10 Ways To Make Her Feel Like A Princess

Every girl loves to be reminded of how important she is, how beautiful she is and how special it is. I think I speak for most girls when I say that there is no greater feeling when you make your girl feel like a princess! Here are ten things a guy can do that truly makes a girl feel like princesses!

#1# Tell Her She's Beautiful When She Least Expects It.

Whether she is going on and on with a story or simply relaxing with you enjoying the blissful silence, a random compliment to dhow her how you see her will never fail to make her smile

#2# Make Eye Contact.

It may sound like an obvious thing, but making eye contact and gazing into her eyes, to find exactly where they shine and sparkle when she see's you will let her know that you not only see her as beautiful but that you find the soul behind her eyes even more beautiful.

#3# Learn The Art Of Soft Touch.

Instead of just going in for a kiss and rushing into it, take her face into your hands, and gently caress a thumb across her face. Squeeze her hand a little tighter when you walk with her as you hold her hand - the little things mean the most.

#4# Try To Sing For Her.

Not everyone has a melodious voice, again it’s the little things that count. Even if you can't hit all the notes, the effort you take to show her that she is worth the effort means a lot.

#5# Make Every Effort To See Her.

Whether is through video chat, or through late night phone calls or whether it is taking two trains, an Uber and a bus, try your best to see her, it will mean the world to her when you do.

#6# Let Her Take Pictures With You And Take Pictures With Her Too.

A lot of girls love taking pictures for different reasons. Some, love taking pictures to capture memories with their best friend, some like to take pictures to look at when they miss their favorite guy, and some love to show off their guy and tell everyone how much they love them. When you want to take pictures, it tells her that you want to do all of those same things.

#7# Make Her Laugh.

Make her laugh when she is happy and unhappy, at morning, during the day and before she goes to sleep. Laughter is one of the greatest things in life, and when her favorite guy can make her laugh there is nothing better.

#8# Listen To Her Stories.

Sometimes a girl just needs to be heard, and when she feels she is being listened to and not being judged it is a great, great feeling.

#9# Be Silly With Her.

It is way more fun to act childish and be carefree for a bit with the one you love, than by yourself. Being silly with her will help her forget any stresses for a little while, and it is one of the greatest feelings.

#10# Tell Her You Love Her, Every Day.

The words, "I love you", are the most beautiful thing someone can say. Personally, these words never ever get old, and when you say these words to your girl, she just can't help but smile each and every time.

24 Ways To Make Her Miss You

When we are in a relationship or are hoping to be in a relationship, we all hope that we will be missed when we are not around. It is just human nature to want to feel needed. You might find that you are romantically interested in someone or you might already be in a relationship.

Maybe you are in a relationship where the two of you seem to be drifting apart and maybe she no longer seems to miss you anymore. Either way, you want to make her miss you.

There are quite a few methods and strategies that will help make her miss you. With some perseverance, thoughtfulness, and dedication, she will be hooked and she will surely miss you when you are not around her. You will almost feel like a drug or a candy that she craves because of how good you are to her.

Whether you are just starting out a relationship or have been in one for years, you will always want to make sure that your girl misses you. How exactly do you do that?

By giving her something to miss! While you should more or less be yourself, you can also follow a few good tips to help you ensure that your crush, girlfriend, or wife will miss you when you are not around.

Some Techniques Which Can Be Helpful To Make Her Miss You: 

#1# Be A Little Mysterious

When you are first getting to know that special someone, you will want to let her get to know you. Be sure to let her know enough about you to make her interested in you, but do not tell her everything all at once.

By saving some of your good stories for a later time, you will make her want to stick around and find out even more about you.

When you intrigue her, she will want to stick around longer to hear the rest of your stories. She will want to know who you are. At the same time, you have to share some things about yourself, otherwise you will come off as distant.

#2# Don’t Talk Too Much About Yourself 

Don’t be afraid to let her into your life, but do not treat her like your personal therapist either. She does not need to know every little detail right away.

Also, if you reveal too much about yourself at once, you will be talking about yourself a lot. Talking about yourself too much can come off as self-absorbed.

#3# Slow Down With The Technology

Give her some space every now and then so that she has enough time to miss you. If you are around at every moment possible, then how can she possibly miss you? This is not limited to being physically present. You should also refrain from bombarding her with phone calls and messages. While it is thoughtful to check in with her and respond to her calls and texts, you should not be glued to her.

If you are around too much, then she might feel smothered and suffocated. Sooner or later, she could get tired of having you around if you are around way too much.

#4# Spend Some Time Apart

Even if you care about each other and love spending some time together, it is still a very good idea to give each other some alone time apart every now and then.

Whether you spend one hour a day apart or a day out of the week apart, you should make it a point to find some time for yourselves.

