How To Turn Her ON Without Making Her Realize It?

A point that often gets missed when people sit down to try and categorize attraction is that: “attraction always happens first; the reasons for the attraction get attached later.” We literally feel attracted to those whom we are in synchronization with. We initially experience this being in synchronization as a feeling, not as a thought. We can certainly come up with reasons as to why we may be attracted to someone once we do start thinking about it but that doesn’t detract from the fact that we felt the attraction first.

If you realize that all initial attraction happens below the threshold of consciousness (i.e. it is subliminal) then you are forearmed with knowledge that will allow you to see if a woman is attracted to you before she is even consciously realizing it. She will initially communicate her attraction via non-verbal channels. The master seducer is always tuned into these channels and uses the signals he receives here as his cues to action.

In fact, when it comes to gauging how any particular seduction is going the master seducer will place much more stock in how a woman moves when she is near him and the way in which she speaks to him, than he will in the actual content of her conversation. This is not to say that he is not interested in what she is saying but it that he knows where he should concentrate his attention in terms of ascertaining her current level of interest.

So, that is one side of the equation: pay attention to the non-verbal signals that a female gives in order to work out her current level of interest. The other side of the equation is to give off your own non-verbal signals to indicate your intent to her.

There are 3 methods that will allow you to achieve this aim. Each of which will do the trick without her being conscious about it. Let us discuss each in turn.

@1# Body Language

Some simple starting components of the body language would be following:

(a) Move into her personal space.

You don’t want to be doing this until she has given you some initial sign of interest but once she has done so you be sure to start subliminally warming her up by getting inside her personal space. The safest way to start is by touching one of her personal extensions such as her cell phone or handbag and seeing how she reacts. If there is no adverse reaction on her part then the coast is clear to move physically closer.

(b) Create a dissonant dynamic.

Fancy term but all it means is to physically move in close and then pull away. It’s the not being constantly one thing or the other (i.e near or far) that creates the dissonance and makes you as the seducer harder to categorize and therefore more intriguing .

@2# Tone of Voice

Regardless of the content of your conversation it is your tone of voice that will convey what you are really thinking. Use your tone of voice as a tool to indicate sexual intent. Keep it warm and at times cheeky but above all make sure that it is playful. This all goes to create a vibe that is conducive to sexual congress.

@3# Make Her Feel Good

This is the number one rule of seduction and the ultimate subliminal tool. Help people feel good about themselves and it automatically follows that they will feel good about you. You could be discussing anything but if at the same time you are allowing her to feel more at ease with herself then it follows she will be more favorably disposed towards you.

So there you have it. When you know that attraction is a thing that first happens below the threshold of consciousness, you have within your grasp a very powerful tool because you can consciously apply methods that will affect her in a positive way without her being consciously aware of it. This really puts you in the driver’s seat in any seduction scenario.

5 Types of Men Every Woman Needs

All women claim to have their set of dependable male friends. Be it for a liberal dosage of honest advice, shopping tips or some harmless flirting, these are 5 guys every gal needs:

@1# Mr Charmer: This guy is the ultimate feel good dude. Being his pal ensures you feel happy even on days when everything else in your life is falling apart. The best part about hanging out with a charmer is that he helps you feel more beautiful from within.

@2# Mr Frankness: Most women when brutally honest with each other end up in an alpha-female battle. But guys can often get away with calling a spade a spade and not have us feel offended. Most women dig cerebral men who force them to think because in a way these discussions and heart-to-heart chats highlight how men see women.

@3# Mr Geeky: While women are hugely turned off by bespectacled geeky dudes, geeks are not all risky business. This guy's linear outlook to life is often a breather for women. Geeks may be socially awkward but his technical prowess is a great high, especially if you don't even know how to fix your own laptop. Plus, chances are he's highly qualified and thus he's likely to be a great counterpoint to your social butterfly image.

@4# Mr Platonic Guy: Men can make great friends. If there is no hidden sexual agenda, a man and woman can share a strong and authentic relationship. Guy buddies such as these should be on your speed dial - he will be the one to restore your confidence in the male species after your heart is shattered.

@5# Mr Adventurer: With him, you will never get bored. This guy will push you out of your comfort zone and show you there's always opportunity for wild escapes. But the flip-side to such free spirited guys is that you can never tie this guy down, as he needs lots of space.

3 Common Ways To Seduce Your Woman

What do all great lovers have in common? They are masters of seduction and they know it. Confidence may be key to seduce your lover, but you can also pick up a few tips and tricks along the way to keep her coming back for more.

Here are most common 3 ways to seduce a woman:

@1# Compliment Her.

You want to be intimate with her, right? Then tell her. Let her know that she is the object of your desire and ply her with compliments. Telling her that she looks good won’t suffice. You need to seduce her by describing in detail everything you like about her. Think about all five senses and compliment glow of her skin, the scent of her hair, the taste of her lips, the beauty of her curves and the sweet sound of her breath. Be an animal and let her know just how badly you want to get between her legs.

@2# Be Aggressive.

Sometimes a poke in the backside just won’t cut it for a woman who craves seduction.

The anticipation of being seduced is one of the greatest aphrodisiacs, but all that sexual energy comes to a grinding halt if your lover lacks enthusiasm and confidence. Initiating intimacy and sex should be a shared responsibly. If tonight is your night then embrace it with passion!

Be aggressive by holding her by the hair as you kiss her or pull out a few silk ties to strap her wrists to the bedposts. Give her a chance to be submissive and play up your role as the aggressor.

@3# Touch Slowly.

If being aggressive isn’t your style or you simply want to switch it up for a change, then slowing things down may be the perfect addition or complement to your sexual repertoire.

When we are excited we have a tendency to rush into things. We start grabbing and kneading and sucking and fingering without giving our bodies a chance to ease into the natural sexual response. By slowing things down, you allow the tension to build as the blood rushes to her most sensitive regions and they start yearning for more of what you’ve got to offer.

Delayed gratification is a compelling tool of seduction, so never underestimate the power of teasing her body and slowing down the things.

6 Reasons Why Women Have Extramarital Affairs

Being in a marriage and seeking pleasure or companionship outside is not something a woman does just for fun.

Going astray for a woman is much bigger a deal than a man cheating on his wife. A woman is very invested in her relationships.

Though times are changing and women have done extremely well for themselves on the economic front, she still remains rooted in her belief system and values. So to have flings is one thing, but being in a marriage and seeking pleasure or companionship outside is not something a woman does just for fun. It is a big deal now, that she is seeking solace in another person.

Why another man?

Women as creatures are intuitive. When things don’t work out, she knows it’s coming well in advance. Here are some reasons she could step out.

@1# Technology

How many times do men put down their phones and other gadgets, make eye contact, and talk to you about your day in particular? How many times do they notice a particular effort you took in re-arranging his desk or his study?

@2# Can’t Forget Her Past
Even though she is someone’s wife, she has feelings for her past lover. Although that affair didn’t lead to marriage, she starts leaning backward again, if she gets disillusioned with her marriage. Sometimes women may still be in love with someone else.

@3# Boredom of The Drill

Wake up, clean potties, cook breakfast, get the home cleaned, get to work, shop for groceries, come back, cook dinner, and then crash. How many women get trapped in the usual and get bored to death?

An interesting new fresher walks in with the possibility of friendship and an affair follows. Men need to pull up their socks and get interesting sooner.

@4# Feeling Neglected

Men forget to invest in a wife. It’s usually while she is the girlfriend that it’s all about her. Once the battle is won, she may start feeling neglected and not cared for enough. Good enough reason to go looking?

@5# To Be Seen

It’s easy for men these days to overlook what they have, with so much distraction everywhere, from magazines to the internet, to real-life attractions. A woman craves to be seen by her loved one, and she may go where she feels seen.

