idea of getting close. 

@2# She Covers Her Mouth When She Laughs.

This means she’s a little bit self-conscious about talking to you, which often indicates that she cares how she looks and sounds, which further indicates that she might be romantically interested in you. 

@3# She Maintains Eye Contact.

If she can focus on your eyes throughout your initial meeting, she’s either a great trained listener or you’ve piqued her attention. 

@4# She Lets You Buy Her A Drink.

However, don’t be fooled with this gesture. It may shock you to hear, but many women will chat up a guy just in time for their drink to appear as if by magic at the bar before they quickly turn and walk the other way. 

@5# She Buys You A Drink.

This is a much more surefire indicator that she’s prepared to flirt with you for the long haul. 

@6# She Isn’t Obviously Searching Around For An Escape.

If her eyes wander back behind her head, it means she’s looking for the nearest exit. 

@7# She Brings Up A Potential Date Idea.

She may not frame it so obviously as such, but if she ponders aloud about how seeing that movie you’ve been discussing would be fun to do with someone sometime, don’t hesitate to take that as a hint. 

@8# She Asks Lots Of Questions.

While some women are just plain inquisitive, lots of inquiries are also play a great way to prolong conversations you don’t want to end. 

@9# You Seem To Run Into Each Other A Lot.

It’s now been three times that you’ve seen this woman around 1 pm at the same lunch spot. You both either have the same favorite place to get sandwiches, or she’s made a mental note that you’ll come in around that time everyday and you should check whether or not you’ve made that note yourself. 

@10# She Laughs At Your Stupid Jokes.

No one else you know laughed at that knock-knock joke about the talking muffin. It’s kind of suspicious that she burst into giggles before you even got to the punch line, isn’t it? 

@11# She Adjusts Her Hair And Clothes While You’re Talking.

Being fidgety or bored can account for a certain amount of these behaviors, but constant hair smoothing may mean she’s hoping the strands are all in place so she impresses you with her good looks. 

@12# She Touches You.

Reaching out to lightly shove your arm isn’t how just anybody would react to your sarcastic remark. You and your co-workers aren’t going around being touchy-feely with each other, are you? 

@13# She Asks You For A Favor.

This gives her an excuse to hang out with you again or for a longer period of time. 

@14# She Is Ignoring You, But You Catch Her Staring.

Lots of ladies are shy, so always consider that the woman giving you lots of furtive glances from the corner might be doing her best to flirt with you. 

@15# She Blushes.

She wouldn’t be embarrassed if she had nothing to lose by looking kind of silly around you. 

@16# She Acts Noticeably Different Around You.

If you have the opportunity, pay attention to how she behaves when she’s with other guys. If her behavior really alters, it could be that she’s in flirt mode when you’re by her side. 

@17# She Is Straightforward.

Instead of making vague comments about how she’d like to see you in the future or providing cloudy answers to your personal questions, a woman who’s actually flirting with you will be more honest and concrete. If she’s flirting because she wants to see you again, she’ll make an effort to actually put that in motion. 

@18# She Is Grinning Even After She Walks Away.

If you happen to be in a position where you can catch of a glimpse of her face after you guys have parted ways, check to see if she’s still smiling. If a grin lingers on her face, you’re in luck.

15 Signs: She Is Flirting With You

Girls are notorious for saying one thing and meaning another. So how do you know if she’s really flirting or just being nice? Read these tips to find out.

Ah, girls. They are such curious, confusing creatures. One moment they’ll melt your heart with kindness, and the next, they’ll leave you slumped on the floor in embarrassment. Just what is it with them? They smile at you and you saw them just bat their eyelashes at you or were they really? Are they flirting or are they just being nice?

How girls flirt and make it clear?

We know, it can be hard to decode a woman’s words, much less her body language. But if you can pay attention to her subtle clues, you might find that she’s actually not all that tedious to read after all.

Here are 15 common signs which show that she’s flirting with you.

@1# Flirty Smile

Smiles can be confusing. A smile can just be a simple form of greeting or acknowledging you, so be careful not to always interpret this as flirting. However, there is that flirty smile - a slow smile that reaches the eyes that gives you a ‘come hither’ look. This kind of smile is an open invitation for you to come over and get to know her.

@2# Hair Flip

A hair flip is a highly instinctual move that dates back to the earliest humans, and even animals themselves have their own version of this classic move. Whether women are touching their hair, twirling it or even flipping it, it’s their way of making you notice them.