Try your best to take advantage of your alone time. As a result, she will be so happy when she sees you again after you have taken a short break from each other.

When you do this, you will both feel refreshed, recharged, and more than ready to see each other again.

#5# Show Her A Fun Time

When you want somebody to miss you, it is a great idea to take some initiative instead of being completely passive. If she barely knows that you exist, then how will she miss you?

Take your crush, girlfriend, or wife on a bunch of great dates and give her plenty of wonderful experiences that she will remember.

You can try to take her to the movies. You can also go dancing, attend a concert together, or you can even just have a romantic picnic at the park.

You do not necessarily need to spend a lot of money on dates in order to leave a good impression. When you show her a good time, she will keep missing you and she will always look forward to the next time that you two can spend time together.

#6# Don’t Talk Too Long Over The Phone

Whether or not you live together, talking on the phone is a necessity for most couples. It helps you stay on the same page and gives you a chance to catch up with one another.

While it is good to talk on the phone, avoid having phone conversations that go on for hours and hours. Doing this every single day will give your girlfriend little time to miss you, if you are already so available to her.

If you are still getting to know someone that you are interested in, do not be overbearing.

Show that you are interested without coming on too strong. There are a few ways that you can avoid coming on too strong.

#7# Don’t Be Desperate

You don’t always have to pick up her phone calls on the first ring. Sometimes you can wait a minute or more to call her back. At the same time, do not act like you do not care.

If she thinks that you do not care about her, then it will be hard for her to miss you. If you have been seeing each other every day for a few days, it is okay to take a break for a day or two so she has time to miss you.

Just let her know that you are busy but look forward to seeing her soon, otherwise she will think that you are blowing her off and she might end up moving on from you.

#8# Don’t Try To Keep Track Of Her

These days, technology is how we keep in touch with our significant others. From texting or talking on the phone to using Facebook and Skype, we have plenty of ways to keep in touch with our romantic interests.

When you use technology to reach out to your love interest, it shows that you care. At the same time, you will also want to be careful that it does not look like you are stalking her.

Give her some space and some time to breathe. That way, she can have some time to miss you.

#9# Give Her Time And Space To Breathe

If you are really into her, then your first instinct will be to spend every waking moment together. She might want to spend all of her time with you too.

While it is good to spend a lot of time together, you also do not want to rush things way too fast. If you spend every possible free minute together, then things could possibly fizzle out right away.

#10# Take Things Slowly

Take things nice and steady. You do not have to take things too slowly, but don’t rush into things either. You do not want to rush and build unrealistic expectations for your relationship.

Whatever you do, make sure that you are not needy, clingy, or desperate. Coming off that way will only serve to repel her and she will be less inclined to feel an attraction towards you.

#11# Find Something Of Your Own To Do

You might feel guilty at the thought of spending any time away from her. There is actually no reason for you to feel guilty about this.

Spending some of your free time alone is okay. In fact, it is a really good idea. Not only is it healthy for you to get your alone time, it gives her a chance to miss you too.

If you do everything together, you might find yourself wishing that you had your own activity that you could just do yourself, whether it is reading or watching your favorite shows.

#12# Don’t Try To Make Her Like Everything That You Like

Try to go and find something that you can do alone so you can also remain in touch with yourself. It is good to be able to be alone by yourself every once in a while.

If you try to pressure her into doing everything that you like, even if she is not that into it, then that could make the relationship boring and a little bit suffocating. Allow yourselves to do your own things once in a while.

#13# Be Reliable

While it is good to give her some space, do not flat out ignore her. If you ignore her, then she will think that you are an unreliable person. If you make yourself too unavailable to her, then she might go from missing you to thinking that you are unreliable.

If you are too unavailable to her, then she might think that you are too busy for her. She might even begin to think that you are not interested in her or she might conclude that you are talking to other girls besides her.

These thoughts will turn her off to you and she might even stop missing you after a certain point. Your special lady should still feel like she is an important enough part of your life. You do not want to neglect her.

#14# Surprise Her

When you try to treat her really well, she will be able to miss you more.

Little gifts, surprises, and kind words will make her feel truly special. If you make her feel special every day, then she will always be waiting for your next move that will make her feel like a queen.

Give her some nice surprises every now and then. Some thoughtful surprises include flowers, chocolates, or a sweet love note that will make her heart swell and skip a beat.

She will always have something to look forward to if you continuously treat her this way. As a result, she will be sure to miss you when you spend some time apart.

If you are apart and send something sweet to her, this will be a reminder of how thoughtful you are and she will definitely miss you and think of you fondly.

#15# Give Her Something That Reminds Her Of You

If you are long distance, do not live together, or sometimes have to travel for work, you should give her something that will help her remember and miss you when you are gone. What makes this different from a gift is that you should give her something of yours that will remind her of you

Examples of things of yours that you can give to her include your favorite book, one of your t-shirts that is sprayed with your cologne, or the body wash that you use. She will then be able to feel close to you.