@6# Libido Mismatch

Women could want sex too, why is it presumed that men are more interested? Men tend to take it easy in a few years while the woman may still be actively lusty and sexy. When she doesn’t find a match, then her mind and heart may start wandering.

Men, pay attention, now!

5 Reasons Why Married Women Have Affairs

It's not all about lust.

Why do so many married women have affairs? Here are 5 of the most common reasons:

@1# Loneliness: You are at home with your husband and he is watching TV and you are trying desperately to make conversation. On a weekend you want to go on a date and he takes you to the movies. All the while he is on the phone checking his emails and chatting with someone else.

And if half the time he is travelling or comes home late at night, a woman is bound to feel lonely. She feels there’s no connection! She will reach for the closest man in her life – a childhood friend, the funny colleague, her brother’s best friend.

It all starts with the thought, "I’m so lonely. I just want to be appreciated."

Husbands need to engage with their wives, not just fulfill their duty. They need to bring back some romance and not take their wives for granted.

@2# Lust: All women have body issues. No one is completely happy with who they are. So if a woman has gone to a party and a man has paid her a compliment sincerely and had a great conversation with her engaging her mind, you can be sure she will be lusting for him.

He may not be very handsome or ideal for the long term but he is great for a good conversation and a shag maybe. It starts with the thought, "I need someone to be attracted to me."

Husbands need to have a passionate weekend or evening with their wives occasionally where the focus is on her and trying new things in bed to show how much they lust after her.

@3# Care And Nurture: All women need attention and if there is a man who is giving her some attention and cares about her feelings, the affair is bound to happen.

All it takes is for a man to ask her, "Have you eaten? Are you ok?"

Women are born nurturers and do a lot in the day that husbands take for granted. If a man takes control of looking after her, he will have her heart.

Husbands can truly care for their wives by helping with children, taking them out for dinner when she doesn’t feel like cooking, checking if she is okay intermittently through the day.

@4# Intellectual High: There are so many women who have affairs within their office or with men in creative fields. It’s because they are attracted to intelligence, wit and creativity.

Most husbands refuse to share what is happening at their work place, or talk about how they are feeling and choose to let themselves lounge around at home saying they are "tired."

It becomes boring for the woman who ultimately will seek out interesting new men. And if this man finds her interesting too, then she feels she is matched to his creative energy and an affair happens.

No matter how dull the day was, it’s important for a husband to share it with his wife and always listen to her positively about her day as well.

@5# Money And Power: Several men like being in middle management. They are comfortable with going to work, earning enough and coming back on time.

Without any hobbies, interests or ambition, a man can wither away and take his relationship down the drain as well. A woman is attracted to a man with plans, who wants to earn more, who is driven and wants to go further with his life.

She is even more exciting when this man asks her for her opinion and follows through with it. If he is already in a position of power, she feels an adrenaline rush if an important man thinks she is attractive!

Husbands should remember why their wives chose them in the first place and bring back that drive and ambition.

How To Have An Affair?

To be honest, having an affair is very easy. You can always have an affair with ease. If you are a married man and you are looking you will eventually find a woman more than happy to have an affair with you. For some ladies a man that can’t actually commit to a relationship is irresistible or the fact that it’s naughty to sleep with a married man is what gets them going in a wild kind of way. What is challenging is to have an affair that is not going to destroy your relationship.

The internet is here to save you and make it simple to find an affair and have it discreetly so that you preserve your marriage. The first step is to sign up for an email account you know your wife won’t discover. Gmail is the best way to go. Also, make sure you use the incognito feature of the Chrome browser or clear your history after every session and ensure that you don’t stay logged in to that email account. Affairs are discovered when you get sloppy so always be vigilant.

Once you have a hidden email account you need to sign up for the adult dating or affair site of your choice. To create the highest chance of a successful affair you should sign up for multiple sites, but it’s not a necessity. Your profile must be excellent; most guys on these dating sites don’t put in enough effort and see a lower response percentage than they would like as a result. If you make an effort you’ will get the payoff you crave.

Since you are having an affair, you probably don’t want to include a face picture but you will have to upload something or no one will respond to you. You could blur your face or try just a body picture. If that doesn’t work then you will have to take the plunge and assume that your wife isn’t also browsing the site looking to find an affair.

Send messages to the women you are attracted to on the affairs site. Don’t be too pushy about a first meeting or conversation but don’t lollygag either. Exude confidence to those you contact and be assertive in your desires. It’s very important that you purchase a burner cell phone so your wife can’t check your bill for the numbers you have been calling and receiving calls from. Remember, when you get sloppy or assume your wife isn’t going to investigate is when you get in trouble. When you get someone to agree to a conversation you should have it in a private place and never at home. The car driving home is a decent place.

Your first meeting should be somewhere you are certain not to run into anyone you know. If that means out of town then so be it. A dark bar or restaurant is also a decent choice and if you can make it look like a business meeting in case anyone stumbles upon you that is a smart idea. The vast majority of women will respond better if you suggest a meeting somewhere public and safe before you have an affair for real.

Despite the naughtiness and arousing nature of it, you should never become intimate in your house. Even if your wife is gone for the weekend or on a month long vacation you should never bring your new lover home. It’s terribly disrespectful, but more importantly it’s a really good way to get caught.

You might make the bed the wrong way or she might leave the scent of her perfume on something. All it takes is something to be a little off and you are busted, which is the last thing you want.

How To Know If You Are In Love?

Falling in love is a wonderful and crazy feeling that’s worth experiencing at least once in our lives. When you know you are falling in love, the way you look at the world and experience life can change in a moment. But the bigger question is how to know if you are in love?

Falling in love is an experience worth living for. And the first time you fall in love, that’s a memory of a lifetime but how to know if you are in love?

All of us have our own experiences in love, and every moment is as unique as the person who is falling in love.

Many believe in love at first sight while many others think the best kind of love is one where two friends understand each other and fall in love gradually.

Now however you may fall in love, the feelings are all the same. And when you are in love, you will just know about it.

When you fall in love with someone, you start to experience feelings and urges that are quite unexplainable and confusing.

How To Know If You Are In Love?

Falling is love may be a single emotion, but that single emotion can cause so many hormonal, chemical and emotional changes, it’s almost unbelievable.

You are definitely in love if you are experiencing these emotions.

@1# Butterflies In Your Stomach

For anyone who experiences falling in love it first sight, you can’t really help but experience butterflies in your stomach.

It’s a vague sensation of wanting to throw up and trying to get to the loo at the same time.

Your stomach starts to perform intricate back flips and the insides of your stomach feel like they are fluttering.

So why does this happen? Surprisingly, no one really knows why this happens. But it just does.

Some scientists believe this is due to the release of adrenalin by your body because of the nervousness you experience when you fall in love at first sight.

@2# Unexplained Happiness

Do you find yourself kissing pillows, jumping up and down in excitement and joy for no apparent reason and giving your lover funny little pet names? You may just be in love.

According to experts of the field, when you fall in love, the levels of dopamine in the brain increase due to the increased blood flow to the regions where the receptors of dopamine are present. Dopamine, a pleasure chemical, makes you more excited, energetic and full of life.

The dopamine released in the brain make you feel sleepless, restless, full of happiness and make you think about your lover, a lot.

@3# You Can’t Think Of Anyone Else

When you are in love, you can’t really think of anything else but your lover. They would be tirelessly running around in your mind and you can’t work, remember things or focus on other interests. This is due to norepinephrine, a chemical compound that gets released along with dopamine, in the brain.

@4# You Frequently Get Sexually Attracted

Research and study on young couples shows that the levels of serotonin, a neurotransmitter found mostly in the intestinal tract, dropped dangerously low, something that’s experienced by people suffering from obsessive compulsive disorder.

