17 Signals: A Girl Is Flirting With You

If you want to know what a woman really wants, you are going to have to invest some time figuring out her language.

Yes, women speak a different language of love when compared to a man’s version and the more you know, the better off you will be. Particularly, when you are looking to figure out whether or not a girl has the interest for you.

Here are clear cut signals that she isn’t interested in you and on the flip side, some super hot signs that this girl really enjoys flirting with you.

Signs She Doesn’t Want Your Attention: 

@1# Not looking at you at all.

@2# Not paying attention to you at all while you are trying to strike up a conversation with her.

@3# Arms crossed rigidly across her chest.

@4# Only one or two word replies.

@5# Touching you too much - means she just wants to be friends.

@6# Leaning away from you.

@7# Not contributing at all to the conversation.

Now let’s take a look at the pointers to figure out if a girl is flirting with you.

How To Tell If A Girl Is Flirting With You?

17 Signs Which Suggest That A Girl Is Flirting With You:

Signal 01: She’s Got Her Smile On 

This move is one of the toughest to figure out because women smile for all different reasons. She might be nervous or shy, just trying to be friendly, or she might really be trying to flirt with you.

A good rule of thumb to follow is if a girl smiles at you from a far and the smile is slow and deliberate, then she wants to connect with you. This means she’s flirting with you and you better take action and flirt back.

Signal 02: Touching The Chin or Twirling The Hair 

When a girl wants to flirt with a man or wants him to notice her, she is going to show him with her body language. So she might bashfully twirl her hair or maybe bat her eyelashes at you.

Touching her lips, chin and face are also proven body language signals that a girl likes you and is trying to flirt.

These are all feminine flirty signs a girl is trying to turn a man on.

Signal 03: Cleaning Herself Up

If a woman heads to the bathroom and comes back with her hair brushed, lip gloss on, and perhaps she’s wearing her shirt a little lower. These are all clear signs that a girl is flirting with you.

What you do with this information is of course up to you.

Signal 04: Damsel In Distress

If a girl is looking for you to help her, she could very well be flirting with you.

For instance, if she happens to ask you to help her lift something heavy or maybe help her figure out something on her phone, she is seriously trying to get your attention.

All of which she is usually totally capable of handing on her own but she’s just looking to grab your attention. This is a straight in your face flirting technique.

Signal 05: Reaches Out And Touches You

If a girl reaches out to touch you when you’re talking, this is a sure fire sign she likes you. This is telling you that she is totally into you but doesn’t want to be too obvious about it just yet.

Beware: If she is constantly touching you and just doesn’t stop, that’s not good news for you. This means she is crazy comfy with you and just wants to be friends. So just be careful to pinpoint the difference between “flirting” and “just friends.”

Signal 06: Simple Body Language

This signal can be a little confusing. If a cute girl is talking with you but alternates between facing you and twisting away from you, then she’s flirting. Girls like to be mysterious too.

This also helps a woman stay relaxed and calm. Pay attention to this one and make sure you interpret it accordingly.

Signal 07: Twitching And Fidgeting

If a girl is fidgeting around you and acting a little twitchy-jumpy, chances are pretty good she’s trying to flirt with you. Remember, not all girls are skilled flirters off the hop.

She might play with her hair-band, twist her watch and maybe fiddle with her necklace. As long as she is making eye contact with you and not looking like she is so uncomfortable she wants to bolt, then she’s telling you with her body that she’s into you.

Signal 08: Getting Closer

When a woman is obviously trying to get close to you, she’s flirting. If on the other hand she is repeatedly trying to move away from you, then she’s not looking to be anything more than friends.

A girl that likes a man is going to invade his private space as much as she safely can. This may even get a little claustrophobic for you but it’s all with good intention. She just wants you to pay attention and notice her that’s all.

Why is she doing this?

Well, most girls believe the guy should be making the first move so this is all she’s going to give you so that you will make your move.

Better act fast if you like her.

Signal 09: Attentive Laughter

If a girl is laughing at all your jokes, even the lame ones, then she’s trying to tell you she likes you. This one is a little hard to understand but when a girl likes a guy, she is fascinated with him.

Don’t worry, it doesn’t last long. So you better take action fast if you like the idea of this girl flirting with you.

Signal 10: Puts You On The Spot

When a girl flirts with a guy, she might signal this by asking you lots of questions about you. Don’t think of these questions as interrogation, just that she is genuinely interested in you.

And don’t forget to give her good answers because unlike most boys, she is paying attention.

