Wednesday, May 30, 2018

25 Signals: A Girl Has A Crush On You

There are some solid signals which reveal that a girl has a crush on you. From time to time they give some signals either knowingly or unknowingly. Unless someone is able to interpret those signals, it becomes tough to make it sure that she has a crush for you.

These signals can be very confusing but it’s worth to know about them and to notice them. Here are some of the top signals one should notice to know about her crush.

 5 Signals To Know If A Girl Has A Crush On You:

 Signal 1@ She Enjoys Talking To You

If a girl makes herself available and is engaged with whatever you are saying or doing, you have got a good solid signal she has all eyes on you.

Think about it for a minute. If she didn’t like you, she would be nowhere to be found.

Signal 2@ She Is The First To Crack A Smile

If she is actually belly laughing instead of giggling, that is even better. And if you are both laughing together, that is just bonus.

When a girl makes a point of making sure you know she thinks you are funny, whether you are or not, that is just magical.

Signal 3@ She Is Shy Of Your Eyes

Sometimes you may notice that she gets a little sheepish when you are staring directly at her.

This isn’t about a lack of confidence. It’s about caring about what you think and not yet comfortable with your gaze. Give it a little time and who knows where it will lead.

Signal 4@ She Makes A Point Of Noticing You

This one comes in all different shapes and sizes but when a girl makes sure you know she is wary of your presence. This is an excellent sign she wants to know you better.

Signal 5@ She Licks Her Lips

This one is for you to ponder. When a girl is licking her lips, it has got to be all good.

Signal 6@ Your Smile Lights Her Up

This should be one of the first rock solid indicators you see shouting out to you and the world that she really likes you. It needs to be one of those real smiles that make her eyes crinkle.

Signal 7@ Flirting With Other Girls Is A No No

This is a tough one to read but if you notice her demeanor changing when you are around other potential candidates. This is a good sign. She might leave, slink off into a corner, or act busy with her friends.

If you can tell she doesn’t like you around other girls, the ball is in your court.

Signal 8@ She Loves The Touchy Feely Stuff

If she is making a clear point of touching your clothing; your shoulder, back or whatever, this is a clear cut signal she really likes you.

Signal 9@ Her Friends Are On The Bandwagon

Girls are very different than boys in this instance. When a girl has a crush on a guy, her friends are the first to know. The good news for you is they will give you hints she likes you.

Perhaps they will giggle when you walk by. Or they might start causally asking you questions. No worries. This is all good.

Signal 10@ She Lingers Around To Find You

If she lingers around to see you after everyone else has left or she randomly shows up where she knows you will be, that is an absolute indicator this girl has a crush on you.

Signal 11@ She Likes What You Like

This one may sound a little weird but it’s for all the right reasons.

When a girl is willing to step outside of her comfort zone to learn what you love and what has meaning to you, then you are on the right track thinking she has a major crush on you.

Signal 12@ She Lights Up Around You

This is something she really has no control over. But if she is blushing sheepishly when you are around, there’s no doubt she has a crush on you.

Further, if she loses her words around you or fidgets with nervousness, this girl is totally into you.

Signal 13@ She Twirls Her Hair

This is a simplistic unconscious sign that a girl really likes you. If she is twirling her hair in her fingers, it means she is thinking about you playing with her hair.

If she is smiling when she does it, you are one lucky guy.

Signal 14@ Infrequent Bumping Is Present

If she suddenly seems to bumping into you left, right and center, that is an excellent signal that she has a crush on you. If she didn’t want anything to do with you, then she would make herself scarce.

Signal 15@ She Halts Talking With Her Friends To Talk With You

This is absolutely amazing. When a girl shuts off her girl talk to give her undivided attention to you whenever you appear, that is just fantastic. No doubt she has a crush on you if this is the case.

Signal 16@ She Tells You That You Look Amazing

When a girl makes a point of letting you know when she notices you, is a great sign. It simply means that she has put effort into your look.

Signal 17@ Her Arms Are Not Crossed

While talking, if a girl’s arms are crossed, she is closed to any sort of connection. So, if her arms are relaxed by her side, she is telling you that she wants to get closer to you.

Signal 18@ Her Single Status Is Clear

She comes to you and makes it clear that she is single or even better yet, she asks you about your status.

Signal 19@ She Is Ready To Hang Out With you

This is a tough step for some girls. But if a girl suggests that you hang out or opens the door to that, then you have got a winner.

Signal 20@ She Talks About Future

If this girl is talking about anything in the future, it is another sweet signal she has a crush on you.

Read between the lines and figure this one out.

Signal 21@ She Ignores Her Phone When She Is With You

When a girl ignores her phone when you are around, knowingly or unknowingly she wants to say that she wants some undivided attention from you.

Signal 22@ She Is Trying To Make Room For You

Perhaps you think this is basic but if a girl is making space for you in any form, you be sure and take it as a signal that she is into you.

Experts say that if a woman is inviting you into her space she likes you.

Signal 23@ She Is Not Afraid To Use The Word ‘WE’

This is just a daring step. If a girl is willing to use the word ‘we’, you are on the right track. There is zero doubt she has a crush on you.

It takes time for a girl to get comfortable with another man. And if she is unconsciously using the term ‘we’, you can take that as a solidified signal she wants you badly. If she is talking about ‘we’ then she certainly is into you.

Signal 24@ Her Body Position Matters

When a girl is showing you with her body that she is into you, then you need to take it as it is. If a girl has a crush on you, a sincere one and she is not too nervous, she will show you with her body language she wants a little more.

If this girls is pushing away from you or has her arms and legs crossed, sadly she has no interest in you.

However, if she is leaning in toward you, wants your shoulder to lean on, or is openly touching any part of you, you have struck gold.

If this is the case there is zero doubt this girl has a crush on you.

Signal 25@ She Loves Showing Off Her Curves

If a girl is dressing nicely and trying to get your attention, it definitely means she has a keen interest in you.

Most women are very self-conscious of their bodies and when they are willing to put them on display for you, it really does mean something. Treat it with respect.

I hope talking about these 25 signals can be useful for you. They can help you judge if a girl has a crush on you.