But on the other hand, it was noticed that low serotonin levels in young couples increased the desire to have sex. Talk about evolution’s way of forcing the ritual of baby making while we are completely attracted to each other.

@5# You Easily Get Depressed

Do you get upset easily if the person you like upsets you in any manner? Well, you may be in love. While the drop in the serotonin level makes you horny, it also makes you depressed and anxious.

Even the smallest of things can upset you or your lover, and both of you may end up spending a lot of time trying to please each other with little acts of love and affection. While each act of love increases the love and attraction, each disappointment makes you more vulnerable to pain and depression.

Falling In Love And Staying In Love:

Falling in love with someone and staying in love with someone are two completely different experiences. While most people believe it was love right from the beginning, falling in love actually begins with a note of lust and sexual excitement along with the flutter of love.

Falling in love is like a drug and unfortunately, just like a drug, it doesn’t really last forever. While the levels of chemicals like dopamine and serotonin gradually come back to normal after a few months or years depending on the type of relationship, it’s up to the lovers to find ways to keep the excitement in love alive.

Every time you have a crush on someone, the whole game of chemistry in love starts firing the Bunsen burners and we are back to square one all over again.

But evolution and the hormone Oxytocin, have found a way to make lovers seek commitment and make couples fall in love forever. It has created stages in love, and all these experiences are just one single stage in the process of falling in love.

Is It Love Or Lust ?

Is it love or lust that you are experiencing with your partner? Sometimes, you may think you are in love without really realizing that there is no love in the relationship, but just lust. 

Contrary to what most of us believe, we don’t really fall in love at first sight. Almost always, it’s lust at first sight.

The intense attraction that you feel for someone when you first lock eyes with each other, those butterflies in your stomach and that skip in your heart, in all probability, is lust and not love.

But lusting for someone isn’t a bad thing, because love generally starts with lust and desire and grows and blossoms into love over a few weeks or months.

The happiest relationships are those where there is a perfect balance of love and lust.

But what is it that you’re experiencing, is it love or lust?

Is It Love Or Lust?

Often, our minds can get confused with the experiences and you may assume you and your new partner may be in love, when you are just lusting for each other.

While sexual attraction is great to keep the chemistry alive, it’s no good in keeping a relationship happy and blissful.

When you are in lust with someone, and not in love, you really don’t care about the future or the happy moments, all you care about is the urges in your pants.

It’s not always clear and easy to find out whether it’s love or lust, but these pointers should help you find out if either you or your partner are truly in love or just experiencing lust for each other.

@1# Thoughts At First Sight

If you are filled with happiness and can’t hold your smile back when you see your lover, you are definitely in love. On the other hand, if you meet your lover and the first thing that comes to your mind every single time is how good looking or sexy they are, your relationship is based on lust rather than love.

@2# Your Feelings In Love

Do you feel happy and romantic all day and find staring at happy things or smiling without realizing it yourself? You are probably full of love. Or do you feel really sexy or sexually excited throughout the day? If this is the case, lust is definitely in the air.

@3# Spending Time With Each Other

During the first couple of weeks or months, it’s natural that both of you can’t keep your hands off each other. But once you are past that, how do both of you spend time with each other?

Do you end up making out all the time or do both of you have a happy conversation? And even if you do make out, do both of you spend the night together or do you kiss and say goodbye after an hour of great sex?

If having sex or making out is where all the fun ends, then there is more lust than love in the relationship. As important as physical intimacy can be, emotional connection too, is of vital importance in long lasting love.

@4# Going Out On Weekends

Where do you hang out over the weekends? Do you and your partner go out with friends or party all night long, or do both of you go out with each other to a restaurant or some quiet place to spend time with each other?

If you are genuinely in love with each other, you can’t help but want to spend time alone with each other over the weekends. On the other hand, if you are just looking to have a fun weekend, you would prefer to spend time with friends, and if it is lust on your mind, you would go to a party and run your hands over each other all night. So, is it fun, love or lust in your relationship?

@5# Your Best Memories In Love

Spend a minute and think of your partner and some of the best memories you have together. Is it love or lust that comes to your mind? If most of the thoughts that come to your mind revolve around making out or the places you have had sex, it’s pretty clear that lust holds an upper hand in your relationship.

@6# When You Think About Your Partner

When you are at work or away from your partner, it’s natural to think of your love now and then. When these fleeting moments of love drift in your mind, what do you think about?

Do you remember cuddling up and watching a movie, or your partner’s smile or laughter, or do you get goose-flesh remembering how good making out with this person feels?

If your thoughts linger on sexual memories more than all other memories, it definitely means you are having a lot of great sex and that’s the highpoint in your relationship.

@7# Calling Each Other Up

It’s not necessary to speak with each other every hour but it’s always great for the relationship when both of you communicate often. What time of the day do both of you speak more often and what kind of conversations do you have?

If either of you speak or text a few times throughout the day, love is definitely in the air. But if the only time you spend on communicating with each other is late at night, and all you talk about is how good it feels to make out, then it’s obviously only lust that is holding your relationship together.

If both of you truly love each other, you would think of each other throughout the day, not just at night when you are all alone and feeling frisky.

@8# What Do You Want To Do When You Meet Each Other?

Do you feel like making out every single time both of you meet each other? You may be going out with a gorgeous stunner but if sex is all you can think about when you are with your partner, and you have a hard time keeping your hands off their body, you have got a lusty situation in your hands.

A bit of cuddling and public display of affection is cute but if both of you don’t have anything to talk about with each other and need some kissing to keep the clock ticking, you have got some serious issues of communication and compatibility to deal with.

@9# Compromising In Love

Do you compromise with your needs and wants now and then, if you know that doing something else would make your partner feel happy?

Taking an initiative to compromise for each other is one of the biggest signs of true love.

But if you are more interested in what you can get out of the relationship or how often you can make out with each other and don’t really like compromising and giving up on your happiness just so your partner can be happy, it’s obviously not love but lust that is holding the relationship together.

@10# Making Introductions To Your Friends

Do you like spending time with your lover but feel embarrassed or awkward to introduce your partner to your friends?

If you subconsciously feel awkward to be with your lover in public, it’s natural that the only reason you are still together with them is because of the great sex. If you genuinely love your partner, you would be excited to introduce your sweetheart to all your friends because you would see your partner as an important part of your life.

@11# How Involved Are Both Of You?

Do you think about making out or having sex every time you think of your lover? It’s great that you are going out with someone you are so physically attracted to, but if you truly love your partner, you would also respect them and would want to hear about their opinion on your life and the issues in it.

If you think of your partner only when you are feeling lonely or horny, then there is a good chance that you don’t really love your sweetheart, and only lust about them.

@12# Thinking About The Long Term

When you are truly in love with someone, you can’t help but think about the future with them. This is the biggest sign in finding out whether it’s love or lust on your mind.

Can you see your lover in your life a few years down the lane or is that something you just can’t picture? Most of the time, we find someone we like and the sex is great and dandy, and we assume we are in love. But yet, if you give it a serious thought, you would know you are never really going to be happy with them in the years to come. If you can’t see your lover as an important part of your future, it’s a sure sign that it’s just lust working its charm on you.

By considering and analyzing about these pointers, now you know what is it? Is it love or lust that is keeping your relationship alive? Lusting about a partner is great for the relationship. But if it’s only lust in the air and not love that is keeping both of you together, it’s going to be a pretty big missing piece in the jigsaw puzzle of love and that just can’t be overlooked.

It’s never too late to change your future if both of you really want to. Once you know where you stand with these pointers on is it love or lust, make a decision for the better and make a difference in both your lives.

