25 Signals: A Girl Has A Crush On You

There are some solid signals which reveal that a girl has a crush on you. From time to time they give some signals either knowingly or unknowingly. Unless someone is able to interpret those signals, it becomes tough to make it sure that she has a crush for you.

These signals can be very confusing but it’s worth to know about them and to notice them. Here are some of the top signals one should notice to know about her crush.

 5 Signals To Know If A Girl Has A Crush On You:

 Signal 1@ She Enjoys Talking To You

If a girl makes herself available and is engaged with whatever you are saying or doing, you have got a good solid signal she has all eyes on you.

Think about it for a minute. If she didn’t like you, she would be nowhere to be found.

Signal 2@ She Is The First To Crack A Smile

If she is actually belly laughing instead of giggling, that is even better. And if you are both laughing together, that is just bonus.

When a girl makes a point of making sure you know she thinks you are funny, whether you are or not, that is just magical.

Signal 3@ She Is Shy Of Your Eyes

Sometimes you may notice that she gets a little sheepish when you are staring directly at her.

This isn’t about a lack of confidence. It’s about caring about what you think and not yet comfortable with your gaze. Give it a little time and who knows where it will lead.

Signal 4@ She Makes A Point Of Noticing You

This one comes in all different shapes and sizes but when a girl makes sure you know she is wary of your presence. This is an excellent sign she wants to know you better.

Signal 5@ She Licks Her Lips

This one is for you to ponder. When a girl is licking her lips, it has got to be all good.

Signal 6@ Your Smile Lights Her Up

This should be one of the first rock solid indicators you see shouting out to you and the world that she really likes you. It needs to be one of those real smiles that make her eyes crinkle.

Signal 7@ Flirting With Other Girls Is A No No

This is a tough one to read but if you notice her demeanor changing when you are around other potential candidates. This is a good sign. She might leave, slink off into a corner, or act busy with her friends.

If you can tell she doesn’t like you around other girls, the ball is in your court.

Signal 8@ She Loves The Touchy Feely Stuff

If she is making a clear point of touching your clothing; your shoulder, back or whatever, this is a clear cut signal she really likes you.

Signal 9@ Her Friends Are On The Bandwagon

Girls are very different than boys in this instance. When a girl has a crush on a guy, her friends are the first to know. The good news for you is they will give you hints she likes you.

Perhaps they will giggle when you walk by. Or they might start causally asking you questions. No worries. This is all good.

Signal 10@ She Lingers Around To Find You

If she lingers around to see you after everyone else has left or she randomly shows up where she knows you will be, that is an absolute indicator this girl has a crush on you.

Signal 11@ She Likes What You Like

This one may sound a little weird but it’s for all the right reasons.

When a girl is willing to step outside of her comfort zone to learn what you love and what has meaning to you, then you are on the right track thinking she has a major crush on you.

Signal 12@ She Lights Up Around You

This is something she really has no control over. But if she is blushing sheepishly when you are around, there’s no doubt she has a crush on you.

Further, if she loses her words around you or fidgets with nervousness, this girl is totally into you.

Signal 13@ She Twirls Her Hair

This is a simplistic unconscious sign that a girl really likes you. If she is twirling her hair in her fingers, it means she is thinking about you playing with her hair.

If she is smiling when she does it, you are one lucky guy.

Signal 14@ Infrequent Bumping Is Present

If she suddenly seems to bumping into you left, right and center, that is an excellent signal that she has a crush on you. If she didn’t want anything to do with you, then she would make herself scarce.

Signal 15@ She Halts Talking With Her Friends To Talk With You

This is absolutely amazing. When a girl shuts off her girl talk to give her undivided attention to you whenever you appear, that is just fantastic. No doubt she has a crush on you if this is the case.

Signal 16@ She Tells You That You Look Amazing

When a girl makes a point of letting you know when she notices you, is a great sign. It simply means that she has put effort into your look.

Signal 17@ Her Arms Are Not Crossed

While talking, if a girl’s arms are crossed, she is closed to any sort of connection. So, if her arms are relaxed by her side, she is telling you that she wants to get closer to you.

Signal 18@ Her Single Status Is Clear

She comes to you and makes it clear that she is single or even better yet, she asks you about your status.

Signal 19@ She Is Ready To Hang Out With you

This is a tough step for some girls. But if a girl suggests that you hang out or opens the door to that, then you have got a winner.

Signal 20@ She Talks About Future

If this girl is talking about anything in the future, it is another sweet signal she has a crush on you.

Read between the lines and figure this one out.

Signal 21@ She Ignores Her Phone When She Is With You

When a girl ignores her phone when you are around, knowingly or unknowingly she wants to say that she wants some undivided attention from you.

Signal 22@ She Is Trying To Make Room For You

Perhaps you think this is basic but if a girl is making space for you in any form, you be sure and take it as a signal that she is into you.

Experts say that if a woman is inviting you into her space she likes you.

Signal 23@ She Is Not Afraid To Use The Word ‘WE’

This is just a daring step. If a girl is willing to use the word ‘we’, you are on the right track. There is zero doubt she has a crush on you.

It takes time for a girl to get comfortable with another man. And if she is unconsciously using the term ‘we’, you can take that as a solidified signal she wants you badly. If she is talking about ‘we’ then she certainly is into you.

Signal 24@ Her Body Position Matters

When a girl is showing you with her body that she is into you, then you need to take it as it is. If a girl has a crush on you, a sincere one and she is not too nervous, she will show you with her body language she wants a little more.

If this girls is pushing away from you or has her arms and legs crossed, sadly she has no interest in you.

However, if she is leaning in toward you, wants your shoulder to lean on, or is openly touching any part of you, you have struck gold.

If this is the case there is zero doubt this girl has a crush on you.

Signal 25@ She Loves Showing Off Her Curves

If a girl is dressing nicely and trying to get your attention, it definitely means she has a keen interest in you.

Most women are very self-conscious of their bodies and when they are willing to put them on display for you, it really does mean something. Treat it with respect.

I hope talking about these 25 signals can be useful for you. They can help you judge if a girl has a crush on you.

8 Simple Ways To Get A Girl Notice You

Have you ever thought about making a perfect impression on a girl without even talking to her? You can use these 8 tips and tricks to get a girl to notice you without talking to her.

If you have the time and the patience, there are some pretty easy ways to get any girl to notice you and make a great impression upon her.

Have you bumped into a girl you find attractive in a place you visit frequently? It may be at work, in the corridors of college or even in a café.

When you like a girl who frequents the same place as you, it’s not always the best idea to walk up to her and use a pick up line.