#3# Lip Touch

There’s something about the way women touch their bodies that can really attract stares from the opposite sex. One of the most tempting body parts for men can be the lips, so if a woman looks at you and touches her lips or even bites her puckers, it’s a surefire way to know that she means business.

@4# Powder Room

If you’re out with a girl, even just a friend or colleague, the way she presents herself to you, however superficial it may seem, is one indicator that she’s into you and wants you to notice. She’ll excuse herself to the ladies’ room and come back looking fresher than ever, makeup all retouched, smelling great, and maybe even one less button done to show off her best assets.

@5# Damsel in Distress
Another surefire way a woman can show that she wants you to notice her is the good old damsel in distress move. From asking you for directions to needing help carrying something, this is one way she can try to show you that she wants you to let out your inner knight to save her. This is especially true when she asks you for help, even though she’s obviously very capable of doing it herself.

@6# Touchy Feely

When you’re out together with a girl, or even if you’ve just met her in a bar, if she can’t keep her hands off you, then you’ve got her in the cross-hairs. Even a small and light touch on your arm while she listens intently to you is a huge sign. She might even graze her hands up your biceps to gauge just how fit you are. And when she likes what she’s touching, you know what to do.

@7# Fidget Bridget

When a girl likes you, she’ll be much more self-conscious than normal. She’ll be fidgeting and might even exhibit signs of being uneasy when you’re around. Another fidgety behavior is when she looks at you and then looks away immediately when you catch her gaze.

@8# Close Up

A girl who likes you and wants to be noticed will want to be near you. She may be fighting for your attention among other girls, and she’ll try her best to draw closer to you. Even if you’re alone with her, she might lean in closer to you or even whisper in your ear. This is one way of flirting, even if she may not be aware of it herself.

@9# Lively Banter

So you guys strike a conversation. She’s all uppity and cheerful - a great sign that she’s happy you two are talking. A woman who likes you and is flirting with you will keep a conversation going as long as it takes, and will be interested in what you have to say. This is also one of those times when she’ll put her best foot forward with witty retorts and lively banter.

@10# Laugh Out Loud

A woman who likes you and wants you to know it might laugh out loud at your jokes, even the ones that aren’t really that funny. It’s probably that they just enjoy your company and they want to compliment you with attention and laughter. After all, if she weren’t interested, she wouldn’t be wasting her time listening to your jokes and pick-up lines.

@11# Digging You

It’s one thing to be nice and just say ‘hi’ to you nonchalantly. It’s another, however, when she says ‘hi’ and then starts a conversation with some questions about what you do or how you are. If she’s flirting with you, she’ll show interest, or even just feign it. She’s stroking your ego while trying to learn just how compatible you are with each other.

@12# Raves and Compliments

You’ll know she’s flirting when she compliments you with even the simplest things. From your hairstyle to your tailored suits and down to the socks she just had a quick peek of, she’ll be gushing about every detail she can find.

@13# Questions and Answers

If she’s asking you a whole host of questions, she’s most likely trying to flirt with you. And not just that, she’s trying to see just how much you have in common. If she asks you if you play sports, for example, she might be trying to show interest in something you like, but she may also be trying to find out if the two of you would likely enjoy going to baseball games together.

@14# Trying To Impress

Men and women, of course, try to impress the apples of their eyes, whether by grooming, showing off some talents or skills, or just catching their attention. So as for you, you’ll know she’s flirting with you when she’s trying extra hard to look great, show off her assets ‘physically or not’, brag about her accomplishments, and just catch your attention in a good way.

@15# Futuristic

She’s definitely flirting with you when she’s coming up with plans for the future. It may not be an off-the-bat plan for the two of you, but she’ll subtly suggest the possibility of you two going together. For example, after her Q&A, she might mention this band that she knows you like and how there’s going to be a concert. She might even bluntly ask you what you’re up to over the weekend, or dare you to try something new with her, anything, just to initiate something that is actually a date.

Girls don’t generally make the first move, probably because of how we are conditioned to feel that it’s the guy’s job to initiate flirting. However, girls have this subtle way of letting you know they are into you and want you to come over and get things started.

Catching your attention and letting you know they’re interested are women’s ways of actually manipulating you into making that darn move. So when you spot her doing any of the things mentioned above, then it’s your cue to brush up on your moves and go get the girl.

There are many ways to know that a girl is flirting with you rather than just plain being nice. By being keen and perceptive enough, you’ll easily spot the difference. The pointers above are also great indicators of whether they are likely to want to spark some romance with you or just put you in the friend zone.

