Why Do Guys Stare At Girls?

Sometimes, there comes a question to mind. That is, why do guys stare at girls? Girls are used to guys staring at them, but is there something more to the stare? Here are some of the real reasons behind guys and the stare. 

Guys stare at girls all the time. You know it quite well, that guys are just so scared to approach girls, but are so courageous when it comes to staring at girls.

Guys Staring At Girls:

Some guys stare because they don’t know what else to do.

They definitely don’t know how to make a move, and they just assume that by staring at you, they’d be able to hold your attention long enough to feel good about themselves.

They can always tell a friend later, “Hey dude, guess what? There was this chick down the street, and we had a moment! Both of us were just staring at each other like the damn world had stopped revolving!”

You know that’s quite annoying, right?

Why Do Guys Stare So Much?

Surprisingly, some of the guys who stare at girls think long term. They stare at you so hard and they want to burn an imprint of themselves into your brain.

And all their stupid mind screams is, “What if I could bump into her again at a party, or someplace else? If she remembers me, then I could probably make the move if she’s close enough.”

Knowing The Guys Who Stare At Girls:

We have all kinds of guys in the world. We have the good guys without girlfriends, the good guys with girlfriends, and we have the losers who don’t have a chance of getting women.

It’s the third kind that always messes around with girls.

These guys are just plain pissed off with women because they are branded losers by girls. They have no damn self confidence when it comes to matters of women, and quite frankly, they don’t care. You see these guys plaguing cafes, clubs and shopping malls. They hang out, almost always with friends for confidence and support, and stare at girls.

These guys know you would feel awkward and uncomfortable when they stare. And they get pleasure out of knowing they can make you feel uncomfortable.

If they would approach you, you would spurn their advances anyways. So these guys retaliate by making you feel uncomfortable. Some guys even go to the extent of snapping pictures of pretty women on their cell phones just to annoy them.

Guys Staring At Girls And The Places:

Ever found yourself walking past shops in the busy side of town, minding your own business and looking for a good bargain? Of course, you have.

On almost every occasion, you would have found at least one guy staring at your breasts or at your derriere. He might think he is being discreet, but he is obviously not. These guys just stare like their eyes are stuck to your boobs with invisible strings of superglue.

Really, I’m sure you’re fine with a decent guy who just checks you out for a fraction of a second, it might even be flattering, but an all-out stare is just disgusting. These guys look all over, and emphasize most on the assets that differentiate women from the men.

Guys who know for sure that they are never going to have a chance to go out with a beautiful girl like you indulge in such wild stares. They do know others may be looking at them in disgust, but to them, all they care about is their moment of glory. They got to see a beautiful girl’s bra straps! In their mind, all they scream out is, “Wow! Now that’s a sight to store in mind for later tonight!”

How To Check If A Guy Is Staring At You?

Guys stare at girls. It’s true but it’s all not the same.

I’m sure all women understand that staring is a way by which a man shows interest in you. But ‘the stare’ is a long way from the simple show of appreciation. It might confuse you at first, and you may take a few glances back at him to figure if he is checking you out or staring at you like he is hypnotized, but that usually takes a few minutes to figure.

And quite frankly, that’s just too long if it’s a loser who’s giving you a ‘stare’, or ‘the stare’. Either ways, don’t ever just stare back at someone for more than half a second. If you do make eye-contact, lay off looking at him for the next five minutes or so, and take a quick discreet look again to see if he is still checking you.

If he is checking you five out of five times you look at him, you have got yourself a guy with ‘the stare’. If it’s four times, he may still be a weirdo. If it’s three out of five, then he may be a nice guy. If it’s just once, he was probably just looking around.

But either ways, unless you like this guy too, try avoiding the staring game. You might just find yourself escaping from a clinging stalker.

How To Stop A Guy Staring At You?

Firstly, all you need is to stop staring back. That will do the trick. If you want to go one step further, then just look straight at him, give him your dirtiest stare and sit in another seat so you can show your back to him.

Or if you are with a bunch of friends, you could just point right out at him, and all of you could burst out laughing. There are a lot of things you could do, and I’m sure you could come up with something just as nasty any day.

After all, guys who stare at girls act brave only as long as you are uncomfortable. If you show him who is in control, he will tuck his tail like a little dog.

‘Guys staring at girls’ is not a big deal, and can be flattering too. But if it’s the dirty stare, it’s best not to acknowledge it in the first place.

5 Things To Charm A Girl

Every guy wants to know how to charm a girl into liking him. But most of them fail in their pursuit because they don’t know “the five things to charm a girl”. Find out what those five things are, and how to use them to your advantage.

You may have seen some guy chatting with a girl, and the girl laughing in delight and calling him a charmer. Sounds nice, doesn’t it?