Give her something that will make her feel close to you when you are apart. It will make her miss her and when she is missing you, she can find comfort in that thing that reminds her of you.

#16# Be A Fun Person To Be Around

When you are spending time together, make sure that she is having fun and enjoying herself. She will be sure to miss you, especially when she is bored and you are not around.

If you can make her smile and laugh, then she will miss that when you are not always there to make her crack up.

Take her on great dates and adventures that she will really appreciate and look back on fondly, especially when you are not together.

Try to be fun and creative when you think of dates that you can take her on. From picnics to the movies to street fairs, there are so many wonderful outings that you can plan for her.

If you would rather stay in, you can build a blanket fort together, watch a movie, or cook a meal together. You can even play your favorite board games if you think that it will be fun.

While you should not spend every second together, you should make every second that you do spend together really count.

#17# Give Her Great Memories

When you work hard to fill her life with plenty of great experiences and romantic memories, she will surely notice how much better, brighter, and more exciting her life is with you in it.

When you are occasionally absent, she will pine for you and miss you. She will miss the romance and positivity that you bring to the relationship and she will start to associate you with fun experiences and happy memories.

Regarding your crush, girlfriend, or wife, it is important that you make her feel safe and protected. Be sure to give her lots of attention so that she feels like she is very important to you.

Listen to her when she talks to you and be sure to pay attention. When you make her feel special, she will really appreciate how much you listen and pay attention to her.

#18# Be Sweet To Her

It also goes without saying that you should always strive to be sweet to the woman that you care about. If you are constantly rude to her or don’t show enough interest, then she might end up not missing you at all when you are not around.

A lack of respect and attention towards her will cause her to drift away from you. You have to give her a reason to miss you whether it is because you are a good listener, a sweet guy, or know how to show her a good time. If you treat her well, she will miss you.

#19# Do Something Personal For Her

There are many other little ways that you can get her to think of you and miss you. You can play a romantic song for her and dedicate it to her. If you have a knack for words, then you can write her a short poem that she can hold onto.

If you have a nice photograph of you and her together, then you can get it printed and framed. You can even get it put into a locket for her. Anything to help her remember you fondly is a good idea. Even when you are not right there in front of her, that photograph will remind her of you.

#20# Call Her Every Night Before She Goes To Bed

Here is another good strategy that will help get her to miss you. If you do not live together, try calling her every night before bed. Texting is not as good because she will not be able to hear the sound of your voice.

When you say goodnight and hang up the phone, she will go to bed with you on her mind because you have just talked to her. This is a great way to get her to miss you and she might even have sweet dreams as a result of your nightly phone calls.

#21# Write Her A Romantic Letter

While people can often have a tendency to almost always communicate through technology these days, you should never underestimate the wonderful art of a handwritten note or letter. You can even give her a nice memento box to store your letters and other small gifts in.

When she finds herself missing you, she can open up that box and go through the items that remind her of you. A memento box is a wonderfully romantic idea especially if you plan on building memories with that special someone.

#22# Kiss And Hold Her

The best way that you can get her to miss you is to give her so many good memories that she will have no choice but to miss you. There are so many ways that you can do this.

You can take her on amazing dates, make an effort to call her every night, dedicate special songs to her, shower her with little thoughtful gifts and love letters, and so on. Don’t forget to kiss her and hold her hand.

When you are gentle and loving with her, she will miss your touch even if you are only apart for a few hours or a day. The brighter you make her life, the more she will miss your presence.

#23# Never Take Her For Granted

Remember to never take her for granted and always make the effort to treat her like the special lady that she is. She will appreciate being respected by you.

Never be afraid to go the extra mile. That is the surest way to make sure that she never stops missing you when you are not by her side.

#24# Treat Her Well

If you treat her well, she will feel special. You might notice that as a result, she will start to miss you if she hasn’t already.

If there is a strong enough mutual spark there between the two of you and if you treat her well, then she will be sure to respond well to your gestures and efforts and she will miss you when you are not there in the room with her.

These are just a few of the many romantic things that you can do for her to ensure that she will really miss you when you are not around. Try out a few of these strategies to see how she responds to them. Notice how your efforts, however little and small, can affect her to the point that she begins to feel and develop a strong attachment to you.

13 Ways To Emotionally Connect With A Woman

It’s all about the dubious concept that we men are so terribly afraid of. It’s about emotions and yes, it’s also about your emotions.

It might come as a surprise to you, but triggering deep emotional connections in women is not possible when you are an emotionless rock who thinks that tears are the lubrication of your weak soul.

In order to make this work, you need a good relationship with your own emotions.

13 Ways To Emotionally Connect With A Woman:

Attraction and connection are no separate constructs. They are interlinked. Connection is a partial aspect of the attraction formula.