Top Signs of Female Attraction

Attraction comes in a lot of subtle forms. As a man, it’s your job to recognize these attraction signs so that you enjoy them for their own sake and you can also celebrate and escalate. Men who miss out on attraction signs will miss a lot of opportunities to connect with women they’re interested in.

It sounds silly, but guys usually spend lots of time and energy getting a girl interested and then miss every sign that she’s interested back. He walks away frustrated, because he doesn’t know she’s been hanging on his every word.

The Female Perception of Flirtation:

If you walked up to a woman, started talking to her by raising your pitch, batting your eyelashes and twirling your hair, she might think you were a little strange to say the least. And while there’s absolutely nothing threatening about a woman touching you, but you touching her in a wrong way can get you slapped or worse. That’s because men and women, each have distinct ways they flirt. What works for women doesn’t work for men and vice versa.

Basically, men have evolved to be hyper-perceptive of sexual interest so you don’t miss any opportunities. Women, however, have evolved to be less perceptive of sexual interest because hopping on every caveman they run across means they end up stuck with less than ideal mates and more offspring than they can take care of.

Because women are less perceptive, they tend to have more subtle ways of flirting. Men will hit on a woman, going out of their way to express and cultivate interest at the same time. In contrast, women don’t want to make it super obvious that they’re flirting. This means you have to pay more attention to catch those signs at first. But once you learn how to recognize them, you’ll start having a lot more fun when you go out.

Here are some of the most common and top signs of female attraction:

@1# Preening

Preening is basically any of the ‘fixing herself’ stuff that women do when they’re around a guy they’re interested in. Part of it is nerves. Part of it is that she actually wants to look better for you. Part of it is that there’s just something kind of hot about a woman putting herself together and women subconsciously know this.

According to a psychological study, preening, primping and pouting are all things women do when they’re attracted to men. In fact, the study found that these behaviors aren’t just something women do when they’re vaguely physically interested. Preening behaviors are what women do when they’re zeroing in on their man. She’s no longer checking you out. She’s screaming to you, in her own way, that she’s attractive.

@2# Laughing At Your Jokes

While it’s true that women like a man who can make them laugh, it’s worth noting that she might not be laughing because you’re the funniest guy at the bar. She might be laughing just because she likes you. They just think guys they like are funny. It’s a subtle difference but an important one.

For your purpose, it doesn’t much matter. She either really thinks you’re funny, which is good, or she wants you to think she thinks you’re funny, which might even be better. Pay attention to laughter from women. It’s a dead giveaway that she’s enjoying your company, whether she actually thinks you’re funny or not.

@3# Eye Contact 

Eye contact isn’t necessarily a sign that a woman is attracted to you. After all, good eye contact is just good social behavior. Behavioral study shows that prolonged eye contact from a woman - anything beyond what’s normal and conversational - is a sign of attraction.

Think about it. When you’re out at a bar, if a girl is trying to get away from you, one of the easiest ways to do that is to start flitting her eyes around the room, looking for absolutely anything else she can be doing but talking to you. On the other hand, the eyes aren’t just windows of the soul. They’re kind of tractor beams of the soul. When she gazes back at you, she’s trying to pull you in further and prolong the interaction. Don’t ignore the simple act of eye contact as a sign of attraction.

Keep your eyes on her. Not only will it help you to build attraction, it will also help you to recognize the attraction she’s throwing at you. Particularly with shy or reserved girls, this might be the only attraction sign you’re going to get. So be on the attentive mode.

@4# Personal Questions

Personal questions are a common sign of attraction many men miss. I’m talking about questions that go beyond the simple ‘getting to know you’ types of formalities people feel like they have to go through when meeting someone new. Look for questions that you only really ask someone for when you’re trying to get a sense of who they really are. Alternately, she might be asking you questions of a more emotional bent to establish more of a bond and rapport with you.

Asking questions specifically tailored to who you are, the conversation the two of you are having that help her to get at who you really are deep down, that’s a sign of attraction.

When she’s asking you a lot of questions, she’s probably not just looking for information. She’s trying to keep you talking to her.

@5# Touch

I’m always amazed at how many guys overlook touch when it comes to attraction. Women don’t touch guys they’re not interested in. That includes a lot of accidental touching. For a variety of complex evolutionary reasons, men tend to initiate while women tend to put on the brakes. What this means is that while you might initiate an overt touch, she probably won’t. What she’ll do instead is accidentally touch you.

Don’t read every accidental touch as a sign of attraction. What you’re looking for isn’t one isolated example. What you’re looking for is a repeated pattern. If she keeps banging her elbow against yours in a totally empty room, she’s attracted to you. If she brushes her arm up against yours once in a room full of people, she might very well be into you, but she’s not signaling anything other than being in a crowded room.