Being complimented as a charmer by a girl is one of the best compliments any guy can ever get from a girl. It’s not about facial look, it’s not about your physical appearance or your geek quotient.

It’s purely your wit and how amazing you are at charming a girl.

How To Charm A Girl?

So what exactly is charming a girl? Charming a girl isn’t about flirting with her or touching her in places.

You’d know you’re charming a girl when you make her feel so happy she could kiss you right there!

There are five really important things you need to know to charm your way into a girl’s heart. You can exchange a lot of looks and share an intense eye contact with a girl, but you can’t charm her with that.

To charm a girl, you need to create an impression beyond looks and your swagger.

In order to charm a girl, first of all, it all starts with a conversation. And it pretty much ends there.

Charming a girl is all about how you communicate with her and make her feel happy and glad. Use these five tips and you’ll get there even before you know it.

5 Things To Charm A Girl:

@1# Talk About What She Likes

You may think this is unnecessary. Most guys do. Most guys wonder why they have to talk only about something a girl likes. Why can’t girls talk about what a guy likes too?

Of course, girls can. Girls do take an active interest in trying to get to know what guys like to talk about too. But at times, especially when you’re trying to make an impression, it’s always better to be aware of what’s going on in a girl’s mind.

Talking about what a girl likes doesn’t really mean couture, diamonds or cosmetics. The bridge between girls and guys has narrowed down a lot these days. It’s really easy to have an interesting conversation without breaking into a sweat. Stay away from tech reviews, calculations and sports and you should be fine.

@2# Flatter Her

When you talk to a girl, it’s easy to get her talking back to you. But that’s not enough. If you want to know how to charm a girl, you need to make her feel comfortable, and you also need to let her know you’re interested in her.

Friends don’t charm each other’s pants off. So if you’re going to talk to her like a friend, she may think you’re a great guy. But she won’t think you’re a charming guy. To be seen as a charming guy in a girl’s eyes, she needs to see you as a dating potential. And to do that, you need to flatter her.

Don’t go saying yawn inspiring things like ‘you look beautiful’, ‘you’re so pretty’, or something along those lines. It’s too boring and so-not-genuine. Instead, be vaguely specific when you compliment her. She’s got a new hairdo? Say something like ‘You look really cute today. Is that a new hairstyle?’

Cute is a nice word to use because men hardly ever use that word. So when you do use it, she knows how much you mean it.

By flattering her, you can do three things with one line. You can warm her up and make her smile. You can make her realize that you find her pretty. And thirdly, you can let her know that you find her attractive. All of which you need to do to make her look at you as a dating potential.

@3# Be Funny

Now that you’ve got her all smiling with a good flow of flattery and great conversations, it’s time to get into her personal space. All of us have personal spaces and we feel very uncomfortable when someone steps into it unless we are comfortable with them.

To make her feel comfortable, you need to make her have a good time with you. Next, when the both of you are together, have a good conversation. Talk about things she likes. Keep talking in a funny way and enjoy the conversation but never tell her a straight forward joke. Just be happy when you talk to her. Talk about the things and incidents she can relate to.

Be happy when you talk to her if you want to charm her. When you are happy, the whole world smiles with you. If you are smiling and feeling happy, she would smile back and be happy too. If you become nervous, she will definitely feel uncomfortable.

@4# Flirt With Her

Guys flirt with girls all the time, but sometimes, a girl can think a flirty guy is creepy. So don’t overdo your flirting skills and gross her out. One of the best ways to start flirting is by being casual. Ask her what she does on weekends or after work, ask her about her favorite hangouts and restaurants, and just about anything that can be remotely personal. She’d know you’re hitting on her because no one really asks all these questions otherwise.

And out of the blue, pop this question.

“Hey, this is personal, but do you have a boyfriend? If you do, my heart is just going to shatter into a million pieces right now.”

Hmm! This question always works its magic!

She will laugh, but this line gets your intentions across straight, and she would know you are interested in her. But don’t make things awkward by pausing after she answers the question. Go on talking about something else like that question meant nothing to you. Your intentions will be made clear, and you won’t make her feel uncomfortable around you.

@5# Touch Her

This is dangerous ground, but something you need to learn. Touching her at the right time completes the five pointers you need to know about how to charm a girl. If you get this right, you have obviously made a great impression.

Now touching a girl is like playing with fire. Too quick a touch and you don’t feel the warmth. Too long a touch and you will burn. See how dangerous it can be?

You can send a tingle up her spine with a simple touch if you have warmed her up already. Touch her only if there is a reason to touch her, like touching her ear lobe when you are complimenting her earrings, brushing her hair aside when there is a gust of wind, or placing your hand on her back while crossing the street.