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

8 Simple Ways To Get A Girl Notice You

Have you ever thought about making a perfect impression on a girl without even talking to her? You can use these 8 tips and tricks to get a girl to notice you without talking to her.

If you have the time and the patience, there are some pretty easy ways to get any girl to notice you and make a great impression upon her.

Have you bumped into a girl you find attractive in a place you visit frequently? It may be at work, in the corridors of college or even in a café.

When you like a girl who frequents the same place as you, it’s not always the best idea to walk up to her and use a pick up line.

After all, both of you are going to bump in often, and if she turns you down, you will always feel like a loser when she walks past you the next time around.

But if it’s a one off opportunity you have to talk to a girl you like, use these tips to talk to her and impress her.

How to Get a Girl to Notice You?

If you like a girl who bumps into you now and then, it’s always better to get her to notice you first before you walk up to her and charm her.

By doing that, you would be playing it safer, she would be more familiar with you and your presence and with any luck and a few tricks, you could probably make her like you without even saying hello!

8 Simple Ways To Get A Girl Notice You:

Sometimes, the girl you like may never even notice you or realize you exist. Well, it can hurt your ego, but this does happen at times and you just have to get out of that slump.

If you want to get a girl to notice you and like you, you need to look for ways to catch her attention.

By properly using these tips and tricks, you will definitely be able to get her notice you and even like you even before you talk to her.

@1# Be The Center of Attention.

You walk into her often. But if you want her attention, you need to be the center of everyone’s attention. Be fun and have your friends around you, especially when the girl you like walks by. Groups of people always get more attention than a single you skulking in a corner.

You may assume that you would get lost in the group, but even when you are with your friends, your infectious attitude and fun persona can make you stand apart from the rest.

@2# Dress Properly.

Dress smart. When you dress like a million bucks in clothes that fit you and look great on you while accentuating your assets at the same time, you are bound to get the attention you want.

Don’t be afraid to look unique or different, just as long as what you wear looks good on you. But don’t dress up just to get attention. There is a thin line between looking good and looking for attention. It’s a good start to let the girl you like know that you are a guy who can groom himself and take care of himself.

@3# Make Eye Contact With Her Now And Then.

At first, getting her to notice you may take a while, especially if you have been the shy guy who avoids any kind of attention.

But whenever you get a window of opportunity, lock eyes with her just for a second. Stare at her for too long and she will think you are creepy. Exchange a brief glance for a second now and then. It will make her wonder if you have got something on your mind. But don’t ever overdo it, not at least for the first week or so.

@4# Be Bold.

The guys who are bold and ready to take chances are the guys who always have a lot of fun and create interesting memories all the time. And girls always love a guy who is bold enough to do something that many may consider embarrassing or awkward. Participate in something when she is around, be it karaoke or a friendly competition between friends. Get her attention while doing something that catches attention and she will definitely be in awe of you.

@5# Get To Know One of Her Friends.

If you don’t want to risk taking a chance on talking to her directly, it’s always safe to get friendly with one of her friends, be it a guy or a girl. Sometimes, this approach can be the safest and the best way to make an impression.

@6# Be Confident.

Confidence is everything when it comes to looking good and attracting a girl’s attention. It’s a trait that reveals a lot about you even if you are doing nothing at all. Be confident no matter where you are. Stand upright, walk with confidence and speak with confidence.

Ever thought twice to speak to some guy at your workplace because he looked so cool, confident and inhibiting? Be that guy.

@7# Hang Out in The Same Place.

If you occasionally bump into this girl at the same place now and then, be it in the office cafeteria or in the parking lot, make sure you spend a while in the same place with your own friends. The easiest way to make a girl notice you and feel comfortable around you is by being seen in her favorite hangouts.

@8# Bump Into Her Outside Work.


Once you have created enough opportunities to bump into her around your workplace, it’s time to talk to her. Use your common friends or her online activities and get to know when she is going to some new place, be it a party or somewhere else with her friends. Make sure you get there with your own friends or by yourself, making sure she has no idea that the whole thing was planned ahead.

When you see her at the same place and catch her eye, just look at her for a second and appear confused like you don’t know whether to say hi or not. And then, just smile at her or use a half smile laced with surprise. If she has seen you enough times already and is familiar with you, she will definitely notice you and smile back at you too.

Friday, May 11, 2018

How To Turn Her ON Without Making Her Realize It?

A point that often gets missed when people sit down to try and categorize attraction is that: “attraction always happens first; the reasons for the attraction get attached later.” We literally feel attracted to those whom we are in synchronization with. We initially experience this being in synchronization as a feeling, not as a thought. We can certainly come up with reasons as to why we may be attracted to someone once we do start thinking about it but that doesn’t detract from the fact that we felt the attraction first.

If you realize that all initial attraction happens below the threshold of consciousness (i.e. it is subliminal) then you are forearmed with knowledge that will allow you to see if a woman is attracted to you before she is even consciously realizing it. She will initially communicate her attraction via non-verbal channels. The master seducer is always tuned into these channels and uses the signals he receives here as his cues to action.

In fact, when it comes to gauging how any particular seduction is going the master seducer will place much more stock in how a woman moves when she is near him and the way in which she speaks to him, than he will in the actual content of her conversation. This is not to say that he is not interested in what she is saying but it that he knows where he should concentrate his attention in terms of ascertaining her current level of interest.

So, that is one side of the equation: pay attention to the non-verbal signals that a female gives in order to work out her current level of interest. The other side of the equation is to give off your own non-verbal signals to indicate your intent to her.

There are 3 methods that will allow you to achieve this aim. Each of which will do the trick without her being conscious about it. Let us discuss each in turn.

@1# Body Language

Some simple starting components of the body language would be following:

(a) Move into her personal space.

You don’t want to be doing this until she has given you some initial sign of interest but once she has done so you be sure to start subliminally warming her up by getting inside her personal space. The safest way to start is by touching one of her personal extensions such as her cell phone or handbag and seeing how she reacts. If there is no adverse reaction on her part then the coast is clear to move physically closer.

(b) Create a dissonant dynamic.

Fancy term but all it means is to physically move in close and then pull away. It’s the not being constantly one thing or the other (i.e near or far) that creates the dissonance and makes you as the seducer harder to categorize and therefore more intriguing .