When she’s touching you, think about why she’s doing it. If there’s no real reason other than attraction, escalate that touch. Start with something small like touching her hands, arms or upper back and see where it goes from there.

@6# Context Is The King

When evaluating signs of female attraction, you need to pay attention not just to what she’s doing, but also the context in which she does it. Her signs of attraction aren’t a statement or even a paragraph. They’re a whole story and you have to look at everything before making your final determination.

Eye contact by itself might not mean much, but eye contact and a torrent of personal questions probably do. Fixing herself might just mean she’s self-conscious, but preening while laughing at everything that you say is a dead giveaway. Standing close to you might mean the room is crowded, but standing on top of you while gazing up is another sure sign of attraction.

Next time you go out, try and pay more attention for signs of female attraction. Knowing how to see signs of female attraction can do a lot to boost your confidence when it comes to talking to woman. Once you know the signs, you won’t ever have to guess again.

12 Body Language Signs That Show She Is Into You

Your words may fake it, but your heart can’t. When you are attracted to someone, your eyes always give away the truth. It’s not very hard to tell when someone likes you. But if you are still confused, here are 12 body language signs that show she likes you.

@1# She is always fidgeting while talking to you; fiddling with her phone or jewellery or her drink. It’s a sign that your presence makes her nervous, in a good way, of course.

@2# She stands with her arms on the side. This body posture shows her willingness to be approached. However, if she stands with her arms crossed, she might not be interested at all.

@3# She maintains a prolonged eye contact. No, not ‘looking into your eyes’, we are talking about that steely gaze stares deep into your eyes and holds on for a little longer than 3 seconds, making your heart race even faster. And if she smiles while she makes eye contact, you have hit the jackpot.

@4# Watch out for her gaze. If she occasionally shifts her eyes to your lips when you are talking, she is definitely attracted to you.

@5# You see her playing with her hair a lot when you are around, whether it is running her fingers through her hair or tucking them behind her ear or just twirling a strand around her finger.

@6# She involuntarily draws attention to her lips, either by laughing a lot or licking them lightly, almost in an involuntary move when you are looking at her.

@7# She turns her head to one side, exposing her neck. It’s a sign of vulnerability. She may be doing this without knowing but it’s a clear sign of attraction.

@8# She smiles a lot. She smiles every time she looks at you. And it’s not the usual smile. You can see her eyes light up every time. That glint is the biggest giveaway.

@9# She tries to draw your attention to her face by touching her lips or collarbone.

@10# There are a lot of accidental brushes when she is around. She tends to graze her hand against your arm slightly or touches your wrist. It’s different from a causal touch. That subtle, electrifying touch reveals all that is going on in her mind.

@11# Her legs always point towards you whether she’s sitting or standing. Science says if we are attracted to someone, we always point our feet in their direction.

@12# Women tend to stand really close to guys they are attracted to. So, if the physical proximity seems to be diminishing, it might be time to make a move on her.

12 Signs: A Girl Is Interested In You

There are certain signs which speak volumes about a girl’s interest in a boy. If you too are among those wondering about how to know if a girl is interested in you, you must look forward for these obvious signs and signals in her.

Noticing and knowing about these signs, you may become sure if a girl is interested in you. Here are the top 12 signs which reveal her interest in you.

12 Signs That A Girl Is Interested In You:

#1@ If a girl is interested in you, she will ask about you in your absence and even when you are around, she will continue asking about you at your back. She will try to gather a lot of information about you before actually coming to you. Girls too want to leave a great first impression and hence research about you before actually talking to you.

#2@ She will make enquiry about your status, if you are single or not, when was the last time you went out with a girl, etc. She will try to gather this information as subtly as possible. This is almost as assuring as asking you out.

#3@ She will try to grab your attention by doing different conventional and unconventional activities, like challenging you and at times even teasing you. When a woman starts getting playful, it means that she has certain amount of interest in you and then it is over to you to build up the rest. Giving nicknames is also a part of this game.

#4@ She incessantly laughs at your jokes. Though you know that you are a funny man but at times you find her laughing even at some of your serious comments.

#5@ She initiates a physical contact and if you make a physical contact, she seldom resists or maintains the physical contact initiated by you. Like every time she laughs, she prefers touching your hand and when last time your foot touched under the table, she didn’t try to move it away and left it at its place.