After all, both of you are going to bump in often, and if she turns you down, you will always feel like a loser when she walks past you the next time around.

But if it’s a one off opportunity you have to talk to a girl you like, use these tips to talk to her and impress her.

How to Get a Girl to Notice You?

If you like a girl who bumps into you now and then, it’s always better to get her to notice you first before you walk up to her and charm her.

By doing that, you would be playing it safer, she would be more familiar with you and your presence and with any luck and a few tricks, you could probably make her like you without even saying hello!

8 Simple Ways To Get A Girl Notice You:

Sometimes, the girl you like may never even notice you or realize you exist. Well, it can hurt your ego, but this does happen at times and you just have to get out of that slump.

If you want to get a girl to notice you and like you, you need to look for ways to catch her attention.

By properly using these tips and tricks, you will definitely be able to get her notice you and even like you even before you talk to her.

@1# Be The Center of Attention.

You walk into her often. But if you want her attention, you need to be the center of everyone’s attention. Be fun and have your friends around you, especially when the girl you like walks by. Groups of people always get more attention than a single you skulking in a corner.

You may assume that you would get lost in the group, but even when you are with your friends, your infectious attitude and fun persona can make you stand apart from the rest.

@2# Dress Properly.

Dress smart. When you dress like a million bucks in clothes that fit you and look great on you while accentuating your assets at the same time, you are bound to get the attention you want.

Don’t be afraid to look unique or different, just as long as what you wear looks good on you. But don’t dress up just to get attention. There is a thin line between looking good and looking for attention. It’s a good start to let the girl you like know that you are a guy who can groom himself and take care of himself.

@3# Make Eye Contact With Her Now And Then.

At first, getting her to notice you may take a while, especially if you have been the shy guy who avoids any kind of attention.

But whenever you get a window of opportunity, lock eyes with her just for a second. Stare at her for too long and she will think you are creepy. Exchange a brief glance for a second now and then. It will make her wonder if you have got something on your mind. But don’t ever overdo it, not at least for the first week or so.

@4# Be Bold.

The guys who are bold and ready to take chances are the guys who always have a lot of fun and create interesting memories all the time. And girls always love a guy who is bold enough to do something that many may consider embarrassing or awkward. Participate in something when she is around, be it karaoke or a friendly competition between friends. Get her attention while doing something that catches attention and she will definitely be in awe of you.

@5# Get To Know One of Her Friends.

If you don’t want to risk taking a chance on talking to her directly, it’s always safe to get friendly with one of her friends, be it a guy or a girl. Sometimes, this approach can be the safest and the best way to make an impression.

@6# Be Confident.

Confidence is everything when it comes to looking good and attracting a girl’s attention. It’s a trait that reveals a lot about you even if you are doing nothing at all. Be confident no matter where you are. Stand upright, walk with confidence and speak with confidence.

Ever thought twice to speak to some guy at your workplace because he looked so cool, confident and inhibiting? Be that guy.

@7# Hang Out in The Same Place.

If you occasionally bump into this girl at the same place now and then, be it in the office cafeteria or in the parking lot, make sure you spend a while in the same place with your own friends. The easiest way to make a girl notice you and feel comfortable around you is by being seen in her favorite hangouts.

@8# Bump Into Her Outside Work.

Once you have created enough opportunities to bump into her around your workplace, it’s time to talk to her. Use your common friends or her online activities and get to know when she is going to some new place, be it a party or somewhere else with her friends. Make sure you get there with your own friends or by yourself, making sure she has no idea that the whole thing was planned ahead.

When you see her at the same place and catch her eye, just look at her for a second and appear confused like you don’t know whether to say hi or not. And then, just smile at her or use a half smile laced with surprise. If she has seen you enough times already and is familiar with you, she will definitely notice you and smile back at you too.

5 Reasons Why Married Women Have Affairs

It's not all about lust.

Why do so many married women have affairs? Here are 5 of the most common reasons:

@1# Loneliness: You are at home with your husband and he is watching TV and you are trying desperately to make conversation. On a weekend you want to go on a date and he takes you to the movies. All the while he is on the phone checking his emails and chatting with someone else.

And if half the time he is travelling or comes home late at night, a woman is bound to feel lonely. She feels there’s no connection! She will reach for the closest man in her life – a childhood friend, the funny colleague, her brother’s best friend.

It all starts with the thought, "I’m so lonely. I just want to be appreciated."

Husbands need to engage with their wives, not just fulfill their duty. They need to bring back some romance and not take their wives for granted.

@2# Lust: All women have body issues. No one is completely happy with who they are. So if a woman has gone to a party and a man has paid her a compliment sincerely and had a great conversation with her engaging her mind, you can be sure she will be lusting for him.

He may not be very handsome or ideal for the long term but he is great for a good conversation and a shag maybe. It starts with the thought, "I need someone to be attracted to me."

Husbands need to have a passionate weekend or evening with their wives occasionally where the focus is on her and trying new things in bed to show how much they lust after her.

@3# Care And Nurture: All women need attention and if there is a man who is giving her some attention and cares about her feelings, the affair is bound to happen.

All it takes is for a man to ask her, "Have you eaten? Are you ok?"

Women are born nurturers and do a lot in the day that husbands take for granted. If a man takes control of looking after her, he will have her heart.

Husbands can truly care for their wives by helping with children, taking them out for dinner when she doesn’t feel like cooking, checking if she is okay intermittently through the day.

@4# Intellectual High: There are so many women who have affairs within their office or with men in creative fields. It’s because they are attracted to intelligence, wit and creativity.

Most husbands refuse to share what is happening at their work place, or talk about how they are feeling and choose to let themselves lounge around at home saying they are "tired."

It becomes boring for the woman who ultimately will seek out interesting new men. And if this man finds her interesting too, then she feels she is matched to his creative energy and an affair happens.

No matter how dull the day was, it’s important for a husband to share it with his wife and always listen to her positively about her day as well.

@5# Money And Power: Several men like being in middle management. They are comfortable with going to work, earning enough and coming back on time.

Without any hobbies, interests or ambition, a man can wither away and take his relationship down the drain as well. A woman is attracted to a man with plans, who wants to earn more, who is driven and wants to go further with his life.

She is even more exciting when this man asks her for her opinion and follows through with it. If he is already in a position of power, she feels an adrenaline rush if an important man thinks she is attractive!

Husbands should remember why their wives chose them in the first place and bring back that drive and ambition.

