When we are in a relationship or are hoping to be in a relationship, we all hope that we will be missed when we are not around. It is just human nature to want to feel needed. You might find that you are romantically interested in someone or you might already be in a relationship.
Maybe you are in a relationship where the two of you seem to be drifting apart and maybe she no longer seems to miss you anymore. Either way, you want to make her miss you.
There are quite a few methods and strategies that will help make her miss you. With some perseverance, thoughtfulness, and dedication, she will be hooked and she will surely miss you when you are not around her. You will almost feel like a drug or a candy that she craves because of how good you are to her.
Whether you are just starting out a relationship or have been in one for years, you will always want to make sure that your girl misses you. How exactly do you do that?
By giving her something to miss! While you should more or less be yourself, you can also follow a few good tips to help you ensure that your crush, girlfriend, or wife will miss you when you are not around.
Some Techniques Which Can Be Helpful To Make Her Miss You:
#1# Be A Little Mysterious
When you are first getting to know that special someone, you will want to let her get to know you. Be sure to let her know enough about you to make her interested in you, but do not tell her everything all at once.
By saving some of your good stories for a later time, you will make her want to stick around and find out even more about you.
When you intrigue her, she will want to stick around longer to hear the rest of your stories. She will want to know who you are. At the same time, you have to share some things about yourself, otherwise you will come off as distant.
#2# Don’t Talk Too Much About Yourself
Don’t be afraid to let her into your life, but do not treat her like your personal therapist either. She does not need to know every little detail right away.
Also, if you reveal too much about yourself at once, you will be talking about yourself a lot. Talking about yourself too much can come off as self-absorbed.
#3# Slow Down With The Technology
Give her some space every now and then so that she has enough time to miss you. If you are around at every moment possible, then how can she possibly miss you? This is not limited to being physically present. You should also refrain from bombarding her with phone calls and messages. While it is thoughtful to check in with her and respond to her calls and texts, you should not be glued to her.
If you are around too much, then she might feel smothered and suffocated. Sooner or later, she could get tired of having you around if you are around way too much.
#4# Spend Some Time Apart
Even if you care about each other and love spending some time together, it is still a very good idea to give each other some alone time apart every now and then.
Whether you spend one hour a day apart or a day out of the week apart, you should make it a point to find some time for yourselves.
Try your best to take advantage of your alone time. As a result, she will be so happy when she sees you again after you have taken a short break from each other.
When you do this, you will both feel refreshed, recharged, and more than ready to see each other again.
#5# Show Her A Fun Time
When you want somebody to miss you, it is a great idea to take some initiative instead of being completely passive. If she barely knows that you exist, then how will she miss you?
Take your crush, girlfriend, or wife on a bunch of great dates and give her plenty of wonderful experiences that she will remember.
You can try to take her to the movies. You can also go dancing, attend a concert together, or you can even just have a romantic picnic at the park.
You do not necessarily need to spend a lot of money on dates in order to leave a good impression. When you show her a good time, she will keep missing you and she will always look forward to the next time that you two can spend time together.
#6# Don’t Talk Too Long Over The Phone
Whether or not you live together, talking on the phone is a necessity for most couples. It helps you stay on the same page and gives you a chance to catch up with one another.
While it is good to talk on the phone, avoid having phone conversations that go on for hours and hours. Doing this every single day will give your girlfriend little time to miss you, if you are already so available to her.
If you are still getting to know someone that you are interested in, do not be overbearing.
Show that you are interested without coming on too strong. There are a few ways that you can avoid coming on too strong.
#7# Don’t Be Desperate
You don’t always have to pick up her phone calls on the first ring. Sometimes you can wait a minute or more to call her back. At the same time, do not act like you do not care.
If she thinks that you do not care about her, then it will be hard for her to miss you. If you have been seeing each other every day for a few days, it is okay to take a break for a day or two so she has time to miss you.
Just let her know that you are busy but look forward to seeing her soon, otherwise she will think that you are blowing her off and she might end up moving on from you.
#8# Don’t Try To Keep Track Of Her
These days, technology is how we keep in touch with our significant others. From texting or talking on the phone to using Facebook and Skype, we have plenty of ways to keep in touch with our romantic interests.
When you use technology to reach out to your love interest, it shows that you care. At the same time, you will also want to be careful that it does not look like you are stalking her.
Give her some space and some time to breathe. That way, she can have some time to miss you.
#9# Give Her Time And Space To Breathe
If you are really into her, then your first instinct will be to spend every waking moment together. She might want to spend all of her time with you too.
While it is good to spend a lot of time together, you also do not want to rush things way too fast. If you spend every possible free minute together, then things could possibly fizzle out right away.
#10# Take Things Slowly
Take things nice and steady. You do not have to take things too slowly, but don’t rush into things either. You do not want to rush and build unrealistic expectations for your relationship.
Whatever you do, make sure that you are not needy, clingy, or desperate. Coming off that way will only serve to repel her and she will be less inclined to feel an attraction towards you.
#11# Find Something Of Your Own To Do
You might feel guilty at the thought of spending any time away from her. There is actually no reason for you to feel guilty about this.
Spending some of your free time alone is okay. In fact, it is a really good idea. Not only is it healthy for you to get your alone time, it gives her a chance to miss you too.
If you do everything together, you might find yourself wishing that you had your own activity that you could just do yourself, whether it is reading or watching your favorite shows.
#12# Don’t Try To Make Her Like Everything That You Like
Try to go and find something that you can do alone so you can also remain in touch with yourself. It is good to be able to be alone by yourself every once in a while.
If you try to pressure her into doing everything that you like, even if she is not that into it, then that could make the relationship boring and a little bit suffocating. Allow yourselves to do your own things once in a while.