@2# Tone of Voice

Regardless of the content of your conversation it is your tone of voice that will convey what you are really thinking. Use your tone of voice as a tool to indicate sexual intent. Keep it warm and at times cheeky but above all make sure that it is playful. This all goes to create a vibe that is conducive to sexual congress.

@3# Make Her Feel Good

This is the number one rule of seduction and the ultimate subliminal tool. Help people feel good about themselves and it automatically follows that they will feel good about you. You could be discussing anything but if at the same time you are allowing her to feel more at ease with herself then it follows she will be more favorably disposed towards you.

So there you have it. When you know that attraction is a thing that first happens below the threshold of consciousness, you have within your grasp a very powerful tool because you can consciously apply methods that will affect her in a positive way without her being consciously aware of it. This really puts you in the driver’s seat in any seduction scenario.

Sunday, April 29, 2018

17 Signals: A Girl Is Flirting With You

If you want to know what a woman really wants, you are going to have to invest some time figuring out her language.

Yes, women speak a different language of love when compared to a man’s version and the more you know, the better off you will be. Particularly, when you are looking to figure out whether or not a girl has the interest for you.

Here are clear cut signals that she isn’t interested in you and on the flip side, some super hot signs that this girl really enjoys flirting with you.

Signs She Doesn’t Want Your Attention: 


@1#
Not looking at you at all.

@2# Not paying attention to you at all while you are trying to strike up a conversation with her.

@3# Arms crossed rigidly across her chest.

@4# Only one or two word replies.

@5# Touching you too much - means she just wants to be friends.

@6# Leaning away from you.

@7# Not contributing at all to the conversation.

Now let’s take a look at the pointers to figure out if a girl is flirting with you.

How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You?

17 Signs Which Suggest That A Girl Is Flirting With You:

Signal 01: She’s Got Her Smile On 


This move is one of the toughest to figure out because women smile for all different reasons. She might be nervous or shy, just trying to be friendly, or she might really be trying to flirt with you.

A good rule of thumb to follow is if a girl smiles at you from a far and the smile is slow and deliberate, then she wants to connect with you. This means she’s flirting with you and you better take action and flirt back.

Signal 02: Touching The Chin or Twirling The Hair 


When a girl wants to flirt with a man or wants him to notice her, she is going to show him with her body language. So she might bashfully twirl her hair or maybe bat her eyelashes at you.

Touching her lips, chin and face are also proven body language signals that a girl likes you and is trying to flirt.

These are all feminine flirty signs a girl is trying to turn a man on.

Signal 03: Cleaning Herself Up

If a woman heads to the bathroom and comes back with her hair brushed, lip gloss on, and perhaps she’s wearing her shirt a little lower. These are all clear signs that a girl is flirting with you.

What you do with this information is of course up to you.

Signal 04: Damsel In Distress

If a girl is looking for you to help her, she could very well be flirting with you.

For instance, if she happens to ask you to help her lift something heavy or maybe help her figure out something on her phone, she is seriously trying to get your attention.

All of which she is usually totally capable of handing on her own but she’s just looking to grab your attention. This is a straight in your face flirting technique.

Signal 05: Reaches Out And Touches You

If a girl reaches out to touch you when you’re talking, this is a sure fire sign she likes you. This is telling you that she is totally into you but doesn’t want to be too obvious about it just yet.

Beware: If she is constantly touching you and just doesn’t stop, that’s not good news for you. This means she is crazy comfy with you and just wants to be friends. So just be careful to pinpoint the difference between “flirting” and “just friends.”

Signal 06: Simple Body Language

This signal can be a little confusing. If a cute girl is talking with you but alternates between facing you and twisting away from you, then she’s flirting. Girls like to be mysterious too.

This also helps a woman stay relaxed and calm. Pay attention to this one and make sure you interpret it accordingly.

Signal 07: Twitching And Fidgeting

If a girl is fidgeting around you and acting a little twitchy-jumpy, chances are pretty good she’s trying to flirt with you. Remember, not all girls are skilled flirters off the hop.

She might play with her hair-band, twist her watch and maybe fiddle with her necklace. As long as she is making eye contact with you and not looking like she is so uncomfortable she wants to bolt, then she’s telling you with her body that she’s into you.

Signal 08: Getting Closer

When a woman is obviously trying to get close to you, she’s flirting. If on the other hand she is repeatedly trying to move away from you, then she’s not looking to be anything more than friends.

A girl that likes a man is going to invade his private space as much as she safely can. This may even get a little claustrophobic for you but it’s all with good intention. She just wants you to pay attention and notice her that’s all.

Why is she doing this?

Well, most girls believe the guy should be making the first move so this is all she’s going to give you so that you will make your move.

Better act fast if you like her.

Signal 09: Attentive Laughter

If a girl is laughing at all your jokes, even the lame ones, then she’s trying to tell you she likes you. This one is a little hard to understand but when a girl likes a guy, she is fascinated with him.

Don’t worry, it doesn’t last long. So you better take action fast if you like the idea of this girl flirting with you.

Signal 10: Puts You On The Spot

When a girl flirts with a guy, she might signal this by asking you lots of questions about you. Don’t think of these questions as interrogation, just that she is genuinely interested in you.

And don’t forget to give her good answers because unlike most boys, she is paying attention.

Signal 11: Makes Complements

If a girl is giving you compliments and taking stabs at you, she is probably flirting. Pay attention to this one or you just might miss out.

Signal 12: Future Talk 


This one sends many boys running but when a girl starts talking about the future, what’s down the road, then she is flirting with you.

She might talk about a band that is coming to town next month that she wants to see or maybe a party in a few weeks that you might like to come to.

When a girl is flirting with a man, she wants him to know that she would like to see him more than in the now and when you talk about things down the road, you are sealing the deal.

It’s important for you to semi-commit to events down the road if you want the flirting to continue. Otherwise she will just shut the door and move on fast.

Signal 13: Proving Herself

When a girl tries to validate herself to you with things she has accomplished, she is playfully flirting with you. Essentially, she is trying to show you she has value and deserves your attention.

Some girls go overboard and actually start to brag. Keep it in a positive light and understand it’s just her way of flirting with you.