5 Steps To Date A Married Woman

It’s very common to notice in the society that most of the men are attracted towards married women and find them more attractive compared to younger girls. Practicing monogamy has reduced and couples due to lack of control and pure love are getting into extra-marital affairs.

For many men, there is just something about a married woman that is more attractive than anything else. Maybe it’s the way that so many of them seem to convey a sense of self esteem or confidence in themselves and their situation. It’s the woman who’s not afraid to offer a passionate kiss, even though she’s just taken a bite of garlicky pasta. It’s the woman who has enough confidence in who she is that a slightly dimpled bottom is not the end of the world. It’s the fact that many married women know how to please themselves and the man that they are with.

Dating married women is an ideal tip for majority of men regardless of the age gap. If the woman is attractive, pretty and matured, the man will likely fall for her and would like to date that married woman. The experience of married women makes men love them and the wish to get along with them increases.

For lots of guys, this is just what they want and need. If you’re one of the many guys out there that wants to know how to date a married woman, then you likely know that you’re not in it for a long term commitment. You probably also know that it can be hard to actually meet a married woman to date. There are some tricks that you can see just how easy it is to date a married woman.

For instance, you have to know how to tell that the women you’re meeting really want to start a thing with you. It will be easier to date a married woman when you meet one that wants to have an affair. If the woman you meet is interested in dating you, then she’ll be open to talking to you. She might even hit on you a little bit. This is a good sign that you have met a married woman that wants to date you.

The next step is to see if you can get her number or if she’ll take your number. You might even see her thinking through how she can talk to you and get away with it. If she only wants to take your number, let her. She might not call, but then again she probably will. With married women, you have to remember that it’s not like dating a woman who is single. There will be stolen moments at odd times and you’re likely going to have to deal with them, but if you’re willing to you’ll probably find that it’s quite easy to date a married woman.

Most of the time, once the initial date has taken place, if she likes you, she’ll be the one making arrangements and planning your next get together, which is why it’s really easy to date a married woman. Plus, if you aren’t the type for a serious commitment, then this might be the best thing for you. You get to be with a woman who you enjoy and really connect with when she can and when her husband is not at home, you’re free to do all the guy things you usually do.

If you would like to see how easy it really is to date a married woman, then it might be time to make the first move. You can meet them all over the place and often, if they are out without their husbands it’s pretty likely that they are looking for someone just like you. In fact, if you just give many married women a little nudge, you’ll find that it’s incredibly easy to date the married woman you seek.

Even women want a change in their lives if they are bored of their existing ones. Women love to be adored, loved and cared so if a man fulfills her needs then she falls for him. If you are attracted to a married woman and are willing to date her, here are some of the tips and tricks to date her.

5 Steps To Date A Married Woman:

#1@ Give Her Time: The new and close relationship needs time to develop. Many women are not ready to ditch her husband and to go for another man. If the man likes a married woman, he should gradually try to develop the relationship between them and make her feel that she is doing the right thing.

#2@ Build Comfort Level: It is very important to make her feel comfortable in your company. Try to become close to her by knowing her likes and dislikes. If she needs time to get close to you then give her the required time and space. She will come to you.

#3@ Be Her Support: A married woman generally gets into an extra-marital affair if she is not happy with her life and husband. Try to become her support and stand by her side when she wants you.

#4@ Never Befriend Her Husband: Try not to be friends with her husband. In some cases, husband's close friends are involved in relationship with the wife so tips to date married women is to best avoid being friends with her man.

#5@ Know What She Expects: A man should know that the married woman is dating him to fulfill her expectations which were not catered to by her husband. Get to know what she wants and expects and try to fulfill them.

Use these tips to date married women and be prepared to share your love as the woman you like or love is already married to someone. Dating a married woman is not easy and acceptable but if your love is pure, then may think and proceed.

5 Ways to Seduce Women by Mouth

You probably know one surefire way to turn her on using your mouth. But that's not what this story is about.

Instead, this is about those first moments after you catch her eye across the bar and she flashes you an inviting ‘come give me your best shot’ smile. Obviously, she's checked out your look and your posture, the way you interact with your buddies, and all the other subtle cues evolution has pre-programmed her brain to search for when evaluating a potential mate.

Here are 5 of the ways to seduce a woman by using your mouth:

#1@ Talk Like a Professor:

Women are attracted to ‘verbal fluency’ - a big vocabulary, long, complex sentence structures, and smooth delivery. All of these speech characteristics signal to her that you're smart, educated, and probably capable of earning lots of dough. As much as you're able, experts recommend using big words and more than anything else, speaking confidently and without long pauses.

#2@ Smile To a Minimum:

Women regard too much smiling as a sign of femininity and timidity. Both of which are turn-offs, according to a study in the journal Emotion. Researchers asked more than 1,000 people to rate photos of the opposite sex in terms of hotness. Smiling men were judged least attractive by the ladies; behind shame-faced, prideful, or guys with neutral expressions. That doesn't mean you should be a stone-faced when you approach her. Just lose the permanent grin, the research suggests.

#3@ Use The Proper Joke:

More than any other personality trait, a good sense of humor unlocks the door to her bedroom. Women regard a sense of humor as a sign of intelligence and honesty. But there's one big catch: Women dig positive, inclusive jokes; not negative jabs or put-downs. Ditch the sarcasm, insults, and unflattering observations of others. Instead, your goal is witty, kind-hearted banter.

#4@ Interrupt Her:

It sounds rude, but occasionally cutting in to finish her sentences or agree with her - "I feel exactly the same way!" - shows her you're both on the same page. While men tend to let each other finish sentences, women constantly interrupt one another while chatting. Doing likewise can make her feel more comfortable and close to you, but only if what you say builds on or supports what she's saying. Cutting in to change the subject is a no-no.

#5@ Kiss Her Like You Mean It:

She laughed at your jokes and seemed to dig your big words. But the last obstacle is a treacherous one: the first kiss. Blow it, and any interest she had in you can evaporate in an instant. The same study identified three important elements of a winning starter smooch: Good breath, little to no tongue, and assertiveness. Pop a mint on your way out of the bar, take her face in your hands, and look her in the eyes as you lock lips. Keep your mouth relaxed, and you'll knock her socks off for sure.

6 Ways to Seduce a Woman Sexually

Most people have the perception that being an average guy is a limitation to attracting a woman sexually. Most guys consider themselves average but there is no limitation at all on how to seduce a woman sexually as an average guy.

There are a lot of women who understand enough to want to be involved with so called average guys. Even if you are average in other aspects of life, it does not imply you’re average in bedroom.

The following 6 methods can be very helpful to attract a woman sexually even if you consider yourself average.

#1@ Conversation:

This is one of the easiest ways to turn a woman on. Fun and interesting conversations can easily get women flocking around you.

This can easily make her develop sexual attraction towards you. However, it doesn’t mean you must have a great sense of humor because all can seduce a woman by making her laugh. Provided you can tell simple stories that make people giggle and hang on your words.

You also have to be good at listening and talking to people. Talk to her in a sexual language, but do not be over the top. If it comes out to strongly she will think you are out to get laid or plain desperate.

#2@ Kissing:

Women get turned on when a man gives her a good kiss. You may be a regular and normal kind of guy, but the moment you give a woman an awesome kiss, she will consider you special and one of a kind. This is because most guys are not good at kissing. This is the thing you can use to stand out even if all the other things about you are average.

#3@ Escalating Her Attraction:

This is one thing that even the guys who consider themselves to be above average still do not know how to do. Even if she is attracted to you, you still ought to be able to escalate the feeling to pure sexual attraction. Failure to do this will lead you back to the friend zone if you are not careful. So, to avoid this you basically need to know how to build sexual tension.