30 Added Signs Which Shows She Likes You

Here are 30 more signs to look for in a girl if she likes you: 

1. She Looks Back and Glances at You Repeatedly Every Minute or So. 

2. She Turns Her Body Towards You. 

3. She Holds Eye Contact for Longer Periods of Time When She Speaks With You. 

4. She Asks You for Your Name. 

5. She Asks You a Lot of Questions. 

6. She Stands Nearby. 

7. She Asks You for a Light or the Time or in Any Way Initiates a Conversation. 

8. She Plays with Her Hair While Talking to You. 

9. She Compliments You. 

10. She Punches Your Arm While Laughing. 

11. She Laughs at Your Jokes, Even When They Aren’t Funny. 

12. If It Comes Up That You Like Something, She Mentions That She Likes It Too. 

13. She Re-initiates Conversations When You Stop Talking. 

14. She Asks if You Have a Girlfriend. 

15. She Mentions Your Girlfriend Without Knowing If You Actually Have One. 

16. She turns Playful and Tries to Challenge You. 

17. She Touches You. 

18. When She Says or Does Something, She Looks at You to See Your Reaction. 

19. She Tries to Build Rapport. 

20. She Introduces You to Friends. 

21. Her Friends Go (to the Bathroom or Bar or Dancing) But She Stays. 

22. While You are Talking to Her Group, She Is Particularly Talkative to Get Your Attention. 

23. She Calls You a Player or a Heart-breaker. 

24. She Invents Reasons to Be Near You, Interact with You, or Be Alone with You. 

25. She Avoids Mentioning Her Boyfriend. 

26. On Her Way Out, She Re-approaches You to Tell You That She is Leaving. 

27. On Your Way Out, She Asks You Where You Are Going. 

28. She Doesn’t Flinch or Pull Back if You Happen to Get Too Close. 

29. If You Move, She Follows You or Waits for You. 

30. She Doesn’t Resist When Things Get Sexual.

8 Sure Signs That A Girl Likes You

You all know the saying: “Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars.” Dudes and chicks simply communicate in different ways, and this leaves a lot of room for error in communication. How to know if a girl likes you? There are some VITAL signs which one must be able to read.

Girls have a vast array of emotional and physical tells when they are attracted to a boy. These are there to show interest without actually giving too much away.

Here are the 8 most common signs one should look for to discover if she is attracted or not. 

Sign 1# Her Pupils Dilate When Looking At You

At the time when she is looking at you, paying attention to her pupils can tell you everything about her potential romantic interest in you.

A girl can say a lot with her look, she can reflect sadness, excitement, fear, joy and even attraction.

If the last one is the case, you will be able to notice, that:

· Her pupils may be dilated.

· She will attempt to make eye contact often, even if she averts her gaze every time you return it.

· She will often smile, and this will be reflected in her eyes as well.

If you think she is attracted to you, try complimenting her look. Telling any chick how beautiful her eyes are is always a win.

Dilation of pupils is said to be the perfect sign of attraction.

According to a new study, pupil dilation is an accurate indicator of sexual orientation. When people look at erotic images and become aroused, their pupils open up in an unconscious reaction that could be used to study orientation and arousal without invasive genital measurements.

Keep in mind:

A kind compliment now and then will not only make other people feel good about themselves but will make your mood better as well.

Just keep in mind that dilated pupils are something she can’t control. So if you notice it, take it as a bulletproof sign that she is unconsciously exhibiting interest and excitement. 

Sign 2# She Plays With Her Hair

While it may sound strange to men, ladies use their hair to say a lot of things. Unfortunately, it’s simply not a language we speak.

A girl who is interested in you will often touch her hair (either to correct it or to play with it) while near you. This is a subconscious thing women do when attracted to a man, wanting to be perfect by correcting a flyaway or replacing a fallen curl.

Touching her hair is a sign that she likes you.

“The age old trick of playing with the hair is a way for woman to not only let a man know she is interested, but to market herself to an entire audience as a flirtatious person. The twisting, twirling, flicking motions all send signals that she is single and ready to have fun.

When in a private discussion, however, pay attention if she begins to stroke her hair or pushes it off of her shoulders to expose her face; both indicate an attempt to quickly clean up her appearance.”

So the next time, look for these signs:

· She is running her fingers through her hair.

· She is twirling a lock around her finger.

· She is flipping her hair back.

She may even tilt her head to her side to reveal her neck and flip her hair around to release pheromones.

If she does mess with her hair a great deal while in your company, especially when there is no reason for her to do it, it certainly means that she is attracted to you. 

Sign 3# She Touches And Bites Her Lips

To communicate with your lips, you do not need to be speaking! Keep in mind that women are well versed at sharing interest wordlessly.

If she likes you she will check out your lips often as she is evaluating their thickness and ability to kiss. Not only that, she will try to focus your attention on her lips as well during flirt.

Take note of seemingly mindless moves like:

· Reapplying her lipstick.

· Biting her bottom lip.

· Running her fingers across her lips.

· She is teasingly licking her lips.

If she touches or bites her lips, and you notice it, your mind may very often go back to thoughts of kissing them. Provoking your mind is exactly what a chick who is flirting with you is trying to do.

Biting lips is terrific sign of attraction.

“One major physical sign of attraction from a woman is licking or a slight biting of her lips. This is a subtle sign of desire Do not ignore it. During intimacy the lips play an important role.

Imagine her lips kissing your neck softly, or other areas of your body for that matter. When she licks her lips while staring at you she is telling you she is thinking these thoughts.”

If you see this type of behavior, you can be almost sure she likes you and think you are attractive. 

Sign 4# Her Body Is Facing You

Observing her body language is a bulletproof way to know if she likes you or not. Facing someone with your body is a subconscious sign that you are listening to them and signaling that they are your current attention holder.

In a general conversation, it’s just polite, but with a woman, it can indicate an attraction; especially, if she is creeping into your personal space.

Therefore, check out these things the next time you are around her:

1. Does she face you when you are talking?

2. If just standing around, is her body facing towards you?

3. Are her arms by her sides?

4. Does she lean into you?

5. Does she push her chest out?

6. Pay particular focus to her feet, are her toes pointing at you or away?

If yes, it could mean that she is trying to convey an interest in you. She subconsciously wants you to know that she isn’t ignoring you or wanting to be somewhere else.

Her attention is just on you.

Sign 5# She Seeks Out Your Presence

Every time she walks into a room full of people, her eyes seek you out first. Pay attention as this may even be a quick, simple thing such as this: “She walks in, views you, gives you a quick smile and then turns to find her friends.”

You were first, and that means a lot. Want to know why? Because it says that she was thinking of you before she even walked into that room.

You were on her mind, and she had to check to make sure you were already there before she moves on to enjoy the crowd. What is more, she will seek out and use every opportunity to be in your presence and communicate.