Signal 11: Makes Complements

If a girl is giving you compliments and taking stabs at you, she is probably flirting. Pay attention to this one or you just might miss out.

Signal 12: Future Talk 

This one sends many boys running but when a girl starts talking about the future, what’s down the road, then she is flirting with you.

She might talk about a band that is coming to town next month that she wants to see or maybe a party in a few weeks that you might like to come to.

When a girl is flirting with a man, she wants him to know that she would like to see him more than in the now and when you talk about things down the road, you are sealing the deal.

It’s important for you to semi-commit to events down the road if you want the flirting to continue. Otherwise she will just shut the door and move on fast.

Signal 13: Proving Herself

When a girl tries to validate herself to you with things she has accomplished, she is playfully flirting with you. Essentially, she is trying to show you she has value and deserves your attention.

Some girls go overboard and actually start to brag. Keep it in a positive light and understand it’s just her way of flirting with you.

Too bad girls never seem to be straight up when it comes to flirting. They like to send off signals but none of them are concrete.

Signal 14: Higher Voice And Faster Talk 

Experts say one of the easiest routes to figure out if a girl is flirting with you is to listen to how fast she is talking and the tone of her voice.

Girls seem to talk faster to the men they are interested in. So the next time you are with a group of girls, test the theory out.

Often when a girl likes a guy, her pitch will start to rise. This is all happening subconsciously so don’t hold it against her please.

Signal 15: Body Language

Understanding body language is very important when you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl likes you.

(a) Mimicking: If she is unconsciously following your movements, she is flirting. So when you cross your arms, scratch your head or yawn, pay attention to see if she follows suit.

Psychologists say people who like each other will try and mimic their behaviors. This one is derived from evolution and the need to find your place or fit in.

(b) Shoulders Pointed Toward You: When a girl is flirting with a man, she will keep her shoulders pointed in or toward him. This shows that she is trying to get your attention and she is paying attention to what you are saying and doing.

(c) Toes Pointed Toward You: If a girl is interested in a man, her feet will be pointed toward him. This is another unconscious move that people do when they like someone.

Signal 16: Showing Hands

When you are talking with this girl, pay close attention to what her hands are doing. Her hands will tell you a lot about what she is thinking and feeling.

If she is flirting with you, she will use her hands to tell you this by ‘talking’ with her hands. She might gesture with her hands when she is explaining things to you and use her hands to reach out and touch you.

Beware: If she is sitting on her hands, hiding them or sticking them in her pockets, she might be telling you she doesn’t want your attention.

Signal 17: Smooth Verbal Communication

Yes, it’s important that you pay attention to her body language, but you also need to listen to what she is saying.

If your conversation is easy, quick and smooth, seemingly effortless, then she’s into you.

On the flip side, If you happen to be the only one talking and she’s pretty much keeping to herself, with her mouth shut, then she might not be interested in you at all.

Beware: There are women that are just natural flirts with everyone and likely have no romantic interest in you whatsoever.

She is likely skilled in most everything we’ve talked about thus far, but just likes the thrill of the flirt.

Don’t get mixed up with this one or you will get shot down.

So how do you tell if she’s just a natural flirt?

Pay attention to how she is acting around everyone else. Is she giving all the signs and signals to every other man in the room?

When you are trying to figure out whether or not a girl is flirting with you or genuinely not interested, it becomes sort of a puzzle.

You need to pay attention to the signals, the body language, words, and overall vibe.

And make sure you don’t get stuck on a natural flirter that just enjoys flirting for the sake of flirting and nothing more.

18 Signs: She Is Flirting With You

Honestly speaking identifying flirting behavior is a difficult endeavor for straight men everywhere. How can you possibly tell the difference between a woman who’s making an effort to flirt and one who’s simply being nice?

The following indicators will give you some promising signs to look out for in a potential female admirer. 

@1# She Angles Her Body Towards You.

Body language is the key when it comes to discerning if a woman is into you. Crossed arms indicate that she is guarded, while tilting forward with her legs angled towards yours communicates that she’s fine with the idea of getting close. 

@2# She Covers Her Mouth When She Laughs.

This means she’s a little bit self-conscious about talking to you, which often indicates that she cares how she looks and sounds, which further indicates that she might be romantically interested in you. 

@3# She Maintains Eye Contact.

If she can focus on your eyes throughout your initial meeting, she’s either a great trained listener or you’ve piqued her attention. 

@4# She Lets You Buy Her A Drink.

However, don’t be fooled with this gesture. It may shock you to hear, but many women will chat up a guy just in time for their drink to appear as if by magic at the bar before they quickly turn and walk the other way. 