#4@ Confidence:

If you have self esteem issues, then you need to work on them to be able to attract a woman sexually. You have to be confident when you are around her. This is a trait you must have, otherwise you’ll find it very difficult to make women want you sexually. Be cool and do not rush things.

#5@ Eye Contact:

Eye contact that lingers attracts women. You must be able to differentiate between outright staring and lingering eye contact. One has lover’s gaze feeling and is hypnotic while the other is somehow creepy. Good eye contact will make her develop a natural desire to be sexually attracted to you.

#6@ Knowing What She Wants:

Understand her wants on a primary level. This will make work much easier when you get to a conscious level. You need to deeply trigger her attraction to you on the primary level. This means you shouldn’t have to employ tactics later because she will be feeling your vibe already.

The art of seducing a woman is not difficult to master, it just take knowledge and practice.

How To Make a Girl Fall in Love?

It depends on the girl you have your sights set on. You may find that making her fall in love with you could be a bit of a chore. Of course there are some situations in which you won’t have to do a thing but flash your gorgeous smile in order to melt her heart. Each and every situation is different but there are some key elements that remain the same no matter who the girl is.

There are many things you must know about women in order to understand the way their hearts work. Men are wired differently than women are and for this reason, you will want to understand what it is that a woman usually looks for in a man.

Love is a tricky business and when you compare your ideas if what love is to that of a girl’s ideas you may be a bit shocked to find out the extent of the difference. Girls are very emotional creatures whereas men are usually a bit more focused on outward appearances in the beginning of relationships.

There are few tricky things in the game of love which play big roles. One should always be careful about these things.

Affection And Care Are The Key Things:

This is the very first question you’ll need to find the answer to. Girls fall in love with a totally different thing than guys do. A guy can see a beautiful girl with a gorgeous figure and automatically tell himself that he is in love. However, it takes much more than this to make a girl fall in love.

Girl needs to feel as if she is being cared for emotionally, physically and mentally in order to fall in love. Most girls will model the men they fall in love with after their own fathers provided they had a nurturing father growing up. This means that girls are looking for men who are tentative and caring to spend their lives with. Most girls like a man who will put her needs first. In addition, of girl enjoys being with a man who makes her feel beautiful at all times. Girls also tend to fall in love with men who make them feel secure.

Earn Respect From The Girl:

A very big part of making a girl fall in love with you is earning her respect and trust. In order to do this you must show her that she is the only girl in the world for you and that you cannot and will not be tempted to stray. This may be very difficult for you at first, especially if you have been single for quite a while and are used to seeing a number of different girls.

However, if you meet that special girl your goal is to make her your ‘one and only’ then you must show her that she is your one and only. Do not turn your head to watch the girls go by when you are with this girl. This sends the message that you are still looking at the menu this is something you do not want to do. Get rid of other girls’ phone numbers as well as pictures that serve to remind your new girl of your romantic history.

The key to earning respect from a girl and trust is to show her that she has nothing to worry about and that her heart is safe with you.

Small Gestures Go a Long Way:

Something, as simple as bringing a single rose; can make a big difference in a girl’s day. Girls love when you show them displays of affection, no matter how small they are. Just a simple card to say that you have been thinking of her will surely put a smile on her face. Girls are usually very good at loving and it typically does not take a lot to prompt them to do so.

However, men are often a little bit less adept when it comes to matters of the heart. Most of this is social conditioning and learned behavior as a result of the society we live in. Men are taught to be tough and not to wear their emotions on their sleeves. However, when it comes to making a girl fall in love, you will want to do your best to show her exactly how you feel.

Show Her That She Comes First:

While it is important to retain a sense of individuality by keeping some time to hang around with your friends and do guy things, it is also important to show your girl that she comes first no matter what. This means if she tells you that this weekend there is a show she really wants you to take her to it would be a good idea to cancel poker night with the guys and take her to the show.

Remember, right now you are simply trying to get the girl to fall in love with you and for this reason you will need to take steps in order to achieve this. This does not mean that once she falls in love with you, it is okay to start treating her like dirt but it does mean that in the beginning you will need to take extra steps. This will also mean defending her honor openly. In the beginning you may want to pay special attention to any of your friends they get on her nerves and annoy her. She will want you to show her that if it were a choice between your friends or her, you would pick her.

Basically, getting a girl to fall in love with you is easy if you take caring steps and remember that it is all about her. The key to winning a girl’s heart is to make her feel like a princess and that the sun rises and sets in her eyes.

8 Qualities Men Look For In Women

All men are different and what one man finds attractive isn’t necessarily going to be the same as the man next to him finds attractive. Depending on what that man is looking for at the time, he will be attracted to different things.

For example, if he is just looking for a no strings attached fun romp then he is more likely to be looking at body shape and looks, but if he is looking for someone to have a serious relationship with he will be looking for personality, honesty and all of the other major traits that make a relationship work. There are some qualities that all men find attractive no matter what kind of relationship they are looking for.

Here are some of the most looked after qualities of women that almost all men like:

#1@ Confidence

Men like women to have a certain amount of confidence; they enjoy catching the eye of a woman when she walks into the room, and if she can maintain eye contact with him all the better. It shows that she is confident about who she is, how she looks and has a self confidence that will make her easy to be around than the shy and retiring types.

Men like a woman that can stand on her own two feet for the majority of the time, but will still turn to her man for support when she needs it. They do not want to be with someone who is unable to make decisions and is constantly relying on them to guide them and support them.

#2@ Make Him Laugh

A good sense of humor can go a long way towards a happy relationship. Let’s face it, who would want to be stuck in a joyless relationship with someone who was always miserable. Men like a woman who can laugh at their jokes, see the funny side of life and generally have a good time without having to be always serious about everything.

Along with a good sense of humor there is generally a positive outlook towards life, which is what guys want, they probably have enough negative influences in their lives without having a girlfriend that has had a sense of humor bypass.

#3@ Pretty as a Picture

There is absolutely no denying that men are attracted to a pretty face and a nice figure. We’re talking the basis of attraction here. Men are also attracted to women that have an air of femininity about them, the more feminine a women the more masculine she makes her man feel.

They also like a woman with nice hair, it may sound a little basic but it’s true. A woman’s hair can add to or detract from her femininity. A well groomed woman with a pretty face and shiny hair is more likely to attract a man that a woman who cares little about her appearance or her personal hygiene.

#4@ Independence

Independence can of course be related to confidence, but the kind of independence that we are talking about here is the independence that allows her to take care of herself and stand on her own two feet.

A woman who is comfortable in her own space and can manage on her own is far more attractive to a man than a woman who needs help with everything. Men do not like a woman who appears clingy and needy. As much as a man likes the feeling of having a woman to care for and look after, he also likes his own space and time to himself. An independent woman can give him this.

#5@ Empathy and Understanding

Men want a woman to listen to them, not someone who is far too engrossed in their own lives, or constantly moaning about their own life to spare him some time.

A man will be more attracted to a woman that can empathize with him and show him the understanding that he needs, than someone who moans and nags who offers little in the way of support or appreciation.

#6@ Honesty and Loyalty

Everyone man or woman wants to be in the kind of relationship where the emphasis is on honesty. No one likes the thought that they are being lied to, and a man just like a woman, appreciates a loyal and honest partner. He is looking for someone that will be faithful to him and someone that will remain by his side through the ups and downs of life.

#7@ Relaxed and Easy Going

Men do not like relationships that are hard work, women who are more concerned about their appearance and what other people think of them is not generally someone that he can have an enjoyable relationship with. Men like the kind of woman who doesn’t mind if she smudges her makeup, or her hair gets a little tousled. While personal care and appearance is important to him, he needs to know that she can relax and let her hair down and be laid back.

This is especially important if they are looking for a long term relationship, as when it comes to commitment men are more attracted to the ‘girl next door’ personality than that of a glamour model.