That is why you should look for these signs as well:

· She looks forward to hang out with you without any hesitation and reason.

· She calls or texts you first.

· She is down to hang out.

· She always enjoy talking to you.

· She follows you online and likes your posts.

· She breaks away from conversations with her friends to talk to you

All these are perfect signs she is interested in you and she thinks you are attractive. She simply can’t resist talking to you. 

Sign 6# She Touches You Accidentally

Physical contact is by far the most common way a woman will express her interest in you. An occasional playful punch or quick touch means a big deal when coming from a girl.

Why?

Because it means she was seeking out a reason to touch you or bump into you. That is why you need to pay close attention to how she is behaving in your presence.

Just look for these signs the next time you see her:

ü Does she touch you, rub you or push you?

ü Does she lay her hand on your shoulder in greeting?

ü Does she stand close to you?

ü Does she squeeze your arm gently when you make her laugh or when telling a story?

ü Does she invade your personal space so she can “accidentally” graze her arms with you?

If she just takes advantage of each and every situation to touch you then you can be sure she finds you attractive.

If your answers to above questions are YES, then she is definitely into you as all of these are all standard flirting techniques.

Try touching her in ‘safe’ places such as hand, arm or her upper back and see how she responds. If she seems to like it then that’s a clear sign of attraction.

Sign 7# She Laughs Even At Your Poor Jokes

Joking is one of those times where everyone is trying to say the same thing, just using a different language. Boys who are interested will often want to make their ‘target’ girl smile while chicks who are attracted to a guy will also want to do so.

If she laughs at all of your jokes, even bad ones, she may be trying to show her interest in you.

A person telling a joke, even a bad one, often just wants to make their audience smile. Smiling at someone’s jokes affirms their self-esteem. It lets them know that their goal to amuse you has succeeded.

Just remember that if she is smiling a lot in your presence, especially when she is talking to you then there is a high chance she finds you attractive and interesting.

The sign she laughs is really important:

“If a woman is laughing at everything you say, she has plans to fuck you.

That’s all there is to it. Your jokes don’t have to be any good, because she is not really listening. If she is planning to fuck you, she will laugh. And if she is not, she won’t. End of story.

So if you want to use comedy to get a woman into bed, here is what you need to do. Find a girl desperate enough to fuck you. Then everything you say will be comedy gold.”

If you want to know if a girl likes you, try saying a stupid joke and watch her reaction. How does she act? Does she laugh a lot? 

Sign 8# She Talks About You With Her Friends

A girl who feels attraction to a boy will want to talk about him to all of her female friends. What do they think about him? Do they think he is interested in her? Wouldn’t they make such a cute couple? What do you think his favorite color is?

If you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you, this is one of those VITAL signs you should look for. Every girl wants a social affirmation on her attraction from the people who are close to her.

If you see her with her friends, just look for these signs:

· Whenever you are around her friends, they start laughing or giggling.

· When you come to her circle of friends, she stops talking suddenly (this may mean that you were the topic of that conversation).

· Look out for the moments when her friends are teasing her whenever you are around and she is like “Just stop it”.

When you catch her talking about you, that is one of the best signs that she feels a strong attraction towards you.

Yes, if a girl likes you, she will shout it out to the world or at least to her best friends. In case she is an introvert, try finding if her best friend knows about you and if she does, that is an excellent sign.

How To Have An Affair?

To be honest, having an affair is very easy. You can always have an affair with ease. If you are a married man and you are looking you will eventually find a woman more than happy to have an affair with you. For some ladies a man that can’t actually commit to a relationship is irresistible or the fact that it’s naughty to sleep with a married man is what gets them going in a wild kind of way. What is challenging is to have an affair that is not going to destroy your relationship.

The internet is here to save you and make it simple to find an affair and have it discreetly so that you preserve your marriage. The first step is to sign up for an email account you know your wife won’t discover. Gmail is the best way to go. Also, make sure you use the incognito feature of the Chrome browser or clear your history after every session and ensure that you don’t stay logged in to that email account. Affairs are discovered when you get sloppy so always be vigilant.

Once you have a hidden email account you need to sign up for the adult dating or affair site of your choice. To create the highest chance of a successful affair you should sign up for multiple sites, but it’s not a necessity. Your profile must be excellent; most guys on these dating sites don’t put in enough effort and see a lower response percentage than they would like as a result. If you make an effort you’ will get the payoff you crave.

Since you are having an affair, you probably don’t want to include a face picture but you will have to upload something or no one will respond to you. You could blur your face or try just a body picture. If that doesn’t work then you will have to take the plunge and assume that your wife isn’t also browsing the site looking to find an affair.

Send messages to the women you are attracted to on the affairs site. Don’t be too pushy about a first meeting or conversation but don’t lollygag either. Exude confidence to those you contact and be assertive in your desires. It’s very important that you purchase a burner cell phone so your wife can’t check your bill for the numbers you have been calling and receiving calls from. Remember, when you get sloppy or assume your wife isn’t going to investigate is when you get in trouble. When you get someone to agree to a conversation you should have it in a private place and never at home. The car driving home is a decent place.

Your first meeting should be somewhere you are certain not to run into anyone you know. If that means out of town then so be it. A dark bar or restaurant is also a decent choice and if you can make it look like a business meeting in case anyone stumbles upon you that is a smart idea. The vast majority of women will respond better if you suggest a meeting somewhere public and safe before you have an affair for real.

Despite the naughtiness and arousing nature of it, you should never become intimate in your house. Even if your wife is gone for the weekend or on a month long vacation you should never bring your new lover home. It’s terribly disrespectful, but more importantly it’s a really good way to get caught.

You might make the bed the wrong way or she might leave the scent of her perfume on something. All it takes is something to be a little off and you are busted, which is the last thing you want.

8 Online Signs She Likes You

Here are 8 Online Signs which suggest that she likes you:

1. She’s posting and updating pictures of you both on Social Media.

2. The two of you text at least every other day and she is not sending you one-word responses.

3. She initiates communication with you and has a short response time.

4. She posts various things on your Facebook wall or tags you in things she thinks you will like.

5. She likes all the pages that you have liked in your Facebook profile and she seems to listen to your favorite bands even though she may not like them before meeting with you.

6. She texts you something random about something unimportant that happened in her day just to start a conversation.

7. She also sends you a lot of winky faces and smilies while chatting with you on WhatsApp.

8. She takes a lot of time and effort to reply to your messages as she thinks a lot since she likes you.

7 Hidden Signals She Likes You

If a girl is not giving you the time of day, it’s easy to assume she is just not that interested.