A strong emotional connection (in combination with sexual attraction) is what attracts a woman to you.

#1# Skip Superficial Small Talk

You can trigger positive emotions in a woman within seconds, not hours. How? You can do it by being different and by not doing what everyone else does.

Everyone else tortures women with meaningless small talk.

You: “Hey, I know that this is a bit weird, but I had to come over and talk to you. You have such an adventurous energy that I just can’t resist.”

She: “Thank you. Yes, I am a very adventurous person.”

You: “Oh, that’s cool. What’s the most adventurous thing you have done so far?”

Boom, you are in!

That’s how easy it is to find out more about her and to connect with her in the process.

Just imagine if she would say “Thank you. Yes, I am a very adventurous person” and you would reply “so, what do you study?”

#2# Connect With Yourself And The World

Now that I bashed small talk it’s time to get philosophical.

Avoiding small talk is fine but what if you are discussing deep and intimate topics with a voice that sounds like a whiny dog who is begging for attention?

Neediness doesn’t only kill attraction, it also kills connection.

You might be able to masquerade your neediness with fake self-esteem for the first couple of minutes, but you won’t be able to play this game forever. Remember, you might want to make her your girlfriend and she will eventually unmask you.

That’s why it is so important to connect with yourself.

Have you eliminated your neediness by connecting with yourself and the world?

Well, if it’s the case; then you are ready to give value.

#3# Be Real And Give Value

Connecting with a woman on an emotional level is about giving value, not about taking value. That’s something that the vast majority of pick up artists still have to learn.

It’s not about “gaming her” and it’s also not about “being the prize”.

Your goal should be to give women as much value as you possibly can.

And no, I am not talking about material value. That only works with gold diggers and has absolutely zero to do with real connection. I am talking about giving value through your personality, your life experience, your behavior and your words.

I know that this is a terribly abstract concept that might need a couple of examples for further understanding. Here they are:

· You can give value by making a woman feel good through an honest compliment.

· You can give value by telling her an entertaining story.

· You can give value by being a genuine guy who treats her like a gentleman.

· You can give value by sharing your dreams and vision with her.

· You can give value by inviting her to take part in your life.

There are many ways you can give value to a woman that have absolutely everything with a real connection.

#4# Look Into Her Eyes

I know how hard it is. You are staring at two perfectly shaped balloons that couldn’t be more enticing. You are wondering what it would feel like to hold them, caress them and kiss them.

Her eyes! Don’t you see them? Up there!

It’s time to shift your focus.

For now the goal is to create an emotional connection and her eyes are way better to reach this goal.

The eyes are the mirror to the soul.

Look into the mirror and allow her to feel a connection. Look into her eyes while you think “You are mine”. She will feel your energy and she’ll want to be yours.

#5# Connect With Your True Opinion

It’s so enticing to tell her exactly what she wants to hear. It is so easy to just say “yes and amen” to every statement she makes and to every question she asks. Just remember that the easiest path is not always the best.

“I really love Miley Cyrus. She is a role model for all women and the lyrics of her songs are so deep!”

You are so right! She is my favorite singer!

This is ludicrous and extremely dangerous.

Hiding your opinion and lying in order to be liked is the fastest way to force her to lose respect for you. It’s the fastest way to an awkward smile, closed legs and unanswered calls.

Learning how to emotionally connect with a woman requires learning how to share your true opinion. A real connection is only possibly if you are 100% honest.

#6# Mirror Her Actions

Mirroring is a very powerful psychological technique that has the power to create an emotional connection fast and easy. When you mirror people, you imitate them. You talk like them, you stand like them, you walk like them and you behave like them.

Let her touch her mirror.

This can be pretty awkward when you exaggerate it, but it’s highly effective when you allow mirroring to flow naturally into your interaction. In fact, we all do it on a subconscious level whenever we interact with people. Mirroring can lead to deep rapport and it makes connecting with another human being fairly easy.

It gives the other person the feeling that you get them and that you are just like them.

When it comes to learning how to emotionally connect with a woman you take this skill that already exists in your sub-consciousness and use it as a conscious seduction skill. Sounds pretty tricky, but it’s actually very easy.

Here are a few examples of what you can do on a date:

· Does she use very positive words, such as amazing, incredible or awesome? Mirror her by using the same positive words and expressions.

· Does she sit there with an open body language? Mirror her by displaying an open body language.

· Does she gesticulate a lot while she is talking? Do the same.

Mirroring is a powerful technique to emotionally connect with any girl you want. Use it.

#7# Share Your Stories With Her

Storytelling can be a way of giving value, at least when the stories are entertaining, inspiring or otherwise educating. They should be true.

You are a Global Seducer. Adventure is in your DNA.