A touch is very personal, so you really need to be careful and see how she reacts to your touches before you touch her again.

If you want to charm a girl and impress her, use these five steps the next time you meet a girl you like. And you’ll see how great an impression you can make in the very first conversation.

How To Avoid The Friend Zone?

Are you afraid about being just a friend to the girl you like? Wondering how to avoid the friend zone? Just understand these pointers and use these tips. You’ll never fall into the friend zone with any girl ever.

Here are few things to understand and to apply if you want to avoid falling into the friend zone.

The friend zone is a tricky place to fall in.

You may be trying hard to get close to a girl, close enough to tell her that you like her, but one fine day she turns around and tells you that you are such a great friend, or worse, you’re just like a brother to her.

Guys find themselves falling into the friend zone almost all the time.

It’s frustrating and demeaning, as well as inevitable, also.

You may get really close to a girl with all the hopes of getting into her pants, but somewhere along the way, you may have taken a few detours that led you right into the friend zone.

What Is A Friend Zone?

A friend zone is a happy place for a girl. It’s a place where she and a guy can sit together and talk about anything and get real friendly with each other.

For a guy, a friend zone is the worst place to be in, especially when he likes the girl who behaves like a friend.

In a friend zone, the two involved friends of the opposite sex are just friends and nothing more. They project no sexual interest towards each other and behave in a completely platonic manner.

But can any guy ever be friends with a girl he finds sexually attractive? The answer is, of course not. He can try to be a friend with the hope of getting an occasional cuddle or a warm boob pressing hug now and then, but he’s always going to be just a friend while she dates every other guy in the yearbook.

How Do Guys Fall Into The Friend Zone?

A guy falls into a friend zone for very obvious reasons. He behaves like a friend. And he never lets the girl know that he has more than friendly intentions on his mind.

And soon enough, the girl loses all realization of the fact that this guy has a package down there. And he just becomes another sexless thing she hangs out with all the time as a platonic friend.

So why do some guys end up as friends instead of boyfriends or sex buddies? Here are the reasons.

@1# They Become Too Close.

Getting too close to a girl on platonic grounds will never help you. You may assume that it’s the easiest way to get a girl to know you better. She’ll definitely get to know you better, but only as a friend.

@2# Lack of Sexual Chemistry.

If a guy likes a girl, he has to make it subtly obvious that he is sexually interested in her. If a guy behaves like a pushover and a doormat, no girl will feel even a tingle of sexual chemistry.

@3# The Girl is Not Attracted.

This sucks, but this is the most common scenario. The guy’s probably creepy, annoying or just not good enough to be her boyfriend.

@4# The Guy Thinks She Is Too Good.

At times, a guy may genuinely believe that the girl he likes is way too good for him. And instead of hitting on her, he secretly lusts for her, but gives up on pursuing her. Could you ever live with yourself by just being the friend of a sexy girl who dates every other guy except you?

@5# He Plays The True Friend.

It works in the movies. The girl has a best friend who’s always there for her. She goes ahead and dates every single guy in the world, and finally, at the end of the movie she sees her true love in the form of her best friend. How touching! And that’s why they call it the movies. In real life, you can’t become a girl’s boyfriend just by behaving like a best friend.

How To Avoid Falling Into The Friend Zone?

It is really easy to avoid falling into the friend zone. All you need to do is drop a few hints now and then to let her know that you’re really into her. One can use these easy tips to get the message across and get her to desire you.

@1# Be a friend without behaving like her other friends.

Don’t talk nonsense for hours or spend time talking about her problems in life. Talk about places she visits, movies she’s watched, and her plans for the weekend. Talk date talk and she’ll sense the chemistry in the air

@2# Talk to her when she is alone. 

If her other friends are around, talk to her if you must or just avoid her. You can’t really hit on a girl when she’s surrounded by a group of friends.

But when you find her alone, make sure you turn on your charm and impress her. If you find her alone start chatting with her. She will get the hint that you like spending time with her alone. Make it obvious that you like spending time with her in whatever way possible, but don’t ask her out or tell her you like her just yet.

@3# Compliment her when she deserves it.

Never lose an opportunity to compliment her. If she looks good, tell her she looks hot. If you see a hint of cleavage and she catches you staring, just laugh, apologize and tell you couldn’t resist it. Add a few funny sexual remarks and you’ll never get into the friend zone.

@4# Touch her and treat her like your girlfriend.

Do it respectfully. Clasp her hand while crossing the street and open doors for her when it’s just the both of you. Make her feel like a queen, and she will love the attention. But when her friends are around, don’t give her any preferential treatment. Let her realize that you are special to her only when it’s just the two of you.