Too bad girls never seem to be straight up when it comes to flirting. They like to send off signals but none of them are concrete.

Signal 14: Higher Voice And Faster Talk 


Experts say one of the easiest routes to figure out if a girl is flirting with you is to listen to how fast she is talking and the tone of her voice.

Girls seem to talk faster to the men they are interested in. So the next time you are with a group of girls, test the theory out.

Often when a girl likes a guy, her pitch will start to rise. This is all happening subconsciously so don’t hold it against her please.

Signal 15: Body Language

Understanding body language is very important when you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl likes you.

(a) Mimicking: If she is unconsciously following your movements, she is flirting. So when you cross your arms, scratch your head or yawn, pay attention to see if she follows suit.

Psychologists say people who like each other will try and mimic their behaviors. This one is derived from evolution and the need to find your place or fit in.

(b) Shoulders Pointed Toward You: When a girl is flirting with a man, she will keep her shoulders pointed in or toward him. This shows that she is trying to get your attention and she is paying attention to what you are saying and doing.

(c) Toes Pointed Toward You: If a girl is interested in a man, her feet will be pointed toward him. This is another unconscious move that people do when they like someone.

Signal 16: Showing Hands

When you are talking with this girl, pay close attention to what her hands are doing. Her hands will tell you a lot about what she is thinking and feeling.

If she is flirting with you, she will use her hands to tell you this by ‘talking’ with her hands. She might gesture with her hands when she is explaining things to you and use her hands to reach out and touch you.

Beware: If she is sitting on her hands, hiding them or sticking them in her pockets, she might be telling you she doesn’t want your attention.

Signal 17: Smooth Verbal Communication

Yes, it’s important that you pay attention to her body language, but you also need to listen to what she is saying.

If your conversation is easy, quick and smooth, seemingly effortless, then she’s into you.

On the flip side, If you happen to be the only one talking and she’s pretty much keeping to herself, with her mouth shut, then she might not be interested in you at all.

Beware: There are women that are just natural flirts with everyone and likely have no romantic interest in you whatsoever.

She is likely skilled in most everything we’ve talked about thus far, but just likes the thrill of the flirt.

Don’t get mixed up with this one or you will get shot down.

So how do you tell if she’s just a natural flirt?

Pay attention to how she is acting around everyone else. Is she giving all the signs and signals to every other man in the room?

When you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl is flirting with you or genuinely not interested, it becomes sort of a puzzle.

You need to pay attention to the signals, the body language, words, and overall vibe.

And make sure you don’t get stuck on a natural flirter that just enjoys flirting for the sake of flirting and nothing more.

Saturday, April 7, 2018

How To Attract Women Without Saying A Single Word?

In order to attract women without saying a single word, you need to master the four key areas of non-verbal game.

These areas are all tied into each other and once combined will create a magnetic gut level attraction that most women just won’t be able to resist.

They will sense you when you walk into a room, feel the urge to look over and grab a glimpse of you, maybe even send one of their friends over to talk to you because they’re too damn shy to do it themselves.

Once you pull this stuff off correctly, you can have your pick whilst other guys will just look at you in amazement, thinking to themselves, “Why is every girl in here looking at that guy?”

Now, let us talk about the 4 techniques which help to attract women without saying a single word.


Step 1# The First Impression #

First impressions are everything, not just with women but with everything in life so you need to treat it with top priority.

(a) Have fun with your friends: When you’re in the moment and having fun with your friends, nothing else matters. You’re not seeking approval from anyone, you’re just having fun. This is very attractive to women, so do this more.

(b) Smile and banter casually: Most guys will stand at a bar and use fake smiles or talk about crap, just so they can look like they’re talking about something interesting. Never do this, you should always be genuine and banter about real things, smile and focus on your friends primarily. This is your reality and you’re inviting others to be a part of it if they wish, you’re not pandering to anyone else.

(c) Creating a positive vibe: Let’s say you’re in a bar with one friend, you’re both laughing and joking, feeling great and just chilling… however to your right, there are two other guys just standing there, not saying a word to each other and looking all uncomfortable. Who do you think looks more attractive to a woman? Of course it’s you, because you’re creating an enticing energy that women want to be involved in.


Step 2# Attractive Body Language #

There is some terrible advice out there on body language, so avoid any of the over hyped stuff and just focus on the following:

(a) Alpha male stance: Remove your hands from your pockets and leave them by your sides, with your thumb and forefinger together so you don’t feel the need to move your hands. Then widen your feet so they are shoulder width apart, this is a very alpha stance.

(b) Don’t sway side to side: It’s natural to sway when you’re nervous and self-conscious. Fight the urge to do this, because it shows that you’re uncomfortable.

(c) Don’t fidget: Fidgeting is the number one way to scream to women that you’re not confident with yourself. You look like a lost child who needs his mummy.

(d) Don’t make jerky movements: Making any swift jerky movement just projects a nervous energy which is not attractive, so stop it!


Step 3# Eye Contact #

Your eyes allow you to communicate everything you need to without saying a word, so use them to your advantage.

(a) Don’t break downwards: If you look at a girl and then look downwards, you are subconciously saying that you’re a bitch. So never look downwards, if you’re not interested in her always look to the side.

(b) Hold eye contact until she breaks it: When you see an attractive girl and you both lock eyes, hold it until she looks away first. This shows that you’re a dominant character and the alpha male.

(c)Stop looking around nervously:
If you have shifty eyes it just says to others that you’re a shifty kind of person, so try your hardest to focus on your friend and slow down your eye movements in general.


Step 4# Reading Subtle Signals #

Women give off ridiculously subtle signals when they are interested in a guy and they wonder why we never go over to them. It actually becomes a bit of an art after a while, so you need to make sure you ask yourself these three questions the next time you have your eye on a girl.

(a) Is she close to you? The longer she stands close to you, the more interested she is in you. Say for example you’re in a bar and she’s been standing very close to you for well over 30 minutes, it means she’s attracted to you, so make a move.

(b) What does she do when you look at her? The moment you look at her and she looks at you, notice if she looks away instantly or gives you small smile, adjusts her hair, nudges her friend etc. These are all ways of her saying “I think you’re hot”.

(c)How did she react? If you get some positive reactions from her, then make a move; or if you get some obvious negative reactions from her, then move on.