#6@ She compliments you though she knows that it will make her look desperate, still she does that whenever she finds an opportunity. This is her way to clearly hint you about her interest in you. This is probably the most she will do and hence this is a major sign that a girl likes you.

#7@ She becomes quite annoyed with you but she does this in such a playful manner that it seems clear from her demeanor that she has fallen for you. At times, she is upset about petty things and wants you to notice it because you are the one who is able to stir emotions in her.

#8@ She wants you to show her how some things are done or otherwise she wishes you to teach her own things. This is solely done to buy some time alone with you. You will really be able to see that all learning thing is a sham as she won’t even be bit interested in the things you will be teaching her.

#9@ She will try to elicit a few reactions from you and for that she will try to make you jealous, provoke you physically or sexually, etc. So keep a check on stories she tells which will usually get a reaction from a guy, like an affair or something else in such terms.

#10@ Some women at times lower their voice in a sexual husky manner so that they can gain some intimacy by moving closer. Keep an eye on this one as this is one of the prime signals that she has got for you.

#11@ She agrees almost on every opinion you have. This shows that she is trying to come into an agreement with you, almost at any cost. This is one of the psychological signals because we try to follow the person with whom we want to be in agreeable terms.

#12@ Eye contacts and expressions are a couple of things which speak volumes. If at times you catch her staring at you and when you turn to her, she either shy away or makes an awkward eye contact, it means she is falling for you. Her expressions while you make an eye contact with her reveal volumes.

So, follow these signals and if you are able to make out two or three of these signals, it means you have struck gold as you now know that the girl likes you a lot.

4 Body Language Signs: That a Girl Does Not Like You

Closed Gestures: Signs That A Girl Is Not Interested

Certainly, not all the girls you come across get attracted to you. They display these subtle signs by their body language.

When a girl doesn’t like you, it would be a complete wastage of time running after them. So, it’s always a good idea to know if she doesn’t like you and is not interested for you.

Here are some of the most common signs in their body language to look for which make you conclude that she is not interested in you. These subtle signs are closed gestures. You should look if her body language displays these gestures:

#1# She Rolls Her Eyes When You Talk

Whenever a girl that you are gaming rolls her eyes in a non-joking manner, without a smile, it is a sure indicator that she either is embarrassed by your presence, thinks that you aren’t worth her time, or just not in her league. By rolling her eyes she is attempting to display to everyone else in the area that she is not interested in you.

If this happens to you, the best thing to do is simply turn around and walk away. You have little chance of getting with her. Even in the rare case in which you can recover from embarrassing a girl in public, the large amount of effort that it would require is frankly just not worth it when you can just leave an approach to another girl and start off fresh.

#2# She Crosses Her Arms Around You

Crossing her arms is a tell-tale sign that she is agitated, nervous or uncomfortable or just does not like you. When you see a girl display this gesture, it is time to change your strategy, and quick.

However, this is definitely not a deal breaker, because you can easily get her to lower her arms back down with a bit of good game. When she crosses her arms, always make sure that your next move is something that you are certain she responds well to. It should be particularly something you did previously and got a positive reaction from her, so that you are guaranteed to lower her guard. This key to overcoming this closed gesture is to play it safe until her arms are lowered back down to her sides and she appears comfortable once again.

#3# Her Crossed Legs Point Away

Crossing her legs is just as bad as crossing her arms, but can be much worse because once her legs are crossed she will most likely cross her arms as well. However, if her legs are crossed and pointing towards you, knee pointing in your direction, this means that she is simply nervous but has an interest in you, so it is a good thing as long as her arms are not crossed as well.

On the other hand, if her knee points away from you, then you’re in trouble, and if her arms are crossed and her knee is pointing away things are even worse. However, you can easily get her to change her body language to displaying open gestures, as the act of switching which leg in on top when her legs are crossed is natural for girls and she will point her knee towards you the instant that you fix whatever is making her either irritated or uncomfortable.

#4# She Leans Back Away From You

The ‘lean back’ is the most dreaded sign in all female body language. If she is leaning away from you and it is very noticeable, my advice is to forget her and move on to your next prospect. Even worse is the ‘sudden lean back’ which occurs when you lean in towards her. If you lean in, and at that exact moment she quickly leans back away as if to maintain a fair distance between the two of you, this is a sign that she has no interest in you at all, and most likely never will.

Only a very experienced man can warm up to a girl after noticing this type of behavior, so it is best to just move along. However, if you think you’ve got the skills then give it a try, because you quite literally have nothing to lose since she has no interest or attraction for you at all.