There must be something you can tell the women you are meeting and dating. You must have experienced some crazy adventures of your own.

Every man who wants to learn how to emotionally connect with a woman should have an interesting lifestyle that leads to some crazy stories.

Women love stories. Stories have the power to release Oxytocin, the female lust hormone. Oxytocin is also called the bonding hormone. This is how powerful good stories really are.

#8# Confidently Joke About Yourself

Women love confident men and one obvious sign of confidence is the ability to joke about yourself. It shows that you are stronger than your own ego. It shows that you are confident with your flaws. This is authentic and very attractive.

When you joke about yourself she automatically assumes that you are confident in your own skin. This makes her like you even more. It becomes easier for her to open up to a man who is okay with his flaws than to one who is so insecure that he tries to hide them. This openness compared with humor allows her to feel a strong emotional connection.

#9# Connect Through Her Values

There’s one thing you should always ask yourself when you sit next to a woman who you want to seduce.

“What are her values?”

Values are the principles of behavior and judgement that we all live by. Everyone has different values. While girl #1 might value having fun and entertainment more than anything else, girl #2 might value family the most. It should be obvious which one of those girls is relationship material.

Finding out her values allows you to figure out how fast you can escalate and in which direction she wants your relationship to go.

As a little bonus it also allows you to connect with her on a very deep level. Humans like to be around other humans who have the same beliefs.

Find out her core values and see if your values are compatible.

Are they compatible? Talk about your values and show her that you are perfect for each other.

Are they not compatible? Decide if you want to pursue her anyway or move on to a girl with compatible values.

#10# Use What She Gives You

Sometimes you don’t even have to ask for her values. If you have the patience maintain a little silence and to listen to her, she’ll tell you everything from her values to her life. Women love to talk

Let her do the talking and filter out the important cues that can help you to seduce her. A woman who is interested in you will always give you hints and tips on how to seduce her and on how to connect with her.

She is your greatest ally. Treat her accordingly.

Listen closely and pay full attention. Behind every word is a potential hint. Something she likes. Something she doesn’t like. Gather it all and use it to connect with her.

#11# Show Your Vulnerable Side

At the beginning, I told you that we are going to talk about your emotions.

It’s time to dig for your vulnerabilities. You know that they are somewhere. Keep on digging.

I know you have them. Every man has them. Most men are just too afraid to show them.

But you are smarter than most men. You know that women don’t really want the indestructible alpha guy without feelings. Yes, they want a leader, but they want a leader who is emotionally strong enough to not burry his emotions under a protective coat of fake strength.

You are really strong. You are emotionally strong. You are man enough to allow emotions and to show them. Of course, you don’t do it in a needy way. You do it in a sincere and authentic way.

You say: “I think that a lot of single men would love to share their life with an amazing woman. I am not different. I believe that this is natural.”

#12# Share Your Fears

Your fears are one aspect of your vulnerable side and there is nothing wrong with sharing them. Not every woman will understand your fears, but the ones who do will feel even more connected to you.

And the ones who don’t? There’s no connection to be lost.

#13# Share Your Vision

There is one thing that’s even more important than sharing your fears and that’s sharing your vision. Women are sick of men without dreams, aspirations and vision. There is a reason why it’s easier for a poor entrepreneur like me to attract amazing women than for a well-off accountant who hates his job and his life.

I have a vision. He doesn’t. My energy is filled with passion and determination. His energy is filled with frustration and doubt. Sorry, but when it comes to emotionally connecting with women, a green bank account can’t compensate for a red energy.

Seduction is a holistic concept and your vision is one part of this concept. When a woman feels this energy, it is impossible for her to not feel a strong connection to you.

5 Ways To Win The Trust Of A Woman

You met a woman that you really like, and want to win her attention. However you don’t know if she trusts you quite yet. If you want to gain the trust of a woman you’re interested in, follow these five rules.

#1# Be Her Friend

Before you rush into a relationship, start slowly and work on developing a friendship with her first. This will allow her to really get to know you as a person. Plus, you’ll get to know her as well, and both of you will begin to trust one another.

#2# Be A Man Of Your Word

Say what you mean, and do what you say. If you ask the girl to go out on Friday night, then stick with that. If you offer to help her hang something in her house, then be sure to follow through.

#3# Be Honest

Always tell the truth if you want to gain the trust of a woman. If you lie to her, no matter how big or small, she’ll consider you a liar from that point forward. And if you have lied to her, you’ll get further ahead if you admit to it rather than try to cover it up.

#4# Be Consistent

If you shower her with affection in the first couple of months, she’ll expect and want that same treatment in the next coming months. If you’re consistent in your behavior and actions, she won’t think you’re just putting on a show to win her over in the beginning.