So that’s pretty much exactly how to attract women without saying anything to them. Non-verbal game does take a few hours to master, so you must practice every time you’re out and stop yourself when you do something wrong.

Saturday, March 24, 2018

18 Signs: She Is Flirting With You

Honestly speaking identifying flirting behavior is a difficult endeavor for straight men everywhere. How can you possibly tell the difference between a woman who’s making an effort to flirt and one who’s simply being nice?

The following indicators will give you some promising signs to look out for in a potential female admirer. 


@1# She Angles Her Body Towards You.

Body language is the key when it comes to discerning if a woman is into you. Crossed arms indicate that she is guarded, while tilting forward with her legs angled towards yours communicates that she’s fine with the idea of getting close. 

@2# She Covers Her Mouth When She Laughs.

This means she’s a little bit self-conscious about talking to you, which often indicates that she cares how she looks and sounds, which further indicates that she might be romantically interested in you. 

@3# She Maintains Eye Contact.

If she can focus on your eyes throughout your initial meeting, she’s either a great trained listener or you’ve piqued her attention. 

@4# She Lets You Buy Her A Drink.

However, don’t be fooled with this gesture. It may shock you to hear, but many women will chat up a guy just in time for their drink to appear as if by magic at the bar before they quickly turn and walk the other way. 

@5# She Buys You A Drink.


This is a much more surefire indicator that she’s prepared to flirt with you for the long haul. 

@6# She Isn’t Obviously Searching Around For An Escape.

If her eyes wander back behind her head, it means she’s looking for the nearest exit. 

@7# She Brings Up A Potential Date Idea.

She may not frame it so obviously as such, but if she ponders aloud about how seeing that movie you’ve been discussing would be fun to do with someone sometime, don’t hesitate to take that as a hint. 

@8# She Asks Lots Of Questions.

While some women are just plain inquisitive, lots of inquiries are also play a great way to prolong conversations you don’t want to end. 

@9# You Seem To Run Into Each Other A Lot.

It’s now been three times that you’ve seen this woman around 1 pm at the same lunch spot. You both either have the same favorite place to get sandwiches, or she’s made a mental note that you’ll come in around that time everyday and you should check whether or not you’ve made that note yourself. 

@10# She Laughs At Your Stupid Jokes.

No one else you know laughed at that knock-knock joke about the talking muffin. It’s kind of suspicious that she burst into giggles before you even got to the punch line, isn’t it? 

@11# She Adjusts Her Hair And Clothes While You’re Talking.

Being fidgety or bored can account for a certain amount of these behaviors, but constant hair smoothing may mean she’s hoping the strands are all in place so she impresses you with her good looks. 

@12# She Touches You.

Reaching out to lightly shove your arm isn’t how just anybody would react to your sarcastic remark. You and your co-workers aren’t going around being touchy-feely with each other, are you? 

@13# She Asks You For A Favor.


This gives her an excuse to hang out with you again or for a longer period of time. 

@14# She Is Ignoring You, But You Catch Her Staring.

Lots of ladies are shy, so always consider that the woman giving you lots of furtive glances from the corner might be doing her best to flirt with you. 

@15# She Blushes.

She wouldn’t be embarrassed if she had nothing to lose by looking kind of silly around you. 

@16# She Acts Noticeably Different Around You.

If you have the opportunity, pay attention to how she behaves when she’s with other guys. If her behavior really alters, it could be that she’s in flirt mode when you’re by her side. 

@17# She Is Straightforward.

Instead of making vague comments about how she’d like to see you in the future or providing cloudy answers to your personal questions, a woman who’s actually flirting with you will be more honest and concrete. If she’s flirting because she wants to see you again, she’ll make an effort to actually put that in motion. 

@18# She Is Grinning Even After She Walks Away.

If you happen to be in a position where you can catch of a glimpse of her face after you guys have parted ways, check to see if she’s still smiling. If a grin lingers on her face, you’re in luck.

Sunday, March 18, 2018

Top Signs of Female Attraction

Attraction comes in a lot of subtle forms. As a man, it’s your job to recognize these attraction signs so that you enjoy them for their own sake and you can also celebrate and escalate. Men who miss out on attraction signs will miss a lot of opportunities to connect with women they’re interested in.

It sounds silly, but guys usually spend lots of time and energy getting a girl interested and then miss every sign that she’s interested back. He walks away frustrated, because he doesn’t know she’s been hanging on his every word.

The Female Perception of Flirtation:

If you walked up to a woman, started talking to her by raising your pitch, batting your eyelashes and twirling your hair, she might think you were a little strange to say the least. And while there’s absolutely nothing threatening about a woman touching you, but you touching her in a wrong way can get you slapped or worse. That’s because men and women, each have distinct ways they flirt. What works for women doesn’t work for men and vice versa.

Basically, men have evolved to be hyper-perceptive of sexual interest so you don’t miss any opportunities. Women, however, have evolved to be less perceptive of sexual interest because hopping on every caveman they run across means they end up stuck with less than ideal mates and more offspring than they can take care of.

Because women are less perceptive, they tend to have more subtle ways of flirting. Men will hit on a woman, going out of their way to express and cultivate interest at the same time. In contrast, women don’t want to make it super obvious that they’re flirting. This means you have to pay more attention to catch those signs at first. But once you learn how to recognize them, you’ll start having a lot more fun when you go out.

Here are some of the most common and top signs of female attraction:

@1# Preening

Preening is basically any of the ‘fixing herself’ stuff that women do when they’re around a guy they’re interested in. Part of it is nerves. Part of it is that she actually wants to look better for you. Part of it is that there’s just something kind of hot about a woman putting herself together and women subconsciously know this.

According to a psychological study, preening, primping and pouting are all things women do when they’re attracted to men. In fact, the study found that these behaviors aren’t just something women do when they’re vaguely physically interested. Preening behaviors are what women do when they’re zeroing in on their man. She’s no longer checking you out. She’s screaming to you, in her own way, that she’s attractive.

@2# Laughing At Your Jokes

While it’s true that women like a man who can make them laugh, it’s worth noting that she might not be laughing because you’re the funniest guy at the bar. She might be laughing just because she likes you. They just think guys they like are funny. It’s a subtle difference but an important one.