But this is perhaps the single biggest mistake men make.

Most men have a terrible ability to gauge if a woman is really interested in them.

As a guy, it’s probably hard to admit to yourself that you might have been missing come-ons from interested women.

Well it turns out, a man’s brain just isn’t wired to see many of the subtle and unusual signals women send.

This leads to all sorts of serious problems, like guys just blatantly walking away from women who are trying to show they are interested. Usually, this just leaves the woman confused or she just assumes you don’t like her back.

This also causes increased rejection. Because men typically confused ‘Friendship Signs’ with ‘Romance Signs’ it causes a lot more guys to get embarrassed or turned down.

This discovery allows you to drastically cut down on the amount you get rejected and have a way clearer awareness of which women are interested.

You may have always wondered how that one guy back in high school got all the girls and never got turned down, there’s a high chance he was just able to read their ‘interest signals.’

And because he could see these signals, he never risked talking to the wrong girls, so he never put himself in a situation to get turned down.

So you can probably see just how important it is for you to know these signals. So with that said, here are the 7 most important signals to look for: 

The 7 Most Important Signals To Look For In A Woman:

@1# She Makes Long Eye Contact. 

People make eye contact for many different reasons, but if a woman is making eye contact with you, it’s best to play it safe and assume she likes you. The risk of letting her walk out of your life is too big to take.

If you are engaged in a conversation, then the level of eye contact she keeps can show how interested she is. If she is always looking around or at her phone, then it’s a sign she could be trying to avoid a conversation with you.

@2# She Smiles With Her Eyes.

Smiling might sound obvious, but men tend to convince themselves a woman is only smiling because she’s “just being friendly.”

Does this look like a real, genuine smile or like someone posing for a photo? The difference can be seen with the eyes. If the smile is genuine, she will ‘smile with her eyes’ meaning you will see a crease at the edge of her eyes ever-so-slightly.

@3# She Puts Herself Close To You.

In a busy place like a bar, club or party, a girl will put herself close to you if she is interested. Women are much less likely to strike up a conversation than a man. Instead women make themselves available. They put themselves in a position in which they can be noticed and easily approached.

For example, she may move or stand somewhere closer to you in hopes that you will talk to her. She is trying to make life easy for you to increase her odds. If you see a girl come up next to you at a bar and order a drink, it may be more than just a coincidence. Keep your eyes out for these opportunities.

@4# The Right Touches.

If you are already getting to know each other, then you might see a girl naturally touch your hand, shoulder or chest. If you have just made a joke, she may playfully and lightly slap you.

Also, if you are sitting next to each other, there is a chance that your legs or shoulders naturally begin to touch just because of how close you are sitting together. If this happens and she seems ok with it, then it’s a good sign.

Finally, women also sometimes touch you or bump into men ‘by accident’ to get noticed in a crowded place like a bar or party.

@5# The Dance Signal.

Women use dancing as a big way to draw attention to themselves. Dancing does not always mean this, but it often can. It’s comparable to a man showing off his strength, talents or wealth.

Especially look for a woman who might be the only one of her friends dancing. This means she is not just going with the group, and could be actively looking to catch someone’s interest.

@6# The Feet Never Lie.

If a girl’s feet are facing toward you even though she’s looking away, this is a sign that she may be interested in you.

@7# She Still Talks To You.

Whether you have just met her or you are in the courtship stages, if she is still talking to you or responding to your texts, she is obviously still interested.

Too many men psych themselves out or read too much into words and convince themselves a girl is not interested, but if she is still talking to you, then it means she is taking time out of her day to focus on you. It’s a good rule of thumb to assume she is interested.

In most cases, if a woman is truly disinterested in you, she will have no problem to leave the conversation or to leave your text messages unanswered.

Once you see these signs, you will need to do something to ensure everything goes smoothly.

How To Propose Your Classmate?

The most common scenario for Indians trying to propose a girl is ‘to propose a classmate’. Here are top 4 ways to propose a girl who is your classmate.

4 Ways to Propose Your Classmate:

#1 @ A Letter Between the Pages

This is the classic vintage way of proposing a girl who’s your classmate in school or college or university. This way of proposing a girl is super romantic too. Get hold of one of her books or copies and insert your heart in. I meant to say heart melted into a few words on a sheet of scented paper. A quaint little love letter often finds it easier to charm its way into a girl’s heart. 

#2@ Help of a Good Friend

If you’re one of the shy types, get a friend who’s a good-storyteller to do it for you. It’s best if you can convince a friend of hers to do it, because he or she would already have her trust and hence you will have more chances of success.

#3@ Hook Her by Some Mystery

Put a very serious looking notice on the notice board saying something like, “the following five students have been called at ‘such hour to such office’.” Include her name, of course. Inform the other four students of your plan beforehand. Her heart will be racing with apprehensions about getting some sort of bad news from the school or college authorities and you will be present at the designated place and time to give her the best news of her life; at least according to you.

#4@ Public Yet Private Proposal

Reach your next classroom before anyone else. Write one of those cheeky “John + Jane = Bliss” messages on the blackboard, big enough for everyone to see. Don’t be afraid to get creative or humorous. When everyone sees it and starts laughing vehemently claim it was done by someone else to tease you. Later message her saying you did it yourself. This is great way to propose a girl if you want to start it off with good humor.

How To Propose A Girl?

Are you in love with some girl and find it difficult to tell her? Are you confused how to propose her? Do not worry. You are not alone because almost every boy feels the same kind of nervousness. Here are some tips that will help you in proposing a girl. You have to remember one thing that girls are different from you and they differ from each other too. At the same time they are very sensitive also.

So, the first thing that you have to keep in mind is you need to propose the girl according to her temperament and nature and it should be completely unique way of proposing. You should not copy anyone’s style or ask suggestions from your friends.

7 Ways to Propose a Girl:

#1@ Be Yourself

The first tip is to be yourself and you never try to overdo anything. You can make it special and sweet even while keeping it simple. If you behave in your natural way, you will find that everything will get along smoothly and comfortably.

#2@ Know your Girl and Propose Accordingly

There are some girls who still want their beloved to propose her in that traditional way. If your girl is of that type you can bow down on your knees and tell those three golden words that she wants to hear from you, just to impress her.

#3@ Make Special Plans

Plan for a romantic dinner and make her feel special about her. Order her favorite dish and you can propose her either before dinner or during the time of dessert. You can play her favorite music as well.

You can take her to that place where you met her for the first time and recreate the same environment and scene. This will make her recall everything and when you will propose her, she will definitely get moved and will say yes to you.

