Closed Gestures: Signs That A Girl Is Not Interested
Certainly, not all the girls you come across get attracted to you. They display these subtle signs by their body language.
When a girl doesn’t like you, it would be a complete wastage of time running after them. So, it’s always a good idea to know if she doesn’t like you and is not interested for you.
Here are some of the most common signs in their body language to look for which make you conclude that she is not interested in you. These subtle signs are closed gestures. You should look if her body language displays these gestures:
#1# She Rolls Her Eyes When You Talk
Whenever a girl that you are gaming rolls her eyes in a non-joking manner, without a smile, it is a sure indicator that she either is embarrassed by your presence, thinks that you aren’t worth her time, or just not in her league. By rolling her eyes she is attempting to display to everyone else in the area that she is not interested in you.
If this happens to you, the best thing to do is simply turn around and walk away. You have little chance of getting with her. Even in the rare case in which you can recover from embarrassing a girl in public, the large amount of effort that it would require is frankly just not worth it when you can just leave an approach to another girl and start off fresh.
#2# She Crosses Her Arms Around You
Crossing her arms is a tell-tale sign that she is agitated, nervous or uncomfortable or just does not like you. When you see a girl display this gesture, it is time to change your strategy, and quick.
However, this is definitely not a deal breaker, because you can easily get her to lower her arms back down with a bit of good game. When she crosses her arms, always make sure that your next move is something that you are certain she responds well to. It should be particularly something you did previously and got a positive reaction from her, so that you are guaranteed to lower her guard. This key to overcoming this closed gesture is to play it safe until her arms are lowered back down to her sides and she appears comfortable once again.
#3# Her Crossed Legs Point Away
Crossing her legs is just as bad as crossing her arms, but can be much worse because once her legs are crossed she will most likely cross her arms as well. However, if her legs are crossed and pointing towards you, knee pointing in your direction, this means that she is simply nervous but has an interest in you, so it is a good thing as long as her arms are not crossed as well.
On the other hand, if her knee points away from you, then you’re in trouble, and if her arms are crossed and her knee is pointing away things are even worse. However, you can easily get her to change her body language to displaying open gestures, as the act of switching which leg in on top when her legs are crossed is natural for girls and she will point her knee towards you the instant that you fix whatever is making her either irritated or uncomfortable.
#4# She Leans Back Away From You
The ‘lean back’ is the most dreaded sign in all female body language. If she is leaning away from you and it is very noticeable, my advice is to forget her and move on to your next prospect. Even worse is the ‘sudden lean back’ which occurs when you lean in towards her. If you lean in, and at that exact moment she quickly leans back away as if to maintain a fair distance between the two of you, this is a sign that she has no interest in you at all, and most likely never will.
Only a very experienced man can warm up to a girl after noticing this type of behavior, so it is best to just move along. However, if you think you’ve got the skills then give it a try, because you quite literally have nothing to lose since she has no interest or attraction for you at all.
There you have it. Now, you know all of the basics when it comes to reading a girl’s body language. You may now use it to your advantage.
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