For your purpose, it doesn’t much matter. She either really thinks you’re funny, which is good, or she wants you to think she thinks you’re funny, which might even be better. Pay attention to laughter from women. It’s a dead giveaway that she’s enjoying your company, whether she actually thinks you’re funny or not.

@3# Eye Contact 


Eye contact isn’t necessarily a sign that a woman is attracted to you. After all, good eye contact is just good social behavior. Behavioral study shows that prolonged eye contact from a woman - anything beyond what’s normal and conversational - is a sign of attraction.

Think about it. When you’re out at a bar, if a girl is trying to get away from you, one of the easiest ways to do that is to start flitting her eyes around the room, looking for absolutely anything else she can be doing but talking to you. On the other hand, the eyes aren’t just windows of the soul. They’re kind of tractor beams of the soul. When she gazes back at you, she’s trying to pull you in further and prolong the interaction. Don’t ignore the simple act of eye contact as a sign of attraction.

Keep your eyes on her. Not only will it help you to build attraction, it will also help you to recognize the attraction she’s throwing at you. Particularly with shy or reserved girls, this might be the only attraction sign you’re going to get. So be on the attentive mode.

@4# Personal Questions

Personal questions are a common sign of attraction many men miss. I’m talking about questions that go beyond the simple ‘getting to know you’ types of formalities people feel like they have to go through when meeting someone new. Look for questions that you only really ask someone for when you’re trying to get a sense of who they really are. Alternately, she might be asking you questions of a more emotional bent to establish more of a bond and rapport with you.

Asking questions specifically tailored to who you are, the conversation the two of you are having that help her to get at who you really are deep down, that’s a sign of attraction.

When she’s asking you a lot of questions, she’s probably not just looking for information. She’s trying to keep you talking to her.

@5# Touch

I’m always amazed at how many guys overlook touch when it comes to attraction. Women don’t touch guys they’re not interested in. That includes a lot of accidental touching. For a variety of complex evolutionary reasons, men tend to initiate while women tend to put on the brakes. What this means is that while you might initiate an overt touch, she probably won’t. What she’ll do instead is accidentally touch you.

Don’t read every accidental touch as a sign of attraction. What you’re looking for isn’t one isolated example. What you’re looking for is a repeated pattern. If she keeps banging her elbow against yours in a totally empty room, she’s attracted to you. If she brushes her arm up against yours once in a room full of people, she might very well be into you, but she’s not signaling anything other than being in a crowded room.

When she’s touching you, think about why she’s doing it. If there’s no real reason other than attraction, escalate that touch. Start with something small like touching her hands, arms or upper back and see where it goes from there.

@6# Context Is The King

When evaluating signs of female attraction, you need to pay attention not just to what she’s doing, but also the context in which she does it. Her signs of attraction aren’t a statement or even a paragraph. They’re a whole story and you have to look at everything before making your final determination.

Eye contact by itself might not mean much, but eye contact and a torrent of personal questions probably do. Fixing herself might just mean she’s self-conscious, but preening while laughing at everything that you say is a dead giveaway. Standing close to you might mean the room is crowded, but standing on top of you while gazing up is another sure sign of attraction.

Next time you go out, try and pay more attention for signs of female attraction. Knowing how to see signs of female attraction can do a lot to boost your confidence when it comes to talking to woman. Once you know the signs, you won’t ever have to guess again.

Friday, March 16, 2018

12 Body Language Signs That Show She Is Into You

Your words may fake it, but your heart can’t. When you are attracted to someone, your eyes always give away the truth. It’s not very hard to tell when someone likes you. But if you are still confused, here are 12 body language signs that show she likes you.

@1# She is always fidgeting while talking to you; fiddling with her phone or jewellery or her drink. It’s a sign that your presence makes her nervous, in a good way, of course.

@2# She stands with her arms on the side. This body posture shows her willingness to be approached. However, if she stands with her arms crossed, she might not be interested at all.

@3# She maintains a prolonged eye contact. No, not ‘looking into your eyes’, we are talking about that steely gaze stares deep into your eyes and holds on for a little longer than 3 seconds, making your heart race even faster. And if she smiles while she makes eye contact, you have hit the jackpot.

@4# Watch out for her gaze. If she occasionally shifts her eyes to your lips when you are talking, she is definitely attracted to you.

@5# You see her playing with her hair a lot when you are around, whether it is running her fingers through her hair or tucking them behind her ear or just twirling a strand around her finger.

@6# She involuntarily draws attention to her lips, either by laughing a lot or licking them lightly, almost in an involuntary move when you are looking at her.

@7# She turns her head to one side, exposing her neck. It’s a sign of vulnerability. She may be doing this without knowing but it’s a clear sign of attraction.

@8# She smiles a lot. She smiles every time she looks at you. And it’s not the usual smile. You can see her eyes light up every time. That glint is the biggest giveaway.

@9# She tries to draw your attention to her face by touching her lips or collarbone.

@10# There are a lot of accidental brushes when she is around. She tends to graze her hand against your arm slightly or touches your wrist. It’s different from a causal touch. That subtle, electrifying touch reveals all that is going on in her mind.

@11# Her legs always point towards you whether she’s sitting or standing. Science says if we are attracted to someone, we always point our feet in their direction.

@12# Women tend to stand really close to guys they are attracted to. So, if the physical proximity seems to be diminishing, it might be time to make a move on her.