@5# She Buys You A Drink.

This is a much more surefire indicator that she’s prepared to flirt with you for the long haul. 

@6# She Isn’t Obviously Searching Around For An Escape.

If her eyes wander back behind her head, it means she’s looking for the nearest exit. 

@7# She Brings Up A Potential Date Idea.

She may not frame it so obviously as such, but if she ponders aloud about how seeing that movie you’ve been discussing would be fun to do with someone sometime, don’t hesitate to take that as a hint. 

@8# She Asks Lots Of Questions.

While some women are just plain inquisitive, lots of inquiries are also play a great way to prolong conversations you don’t want to end. 

@9# You Seem To Run Into Each Other A Lot.

It’s now been three times that you’ve seen this woman around 1 pm at the same lunch spot. You both either have the same favorite place to get sandwiches, or she’s made a mental note that you’ll come in around that time everyday and you should check whether or not you’ve made that note yourself. 

@10# She Laughs At Your Stupid Jokes.

No one else you know laughed at that knock-knock joke about the talking muffin. It’s kind of suspicious that she burst into giggles before you even got to the punch line, isn’t it? 

@11# She Adjusts Her Hair And Clothes While You’re Talking.

Being fidgety or bored can account for a certain amount of these behaviors, but constant hair smoothing may mean she’s hoping the strands are all in place so she impresses you with her good looks. 

@12# She Touches You.

Reaching out to lightly shove your arm isn’t how just anybody would react to your sarcastic remark. You and your co-workers aren’t going around being touchy-feely with each other, are you? 

@13# She Asks You For A Favor.

This gives her an excuse to hang out with you again or for a longer period of time. 

@14# She Is Ignoring You, But You Catch Her Staring.

Lots of ladies are shy, so always consider that the woman giving you lots of furtive glances from the corner might be doing her best to flirt with you. 

@15# She Blushes.

She wouldn’t be embarrassed if she had nothing to lose by looking kind of silly around you. 

@16# She Acts Noticeably Different Around You.

If you have the opportunity, pay attention to how she behaves when she’s with other guys. If her behavior really alters, it could be that she’s in flirt mode when you’re by her side. 

@17# She Is Straightforward.

Instead of making vague comments about how she’d like to see you in the future or providing cloudy answers to your personal questions, a woman who’s actually flirting with you will be more honest and concrete. If she’s flirting because she wants to see you again, she’ll make an effort to actually put that in motion. 

@18# She Is Grinning Even After She Walks Away.

If you happen to be in a position where you can catch of a glimpse of her face after you guys have parted ways, check to see if she’s still smiling. If a grin lingers on her face, you’re in luck.

15 Signs: She Is Flirting With You

Girls are notorious for saying one thing and meaning another. So how do you know if she’s really flirting or just being nice? Read these tips to find out.

Ah, girls. They are such curious, confusing creatures. One moment they’ll melt your heart with kindness, and the next, they’ll leave you slumped on the floor in embarrassment. Just what is it with them? They smile at you and you saw them just bat their eyelashes at you or were they really? Are they flirting or are they just being nice?

How girls flirt and make it clear?

We know, it can be hard to decode a woman’s words, much less her body language. But if you can pay attention to her subtle clues, you might find that she’s actually not all that tedious to read after all.

Here are 15 common signs which show that she’s flirting with you.

@1# Flirty Smile

Smiles can be confusing. A smile can just be a simple form of greeting or acknowledging you, so be careful not to always interpret this as flirting. However, there is that flirty smile - a slow smile that reaches the eyes that gives you a ‘come hither’ look. This kind of smile is an open invitation for you to come over and get to know her.

@2# Hair Flip

A hair flip is a highly instinctual move that dates back to the earliest humans, and even animals themselves have their own version of this classic move. Whether women are touching their hair, twirling it or even flipping it, it’s their way of making you notice them.

#3# Lip Touch

There’s something about the way women touch their bodies that can really attract stares from the opposite sex. One of the most tempting body parts for men can be the lips, so if a woman looks at you and touches her lips or even bites her puckers, it’s a surefire way to know that she means business.

@4# Powder Room

If you’re out with a girl, even just a friend or colleague, the way she presents herself to you, however superficial it may seem, is one indicator that she’s into you and wants you to notice. She’ll excuse herself to the ladies’ room and come back looking fresher than ever, makeup all retouched, smelling great, and maybe even one less button done to show off her best assets.