There you have it. Now, you know all of the basics when it comes to reading a girl’s body language. You may now use it to your advantage.

12 Body Language Signs: That a Girl Likes You

Open Gestures: Signs That a Girl Likes You
Here are some of the most common body language signs or gestured displayed by girl which shows that she likes you. In order to conclude if a girl likes you try to notice these gestures in her body language:

#1# She Touches or Adjusts Herself

Once you make eye contact with a girl, watch her for a few seconds after she looks away. If she does something that implies that she has become nervous due to you making eye contact, this means that she is interested in or attracted to you. For example, she will play with her hair, adjust her clothing or jewelry, or fiddle with something in her hands. This behavior shows you that making eye contact with you had an emotional effect on her.

#2# She Exposes Her Palms to You

Most girls will expose their wrists and palms of their hands only to people that they are either interested in or already comfortable with. This is a subconscious display of being submissive to you, in which her body is saying “I’m attracted to you, and waiting for you to make a move”. This is a gesture used frequently by girls who are shy, so when dealing with a girl who may be a bit lacking in social skills, always keep an eye out for their wrists and palms.

#3# She Points Her Shoulder at You

Her shoulder orientation is one of the most obvious signs of attraction, simply because this gesture is the most common nonverbal indicator of interest that almost all girls frequently use. Her upper body will most likely be facing you if she is interested with her shoulders facing you, and on the flip side her shoulders will be pointed in a different direction if she is not interested in you. In essence, she will point her shoulders at what she wants. This gesture is also one that can change quite frequently, so as you are gaming a girl always be aware of the changes in her shoulder orientation; if she points them away from you unexpectedly then you just made a mistake, and if she points them at you all of a sudden, you just did something right.

#4# She Leans In Towards You

Leaning forward is also an easy sign to pick up, and is a very strong sign that the girl leaning towards you is attracted to you. If her shoulders point at you and she is also leaning in towards you, then you can put your mind at ease, you are making a lot of the right moves. Beware however, because at any time she could lean back into a normal upright position, and if she does so directly after you’ve done/said something questionable it may be a sign that you just lost a few “points”. If that happens, make a mental note of the mistake to ensure that you do not repeat it in the future.

#5# She Opens or Crosses Her Legs

When sitting and her legs or feet are widened this means she is very comfortable with her surroundings and with you. Be careful when observing this, if there are other men in the area then it may not be you who is making her comfortable! Also, the more sophisticated and classy a girl is, the less likely she is to ever use this gesture. That is something to keep in mind because if you are truly looking for girls of the highest caliber, that means this gesture should always be an instant turn-off for you. The classiest girls will never widen their legs in public under any circumstances.

#6# Her Pupils Dilate Looking at You

Her pupils will dilate (grow larger) while looking at a person that she likes, and in turn will get smaller while looking at a person she does not.

Keep in mind that lighting can greatly affect this. For instance, if you are outside when the sun is present her pupils may appear to be very small no matter how much she likes you, and in a dark night club her pupils may appear to be extremely dilated even if she has no attraction towards you. Bright lights make pupils shrink, while the absence of light will make them grow. This fact makes using pupil dilation tricky business as indicators of interest. The best method to use for testing this effectively is when you can view the change in her pupils when looking at you and then at someone else. If she looks at an obviously unattractive man, then looks back at you and you notice her pupils grow, this is a clear sign that she is feeling you.

#7# She Always Smiles at You

This is a no-brainer. If she smiles at you when you make eye contact, get over there and talk to her. Smiling is not technically classified as body language in the traditional sense because smiles can either come from the conscious or the subconscious mind, while almost all other body language gestures are completely done subconsciously. Basically, that means that smiles can be easily “faked”.

However, in many cases, distinguishing a fake smile from a genuine smile is not a very difficult feat to accomplish. Furthermore, there is not much incentive for a girl to throw a fake smile at a man that she has not interest in anyway.

#8# She Laughs at All of Your Jokes

One of the best signs you can hope for is when a girl will laugh at just about every comical thing that you try to say. You may begin to think that you might actually be pretty funny, but in most cases you will be wrong. She just likes you a lot, and that’s even better!

Of course there are some of you guys out there that genuinely are really funny, but for the average man this is a good indicator to look out for because a vast majority of girls display it when in the presence of men that they desire. The bottom line is this: if she is laughing at your comments much more frequently than most people usually do, chances are that she is just really digging you and wants to show it.