Thursday, March 8, 2018

30 Added Signs Which Shows She Likes You

Here are 30 more signs to look for in a girl if she likes you: 

1. She Looks Back and Glances at You Repeatedly Every Minute or So. 

2. She Turns Her Body Towards You. 

3. She Holds Eye Contact for Longer Periods of Time When She Speaks With You. 

4. She Asks You for Your Name. 

5. She Asks You a Lot of Questions. 

6. She Stands Nearby. 

7. She Asks You for a Light or the Time or in Any Way Initiates a Conversation. 

8. She Plays with Her Hair While Talking to You. 

9. She Compliments You. 

10. She Punches Your Arm While Laughing. 

11. She Laughs at Your Jokes, Even When They Aren’t Funny. 

12. If It Comes Up That You Like Something, She Mentions That She Likes It Too. 

13. She Re-initiates Conversations When You Stop Talking. 

14. She Asks if You Have a Girlfriend. 

15. She Mentions Your Girlfriend Without Knowing If You Actually Have One. 

16. She turns Playful and Tries to Challenge You. 

17. She Touches You. 

18. When She Says or Does Something, She Looks at You to See Your Reaction. 

19. She Tries to Build Rapport. 

20. She Introduces You to Friends. 

21. Her Friends Go (to the Bathroom or Bar or Dancing) But She Stays. 

22. While You are Talking to Her Group, She Is Particularly Talkative to Get Your Attention. 

23. She Calls You a Player or a Heart-breaker. 

24. She Invents Reasons to Be Near You, Interact with You, or Be Alone with You. 

25. She Avoids Mentioning Her Boyfriend. 

26. On Her Way Out, She Re-approaches You to Tell You That She is Leaving. 

27. On Your Way Out, She Asks You Where You Are Going. 

28. She Doesn’t Flinch or Pull Back if You Happen to Get Too Close. 

29. If You Move, She Follows You or Waits for You. 

30. She Doesn’t Resist When Things Get Sexual.

Tuesday, March 6, 2018

8 Sure Signs That A Girl Likes You

You all know the saying: “Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars.” Dudes and chicks simply communicate in different ways, and this leaves a lot of room for error in communication. How to know if a girl likes you? There are some VITAL signs which one must be able to read.

Girls have a vast array of emotional and physical tells when they are attracted to a boy. These are there to show interest without actually giving too much away.

Here are the 8 most common signs one should look for to discover if she is attracted or not. 


Sign 1# Her Pupils Dilate When Looking At You

At the time when she is looking at you, paying attention to her pupils can tell you everything about her potential romantic interest in you.

A girl can say a lot with her look, she can reflect sadness, excitement, fear, joy and even attraction.

If the last one is the case, you will be able to notice, that:

· Her pupils may be dilated.

· She will attempt to make eye contact often, even if she averts her gaze every time you return it.

· She will often smile, and this will be reflected in her eyes as well.

If you think she is attracted to you, try complimenting her look. Telling any chick how beautiful her eyes are is always a win.

Dilation of pupils is said to be the perfect sign of attraction.

According to a new study, pupil dilation is an accurate indicator of sexual orientation. When people look at erotic images and become aroused, their pupils open up in an unconscious reaction that could be used to study orientation and arousal without invasive genital measurements.

Keep in mind:

A kind compliment now and then will not only make other people feel good about themselves but will make your mood better as well.

Just keep in mind that dilated pupils are something she can’t control. So if you notice it, take it as a bulletproof sign that she is unconsciously exhibiting interest and excitement. 

Sign 2# She Plays With Her Hair

While it may sound strange to men, ladies use their hair to say a lot of things. Unfortunately, it’s simply not a language we speak.

A girl who is interested in you will often touch her hair (either to correct it or to play with it) while near you. This is a subconscious thing women do when attracted to a man, wanting to be perfect by correcting a flyaway or replacing a fallen curl.

Touching her hair is a sign that she likes you.

“The age old trick of playing with the hair is a way for woman to not only let a man know she is interested, but to market herself to an entire audience as a flirtatious person. The twisting, twirling, flicking motions all send signals that she is single and ready to have fun.

When in a private discussion, however, pay attention if she begins to stroke her hair or pushes it off of her shoulders to expose her face; both indicate an attempt to quickly clean up her appearance.”


So the next time, look for these signs:

· She is running her fingers through her hair.

· She is twirling a lock around her finger.

· She is flipping her hair back.

She may even tilt her head to her side to reveal her neck and flip her hair around to release pheromones.

If she does mess with her hair a great deal while in your company, especially when there is no reason for her to do it, it certainly means that she is attracted to you. 

Sign 3# She Touches And Bites Her Lips

To communicate with your lips, you do not need to be speaking! Keep in mind that women are well versed at sharing interest wordlessly.

If she likes you she will check out your lips often as she is evaluating their thickness and ability to kiss. Not only that, she will try to focus your attention on her lips as well during flirt.

Take note of seemingly mindless moves like:

· Reapplying her lipstick.

· Biting her bottom lip.

· Running her fingers across her lips.

· She is teasingly licking her lips.

If she touches or bites her lips, and you notice it, your mind may very often go back to thoughts of kissing them. Provoking your mind is exactly what a chick who is flirting with you is trying to do.

Biting lips is terrific sign of attraction.

“One major physical sign of attraction from a woman is licking or a slight biting of her lips. This is a subtle sign of desire Do not ignore it. During intimacy the lips play an important role.

Imagine her lips kissing your neck softly, or other areas of your body for that matter. When she licks her lips while staring at you she is telling you she is thinking these thoughts.”


If you see this type of behavior, you can be almost sure she likes you and think you are attractive. 

Sign 4# Her Body Is Facing You

Observing her body language is a bulletproof way to know if she likes you or not. Facing someone with your body is a subconscious sign that you are listening to them and signaling that they are your current attention holder.

In a general conversation, it’s just polite, but with a woman, it can indicate an attraction; especially, if she is creeping into your personal space.

Therefore, check out these things the next time you are around her:

1. Does she face you when you are talking?

2. If just standing around, is her body facing towards you?

3. Are her arms by her sides?

4. Does she lean into you?

5. Does she push her chest out?

6. Pay particular focus to her feet, are her toes pointing at you or away?

If yes, it could mean that she is trying to convey an interest in you. She subconsciously wants you to know that she isn’t ignoring you or wanting to be somewhere else.

Her attention is just on you.

Sign 5# She Seeks Out Your Presence

Every time she walks into a room full of people, her eyes seek you out first. Pay attention as this may even be a quick, simple thing such as this: “She walks in, views you, gives you a quick smile and then turns to find her friends.”

You were first, and that means a lot. Want to know why? Because it says that she was thinking of you before she even walked into that room.

You were on her mind, and she had to check to make sure you were already there before she moves on to enjoy the crowd. What is more, she will seek out and use every opportunity to be in your presence and communicate.

That is why you should look for these signs as well:

· She looks forward to hang out with you without any hesitation and reason.