#5# Be Open With The Important Facts

Don’t leave out key details in the beginning. If you had a relationship in the past, talk to her on the matter. Let her know that you had a relationship. If you don’t divulge important information in the beginning, through time she will conclude that you are an honest person and will love your honesty. .

How To Win Her Heart ?

What do you say to a girl to win her heart? Of course there’s no “magic formula” that’s going to work in every circumstance. There are, however, some principles help creating and sustaining attraction with women.

What We Mean By ‘Qualifying’ ?

The key to what to say to a girl when you want to win her heart is qualifying. Let’s face it: Deep down, a lot of us feel like we’re not all that great. One way to make someone think you’re great is to tell them that they are. However, we don’t do this through blanket, unearned praise. On the contrary, the only way to qualify someone - to say to them in whatever way is best way possible that they’re all right by you - has to be sincere.

Why You Should Qualify ?

Why even qualify in the first place? Because it’s going to put you head and shoulders above other guys, especially the ones who are “too cool for school.” A lot of guys are afraid that if they let a woman know that they’re interested that she’s not going to be interested in them. In fact, nothing is further from the truth. She wants to know that you’re interested and she wants you to be genuinely interested. But, like with anything else, you’ve got to do it the right way.

How to Qualify the Right Way ?

So how do you qualify and show interest the right way? What do you say to a girl that you like? Here are some tips.

# Make It Genuine: Whatever you say to her should be something that you really think. Don’t feel like you have to make something up. Find something that you genuinely like about her, then tell her.

# It Be About Her Looks: She already knows that you’re attracted to her on the basis of her looks. This includes how she dresses, her makeup, her hair etc, just anything that’s about physical appearance is out.

# Make It Direct: Don’t beat around the bush. Come out and say what you have to say.

# Move On: After you qualify her, move on to the next part of the conversation. Don’t dwell on it. Don’t feel like you need to heap praise on her. Just tell her what you have to say, and move on.

This can be something simple like “You seem pretty cool” or “You’re all right.” Just say something simple.

How To Make Her Fall In Love ?

Millions of guys over the world want to know the secret of “how to make a girl fall in love with you”. You can make it happen and it’s a lot easier than you might think. Whether you’ve got a woman in mind or are trying to find one out in the social wild, you’re going to start making it happen, starting right now.

There are few things which you need to do as a rule. Here are 5 of those rules mentioned below:

#1#: Make Her Chase You

You might be used to chasing women, but you need to start getting used to women chasing you. Create priorities and cultivate a sense of abundance. This is the best way to do this. Imagine that you have a Smartphone full of the most beautiful, intelligent, interesting and successful women in the world. Pretend that this is already your reality. A lot of guys clear their schedule for women. Instead, they should prioritize their time for the women that are worth it. Not being available all the time and cultivating this abundance mentality is the best way to have women chasing you.

#2#: Make It Known That You’re Dating Around

When you’re being actively social, it’s inevitable that you’re going to meet multiple women that catch your interest. The abundance mentality we talked about in the first section will become less and less a matter of “acting as if” and more and more a reality. Congratulations! Your social dreams are coming true; But you have to be honest with women about the fact that you’re dating others. Not only is it the right thing to do, it also increases your social worth - you aren’t a man who takes the first woman who comes along, you’re a man waiting for the right woman to enter his life.

#3#: Be a Man of Action

For a complex series of evolutionary reasons, men are supposed to initiate while women pace them. One of the best ways to make women fall in love with you is to start being the man of action and decision that women want. This means going after what you want, coming to her with plans for dates, moving the relationship forward and things like that. Decisive action can be hard for some men to cultivate, but it’s a powerful step for you to get it working for you.

#4#: Make Calls To Her

You’d be amazed at how big of a difference just picking up the phone and giving her a call can make. You can call her just to have a chat and catch up on your week and get to know each other better. Alternately, you can call her to make plans for the weekend. No matter why you call her, you’re accomplishing two things:

@ You’re showing yourself as a decisive man of action who does things that most other men do not.

@ You’re communicating in a more effective manner. Very little in human communication has to do with the words you use. Most of it has to do with body language and tonality. Phone calls don’t get the body language, but they do get the tonality, making for a higher quality of interaction.

Phone calls might seem a little old idea, but they work for sure.

#5#: Build Deep Connections

When you start talking to a woman, there’s a lot of playful flirtation. That’s great. It helps both of you to relax and there’s nothing quite like the electric anticipation of flirtation. However, to get her to fall in love with you, you need to build a deep emotional connection. The best way to do this is to pick up on the core emotional content of what she’s saying. While talking to her, you need to listen to her attentively and carefully. From time to time, you also need to make complements to her.

This acknowledges that you’re listening to her. It makes her sure that you value her opinion also. It also connects what you have to say to what she just said. This allows a deeper emotional connection to blossom between the two of you.

These tips are easy things that just about any guy can do. Try them out and see how they impact your social life.