@5# Damsel in Distress
Another surefire way a woman can show that she wants you to notice her is the good old damsel in distress move. From asking you for directions to needing help carrying something, this is one way she can try to show you that she wants you to let out your inner knight to save her. This is especially true when she asks you for help, even though she’s obviously very capable of doing it herself.

@6# Touchy Feely

When you’re out together with a girl, or even if you’ve just met her in a bar, if she can’t keep her hands off you, then you’ve got her in the cross-hairs. Even a small and light touch on your arm while she listens intently to you is a huge sign. She might even graze her hands up your biceps to gauge just how fit you are. And when she likes what she’s touching, you know what to do.

@7# Fidget Bridget

When a girl likes you, she’ll be much more self-conscious than normal. She’ll be fidgeting and might even exhibit signs of being uneasy when you’re around. Another fidgety behavior is when she looks at you and then looks away immediately when you catch her gaze.

@8# Close Up

A girl who likes you and wants to be noticed will want to be near you. She may be fighting for your attention among other girls, and she’ll try her best to draw closer to you. Even if you’re alone with her, she might lean in closer to you or even whisper in your ear. This is one way of flirting, even if she may not be aware of it herself.

@9# Lively Banter

So you guys strike a conversation. She’s all uppity and cheerful - a great sign that she’s happy you two are talking. A woman who likes you and is flirting with you will keep a conversation going as long as it takes, and will be interested in what you have to say. This is also one of those times when she’ll put her best foot forward with witty retorts and lively banter.

@10# Laugh Out Loud

A woman who likes you and wants you to know it might laugh out loud at your jokes, even the ones that aren’t really that funny. It’s probably that they just enjoy your company and they want to compliment you with attention and laughter. After all, if she weren’t interested, she wouldn’t be wasting her time listening to your jokes and pick-up lines.

@11# Digging You

It’s one thing to be nice and just say ‘hi’ to you nonchalantly. It’s another, however, when she says ‘hi’ and then starts a conversation with some questions about what you do or how you are. If she’s flirting with you, she’ll show interest, or even just feign it. She’s stroking your ego while trying to learn just how compatible you are with each other.

@12# Raves and Compliments

You’ll know she’s flirting when she compliments you with even the simplest things. From your hairstyle to your tailored suits and down to the socks she just had a quick peek of, she’ll be gushing about every detail she can find.

@13# Questions and Answers

If she’s asking you a whole host of questions, she’s most likely trying to flirt with you. And not just that, she’s trying to see just how much you have in common. If she asks you if you play sports, for example, she might be trying to show interest in something you like, but she may also be trying to find out if the two of you would likely enjoy going to baseball games together.

@14# Trying To Impress

Men and women, of course, try to impress the apples of their eyes, whether by grooming, showing off some talents or skills, or just catching their attention. So as for you, you’ll know she’s flirting with you when she’s trying extra hard to look great, show off her assets ‘physically or not’, brag about her accomplishments, and just catch your attention in a good way.

@15# Futuristic

She’s definitely flirting with you when she’s coming up with plans for the future. It may not be an off-the-bat plan for the two of you, but she’ll subtly suggest the possibility of you two going together. For example, after her Q&A, she might mention this band that she knows you like and how there’s going to be a concert. She might even bluntly ask you what you’re up to over the weekend, or dare you to try something new with her, anything, just to initiate something that is actually a date.

Girls don’t generally make the first move, probably because of how we are conditioned to feel that it’s the guy’s job to initiate flirting. However, girls have this subtle way of letting you know they are into you and want you to come over and get things started.

Catching your attention and letting you know they’re interested are women’s ways of actually manipulating you into making that darn move. So when you spot her doing any of the things mentioned above, then it’s your cue to brush up on your moves and go get the girl.

There are many ways to know that a girl is flirting with you rather than just plain being nice. By being keen and perceptive enough, you’ll easily spot the difference. The pointers above are also great indicators of whether they are likely to want to spark some romance with you or just put you in the friend zone.

Top Signs of Female Attraction

Attraction comes in a lot of subtle forms. As a man, it’s your job to recognize these attraction signs so that you enjoy them for their own sake and you can also celebrate and escalate. Men who miss out on attraction signs will miss a lot of opportunities to connect with women they’re interested in.

It sounds silly, but guys usually spend lots of time and energy getting a girl interested and then miss every sign that she’s interested back. He walks away frustrated, because he doesn’t know she’s been hanging on his every word.

