In everyday life, we come across such scenarios. We get attracted some women which are already taken out or are married, but we really get attracted to them and want to have relationship with them. the first and foremost problem in such situations is ‘She is already engaged to someone.”
Then, the very next question which comes to mind is ‘What to do if she already has a boyfriend?’
The truth is, you are unhappy with such scenarios and she is happy at her place and is just fine.
In such cases, if you want to change the scenes and want to have a connection with her, you have to take some risks yourself.
Here are the risks you have to start taking, if you want to turn this situation around:
#1# Pursue Other Women.
If you want to turn her into a lover, it is crucial beyond words that she should not be your one and only hope for a relationship. You must be pursuing other women also, flirting with other women, romancing other women and being engaged with other women.
It will give you a sense of patience and will help you remove any sense of desperation you may be feeling around the woman of your interest. This activity will also help you remain busy and less available - and thus more attractive - to her.
#2# Act Like a Lover, Not Like a Female Friend.
If you want a woman to see you as a thing of interest, rather than basically as an ugly woman, then you must act differently than another woman would. This is true for women you are just meeting as well as for women who have known you for a while and already think of you as a friend.
Bottom line is ‘you must flirt with her’. You must flirt.
Start doing all the flirting moves. You must ask, "What's the story behind that?" You must practice Situational Flirting and the Goodbye Introduction. You must conduct Romantic Conversations and Deepening Conversations. When you start incorporating these behaviors into your life, women will not wonder whether you are a wimpy friend or a potential lover. You must be a potential lover every time or she'll get rid of you.
#3# Be Upbeat and Be Busy.
The chances are you are kind of depressed when you're with her, complaining about your life and generally being a whiner. You must stop doing that right away. You must be am upbeat and busy person.
#4# Refuse To Stay Just Friends.
There may come a time between the woman of your interest and you when she may like to be friends with you but you need to refuse to stay as friends. Only in this way, things will start seeming more romantic with the woman you befriended. She'll either get with the program or she'll tell you in no uncertain terms that you are now and will forever be just friends. If that happens, you have to stop hanging around with her.
Without hedging, tell her, "I'm sorry, but it's too painful for me to be just friends with someone I feel this way about. I'm attracted to you." Then stop hanging around with her - at least then you'll be doing something positive for your self-esteem as a man.
For you she may not leave her boyfriend but she will definitely find you as a potential lover and will develop an interest for a relationship through the time.
It will move you in the direction of getting the relationship you want, if not with her, then with someone else.
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