How To Attract Any Girl ?

How to attract a girl ?- this is one question every guy must be having in his mind. There are ‘few specific characteristics or qualities’ which a guy must have in order to attract a girl.

In fact, a well decided guy can attract any girl if he has these qualities. Want to know how to attract any girl? It starts by getting the girl interested in you and curious about you. With that foundation you can gradually build a lasting attraction with any woman. As for how to spark that interest and curiosity; here are some tips that will help you do just that.

#1# Project Confidence

Confidence is the one irresistible trait you must have if you want to attract women. And women can tell right away whether or not you’re confident just by looking at your body language. For example, if you’re fidgeting or making yourself “small” in your environment, women will see you as lacking confidence.

So, the first step in “how to attract any girl” is to adopt confident body language. Keep your body movements calm and controlled. Make yourself big. Don’t be afraid to take up room and claim the space immediately around you. If that’s difficult due to feeling nervous or uncomfortable, take slow, deep breaths while focusing on the sensations in your body. This will help you relax and allow that confident body language to come out naturally.

#2# Get Her Laughing

Every girl wants a guy who can make her laugh. And there’s no better time to prove you have that ability than at the beginning of the conversation. Get a girl to smile early on and it’ll help her relax and feel comfortable talking to you. All while sparking that interest and attraction.

One technique you can use to start a conversation and get a girl laughing is playful teasing. This is particularly effective because most guys are too insecure to playfully tease a girl right off the bat. By starting your conversations this way you show you’re not intimidated by attractive women. You can get her laughing and show tremendous confidence at the same time.

Here are just two examples of how to start a conversation with playful teasing: (1) “You know you’d look cute in purple” (2) “Excuse me, You’re too damn cute”. Lines like these can get a conversation started on a fun, playful note.

#3# Make Her Win You Over

Projecting confidence and making a girl laugh are common tips for how to attract any girl. But there’s another tip that’s equally important that doesn’t get nearly as much discussion. It’s called qualification.

Qualification is all about getting the woman to prove that she’s a cool, interesting girl. It shows you’re a guy with standards who doesn’t invest his time and attention in just any attractive girl. When you actively filter women like this they see you as a high-value guy. They will then put more effort into keeping your interest and attention.

After bantering with a girl you can start qualifying by asking questions like “So, What are your plans for today?” or What’s your deal?” or “What are three things I wouldn’t know about you by looking?” These questions are great because they’re open-ended and allow the girl to share as much information as she feels comfortable. They also give you a great chance to get to know her. You can then find out if she truly is a cool, interesting girl.

#4# Create An Emotional Connection

In order to know how to attract any girl it’s important to know how to connect with any girl. That is, how to build an emotional connection so she feels close to you, and you feel close to her.

One way to build that emotional connection with a girl is to use the “I” perspective when speaking. Express your thoughts, opinions – and most importantly your emotions – directly. For example, saying “I love to play Sudoku” gives her a glimpse into your emotional world. But if you said “Playing Sudoku is great” then that emotional component is taken out of the picture completely. Talking about your personal experiences, rather than objective facts, is going to get her feeling more deeply connected to you.

#5# Build Sexual Tension

No article on how to attract any girl would be complete without talking about “how to build sexual tension”. After all this is what keeps guys out of the friend-zone.

One of the most effective ways to build sexual tension with women is through touch. Start touching the girl early on in your conversation by lightly tapping the back of your hand against her elbow. If she’s okay with that contact, you can gradually move on to touch her for longer periods of time in more intimate areas (shoulder, back, thigh, face).

The key to knowing when you should touch more – or less – is to check for compliance. If she allows you to touch her, or starts touching you in response, then you can take things a step further with your touch. If however she recoils or moves away when you touch her, then give her space. Build more comfort through banter and creating an emotional connection. When she’s a bit more comfortable, try to build that sexual tension once again.

#6# Be Unattached To The Outcome

One thing that will help you tremendously when learning how to attract any woman is being unattached to the outcome. That is, don’t get hung up on whether or not you get a phone number, a date, or even get the girl to like you. Just enjoy the process of meeting women and focus on having fun. If you’re not looking to get anything from your interactions with women then you’ll have no trouble being confident, fun, open, and sexual with women.

The best way to make this your natural way of being is to get lots of experience talking and flirting with women. Make a point to talk to at least three women a day and practice the techniques mentioned. The more experience you get the less you’ll care about each individual interaction.

5 Sure Ways To Get Her Attention

If you are figuring out ways to get her attention, then this post could be a must read for you. A good hunter should be a good marksman. So, if you’re hoping to catch some meaty damsels this year, you’ll need the right bait - your persona. In order to become more than your average charmer, you need to start thinking of seduction as a performance art.