#4@ Create a Romantic Moment

Drive her to the beach and when the sun is just going to set, you can propose her. Girls like romantic moments and special occasions. You can play soft music while driving and make her feel that something special is going to happen with her that day.

#5@ Take her at a Favorite Spot

You can go to the spot where both of you wanted to go and the place both of you like very much. With the much loved environment around you, you can propose her.

#6@ Buy a Special Gift for Her

You can buy a charm bracelet or a ring and ask her ‘Will you marry me?’ while presenting it to her. Presenting a ring to her will help you convey your message with an ease. Go near her with a bunch of red roses or take her somewhere out and then propose her.

#7@ Propose in a Unique Way

You can also talk to her parents and then in front of them, propose her. You can also propose her in your unique way and for this you should plan and prepare for the moment.

These tips will certainly help you propose her in a special and unique way and you will surely be able to win her heart. However, you should also be sure that the girl also loves you. So, do not hurry in presenting your proposal, analyze your relationship and you will get indications from the girl you are dating.

Now, go ahead and plan a date to propose her. Tell her what you have in your heart for her. If you want to propose your love, you need not think twice. Do not delay, and propose her right away.

12 Signs: A Girl Is Interested In You

There are certain signs which speak volumes about a girl’s interest in a boy. If you too are among those wondering about how to know if a girl is interested in you, you must look forward for these obvious signs and signals in her.

Noticing and knowing about these signs, you may become sure if a girl is interested in you. Here are the top 12 signs which reveal her interest in you.

12 Signs That A Girl Is Interested In You:

#1@ If a girl is interested in you, she will ask about you in your absence and even when you are around, she will continue asking about you at your back. She will try to gather a lot of information about you before actually coming to you. Girls too want to leave a great first impression and hence research about you before actually talking to you.

#2@ She will make enquiry about your status, if you are single or not, when was the last time you went out with a girl, etc. She will try to gather this information as subtly as possible. This is almost as assuring as asking you out.

#3@ She will try to grab your attention by doing different conventional and unconventional activities, like challenging you and at times even teasing you. When a woman starts getting playful, it means that she has certain amount of interest in you and then it is over to you to build up the rest. Giving nicknames is also a part of this game.

#4@ She incessantly laughs at your jokes. Though you know that you are a funny man but at times you find her laughing even at some of your serious comments.

#5@ She initiates a physical contact and if you make a physical contact, she seldom resists or maintains the physical contact initiated by you. Like every time she laughs, she prefers touching your hand and when last time your foot touched under the table, she didn’t try to move it away and left it at its place.

#6@ She compliments you though she knows that it will make her look desperate, still she does that whenever she finds an opportunity. This is her way to clearly hint you about her interest in you. This is probably the most she will do and hence this is a major sign that a girl likes you.

#7@ She becomes quite annoyed with you but she does this in such a playful manner that it seems clear from her demeanor that she has fallen for you. At times, she is upset about petty things and wants you to notice it because you are the one who is able to stir emotions in her.

#8@ She wants you to show her how some things are done or otherwise she wishes you to teach her own things. This is solely done to buy some time alone with you. You will really be able to see that all learning thing is a sham as she won’t even be bit interested in the things you will be teaching her.

#9@ She will try to elicit a few reactions from you and for that she will try to make you jealous, provoke you physically or sexually, etc. So keep a check on stories she tells which will usually get a reaction from a guy, like an affair or something else in such terms.

#10@ Some women at times lower their voice in a sexual husky manner so that they can gain some intimacy by moving closer. Keep an eye on this one as this is one of the prime signals that she has got for you.

#11@ She agrees almost on every opinion you have. This shows that she is trying to come into an agreement with you, almost at any cost. This is one of the psychological signals because we try to follow the person with whom we want to be in agreeable terms.

#12@ Eye contacts and expressions are a couple of things which speak volumes. If at times you catch her staring at you and when you turn to her, she either shy away or makes an awkward eye contact, it means she is falling for you. Her expressions while you make an eye contact with her reveal volumes.

So, follow these signals and if you are able to make out two or three of these signals, it means you have struck gold as you now know that the girl likes you a lot.

How To Know If You Are In Love?

Falling in love is a wonderful and crazy feeling that’s worth experiencing at least once in our lives. When you know you are falling in love, the way you look at the world and experience life can change in a moment. But the bigger question is how to know if you are in love?

Falling in love is an experience worth living for. And the first time you fall in love, that’s a memory of a lifetime but how to know if you are in love?

All of us have our own experiences in love, and every moment is as unique as the person who is falling in love.

Many believe in love at first sight while many others think the best kind of love is one where two friends understand each other and fall in love gradually.

Now however you may fall in love, the feelings are all the same. And when you are in love, you will just know about it.

When you fall in love with someone, you start to experience feelings and urges that are quite unexplainable and confusing.

How To Know If You Are In Love?

Falling is love may be a single emotion, but that single emotion can cause so many hormonal, chemical and emotional changes, it’s almost unbelievable.

You are definitely in love if you are experiencing these emotions.

@1# Butterflies In Your Stomach

For anyone who experiences falling in love it first sight, you can’t really help but experience butterflies in your stomach.

It’s a vague sensation of wanting to throw up and trying to get to the loo at the same time.

Your stomach starts to perform intricate back flips and the insides of your stomach feel like they are fluttering.

So why does this happen? Surprisingly, no one really knows why this happens. But it just does.

Some scientists believe this is due to the release of adrenalin by your body because of the nervousness you experience when you fall in love at first sight.

@2# Unexplained Happiness

Do you find yourself kissing pillows, jumping up and down in excitement and joy for no apparent reason and giving your lover funny little pet names? You may just be in love.

According to experts of the field, when you fall in love, the levels of dopamine in the brain increase due to the increased blood flow to the regions where the receptors of dopamine are present. Dopamine, a pleasure chemical, makes you more excited, energetic and full of life.

The dopamine released in the brain make you feel sleepless, restless, full of happiness and make you think about your lover, a lot.

@3# You Can’t Think Of Anyone Else

When you are in love, you can’t really think of anything else but your lover. They would be tirelessly running around in your mind and you can’t work, remember things or focus on other interests. This is due to norepinephrine, a chemical compound that gets released along with dopamine, in the brain.

@4# You Frequently Get Sexually Attracted

Research and study on young couples shows that the levels of serotonin, a neurotransmitter found mostly in the intestinal tract, dropped dangerously low, something that’s experienced by people suffering from obsessive compulsive disorder.

But on the other hand, it was noticed that low serotonin levels in young couples increased the desire to have sex. Talk about evolution’s way of forcing the ritual of baby making while we are completely attracted to each other.