#9# She Flirts With You Using Touch

If she touches you multiple times while she is talking, like tapping you on the forearm when trying to make a point, touching your hair, feeling your muscles, or running her hand across your upper back, then remember to tell her what you like for breakfast so she knows what to cook in the morning. Most girls cringe at the though of touching men they are not in the least attractive to, so if a girl if touching you frequently or in any type of intimate fashion that is plainly obvious it simply means that she has a very high level of interest in you. Be cautious however, because this gesture is frequently used by promiscuous girls that are the type you won’t want to end up in a relationship with. That doesn’t mean that it isn’t used by normal girls as well, just that it should throw up a red flag and keep you on your guard until you can determine what type of girl you are dealing with.

#10# She Makes Prolonged Eye Contact

If a girl is interested in you and finds you to be attractive, she may attempt to make eye contact with you and hold it for a longer period of time than is the norm, almost uncomfortably long by some standards. Before looking away, remember to smile at her. This will let her know that you are interested as well and are a nice guy. Following this, you may also notice her glance at you occasionally. After the second or third look it should become obvious to you that she wants you to talk to her, so it is your duty to get over there and give her what she wants. In situations like this success is almost guaranteed, so the only way you can lose is to choke and not approach her at all.

#11# She Flips Her Hair To Get Attention

If you notice a girl flip her hair and immediately afterward glance your way, she is showing her interest in you and trying to get your attention focused on her by catching your eye. This is a good opportunity for you to make eye contact with her and wait for another indicator of interest. This gesture is fairly rare in contrast to most of the other open gestures, but it still exists so don’t be surprised if you notice it happen to you out of the blue every so often.

#12# She Mimics Things That You Do

Here is a fun trick to use when you want to find out if a girl is checking you out: Look at your watch, count to 3; then look at her. If she looks at her watch also, then she was checking you out. It is a natural human reaction to mimic the actions of someone that you are interested in. By looking at your watch, you will spark her curiosity and she will be wondering what you are waiting for, and with no other source to gather information from she will look at her own watch to try to at least determine the time of your expected event. You can also use your phone for this, but to a lesser effect.

Body Language of A Girl

The art of knowing how to read a girl’s body language is a necessary skill to learn if you want to pick up women and know the signs that a girl likes you.

Knowing what her body language is telling you can have a huge impact on your success. It can all be summed up into one simple question: How can you tell when a girl likes you?

Just read her body language, that’s it!

Here I am trying to interpret and discuss the body language of women. After having a good understanding of the body language of women, you will be able to interpret if she is into you and if yes, how much.

The key points to understand here are:

(1) Basic knowledge of body language.

(2) How to read body language.

(3) Signs that a girl is interested in you.

(4) Signs that a girl is loosing interest.

(5) Body language tricks you can use.

Understanding how a girl’s body language works is the first step. Her body language signs can be a powerful tool to read her non-verbal signals.



##FIRST STEP## Understanding Body Language

Did you know that most of the communication that goes on between two people is non-verbal?

It’s true. Most men don’t even know it, and even more of us don’t notice even the most basic nonverbal signals that girls send out. But regardless of how oblivious you may be, body language still affects your life in a major way on a daily basis.

During a typical conversation, the body language of the individuals talking can tell you everything you need to know about their interaction even if you can’t hear what they are saying.

That makes it very powerful when harnessed by someone who has mastered the art of reading body language.

@1# Subconscious Body Language Signals

People are constantly using their bodies to send signals to each other on a subconscious level. So body language is something that you can always rely on to assist you when it comes to attracting girls.

It is a tool that will always be there at your disposal regardless of any girl that you are gaming.

This is because the vast majority of body language signals are done automatically, like breathing, below the normal level of conscious thought, so all women are basically forced to give off these signals that you can pick up on.

Even if they didn’t intend to send information through their body language, they can’t help it unless they make a conscious effort to resist their natural behavior.

That is extremely rare since it requires the girl to have in-depth knowledge of controlling her own body language.

The trick to using body language for seduction purposes is to gain the ability to purposely pick up on and identify the signals that girls send out subconsciously. So, one should use a girl’s body language signals to gather information that you can use.

The most basic example of this would be to read a girl’s body language to determine whether or not she is into you, and then altering your game accordingly until her body language changes to a more positive nature.

You can also use body language to collect much more valuable and targeted information.

@2# Reading a Girl’s Body Language Signs

Just like traffic signs work to give you information that you use to alter your driving behavior, body language signs can tell you things that you need to know to alter your gaming.

If you notice a girl point her shoulders away from you, that tells you that she has just lost some interest and you must change your strategy or risk getting rejected.