#8@ Caring and Supportive

Men like to feel that they are being cared for, while they enjoy having the status of man of the house or breadwinner, they like those little tokens of affection, small gestures that show them that they are being loved and cared for. Even something mundane as having his shirt ironed for him, or finding his sandwiches made for him before he goes to work can mean as much as a grand romantic gesture.

They like to know that their girl is paying attention to them and taking care of the little things that mean a lot, a woman that does everything for a man can leave him feeling suffocated and overwhelmed, but get the balance right and you have a happy relationship.

Men also like to know that they are being supported in their choices, whether it’s a career decision or a life decision they need to feel that their women are by their side, able to offer advice when required and listening to his thoughts and reasoning objectively, and supporting him in his choices.

5 Must Have Traits of A Good Man

What are the special characteristics of a good man? What are must have traits of a good man? Where can I meet a good man? These are some of the questions that many of us find ourselves asking.

Many people believe that good men are hard to find. Truth is that they are all around us and often times they simply go unnoticed.

Bad men tend to be loud and rude and they ensure that their presence is known, so they are more noticeable. A good man has enough self-confidence in himself that he does not need to draw others’ attention to himself.

If we only take the time to get to know most men, we would find that the majority of them are good men and possess the necessary characteristics to make them good men. For women who think there are no good men left in the world, they need to look a little harder and not just notice those men who are making a point to be noticed. The good men are out there and many of them are just waiting to be noticed.

5 Must Have Traits of A Good Man:

#1@ He Has Integrity.

Integrity is one of the most important characteristics that a good man posses. A man with integrity will stay true to his word and true to himself. If he tells you that he is going to do something, he will follow through and do what he has said. You can count on him to always be there for you and defend you as a friend. He does not pretend to be something that he is not and he knows who he is and who he wants to be.

A man with integrity will have strong values and he will stick to those values no matter what the cost.

You can tell if a man has integrity by the way he treats himself and others. If he is kind to himself and to others and is always looking for ways to help people and be kind, then he has integrity. These good men are highly respected and in return they give their respect to others. They may require you to be worthy of respect before they offer it to you because of their high moral compass, they want others to share their values.

Often these men show great courage because at times they are required to stand up for their beliefs at all times.

#2@ He Is Honest.

Honesty is a great quality that everyone is looking for in a person but is often times hard to find. A good man will tell you the truth and not just what he thinks you want to hear. A man with honesty will not make up stories or make promises that he never intends to keep just to look good but will tell you honestly what he will do and how he feels.

Sometimes honesty can be hard to deal with because it is not what we want to hear but it is better to have a good man who is truthful then one who will fill you with lies.

You will be easily able to tell if a man is honest if he does not lie to you. A good man will not need to be secretive and hide things from you but will tell the truth and be almost an open book. A man with honesty will be faithful in his relationships and women will not need to worry that he is cheating on them. He will be genuine and you will not need to guess about what he is thinking or feeling. Honesty is a great attribute for a good man to have.

#3@ He Is Mature.

A good man is mature and able to take care of himself. He will have a successful and stable career. He may not necessarily be a wealthy man but has a stable job that pays enough for him to take care of himself and his needs.

It is a fact that men mature a little later in life than women but we have all met a ‘bad’ guy who is well past the maturing age but still thinks he is in high school. A mature man will know that the time has come to grow up and be an adult.

You will know if a man is mature by how he lives his life. He should live on his own or with a roommate and definitely not still be living with his parents. He should be handling mature responsibilities like maintaining a job, paying his bills and other adult like situations. He will be able to carry himself in a public setting in a respectable manner and understands his adult role. A good man must be mature enough to care for himself and take care of all of his needs on his own.

#4@ He Has Positive Attitude.

A good man should have a positive attitude which may be difficult to find since we live in such a negative society. With a positive attitude, people will want to be around him and to have fun around him. A good man will be happy with his life and the world around him and he will want to look out for others and to help them. Positive people are usually quite different from negative people and they tend to smile and laugh more.

You will know if a man has a positive attitude by how he carries himself. He will be upbeat and look for the good in things and people. A negative person will always be complaining and seeing the bad side to everything and after a while they can be very hard to be around and they tend to turn you into a negative person also. With a positive man, he will be smiling and always brightening up people’s days. He will be a joy to be around and his happiness should spread to you and you should feel happy when you are around him.

#5@ He Is Self Confident.

A good man will be confident in himself and who he is. This is an important characteristic in a good man because when they are self-confident, they are less likely to change who they are and to stay true to themselves. A man with self-confidence will not be deterred from what he believes to be true and will not be easily pressured into doing things that he does not believe in. Self-confidence makes a man happy and fun to be around because he will not be constantly questioning himself or others around him.

You will know if a man has self-confidence by how he sees himself because he will have a distinctive set of goals that he has set for himself. He will believe that he is worthy of good things and he will set out to find them. This self-confidence will show through because he will not second guess himself and when he makes decisions he will more likely to stick to the decision that he made.

Self-confident men are good to be around because they are strong and protective and are able to take of not just themselves but those around them.

7 Stages of A Relationship

Relationships go through several stages and we all experience a lot of different feelings when we start dating. While they vary a little depending on the people involved in the relationship, the circumstances, culture and more; it's safe to say that the stages of a relationship are almost universal. Here, we will look at what those stages are.

7 Stages of A Relationship:
#1@ Crush:

When one person has a crush on another, this can be a very exciting feeling. You swoon when they come into the room, you struggle to talk to them normally, and you try to make excuses to be near them. This can range from mild to intense and in some cases can be almost obsessive.

#2@ Dating:

When you first start dating things are at first very slow. You realize how actually, even if you've known this person prior to dating them, you don't really know anything about them. During this phase you'll go on dates and things but won't really be comfortable with each other so that you can be yourselves. You are still both putting your best foot forward and trying to cover up your imperfections.

#3@ Going Out:

At one point you have to stop dating casually and decide you want to be 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend'. This big step can be marked by the change of the prior relationship status on social media. It basically means that you are not going to date anyone else, and that you liked dating the person enough to give them a go at a relationship. At the same time though you are still getting to know each other and getting past the awkward phase. For the whole first year you'll be discovering stuff about each other.

#4@ Honeymoon:

The honeymoon stage comes when you feel you know the other person well and decide that you really like them. If once they start opening up you find they aren't the person you thought they were, then this would end in the relationship finishing prematurely.

However, the alternative is that you find out that who they are is someone you really want to be with, and in this case you will find yourself infatuated by not yet being bogged down by the realities of life. Everything they do is perfect, you're sickeningly romantic together and you want to spend every minute together. This willingness will bring you on to the next step.

#5@ Comfortable Stage: 

Once the honeymoon period starts to fade, you then find that you are feeling a lot more comfortable around each other and can be yourselves. This allows you to see what the realities of dating would really be like while facing challenges together. If all goes well then you find that being with them is a very comfortable and pleasant experience and that you are now more yourself with them than with anyone else.

#6@ Attached Stage:

At some point you then become so comfortable that you start to feel almost dependent. You certainly can't imagine life without the other person and you stop considering other men or women. This is a very blissful stage and can result in your feeling ready to go ahead and declare your love in other ways as you start to become impatient for the future and find domestic ideas sexy rather than intimidating.

#7@ Beyond: 

From this point onward there are many more steps marked by big declarations. From here the relationship is no longer just a 'relationship' but something more as you become fiancés, spouses and eventually parents.

21 Ways To Touch Her

For initiating and maintaining physical connection, one needs to start with the small gestures and then he needs to escalate progressively to intimate touching. The more personal you become with her, the more attraction, trust and chemistry she will develop.