@5# Make her feel special and exclusive. 

Gift her something small and personal, but tell her to keep it a secret. When you create secrets, you build sexual chemistry and suspense, which leads to romance.

@6# Ask her out and change the topic.

When you’re talking to her for a while, ask her out for lunch or coffee. See how she responds. But within a second, change the topic. Don’t wait for her to answer. It’ll seem like a joke, but it will still make her wonder if you really do want to date her. Don’t make things awkward by waiting a while before saying something else. Keep it simple, keep it funny and yet reveal all the thoughts in your mind, and change the topic immediately.

By understanding the above pointers and applying the given tricks, one can obviously avoid falling into the friend zone with a girl. If fact, he will be able to create a secret desire inside her.

5 Steps To Date A Married Woman

It’s very common to notice in the society that most of the men are attracted towards married women and find them more attractive compared to younger girls. Practicing monogamy has reduced and couples due to lack of control and pure love are getting into extra-marital affairs.

For many men, there is just something about a married woman that is more attractive than anything else. Maybe it’s the way that so many of them seem to convey a sense of self esteem or confidence in themselves and their situation. It’s the woman who’s not afraid to offer a passionate kiss, even though she’s just taken a bite of garlicky pasta. It’s the woman who has enough confidence in who she is that a slightly dimpled bottom is not the end of the world. It’s the fact that many married women know how to please themselves and the man that they are with.

Dating married women is an ideal tip for majority of men regardless of the age gap. If the woman is attractive, pretty and matured, the man will likely fall for her and would like to date that married woman. The experience of married women makes men love them and the wish to get along with them increases.

For lots of guys, this is just what they want and need. If you’re one of the many guys out there that wants to know how to date a married woman, then you likely know that you’re not in it for a long term commitment. You probably also know that it can be hard to actually meet a married woman to date. There are some tricks that you can see just how easy it is to date a married woman.

For instance, you have to know how to tell that the women you’re meeting really want to start a thing with you. It will be easier to date a married woman when you meet one that wants to have an affair. If the woman you meet is interested in dating you, then she’ll be open to talking to you. She might even hit on you a little bit. This is a good sign that you have met a married woman that wants to date you.

The next step is to see if you can get her number or if she’ll take your number. You might even see her thinking through how she can talk to you and get away with it. If she only wants to take your number, let her. She might not call, but then again she probably will. With married women, you have to remember that it’s not like dating a woman who is single. There will be stolen moments at odd times and you’re likely going to have to deal with them, but if you’re willing to you’ll probably find that it’s quite easy to date a married woman.

Most of the time, once the initial date has taken place, if she likes you, she’ll be the one making arrangements and planning your next get together, which is why it’s really easy to date a married woman. Plus, if you aren’t the type for a serious commitment, then this might be the best thing for you. You get to be with a woman who you enjoy and really connect with when she can and when her husband is not at home, you’re free to do all the guy things you usually do.

If you would like to see how easy it really is to date a married woman, then it might be time to make the first move. You can meet them all over the place and often, if they are out without their husbands it’s pretty likely that they are looking for someone just like you. In fact, if you just give many married women a little nudge, you’ll find that it’s incredibly easy to date the married woman you seek.

Even women want a change in their lives if they are bored of their existing ones. Women love to be adored, loved and cared so if a man fulfills her needs then she falls for him. If you are attracted to a married woman and are willing to date her, here are some of the tips and tricks to date her.

5 Steps To Date A Married Woman:

#1@ Give Her Time: The new and close relationship needs time to develop. Many women are not ready to ditch her husband and to go for another man. If the man likes a married woman, he should gradually try to develop the relationship between them and make her feel that she is doing the right thing.

#2@ Build Comfort Level: It is very important to make her feel comfortable in your company. Try to become close to her by knowing her likes and dislikes. If she needs time to get close to you then give her the required time and space. She will come to you.

#3@ Be Her Support: A married woman generally gets into an extra-marital affair if she is not happy with her life and husband. Try to become her support and stand by her side when she wants you.

#4@ Never Befriend Her Husband: Try not to be friends with her husband. In some cases, husband's close friends are involved in relationship with the wife so tips to date married women is to best avoid being friends with her man.

#5@ Know What She Expects: A man should know that the married woman is dating him to fulfill her expectations which were not catered to by her husband. Get to know what she wants and expects and try to fulfill them.

Use these tips to date married women and be prepared to share your love as the woman you like or love is already married to someone. Dating a married woman is not easy and acceptable but if your love is pure, then may think and proceed.

5 Ways to Seduce Women by Mouth

You probably know one surefire way to turn her on using your mouth. But that's not what this story is about.