#13# Be Reliable
While it is good to give her some space, do not flat out ignore her. If you ignore her, then she will think that you are an unreliable person. If you make yourself too unavailable to her, then she might go from missing you to thinking that you are unreliable.
If you are too unavailable to her, then she might think that you are too busy for her. She might even begin to think that you are not interested in her or she might conclude that you are talking to other girls besides her.
These thoughts will turn her off to you and she might even stop missing you after a certain point. Your special lady should still feel like she is an important enough part of your life. You do not want to neglect her.
#14# Surprise Her
When you try to treat her really well, she will be able to miss you more.
Little gifts, surprises, and kind words will make her feel truly special. If you make her feel special every day, then she will always be waiting for your next move that will make her feel like a queen.
Give her some nice surprises every now and then. Some thoughtful surprises include flowers, chocolates, or a sweet love note that will make her heart swell and skip a beat.
She will always have something to look forward to if you continuously treat her this way. As a result, she will be sure to miss you when you spend some time apart.
If you are apart and send something sweet to her, this will be a reminder of how thoughtful you are and she will definitely miss you and think of you fondly.
#15# Give Her Something That Reminds Her Of You
If you are long distance, do not live together, or sometimes have to travel for work, you should give her something that will help her remember and miss you when you are gone. What makes this different from a gift is that you should give her something of yours that will remind her of you
Examples of things of yours that you can give to her include your favorite book, one of your t-shirts that is sprayed with your cologne, or the body wash that you use. She will then be able to feel close to you.
Give her something that will make her feel close to you when you are apart. It will make her miss her and when she is missing you, she can find comfort in that thing that reminds her of you.
#16# Be A Fun Person To Be Around
When you are spending time together, make sure that she is having fun and enjoying herself. She will be sure to miss you, especially when she is bored and you are not around.
If you can make her smile and laugh, then she will miss that when you are not always there to make her crack up.
Take her on great dates and adventures that she will really appreciate and look back on fondly, especially when you are not together.
Try to be fun and creative when you think of dates that you can take her on. From picnics to the movies to street fairs, there are so many wonderful outings that you can plan for her.
If you would rather stay in, you can build a blanket fort together, watch a movie, or cook a meal together. You can even play your favorite board games if you think that it will be fun.
While you should not spend every second together, you should make every second that you do spend together really count.
#17# Give Her Great Memories
When you work hard to fill her life with plenty of great experiences and romantic memories, she will surely notice how much better, brighter, and more exciting her life is with you in it.
When you are occasionally absent, she will pine for you and miss you. She will miss the romance and positivity that you bring to the relationship and she will start to associate you with fun experiences and happy memories.
Regarding your crush, girlfriend, or wife, it is important that you make her feel safe and protected. Be sure to give her lots of attention so that she feels like she is very important to you.
Listen to her when she talks to you and be sure to pay attention. When you make her feel special, she will really appreciate how much you listen and pay attention to her.
#18# Be Sweet To Her
It also goes without saying that you should always strive to be sweet to the woman that you care about. If you are constantly rude to her or don’t show enough interest, then she might end up not missing you at all when you are not around.
A lack of respect and attention towards her will cause her to drift away from you. You have to give her a reason to miss you whether it is because you are a good listener, a sweet guy, or know how to show her a good time. If you treat her well, she will miss you.
#19# Do Something Personal For Her
There are many other little ways that you can get her to think of you and miss you. You can play a romantic song for her and dedicate it to her. If you have a knack for words, then you can write her a short poem that she can hold onto.
If you have a nice photograph of you and her together, then you can get it printed and framed. You can even get it put into a locket for her. Anything to help her remember you fondly is a good idea. Even when you are not right there in front of her, that photograph will remind her of you.
#20# Call Her Every Night Before She Goes To Bed
Here is another good strategy that will help get her to miss you. If you do not live together, try calling her every night before bed. Texting is not as good because she will not be able to hear the sound of your voice.
When you say goodnight and hang up the phone, she will go to bed with you on her mind because you have just talked to her. This is a great way to get her to miss you and she might even have sweet dreams as a result of your nightly phone calls.
#21# Write Her A Romantic Letter
While people can often have a tendency to almost always communicate through technology these days, you should never underestimate the wonderful art of a handwritten note or letter. You can even give her a nice memento box to store your letters and other small gifts in.
When she finds herself missing you, she can open up that box and go through the items that remind her of you. A memento box is a wonderfully romantic idea especially if you plan on building memories with that special someone.
#22# Kiss And Hold Her
The best way that you can get her to miss you is to give her so many good memories that she will have no choice but to miss you. There are so many ways that you can do this.
You can take her on amazing dates, make an effort to call her every night, dedicate special songs to her, shower her with little thoughtful gifts and love letters, and so on. Don’t forget to kiss her and hold her hand.
When you are gentle and loving with her, she will miss your touch even if you are only apart for a few hours or a day. The brighter you make her life, the more she will miss your presence.
#23# Never Take Her For Granted
Remember to never take her for granted and always make the effort to treat her like the special lady that she is. She will appreciate being respected by you.
Never be afraid to go the extra mile. That is the surest way to make sure that she never stops missing you when you are not by her side.
#24# Treat Her Well
If you treat her well, she will feel special. You might notice that as a result, she will start to miss you if she hasn’t already.
If there is a strong enough mutual spark there between the two of you and if you treat her well, then she will be sure to respond well to your gestures and efforts and she will miss you when you are not there in the room with her.
These are just a few of the many romantic things that you can do for her to ensure that she will really miss you when you are not around. Try out a few of these strategies to see how she responds to them. Notice how your efforts, however little and small, can affect her to the point that she begins to feel and develop a strong attachment to you.
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