@5# You Easily Get Depressed

Do you get upset easily if the person you like upsets you in any manner? Well, you may be in love. While the drop in the serotonin level makes you horny, it also makes you depressed and anxious.

Even the smallest of things can upset you or your lover, and both of you may end up spending a lot of time trying to please each other with little acts of love and affection. While each act of love increases the love and attraction, each disappointment makes you more vulnerable to pain and depression.

Falling In Love And Staying In Love:

Falling in love with someone and staying in love with someone are two completely different experiences. While most people believe it was love right from the beginning, falling in love actually begins with a note of lust and sexual excitement along with the flutter of love.

Falling in love is like a drug and unfortunately, just like a drug, it doesn’t really last forever. While the levels of chemicals like dopamine and serotonin gradually come back to normal after a few months or years depending on the type of relationship, it’s up to the lovers to find ways to keep the excitement in love alive.

Every time you have a crush on someone, the whole game of chemistry in love starts firing the Bunsen burners and we are back to square one all over again.

But evolution and the hormone Oxytocin, have found a way to make lovers seek commitment and make couples fall in love forever. It has created stages in love, and all these experiences are just one single stage in the process of falling in love.

Is It Love Or Lust ?

Is it love or lust that you are experiencing with your partner? Sometimes, you may think you are in love without really realizing that there is no love in the relationship, but just lust. 

Contrary to what most of us believe, we don’t really fall in love at first sight. Almost always, it’s lust at first sight.

The intense attraction that you feel for someone when you first lock eyes with each other, those butterflies in your stomach and that skip in your heart, in all probability, is lust and not love.

But lusting for someone isn’t a bad thing, because love generally starts with lust and desire and grows and blossoms into love over a few weeks or months.

The happiest relationships are those where there is a perfect balance of love and lust.

But what is it that you’re experiencing, is it love or lust?

Is It Love Or Lust?

Often, our minds can get confused with the experiences and you may assume you and your new partner may be in love, when you are just lusting for each other.

While sexual attraction is great to keep the chemistry alive, it’s no good in keeping a relationship happy and blissful.

When you are in lust with someone, and not in love, you really don’t care about the future or the happy moments, all you care about is the urges in your pants.

It’s not always clear and easy to find out whether it’s love or lust, but these pointers should help you find out if either you or your partner are truly in love or just experiencing lust for each other.

@1# Thoughts At First Sight

If you are filled with happiness and can’t hold your smile back when you see your lover, you are definitely in love. On the other hand, if you meet your lover and the first thing that comes to your mind every single time is how good looking or sexy they are, your relationship is based on lust rather than love.

@2# Your Feelings In Love

Do you feel happy and romantic all day and find staring at happy things or smiling without realizing it yourself? You are probably full of love. Or do you feel really sexy or sexually excited throughout the day? If this is the case, lust is definitely in the air.

@3# Spending Time With Each Other

During the first couple of weeks or months, it’s natural that both of you can’t keep your hands off each other. But once you are past that, how do both of you spend time with each other?

Do you end up making out all the time or do both of you have a happy conversation? And even if you do make out, do both of you spend the night together or do you kiss and say goodbye after an hour of great sex?

If having sex or making out is where all the fun ends, then there is more lust than love in the relationship. As important as physical intimacy can be, emotional connection too, is of vital importance in long lasting love.

@4# Going Out On Weekends

Where do you hang out over the weekends? Do you and your partner go out with friends or party all night long, or do both of you go out with each other to a restaurant or some quiet place to spend time with each other?

If you are genuinely in love with each other, you can’t help but want to spend time alone with each other over the weekends. On the other hand, if you are just looking to have a fun weekend, you would prefer to spend time with friends, and if it is lust on your mind, you would go to a party and run your hands over each other all night. So, is it fun, love or lust in your relationship?

@5# Your Best Memories In Love

Spend a minute and think of your partner and some of the best memories you have together. Is it love or lust that comes to your mind? If most of the thoughts that come to your mind revolve around making out or the places you have had sex, it’s pretty clear that lust holds an upper hand in your relationship.

@6# When You Think About Your Partner

When you are at work or away from your partner, it’s natural to think of your love now and then. When these fleeting moments of love drift in your mind, what do you think about?

Do you remember cuddling up and watching a movie, or your partner’s smile or laughter, or do you get goose-flesh remembering how good making out with this person feels?

If your thoughts linger on sexual memories more than all other memories, it definitely means you are having a lot of great sex and that’s the highpoint in your relationship.

@7# Calling Each Other Up

It’s not necessary to speak with each other every hour but it’s always great for the relationship when both of you communicate often. What time of the day do both of you speak more often and what kind of conversations do you have?

If either of you speak or text a few times throughout the day, love is definitely in the air. But if the only time you spend on communicating with each other is late at night, and all you talk about is how good it feels to make out, then it’s obviously only lust that is holding your relationship together.

If both of you truly love each other, you would think of each other throughout the day, not just at night when you are all alone and feeling frisky.

@8# What Do You Want To Do When You Meet Each Other?

Do you feel like making out every single time both of you meet each other? You may be going out with a gorgeous stunner but if sex is all you can think about when you are with your partner, and you have a hard time keeping your hands off their body, you have got a lusty situation in your hands.

A bit of cuddling and public display of affection is cute but if both of you don’t have anything to talk about with each other and need some kissing to keep the clock ticking, you have got some serious issues of communication and compatibility to deal with.

@9# Compromising In Love

Do you compromise with your needs and wants now and then, if you know that doing something else would make your partner feel happy?

Taking an initiative to compromise for each other is one of the biggest signs of true love.

But if you are more interested in what you can get out of the relationship or how often you can make out with each other and don’t really like compromising and giving up on your happiness just so your partner can be happy, it’s obviously not love but lust that is holding the relationship together.

@10# Making Introductions To Your Friends

Do you like spending time with your lover but feel embarrassed or awkward to introduce your partner to your friends?

If you subconsciously feel awkward to be with your lover in public, it’s natural that the only reason you are still together with them is because of the great sex. If you genuinely love your partner, you would be excited to introduce your sweetheart to all your friends because you would see your partner as an important part of your life.

@11# How Involved Are Both Of You?

Do you think about making out or having sex every time you think of your lover? It’s great that you are going out with someone you are so physically attracted to, but if you truly love your partner, you would also respect them and would want to hear about their opinion on your life and the issues in it.

If you think of your partner only when you are feeling lonely or horny, then there is a good chance that you don’t really love your sweetheart, and only lust about them.