Instead, this is about those first moments after you catch her eye across the bar and she flashes you an inviting ‘come give me your best shot’ smile. Obviously, she's checked out your look and your posture, the way you interact with your buddies, and all the other subtle cues evolution has pre-programmed her brain to search for when evaluating a potential mate.

Here are 5 of the ways to seduce a woman by using your mouth:

#1@ Talk Like a Professor:

Women are attracted to ‘verbal fluency’ - a big vocabulary, long, complex sentence structures, and smooth delivery. All of these speech characteristics signal to her that you're smart, educated, and probably capable of earning lots of dough. As much as you're able, experts recommend using big words and more than anything else, speaking confidently and without long pauses.

#2@ Smile To a Minimum:

Women regard too much smiling as a sign of femininity and timidity. Both of which are turn-offs, according to a study in the journal Emotion. Researchers asked more than 1,000 people to rate photos of the opposite sex in terms of hotness. Smiling men were judged least attractive by the ladies; behind shame-faced, prideful, or guys with neutral expressions. That doesn't mean you should be a stone-faced when you approach her. Just lose the permanent grin, the research suggests.

#3@ Use The Proper Joke:

More than any other personality trait, a good sense of humor unlocks the door to her bedroom. Women regard a sense of humor as a sign of intelligence and honesty. But there's one big catch: Women dig positive, inclusive jokes; not negative jabs or put-downs. Ditch the sarcasm, insults, and unflattering observations of others. Instead, your goal is witty, kind-hearted banter.

#4@ Interrupt Her:

It sounds rude, but occasionally cutting in to finish her sentences or agree with her - "I feel exactly the same way!" - shows her you're both on the same page. While men tend to let each other finish sentences, women constantly interrupt one another while chatting. Doing likewise can make her feel more comfortable and close to you, but only if what you say builds on or supports what she's saying. Cutting in to change the subject is a no-no.

#5@ Kiss Her Like You Mean It:

She laughed at your jokes and seemed to dig your big words. But the last obstacle is a treacherous one: the first kiss. Blow it, and any interest she had in you can evaporate in an instant. The same study identified three important elements of a winning starter smooch: Good breath, little to no tongue, and assertiveness. Pop a mint on your way out of the bar, take her face in your hands, and look her in the eyes as you lock lips. Keep your mouth relaxed, and you'll knock her socks off for sure.

6 Ways to Seduce a Woman Sexually

Most people have the perception that being an average guy is a limitation to attracting a woman sexually. Most guys consider themselves average but there is no limitation at all on how to seduce a woman sexually as an average guy.

There are a lot of women who understand enough to want to be involved with so called average guys. Even if you are average in other aspects of life, it does not imply you’re average in bedroom.

The following 6 methods can be very helpful to attract a woman sexually even if you consider yourself average.

#1@ Conversation:

This is one of the easiest ways to turn a woman on. Fun and interesting conversations can easily get women flocking around you.

This can easily make her develop sexual attraction towards you. However, it doesn’t mean you must have a great sense of humor because all can seduce a woman by making her laugh. Provided you can tell simple stories that make people giggle and hang on your words.

You also have to be good at listening and talking to people. Talk to her in a sexual language, but do not be over the top. If it comes out to strongly she will think you are out to get laid or plain desperate.

#2@ Kissing:

Women get turned on when a man gives her a good kiss. You may be a regular and normal kind of guy, but the moment you give a woman an awesome kiss, she will consider you special and one of a kind. This is because most guys are not good at kissing. This is the thing you can use to stand out even if all the other things about you are average.

#3@ Escalating Her Attraction:

This is one thing that even the guys who consider themselves to be above average still do not know how to do. Even if she is attracted to you, you still ought to be able to escalate the feeling to pure sexual attraction. Failure to do this will lead you back to the friend zone if you are not careful. So, to avoid this you basically need to know how to build sexual tension.

#4@ Confidence:

If you have self esteem issues, then you need to work on them to be able to attract a woman sexually. You have to be confident when you are around her. This is a trait you must have, otherwise you’ll find it very difficult to make women want you sexually. Be cool and do not rush things.

#5@ Eye Contact:

Eye contact that lingers attracts women. You must be able to differentiate between outright staring and lingering eye contact. One has lover’s gaze feeling and is hypnotic while the other is somehow creepy. Good eye contact will make her develop a natural desire to be sexually attracted to you.

#6@ Knowing What She Wants:

Understand her wants on a primary level. This will make work much easier when you get to a conscious level. You need to deeply trigger her attraction to you on the primary level. This means you shouldn’t have to employ tactics later because she will be feeling your vibe already.

The art of seducing a woman is not difficult to master, it just take knowledge and practice.

How to Know If a Woman Is Attracted to You?