The Female Perception of Flirtation:

If you walked up to a woman, started talking to her by raising your pitch, batting your eyelashes and twirling your hair, she might think you were a little strange to say the least. And while there’s absolutely nothing threatening about a woman touching you, but you touching her in a wrong way can get you slapped or worse. That’s because men and women, each have distinct ways they flirt. What works for women doesn’t work for men and vice versa.

Basically, men have evolved to be hyper-perceptive of sexual interest so you don’t miss any opportunities. Women, however, have evolved to be less perceptive of sexual interest because hopping on every caveman they run across means they end up stuck with less than ideal mates and more offspring than they can take care of.

Because women are less perceptive, they tend to have more subtle ways of flirting. Men will hit on a woman, going out of their way to express and cultivate interest at the same time. In contrast, women don’t want to make it super obvious that they’re flirting. This means you have to pay more attention to catch those signs at first. But once you learn how to recognize them, you’ll start having a lot more fun when you go out.

Here are some of the most common and top signs of female attraction:

@1# Preening

Preening is basically any of the ‘fixing herself’ stuff that women do when they’re around a guy they’re interested in. Part of it is nerves. Part of it is that she actually wants to look better for you. Part of it is that there’s just something kind of hot about a woman putting herself together and women subconsciously know this.

According to a psychological study, preening, primping and pouting are all things women do when they’re attracted to men. In fact, the study found that these behaviors aren’t just something women do when they’re vaguely physically interested. Preening behaviors are what women do when they’re zeroing in on their man. She’s no longer checking you out. She’s screaming to you, in her own way, that she’s attractive.

@2# Laughing At Your Jokes

While it’s true that women like a man who can make them laugh, it’s worth noting that she might not be laughing because you’re the funniest guy at the bar. She might be laughing just because she likes you. They just think guys they like are funny. It’s a subtle difference but an important one.

For your purpose, it doesn’t much matter. She either really thinks you’re funny, which is good, or she wants you to think she thinks you’re funny, which might even be better. Pay attention to laughter from women. It’s a dead giveaway that she’s enjoying your company, whether she actually thinks you’re funny or not.

@3# Eye Contact 

Eye contact isn’t necessarily a sign that a woman is attracted to you. After all, good eye contact is just good social behavior. Behavioral study shows that prolonged eye contact from a woman - anything beyond what’s normal and conversational - is a sign of attraction.

Think about it. When you’re out at a bar, if a girl is trying to get away from you, one of the easiest ways to do that is to start flitting her eyes around the room, looking for absolutely anything else she can be doing but talking to you. On the other hand, the eyes aren’t just windows of the soul. They’re kind of tractor beams of the soul. When she gazes back at you, she’s trying to pull you in further and prolong the interaction. Don’t ignore the simple act of eye contact as a sign of attraction.

Keep your eyes on her. Not only will it help you to build attraction, it will also help you to recognize the attraction she’s throwing at you. Particularly with shy or reserved girls, this might be the only attraction sign you’re going to get. So be on the attentive mode.

@4# Personal Questions

Personal questions are a common sign of attraction many men miss. I’m talking about questions that go beyond the simple ‘getting to know you’ types of formalities people feel like they have to go through when meeting someone new. Look for questions that you only really ask someone for when you’re trying to get a sense of who they really are. Alternately, she might be asking you questions of a more emotional bent to establish more of a bond and rapport with you.

Asking questions specifically tailored to who you are, the conversation the two of you are having that help her to get at who you really are deep down, that’s a sign of attraction.

When she’s asking you a lot of questions, she’s probably not just looking for information. She’s trying to keep you talking to her.

@5# Touch

I’m always amazed at how many guys overlook touch when it comes to attraction. Women don’t touch guys they’re not interested in. That includes a lot of accidental touching. For a variety of complex evolutionary reasons, men tend to initiate while women tend to put on the brakes. What this means is that while you might initiate an overt touch, she probably won’t. What she’ll do instead is accidentally touch you.

Don’t read every accidental touch as a sign of attraction. What you’re looking for isn’t one isolated example. What you’re looking for is a repeated pattern. If she keeps banging her elbow against yours in a totally empty room, she’s attracted to you. If she brushes her arm up against yours once in a room full of people, she might very well be into you, but she’s not signaling anything other than being in a crowded room.

When she’s touching you, think about why she’s doing it. If there’s no real reason other than attraction, escalate that touch. Start with something small like touching her hands, arms or upper back and see where it goes from there.

@6# Context Is The King

When evaluating signs of female attraction, you need to pay attention not just to what she’s doing, but also the context in which she does it. Her signs of attraction aren’t a statement or even a paragraph. They’re a whole story and you have to look at everything before making your final determination.