· She calls or texts you first.

· She is down to hang out.

· She always enjoy talking to you.

· She follows you online and likes your posts.

· She breaks away from conversations with her friends to talk to you

All these are perfect signs she is interested in you and she thinks you are attractive. She simply can’t resist talking to you. 

Sign 6# She Touches You Accidentally

Physical contact is by far the most common way a woman will express her interest in you. An occasional playful punch or quick touch means a big deal when coming from a girl.

Why?

Because it means she was seeking out a reason to touch you or bump into you. That is why you need to pay close attention to how she is behaving in your presence.

Just look for these signs the next time you see her:

ü Does she touch you, rub you or push you?

ü Does she lay her hand on your shoulder in greeting?

ü Does she stand close to you?

ü Does she squeeze your arm gently when you make her laugh or when telling a story?

ü Does she invade your personal space so she can “accidentally” graze her arms with you?

If she just takes advantage of each and every situation to touch you then you can be sure she finds you attractive.

If your answers to above questions are YES, then she is definitely into you as all of these are all standard flirting techniques.

Try touching her in ‘safe’ places such as hand, arm or her upper back and see how she responds. If she seems to like it then that’s a clear sign of attraction.

Sign 7# She Laughs Even At Your Poor Jokes

Joking is one of those times where everyone is trying to say the same thing, just using a different language. Boys who are interested will often want to make their ‘target’ girl smile while chicks who are attracted to a guy will also want to do so.

If she laughs at all of your jokes, even bad ones, she may be trying to show her interest in you.

A person telling a joke, even a bad one, often just wants to make their audience smile. Smiling at someone’s jokes affirms their self-esteem. It lets them know that their goal to amuse you has succeeded.

Just remember that if she is smiling a lot in your presence, especially when she is talking to you then there is a high chance she finds you attractive and interesting.

The sign she laughs is really important:

“If a woman is laughing at everything you say, she has plans to fuck you.

That’s all there is to it. Your jokes don’t have to be any good, because she is not really listening. If she is planning to fuck you, she will laugh. And if she is not, she won’t. End of story.

So if you want to use comedy to get a woman into bed, here is what you need to do. Find a girl desperate enough to fuck you. Then everything you say will be comedy gold.”


If you want to know if a girl likes you, try saying a stupid joke and watch her reaction. How does she act? Does she laugh a lot? 

Sign 8# She Talks About You With Her Friends

A girl who feels attraction to a boy will want to talk about him to all of her female friends. What do they think about him? Do they think he is interested in her? Wouldn’t they make such a cute couple? What do you think his favorite color is?

If you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you, this is one of those VITAL signs you should look for. Every girl wants a social affirmation on her attraction from the people who are close to her.

If you see her with her friends, just look for these signs:

· Whenever you are around her friends, they start laughing or giggling.

· When you come to her circle of friends, she stops talking suddenly (this may mean that you were the topic of that conversation).

· Look out for the moments when her friends are teasing her whenever you are around and she is like “Just stop it”.

When you catch her talking about you, that is one of the best signs that she feels a strong attraction towards you.

Yes, if a girl likes you, she will shout it out to the world or at least to her best friends. In case she is an introvert, try finding if her best friend knows about you and if she does, that is an excellent sign.

Friday, February 2, 2018

12 Signs: A Girl Is Interested In You

There are certain signs which speak volumes about a girl’s interest in a boy. If you too are among those wondering about how to know if a girl is interested in you, you must look forward for these obvious signs and signals in her.

Noticing and knowing about these signs, you may become sure if a girl is interested in you. Here are the top 12 signs which reveal her interest in you.

12 Signs That A Girl Is Interested In You:


#1@ If a girl is interested in you, she will ask about you in your absence and even when you are around, she will continue asking about you at your back. She will try to gather a lot of information about you before actually coming to you. Girls too want to leave a great first impression and hence research about you before actually talking to you.

#2@ She will make enquiry about your status, if you are single or not, when was the last time you went out with a girl, etc. She will try to gather this information as subtly as possible. This is almost as assuring as asking you out.

#3@ She will try to grab your attention by doing different conventional and unconventional activities, like challenging you and at times even teasing you. When a woman starts getting playful, it means that she has certain amount of interest in you and then it is over to you to build up the rest. Giving nicknames is also a part of this game.

#4@ She incessantly laughs at your jokes. Though you know that you are a funny man but at times you find her laughing even at some of your serious comments.

#5@ She initiates a physical contact and if you make a physical contact, she seldom resists or maintains the physical contact initiated by you. Like every time she laughs, she prefers touching your hand and when last time your foot touched under the table, she didn’t try to move it away and left it at its place.

#6@ She compliments you though she knows that it will make her look desperate, still she does that whenever she finds an opportunity. This is her way to clearly hint you about her interest in you. This is probably the most she will do and hence this is a major sign that a girl likes you.

#7@ She becomes quite annoyed with you but she does this in such a playful manner that it seems clear from her demeanor that she has fallen for you. At times, she is upset about petty things and wants you to notice it because you are the one who is able to stir emotions in her.

#8@ She wants you to show her how some things are done or otherwise she wishes you to teach her own things. This is solely done to buy some time alone with you. You will really be able to see that all learning thing is a sham as she won’t even be bit interested in the things you will be teaching her.

#9@ She will try to elicit a few reactions from you and for that she will try to make you jealous, provoke you physically or sexually, etc. So keep a check on stories she tells which will usually get a reaction from a guy, like an affair or something else in such terms.

#10@ Some women at times lower their voice in a sexual husky manner so that they can gain some intimacy by moving closer. Keep an eye on this one as this is one of the prime signals that she has got for you.

#11@ She agrees almost on every opinion you have. This shows that she is trying to come into an agreement with you, almost at any cost. This is one of the psychological signals because we try to follow the person with whom we want to be in agreeable terms.

#12@ Eye contacts and expressions are a couple of things which speak volumes. If at times you catch her staring at you and when you turn to her, she either shy away or makes an awkward eye contact, it means she is falling for you. Her expressions while you make an eye contact with her reveal volumes.

So, follow these signals and if you are able to make out two or three of these signals, it means you have struck gold as you now know that the girl likes you a lot.