That is the basic process behind body language, you must first recognize the signals and identify what they mean, then use the information that they conveyed to you in a way that works to your benefit.

What you can accomplish through this will shock you.

This is a very simple system, but it takes time to master. However, once you become proficient at reading body language it will become second nature to you and you’ll have no problem using it.

This is a skill that will last a lifetime and can be applied to many other aspects of life as well.

@3# How to Know What a Girl is Thinking

These body language signals show exactly what people are actually feeling at the time, and they are our body’s way of subconsciously saying the things that we are thinking but would never say aloud.

Have you ever wanted to read another person’s mind?

Well, reading body language is the only skill known to man that can actually tell you exactly how others are feeling, and in your case, how a particular girl feels about you.

Not exactly mind reading, but it is a closest thing to it that actually works out in the real world.

Everything else is nothing more than science fiction.

Now that you understand how a girl’s body language works, the next step is to learn how to read these signals so you can ‘translate’ them, which brings us to the fine art of reading body language.



##SECOND STEP## Reading Body Language

Reading a girl’s body language is a vast subject. The level of skill you can achieve is only limited by how much you learn about the subject.

However, it is only necessary for you to have a basic understanding of a girl’s body language in order to be far ahead of your competition.

The average man is completely naive when it comes to body language, which results in most of them missing out on many opportunities with girls simply because they can’t/don’t interpret the nonverbal signals that girls are sending to them.

Once you become proficient at reading body language, you too will see the true extent of how blind you have been for most of your life.

The way you interact with people socially will be forever changed for the better.

@1# Social Interaction and Body Language

Have you ever met someone who just seemed a little bit more “socially attuned” than most people are?

Like they somehow just always knew the right direction to take the conversations and could stay in control of everything when dealing with other people?

Surely you’ve known at least one person like that.

Chances are, that person was either schooled in the art of reading body language or had the innate ability to do so.

When you learn how to read body language, you too will seem to have heightened senses on a social level. Having exceptional skill at reading body language can provide a huge boost to your overall social life!

So far, I have been referring to body language cues as either “signs” or “signals”, which allowed me to use some analogies that helped to get my point across and explain how body language works.

However, from now on I will be referring to a girl’s body language cues as “gestures” as that term is much more fitting with what they actually are.

When you think of them as gestures rather than signs, your mind thinks about them as being movements.

The term gesture refers to something dynamic while the term sign implies something static. You want to keep your mind ready to pick up on the changes in a girl’s body language, so you’ll always be looking for movements.

@2# Body Language Signs and Gestures

Body language consists of two basic types of gestures: open gestures and closed gestures.

Open gestures are displayed when the girl is interested in or attracted to the person presented to her, while closed gestures are displayed when she is not.

Even though a girl may initially display open gestures to a man because she may find him visually appealing, she may change her mind after he speaks to her and her body language will change accordingly to reflect her new state of mind by displaying closed gestures.

This works both ways as well; if a girl displays closed gestures to you at first, you can try gaming her in various ways until you see an open gesture.

As soon as you see one open gesture, from that point on you know exactly what type of game she responds to, and can continue to do it.

This is a prime example of how body language can make all of the difference when dealing with girls. It is the easiest way to determine what works on a particular girl and what does not.

Becoming a master of body language is to gain the ability to recognize all of the most common open and closed gestures and then interpret them so you can use that information to your advantage.

Granted, you must first understand the fact that many things can affect a girl’s body language, not just you.

For example, if a girl is having a bad day, she may display closed gestures while she is actually attracted to you.

In cases like this you may need to warm the girl up a little bit before you can see her true signals.

Also keep in mind that many shy people automatically put up a barrier between you and them by displaying closed gestures, it is simply in their nature and is a defense mechanism.

The ability to break down those barriers by changing a girl’s closed gestures into open gestures is what separates experts from the rest.

@3# Learn Body Language Step by Step

However, every journey begins with a single step, and before you can master the art of body language you will first need to know some of the most basic open and closed gestures so you can identify them when they are displayed by girls.

As I mentioned earlier, body language is a very deep subject, it has been a major social aspect throughout all eras of human history.

It’s only recently that we have gained the knowledge to properly pick up on it on a conscious level and then use it to achieve our own goals.

By now you should have a general understanding of how a girl’s body language works and how to read it. You should also know that you have the ability to affect and change another person’s body language from negative to positive (or vice versa) by simply reading their current gestures and changing your behavior accordingly to get desired results.

It’s time to move onward and learn what these gestures are so you can identify and use them successfully during your encounters with girls.