It can be quite a daunting task for a man to have to approach a woman he's never met and never talked to. In fact most men would rather jump out of an airplane than approach a beautiful woman. Then on top of all that you still have to figure out if she even likes you or not.

Wouldn't it be great if you could tell if a woman liked you without her actually telling you she likes you? This would make the whole process of meeting and attracting women so much easier.

It’s true that women actually give off subtle little hints to men that let them know that they are attracted to them. These little hints are called ‘Indicators of Interest’. Most men have no idea what these little cues are and walk around clueless to the fact literally dozens of women want to meet them every day.

Here are some of the most common examples of Indicators of Interest.

6 Indicators of Interest:
#1@ Her Questions

She asks you a question. Say you walk up to a woman you don't know and she asks you a question and she then engages you back after you answer this is a huge sign she's interested.

#2@ Her Body Language

Her body language opens up towards you. For example if she crosses her legs towards you or is leaning into you during conversation.

#3@ Looks at Your Lips and Mouth

While in conversation you notice her looking at your lips and mouth. This can also be a sign that she wants to kiss you.

#4@ Prolong Eye Contact

She holds eye contact with you. This can be a little bit of a scary one because sometimes it can feel uncomfortable to hold eye contact with someone for an extended amount of time but try to hold it for longer then you normally would.

#5@ Comfortable With Your Touch

She's comfortable with you touching her. This is an excellent one because you can actually test to see if she likes you by simply touching her on her arm or even touching her hair and if she doesn't pull away that's a huge indicator she likes you.

#6@ Touches You in a Playful Way

She initiates physical contact in a playful way. Maybe she might hit you in the arm or pinch you something to that affect. This is her trying to flirt with and wanting you to flirt back with her.

If you ever notice one or more of these signs in a woman, this is now your turn to be active. By these indicators of interest, she wants to let you know that she's attracted to you. Now, you need to act on them.

How To Make a Girl Fall in Love?

It depends on the girl you have your sights set on. You may find that making her fall in love with you could be a bit of a chore. Of course there are some situations in which you won’t have to do a thing but flash your gorgeous smile in order to melt her heart. Each and every situation is different but there are some key elements that remain the same no matter who the girl is.

There are many things you must know about women in order to understand the way their hearts work. Men are wired differently than women are and for this reason, you will want to understand what it is that a woman usually looks for in a man.

Love is a tricky business and when you compare your ideas if what love is to that of a girl’s ideas you may be a bit shocked to find out the extent of the difference. Girls are very emotional creatures whereas men are usually a bit more focused on outward appearances in the beginning of relationships.

There are few tricky things in the game of love which play big roles. One should always be careful about these things.

Affection And Care Are The Key Things:

This is the very first question you’ll need to find the answer to. Girls fall in love with a totally different thing than guys do. A guy can see a beautiful girl with a gorgeous figure and automatically tell himself that he is in love. However, it takes much more than this to make a girl fall in love.

Girl needs to feel as if she is being cared for emotionally, physically and mentally in order to fall in love. Most girls will model the men they fall in love with after their own fathers provided they had a nurturing father growing up. This means that girls are looking for men who are tentative and caring to spend their lives with. Most girls like a man who will put her needs first. In addition, of girl enjoys being with a man who makes her feel beautiful at all times. Girls also tend to fall in love with men who make them feel secure.

Earn Respect From The Girl:

A very big part of making a girl fall in love with you is earning her respect and trust. In order to do this you must show her that she is the only girl in the world for you and that you cannot and will not be tempted to stray. This may be very difficult for you at first, especially if you have been single for quite a while and are used to seeing a number of different girls.

However, if you meet that special girl your goal is to make her your ‘one and only’ then you must show her that she is your one and only. Do not turn your head to watch the girls go by when you are with this girl. This sends the message that you are still looking at the menu this is something you do not want to do. Get rid of other girls’ phone numbers as well as pictures that serve to remind your new girl of your romantic history.

The key to earning respect from a girl and trust is to show her that she has nothing to worry about and that her heart is safe with you.

Small Gestures Go a Long Way:

Something, as simple as bringing a single rose; can make a big difference in a girl’s day. Girls love when you show them displays of affection, no matter how small they are. Just a simple card to say that you have been thinking of her will surely put a smile on her face. Girls are usually very good at loving and it typically does not take a lot to prompt them to do so.

However, men are often a little bit less adept when it comes to matters of the heart. Most of this is social conditioning and learned behavior as a result of the society we live in. Men are taught to be tough and not to wear their emotions on their sleeves. However, when it comes to making a girl fall in love, you will want to do your best to show her exactly how you feel.