Eye contact by itself might not mean much, but eye contact and a torrent of personal questions probably do. Fixing herself might just mean she’s self-conscious, but preening while laughing at everything that you say is a dead giveaway. Standing close to you might mean the room is crowded, but standing on top of you while gazing up is another sure sign of attraction.

Next time you go out, try and pay more attention for signs of female attraction. Knowing how to see signs of female attraction can do a lot to boost your confidence when it comes to talking to woman. Once you know the signs, you won’t ever have to guess again.

12 Body Language Signs That Show She Is Into You

Your words may fake it, but your heart can’t. When you are attracted to someone, your eyes always give away the truth. It’s not very hard to tell when someone likes you. But if you are still confused, here are 12 body language signs that show she likes you.

@1# She is always fidgeting while talking to you; fiddling with her phone or jewellery or her drink. It’s a sign that your presence makes her nervous, in a good way, of course.

@2# She stands with her arms on the side. This body posture shows her willingness to be approached. However, if she stands with her arms crossed, she might not be interested at all.

@3# She maintains a prolonged eye contact. No, not ‘looking into your eyes’, we are talking about that steely gaze stares deep into your eyes and holds on for a little longer than 3 seconds, making your heart race even faster. And if she smiles while she makes eye contact, you have hit the jackpot.

@4# Watch out for her gaze. If she occasionally shifts her eyes to your lips when you are talking, she is definitely attracted to you.

@5# You see her playing with her hair a lot when you are around, whether it is running her fingers through her hair or tucking them behind her ear or just twirling a strand around her finger.

@6# She involuntarily draws attention to her lips, either by laughing a lot or licking them lightly, almost in an involuntary move when you are looking at her.

@7# She turns her head to one side, exposing her neck. It’s a sign of vulnerability. She may be doing this without knowing but it’s a clear sign of attraction.

@8# She smiles a lot. She smiles every time she looks at you. And it’s not the usual smile. You can see her eyes light up every time. That glint is the biggest giveaway.

@9# She tries to draw your attention to her face by touching her lips or collarbone.

@10# There are a lot of accidental brushes when she is around. She tends to graze her hand against your arm slightly or touches your wrist. It’s different from a causal touch. That subtle, electrifying touch reveals all that is going on in her mind.

@11# Her legs always point towards you whether she’s sitting or standing. Science says if we are attracted to someone, we always point our feet in their direction.

@12# Women tend to stand really close to guys they are attracted to. So, if the physical proximity seems to be diminishing, it might be time to make a move on her.

30 Added Signs Which Shows She Likes You

Here are 30 more signs to look for in a girl if she likes you: 

1. She Looks Back and Glances at You Repeatedly Every Minute or So. 

2. She Turns Her Body Towards You. 

3. She Holds Eye Contact for Longer Periods of Time When She Speaks With You. 

4. She Asks You for Your Name. 

5. She Asks You a Lot of Questions. 

6. She Stands Nearby. 

7. She Asks You for a Light or the Time or in Any Way Initiates a Conversation. 

8. She Plays with Her Hair While Talking to You. 

9. She Compliments You. 

10. She Punches Your Arm While Laughing. 

11. She Laughs at Your Jokes, Even When They Aren’t Funny. 

12. If It Comes Up That You Like Something, She Mentions That She Likes It Too. 

13. She Re-initiates Conversations When You Stop Talking. 

14. She Asks if You Have a Girlfriend. 

15. She Mentions Your Girlfriend Without Knowing If You Actually Have One. 

16. She turns Playful and Tries to Challenge You. 

17. She Touches You. 

18. When She Says or Does Something, She Looks at You to See Your Reaction. 

19. She Tries to Build Rapport. 

20. She Introduces You to Friends. 

21. Her Friends Go (to the Bathroom or Bar or Dancing) But She Stays. 

22. While You are Talking to Her Group, She Is Particularly Talkative to Get Your Attention. 

23. She Calls You a Player or a Heart-breaker. 

24. She Invents Reasons to Be Near You, Interact with You, or Be Alone with You. 

25. She Avoids Mentioning Her Boyfriend. 

26. On Her Way Out, She Re-approaches You to Tell You That She is Leaving. 

27. On Your Way Out, She Asks You Where You Are Going. 

28. She Doesn’t Flinch or Pull Back if You Happen to Get Too Close. 

29. If You Move, She Follows You or Waits for You. 

30. She Doesn’t Resist When Things Get Sexual.