Here are 21 ways which can be helpful to touch her and initiate the fire within:

Low Level Touching:

1. When introducing, shake hands and hold hers for an extra second.

2. Give her a high-five in excitement.

3. Gently touch her elbow to emphasize your points.

4. If she’s going outside with you, you can grab her coat and help her put it on.

5. Touch her shoulder when she is opening up and sharing something with you.

6. When saying goodbye, give her a hug.

Medium Level Touching:

1. Stand close to her and let your arms touch.

2. When leading her to the bar or to grab a seat, hold her hand or guide her with your hand on the small of her back.

3. Stand to her side, lean close to her, and whisper into her ear.

4. Rest your thigh against hers when sitting next to her.

5. As she laughs at something you said, say something like “You’re so cute/adorable” while placing your hand on her stomach and playfully push her.

High Level Touching:

1. Play footsie under the table if sitting across from her.

2. Place your hand on her thigh when sitting next to her.

3. Brush a lock of hair off her face and around her ear.

4. While standing close, lean into her and smell from the base or her neck to her ear. You can say something like “Damn, you smell amazing.”

5. When talking, lightly play with her hand or fingers.

6. Run your fingers through her hair while looking in her eyes.

7. Grab her around the waist and pull her hip against yours. You can also pull her directly towards you and have your waists touching.

8. Touch a necklace she’s wearing while brushing your fingers on her neck.

9. While sitting close, run your fingers toward her inner thigh under the table. Continue talking casually. Getting more intimate while keeping your cool will drive her wild.

10. Pause during conversation, look deeply in her eyes, and kiss her.

The biggest difference between a friend and a romantic partner is physical intimacy. So if you ever want more than friendship, you’re going to have to bite the bullet and touch her.

10 Ways To Make Her Feel Like A Princess

Every girl loves to be reminded of how important she is, how beautiful she is and how special it is. I think I speak for most girls when I say that there is no greater feeling when you make your girl feel like a princess! Here are ten things a guy can do that truly makes a girl feel like princesses!

#1# Tell Her She's Beautiful When She Least Expects It.

Whether she is going on and on with a story or simply relaxing with you enjoying the blissful silence, a random compliment to dhow her how you see her will never fail to make her smile

#2# Make Eye Contact.

It may sound like an obvious thing, but making eye contact and gazing into her eyes, to find exactly where they shine and sparkle when she see's you will let her know that you not only see her as beautiful but that you find the soul behind her eyes even more beautiful.

#3# Learn The Art Of Soft Touch.

Instead of just going in for a kiss and rushing into it, take her face into your hands, and gently caress a thumb across her face. Squeeze her hand a little tighter when you walk with her as you hold her hand - the little things mean the most.

#4# Try To Sing For Her.

Not everyone has a melodious voice, again it’s the little things that count. Even if you can't hit all the notes, the effort you take to show her that she is worth the effort means a lot.

#5# Make Every Effort To See Her.

Whether is through video chat, or through late night phone calls or whether it is taking two trains, an Uber and a bus, try your best to see her, it will mean the world to her when you do.

#6# Let Her Take Pictures With You And Take Pictures With Her Too.

A lot of girls love taking pictures for different reasons. Some, love taking pictures to capture memories with their best friend, some like to take pictures to look at when they miss their favorite guy, and some love to show off their guy and tell everyone how much they love them. When you want to take pictures, it tells her that you want to do all of those same things.

#7# Make Her Laugh.

Make her laugh when she is happy and unhappy, at morning, during the day and before she goes to sleep. Laughter is one of the greatest things in life, and when her favorite guy can make her laugh there is nothing better.

#8# Listen To Her Stories.

Sometimes a girl just needs to be heard, and when she feels she is being listened to and not being judged it is a great, great feeling.

#9# Be Silly With Her.

It is way more fun to act childish and be carefree for a bit with the one you love, than by yourself. Being silly with her will help her forget any stresses for a little while, and it is one of the greatest feelings.

#10# Tell Her You Love Her, Every Day.

The words, "I love you", are the most beautiful thing someone can say. Personally, these words never ever get old, and when you say these words to your girl, she just can't help but smile each and every time.

24 Ways To Make Her Miss You

When we are in a relationship or are hoping to be in a relationship, we all hope that we will be missed when we are not around. It is just human nature to want to feel needed. You might find that you are romantically interested in someone or you might already be in a relationship.

Maybe you are in a relationship where the two of you seem to be drifting apart and maybe she no longer seems to miss you anymore. Either way, you want to make her miss you.

There are quite a few methods and strategies that will help make her miss you. With some perseverance, thoughtfulness, and dedication, she will be hooked and she will surely miss you when you are not around her. You will almost feel like a drug or a candy that she craves because of how good you are to her.

Whether you are just starting out a relationship or have been in one for years, you will always want to make sure that your girl misses you. How exactly do you do that?

By giving her something to miss! While you should more or less be yourself, you can also follow a few good tips to help you ensure that your crush, girlfriend, or wife will miss you when you are not around.

Some Techniques Which Can Be Helpful To Make Her Miss You: 

#1# Be A Little Mysterious

When you are first getting to know that special someone, you will want to let her get to know you. Be sure to let her know enough about you to make her interested in you, but do not tell her everything all at once.

By saving some of your good stories for a later time, you will make her want to stick around and find out even more about you.

When you intrigue her, she will want to stick around longer to hear the rest of your stories. She will want to know who you are. At the same time, you have to share some things about yourself, otherwise you will come off as distant.

#2# Don’t Talk Too Much About Yourself 

Don’t be afraid to let her into your life, but do not treat her like your personal therapist either. She does not need to know every little detail right away.

Also, if you reveal too much about yourself at once, you will be talking about yourself a lot. Talking about yourself too much can come off as self-absorbed.

#3# Slow Down With The Technology

Give her some space every now and then so that she has enough time to miss you. If you are around at every moment possible, then how can she possibly miss you? This is not limited to being physically present. You should also refrain from bombarding her with phone calls and messages. While it is thoughtful to check in with her and respond to her calls and texts, you should not be glued to her.

If you are around too much, then she might feel smothered and suffocated. Sooner or later, she could get tired of having you around if you are around way too much.

#4# Spend Some Time Apart

Even if you care about each other and love spending some time together, it is still a very good idea to give each other some alone time apart every now and then.

Whether you spend one hour a day apart or a day out of the week apart, you should make it a point to find some time for yourselves.

Try your best to take advantage of your alone time. As a result, she will be so happy when she sees you again after you have taken a short break from each other.

When you do this, you will both feel refreshed, recharged, and more than ready to see each other again.

#5# Show Her A Fun Time

When you want somebody to miss you, it is a great idea to take some initiative instead of being completely passive. If she barely knows that you exist, then how will she miss you?

Take your crush, girlfriend, or wife on a bunch of great dates and give her plenty of wonderful experiences that she will remember.

You can try to take her to the movies. You can also go dancing, attend a concert together, or you can even just have a romantic picnic at the park.

You do not necessarily need to spend a lot of money on dates in order to leave a good impression. When you show her a good time, she will keep missing you and she will always look forward to the next time that you two can spend time together.

#6# Don’t Talk Too Long Over The Phone

Whether or not you live together, talking on the phone is a necessity for most couples. It helps you stay on the same page and gives you a chance to catch up with one another.

While it is good to talk on the phone, avoid having phone conversations that go on for hours and hours. Doing this every single day will give your girlfriend little time to miss you, if you are already so available to her.

If you are still getting to know someone that you are interested in, do not be overbearing.

Show that you are interested without coming on too strong. There are a few ways that you can avoid coming on too strong.

#7# Don’t Be Desperate

You don’t always have to pick up her phone calls on the first ring. Sometimes you can wait a minute or more to call her back. At the same time, do not act like you do not care.