Show Her That She Comes First:

While it is important to retain a sense of individuality by keeping some time to hang around with your friends and do guy things, it is also important to show your girl that she comes first no matter what. This means if she tells you that this weekend there is a show she really wants you to take her to it would be a good idea to cancel poker night with the guys and take her to the show.

Remember, right now you are simply trying to get the girl to fall in love with you and for this reason you will need to take steps in order to achieve this. This does not mean that once she falls in love with you, it is okay to start treating her like dirt but it does mean that in the beginning you will need to take extra steps. This will also mean defending her honor openly. In the beginning you may want to pay special attention to any of your friends they get on her nerves and annoy her. She will want you to show her that if it were a choice between your friends or her, you would pick her.

Basically, getting a girl to fall in love with you is easy if you take caring steps and remember that it is all about her. The key to winning a girl’s heart is to make her feel like a princess and that the sun rises and sets in her eyes.

8 Qualities Men Look For In Women

All men are different and what one man finds attractive isn’t necessarily going to be the same as the man next to him finds attractive. Depending on what that man is looking for at the time, he will be attracted to different things.

For example, if he is just looking for a no strings attached fun romp then he is more likely to be looking at body shape and looks, but if he is looking for someone to have a serious relationship with he will be looking for personality, honesty and all of the other major traits that make a relationship work. There are some qualities that all men find attractive no matter what kind of relationship they are looking for.

Here are some of the most looked after qualities of women that almost all men like:

#1@ Confidence

Men like women to have a certain amount of confidence; they enjoy catching the eye of a woman when she walks into the room, and if she can maintain eye contact with him all the better. It shows that she is confident about who she is, how she looks and has a self confidence that will make her easy to be around than the shy and retiring types.

Men like a woman that can stand on her own two feet for the majority of the time, but will still turn to her man for support when she needs it. They do not want to be with someone who is unable to make decisions and is constantly relying on them to guide them and support them.

#2@ Make Him Laugh

A good sense of humor can go a long way towards a happy relationship. Let’s face it, who would want to be stuck in a joyless relationship with someone who was always miserable. Men like a woman who can laugh at their jokes, see the funny side of life and generally have a good time without having to be always serious about everything.

Along with a good sense of humor there is generally a positive outlook towards life, which is what guys want, they probably have enough negative influences in their lives without having a girlfriend that has had a sense of humor bypass.

#3@ Pretty as a Picture

There is absolutely no denying that men are attracted to a pretty face and a nice figure. We’re talking the basis of attraction here. Men are also attracted to women that have an air of femininity about them, the more feminine a women the more masculine she makes her man feel.

They also like a woman with nice hair, it may sound a little basic but it’s true. A woman’s hair can add to or detract from her femininity. A well groomed woman with a pretty face and shiny hair is more likely to attract a man that a woman who cares little about her appearance or her personal hygiene.

#4@ Independence

Independence can of course be related to confidence, but the kind of independence that we are talking about here is the independence that allows her to take care of herself and stand on her own two feet.

A woman who is comfortable in her own space and can manage on her own is far more attractive to a man than a woman who needs help with everything. Men do not like a woman who appears clingy and needy. As much as a man likes the feeling of having a woman to care for and look after, he also likes his own space and time to himself. An independent woman can give him this.

#5@ Empathy and Understanding

Men want a woman to listen to them, not someone who is far too engrossed in their own lives, or constantly moaning about their own life to spare him some time.

A man will be more attracted to a woman that can empathize with him and show him the understanding that he needs, than someone who moans and nags who offers little in the way of support or appreciation.

#6@ Honesty and Loyalty

Everyone man or woman wants to be in the kind of relationship where the emphasis is on honesty. No one likes the thought that they are being lied to, and a man just like a woman, appreciates a loyal and honest partner. He is looking for someone that will be faithful to him and someone that will remain by his side through the ups and downs of life.

#7@ Relaxed and Easy Going

Men do not like relationships that are hard work, women who are more concerned about their appearance and what other people think of them is not generally someone that he can have an enjoyable relationship with. Men like the kind of woman who doesn’t mind if she smudges her makeup, or her hair gets a little tousled. While personal care and appearance is important to him, he needs to know that she can relax and let her hair down and be laid back.

This is especially important if they are looking for a long term relationship, as when it comes to commitment men are more attracted to the ‘girl next door’ personality than that of a glamour model.

#8@ Caring and Supportive

Men like to feel that they are being cared for, while they enjoy having the status of man of the house or breadwinner, they like those little tokens of affection, small gestures that show them that they are being loved and cared for. Even something mundane as having his shirt ironed for him, or finding his sandwiches made for him before he goes to work can mean as much as a grand romantic gesture.