@12# Thinking About The Long Term

When you are truly in love with someone, you can’t help but think about the future with them. This is the biggest sign in finding out whether it’s love or lust on your mind.

Can you see your lover in your life a few years down the lane or is that something you just can’t picture? Most of the time, we find someone we like and the sex is great and dandy, and we assume we are in love. But yet, if you give it a serious thought, you would know you are never really going to be happy with them in the years to come. If you can’t see your lover as an important part of your future, it’s a sure sign that it’s just lust working its charm on you.

By considering and analyzing about these pointers, now you know what is it? Is it love or lust that is keeping your relationship alive? Lusting about a partner is great for the relationship. But if it’s only lust in the air and not love that is keeping both of you together, it’s going to be a pretty big missing piece in the jigsaw puzzle of love and that just can’t be overlooked.

It’s never too late to change your future if both of you really want to. Once you know where you stand with these pointers on is it love or lust, make a decision for the better and make a difference in both your lives.

How To Date A Friend?

Have you ever thought about dating a friend? There could be some or more friends you might be having some crush and you might be thinking about dating them.

Dating a friend is tricky, but not if you play it safe and make your friend like you back even before you pop the question.

At times, it’s inevitable to fall for a friend and want to date them.

How To Date A Friend You Like?

If there is one thing that is natural between friends of the opposite sex, it’s affection and attraction.

This is true if two friends of the opposite sex share the perfect chemistry to keep the excitement alive. Every now and then, we come across a friend we like, and the chemistry may be perfect too.

But how do you go about it and pop the question without making things uncomfortable?

Here are some of the tips and tricks which can be used to date a friend. By using these tricks you will be able to create the attraction in love sooner than you think.

@1# Give Your Attention

One of the first steps in knowing how to date a friend is to let your friend know that you favor them and pay more attention to them than you do to anyone else.

It shows that you are interested in knowing the person better, and at the same time, it also brings both of you closer.

But do remember this, giving your attention doesn’t necessarily mean you have to accept anything this friend says. Have your own views, but let your friend know that you take them seriously enough to give them your undivided attention. This is a first step in creating a closer bond between both of you.

@2# Make Eye Contact

When it comes to knowing how to date a friend, it’s all about building the momentum up slowly. You need to make your friend wonder if there is something going on, and yet, you should never ever make it obvious.

Look deep into your friend’s eyes when you have a conversation with them, almost like you are mesmerized by your friend. You don’t need to make it obvious by staring hard. Instead, just smile, open your eyes and let it sparkle. It sends the right message across without really using any words.

@3# Flirt With Your Friend
The two earlier tips may sound vague at first, but you do need to create the chemistry before you go a step further. If you carry off the first two steps well, it will make it a lot easier to build the chemistry and make your friend like you back faster.

Friends don’t really flirt, unless they can look at a friend as a dating potential. So your first step in knowing how to date a friend is to warm your friend up to start flirting with you.

One of the best ways to start flirting with a friend is to smile and blush a lot. This would come naturally when you like someone, but smiling and blushing automatically creates a perfect atmosphere for flirty conversations.

@4# Get Touchy Feely

Getting someone to like you, be it a friend or a stranger, is all about playing your cards right. You can take a plunge, but there is no going back if your crush declines your advances. So it’s always better to play it safe, send out the right signals and wait for the ball to roll downhill.

You have warmed your friend up and you have started flirting, so now it’s time to start getting touchy feely.

Don’t ever paw your friend or cling onto their arm. Be graceful in your touches, and do it only at the appropriate moment. Never linger your touch longer than required and always do it purposefully and delicately.

@5# Never Let Things Get Awkward

You have been sending out the signals constantly, but there may be times when your friend is still not ready to reciprocate your feelings or they may not feel the chemistry to play along with your flirty moves.

If your friend even mentions in passing that you have been behaving weirdly or have been treating them differently, back away for a few days. Your friend may like your new behavior or even dislike it, but no matter what, you still haven’t warmed your friend up yet, so don’t accept that things have changed or that you are falling for your friend.

It’s always better to play it safe than to nip a budding romance. You may be rushing it, or perhaps not reading the signs before jumping to the next step.

@6# Spend Some Alone Time

If you ever find your friend alone, or if you can find a way to get some alone time, make sure you use it. Now that you have been flirting and getting touchy feely, your friend would obviously sense something in the air.

Your next move is to let your friend know that you are great company and a potential date too. By spending time with your friend and flirting with each other, you are making it very clear that you want to spend some alone time with your friend, and that you may have more than just friends on your mind.

But don’t ever directly ask your friend to spend time with you or go out to a café. Always look for opportunities, but never make it overly obvious that you are up to something, or are trying to fix a date. Spending some alone time in the hallway or even in the office or college cafeteria is perfect for starters. It’s casual, and very effective.

@7# Let Your Friend Know They Are Desirable

Letting your friend know they are desirable is one of the best ways to send the right signals out without really asking them out. Don’t talk about emotions here, talk about their physical aspects. Emotional compliments can always be misunderstood as friendly compliments.

‘You know, you are so cute when you do that’ or ‘You look so hot today’ or ‘I really like your shirt, you look so good in it’ - - are all safe examples of letting a friend know you find them attractive without really getting over the top. Always keep it physical so your friend understands that you do think of them in a manner that is more than just friends.

@8# Find An Excuse To Go Out On A Date

Unless you are certain that your friend already likes you, don’t ask your friend out for a date directly. Instead of building up to a rejection, make an excuse to do something together, be it shopping or going to a flea market together. You know your friend and what they probably like doing, so use that to create an opportunity to be together.

If the guy you like knows a lot about computers, call him out of the blue on a weekend and tell him you need to buy a good set of speakers and want him to come with you. Or if the girl you like is into something unique like novels or fitness or even music, make up a good excuse to get her help for something you need to buy.

And once you are out together, stop worrying about making an impression and just have a nice time with each other. If both of you have a lot of chemistry going on, it’s obviously going to be a ‘great date’ full of happy, flirty memories.

When you are about to say your goodbyes, mention that you had a really nice time and would love to do something like this again. The guy asks the girl out, while the girl still plays coy and hard to get, so in either case, try and get your friend to commit another weekend to be with you.

@9# The Time To Pop The Question

It’s rather obvious that there is something more than friends in the air, especially if both of you have been going out on dates now and then. And this is the best time to come clean and let your friend know that you have more than friends in mind. Let your friend know what is on your mind a few dates later, as long as your friend’s reciprocating and warming up to you.

A word of caution when it comes to knowing how to date a friend, always play it slow and be cautious. You have a lot more to lose here than when you are trying to ask out a stranger you have only seen a few times.