If she thinks that you do not care about her, then it will be hard for her to miss you. If you have been seeing each other every day for a few days, it is okay to take a break for a day or two so she has time to miss you.

Just let her know that you are busy but look forward to seeing her soon, otherwise she will think that you are blowing her off and she might end up moving on from you.

#8# Don’t Try To Keep Track Of Her

These days, technology is how we keep in touch with our significant others. From texting or talking on the phone to using Facebook and Skype, we have plenty of ways to keep in touch with our romantic interests.

When you use technology to reach out to your love interest, it shows that you care. At the same time, you will also want to be careful that it does not look like you are stalking her.

Give her some space and some time to breathe. That way, she can have some time to miss you.

#9# Give Her Time And Space To Breathe

If you are really into her, then your first instinct will be to spend every waking moment together. She might want to spend all of her time with you too.

While it is good to spend a lot of time together, you also do not want to rush things way too fast. If you spend every possible free minute together, then things could possibly fizzle out right away.

#10# Take Things Slowly

Take things nice and steady. You do not have to take things too slowly, but don’t rush into things either. You do not want to rush and build unrealistic expectations for your relationship.

Whatever you do, make sure that you are not needy, clingy, or desperate. Coming off that way will only serve to repel her and she will be less inclined to feel an attraction towards you.

#11# Find Something Of Your Own To Do

You might feel guilty at the thought of spending any time away from her. There is actually no reason for you to feel guilty about this.

Spending some of your free time alone is okay. In fact, it is a really good idea. Not only is it healthy for you to get your alone time, it gives her a chance to miss you too.

If you do everything together, you might find yourself wishing that you had your own activity that you could just do yourself, whether it is reading or watching your favorite shows.

#12# Don’t Try To Make Her Like Everything That You Like

Try to go and find something that you can do alone so you can also remain in touch with yourself. It is good to be able to be alone by yourself every once in a while.

If you try to pressure her into doing everything that you like, even if she is not that into it, then that could make the relationship boring and a little bit suffocating. Allow yourselves to do your own things once in a while.

#13# Be Reliable

While it is good to give her some space, do not flat out ignore her. If you ignore her, then she will think that you are an unreliable person. If you make yourself too unavailable to her, then she might go from missing you to thinking that you are unreliable.

If you are too unavailable to her, then she might think that you are too busy for her. She might even begin to think that you are not interested in her or she might conclude that you are talking to other girls besides her.

These thoughts will turn her off to you and she might even stop missing you after a certain point. Your special lady should still feel like she is an important enough part of your life. You do not want to neglect her.

#14# Surprise Her

When you try to treat her really well, she will be able to miss you more.

Little gifts, surprises, and kind words will make her feel truly special. If you make her feel special every day, then she will always be waiting for your next move that will make her feel like a queen.

Give her some nice surprises every now and then. Some thoughtful surprises include flowers, chocolates, or a sweet love note that will make her heart swell and skip a beat.

She will always have something to look forward to if you continuously treat her this way. As a result, she will be sure to miss you when you spend some time apart.

If you are apart and send something sweet to her, this will be a reminder of how thoughtful you are and she will definitely miss you and think of you fondly.

#15# Give Her Something That Reminds Her Of You

If you are long distance, do not live together, or sometimes have to travel for work, you should give her something that will help her remember and miss you when you are gone. What makes this different from a gift is that you should give her something of yours that will remind her of you

Examples of things of yours that you can give to her include your favorite book, one of your t-shirts that is sprayed with your cologne, or the body wash that you use. She will then be able to feel close to you.

Give her something that will make her feel close to you when you are apart. It will make her miss her and when she is missing you, she can find comfort in that thing that reminds her of you.

#16# Be A Fun Person To Be Around

When you are spending time together, make sure that she is having fun and enjoying herself. She will be sure to miss you, especially when she is bored and you are not around.

If you can make her smile and laugh, then she will miss that when you are not always there to make her crack up.

Take her on great dates and adventures that she will really appreciate and look back on fondly, especially when you are not together.

Try to be fun and creative when you think of dates that you can take her on. From picnics to the movies to street fairs, there are so many wonderful outings that you can plan for her.

If you would rather stay in, you can build a blanket fort together, watch a movie, or cook a meal together. You can even play your favorite board games if you think that it will be fun.

While you should not spend every second together, you should make every second that you do spend together really count.

#17# Give Her Great Memories

When you work hard to fill her life with plenty of great experiences and romantic memories, she will surely notice how much better, brighter, and more exciting her life is with you in it.

When you are occasionally absent, she will pine for you and miss you. She will miss the romance and positivity that you bring to the relationship and she will start to associate you with fun experiences and happy memories.

Regarding your crush, girlfriend, or wife, it is important that you make her feel safe and protected. Be sure to give her lots of attention so that she feels like she is very important to you.

Listen to her when she talks to you and be sure to pay attention. When you make her feel special, she will really appreciate how much you listen and pay attention to her.

#18# Be Sweet To Her

It also goes without saying that you should always strive to be sweet to the woman that you care about. If you are constantly rude to her or don’t show enough interest, then she might end up not missing you at all when you are not around.

A lack of respect and attention towards her will cause her to drift away from you. You have to give her a reason to miss you whether it is because you are a good listener, a sweet guy, or know how to show her a good time. If you treat her well, she will miss you.

#19# Do Something Personal For Her

There are many other little ways that you can get her to think of you and miss you. You can play a romantic song for her and dedicate it to her. If you have a knack for words, then you can write her a short poem that she can hold onto.

If you have a nice photograph of you and her together, then you can get it printed and framed. You can even get it put into a locket for her. Anything to help her remember you fondly is a good idea. Even when you are not right there in front of her, that photograph will remind her of you.

#20# Call Her Every Night Before She Goes To Bed

Here is another good strategy that will help get her to miss you. If you do not live together, try calling her every night before bed. Texting is not as good because she will not be able to hear the sound of your voice.

When you say goodnight and hang up the phone, she will go to bed with you on her mind because you have just talked to her. This is a great way to get her to miss you and she might even have sweet dreams as a result of your nightly phone calls.

#21# Write Her A Romantic Letter

While people can often have a tendency to almost always communicate through technology these days, you should never underestimate the wonderful art of a handwritten note or letter. You can even give her a nice memento box to store your letters and other small gifts in.

When she finds herself missing you, she can open up that box and go through the items that remind her of you. A memento box is a wonderfully romantic idea especially if you plan on building memories with that special someone.

#22# Kiss And Hold Her

The best way that you can get her to miss you is to give her so many good memories that she will have no choice but to miss you. There are so many ways that you can do this.

You can take her on amazing dates, make an effort to call her every night, dedicate special songs to her, shower her with little thoughtful gifts and love letters, and so on. Don’t forget to kiss her and hold her hand.

When you are gentle and loving with her, she will miss your touch even if you are only apart for a few hours or a day. The brighter you make her life, the more she will miss your presence.

#23# Never Take Her For Granted

Remember to never take her for granted and always make the effort to treat her like the special lady that she is. She will appreciate being respected by you.

Never be afraid to go the extra mile. That is the surest way to make sure that she never stops missing you when you are not by her side.

#24# Treat Her Well

If you treat her well, she will feel special. You might notice that as a result, she will start to miss you if she hasn’t already.

If there is a strong enough mutual spark there between the two of you and if you treat her well, then she will be sure to respond well to your gestures and efforts and she will miss you when you are not there in the room with her.

These are just a few of the many romantic things that you can do for her to ensure that she will really miss you when you are not around. Try out a few of these strategies to see how she responds to them. Notice how your efforts, however little and small, can affect her to the point that she begins to feel and develop a strong attachment to you.