They like to know that their girl is paying attention to them and taking care of the little things that mean a lot, a woman that does everything for a man can leave him feeling suffocated and overwhelmed, but get the balance right and you have a happy relationship.

Men also like to know that they are being supported in their choices, whether it’s a career decision or a life decision they need to feel that their women are by their side, able to offer advice when required and listening to his thoughts and reasoning objectively, and supporting him in his choices.

5 Must Have Traits of A Good Man

What are the special characteristics of a good man? What are must have traits of a good man? Where can I meet a good man? These are some of the questions that many of us find ourselves asking.

Many people believe that good men are hard to find. Truth is that they are all around us and often times they simply go unnoticed.

Bad men tend to be loud and rude and they ensure that their presence is known, so they are more noticeable. A good man has enough self-confidence in himself that he does not need to draw others’ attention to himself.

If we only take the time to get to know most men, we would find that the majority of them are good men and possess the necessary characteristics to make them good men. For women who think there are no good men left in the world, they need to look a little harder and not just notice those men who are making a point to be noticed. The good men are out there and many of them are just waiting to be noticed.

5 Must Have Traits of A Good Man:

#1@ He Has Integrity.

Integrity is one of the most important characteristics that a good man posses. A man with integrity will stay true to his word and true to himself. If he tells you that he is going to do something, he will follow through and do what he has said. You can count on him to always be there for you and defend you as a friend. He does not pretend to be something that he is not and he knows who he is and who he wants to be.

A man with integrity will have strong values and he will stick to those values no matter what the cost.

You can tell if a man has integrity by the way he treats himself and others. If he is kind to himself and to others and is always looking for ways to help people and be kind, then he has integrity. These good men are highly respected and in return they give their respect to others. They may require you to be worthy of respect before they offer it to you because of their high moral compass, they want others to share their values.

Often these men show great courage because at times they are required to stand up for their beliefs at all times.

#2@ He Is Honest.

Honesty is a great quality that everyone is looking for in a person but is often times hard to find. A good man will tell you the truth and not just what he thinks you want to hear. A man with honesty will not make up stories or make promises that he never intends to keep just to look good but will tell you honestly what he will do and how he feels.

Sometimes honesty can be hard to deal with because it is not what we want to hear but it is better to have a good man who is truthful then one who will fill you with lies.

You will be easily able to tell if a man is honest if he does not lie to you. A good man will not need to be secretive and hide things from you but will tell the truth and be almost an open book. A man with honesty will be faithful in his relationships and women will not need to worry that he is cheating on them. He will be genuine and you will not need to guess about what he is thinking or feeling. Honesty is a great attribute for a good man to have.

#3@ He Is Mature.

A good man is mature and able to take care of himself. He will have a successful and stable career. He may not necessarily be a wealthy man but has a stable job that pays enough for him to take care of himself and his needs.

It is a fact that men mature a little later in life than women but we have all met a ‘bad’ guy who is well past the maturing age but still thinks he is in high school. A mature man will know that the time has come to grow up and be an adult.

You will know if a man is mature by how he lives his life. He should live on his own or with a roommate and definitely not still be living with his parents. He should be handling mature responsibilities like maintaining a job, paying his bills and other adult like situations. He will be able to carry himself in a public setting in a respectable manner and understands his adult role. A good man must be mature enough to care for himself and take care of all of his needs on his own.

#4@ He Has Positive Attitude.

A good man should have a positive attitude which may be difficult to find since we live in such a negative society. With a positive attitude, people will want to be around him and to have fun around him. A good man will be happy with his life and the world around him and he will want to look out for others and to help them. Positive people are usually quite different from negative people and they tend to smile and laugh more.

You will know if a man has a positive attitude by how he carries himself. He will be upbeat and look for the good in things and people. A negative person will always be complaining and seeing the bad side to everything and after a while they can be very hard to be around and they tend to turn you into a negative person also. With a positive man, he will be smiling and always brightening up people’s days. He will be a joy to be around and his happiness should spread to you and you should feel happy when you are around him.

#5@ He Is Self Confident.

A good man will be confident in himself and who he is. This is an important characteristic in a good man because when they are self-confident, they are less likely to change who they are and to stay true to themselves. A man with self-confidence will not be deterred from what he believes to be true and will not be easily pressured into doing things that he does not believe in. Self-confidence makes a man happy and fun to be around because he will not be constantly questioning himself or others around him.

You will know if a man has self-confidence by how he sees himself because he will have a distinctive set of goals that he has set for himself. He will believe that he is worthy of good things and he will set out to find them. This self-confidence will show through because he will not second guess himself and when he makes decisions he will more likely to stick to the decision that he made.

Self-confident men are good to be around because they are strong and protective and are able to take of not just themselves but those around them.