Being a sociable guy, and doing it well, means you can’t just sweet talk, rely on liquid courage and use flattery. You should send out strong feel-good vibes, pulling everyone toward you. Ladies will have you on their radar because you’re the ‘The Guy.’

#1# Be Talkative To Everyone

Maximize your attractiveness by being an all-around kind, talkative guy. Don’t limit your attention to just good-looking women. You’ll become a one-trick pony with an obvious conquering mentality, and risk turning the ladies off. Instead, be the guy who’s attractive to all types of women: old, quiet, ordinary – just everyone!

The lesson here is that if you’re a generally likeable guy, you’ll increase your positive interactions, creating a ripple effect that will attract the women you really desire.

#2# Be Yourself With Confidence

As corny as it sounds, being yourself is the best way to stand out; after all, there’s only one you. When you try to be someone else, be it the cocky guy, the hipster or the hedge fund snob, your fakeness and insecurities will come through, ruining the quality of your impact on women. So, be yourself with all the quirks included, but do it with self-certainty and pride. The sincerity of who you are is your best asset; you just need the confidence to work it.

#3# Be Engaging

Beyond looks, money and status, a woman wants to be engaged. Whether you can stimulate her through witty conversation or your sense of humor, use your natural qualities to hook her. You can also use your context to help; if you’re at an outdoor get-together or barbecue party, for example, you can join in on a sports game or start mixing drinks for the ladies.

#4# Dress To Win

Your look is a powerful weapon when sporting for ladies. Yet, when you glance in the mirror, what do you see? Do you see an impressive, put-together man or a horny boy with a Metallica t-shirt and a shabby 5 o’clock shadow? If you’re not sure or you’re hovering in the middle, your image is not presentable enough to attract highly prized women. In this case, consider choosing some outfits that bring out a mature and desirable version of yourself.

#5# Make Eye Contact

A man who’s not intimidated by women will look them straight in the eye. With each interaction you have with a woman, use eye contact - without being creepy - and show her your confidence. This fearlessness and sense of certainty will make you feel more empowered, allowing you to work your magic more effectively. As you both lock eyes together, you increase the chances of chemistry brewing between the two of you.

10 Signs: Your Lover Is Commitment Phobic

True commitment phobia is fear of any kind of commitment that involves other people, not just relationship commitment. It can involve difficulties making important decisions in all areas of life but folks with commitment phobia need not be afraid of committing to things that do not involve other people. They may have no problem buying a house or a car or getting a dog. Their fear usually is connected with making a promise to another person.

Falling in love with a person with commitment phobia can be a nightmare. Watch out for signs of commitment phobia before you find yourself hopelessly in love with someone who is not capable of having a relationship. A person with commitment phobia need not display every one of the following symptoms but the more symptoms he or she displays the more likely it is that he or she suffers from the condition.

@1#. Their past relationships are all short and noncommittal.

If your beau has never been married and has had a series of short relationships despite not being all that young, then he or she probably is not likely to commit to a long term relationship in the future either. It’s also a red flag if your romantic encounter has had long relationships but these relationships didn’t involve any serious commitment on his or her part.

@2#. They are not willing to commit to dates or nights out in advance.

Making plans for the future that are not strictly required is a major cause of fear for someone who suffers from commitment phobia. He or she will prefer to make same-day plans or commit only a few days in advance.

@3#. They are not letting you know whether they are attending your party.

Just as a person with commitment phobia will be afraid of agreeing to dates several days or week in advance, he or she will also have difficulties saying "yes" to a party or meeting, unless this is strictly required of them. They may say that they might come to your party or even that they probably will be there. But they will prefer not to say with certainty that they can make it.

@4#. They use a lot of modifiers when speaking.

If you listen carefully, you will hear them use ‘probably’, ‘maybe’, ‘probably not’, ‘I might’, ‘I might not’ and the like much more than other people. If asked when they will be home from work, they won’t say they will be home by 5. Instead they will say that they probably will be home by 5.

@5#. They are sexually active, perhaps even promiscuous.

People with commitment phobia have a need for intimacy like everyone else. But their need is not getting met by being close to another human being. To compensate for this, they may be very sexually active, sometimes bordering promiscuous.

@6#. Most of their relationships are undefined.

If you are in a relationship with a person with commitment phobia, you most likely will not have had any significant conversations with him or her about your relationship. You may find yourself not knowing what kind of relationship you have, despite having been with him or her for several years.

@7#. They don't say the L-word.

People with commitment phobia have difficulties expressing their feelings. They may even be afraid of having feelings. So they are not likely to say that they love you and also mean it.

@8#. They don't like to use the words "boyfriend" and "girlfriend".

If your love interest is very commitment phobic, even the relatively innocent words "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" will signify more commitment than they are capable of. They may simply avoid talking about the status of your relationship, or they may offer some lame excuse for why they don't want to use these labels.

@9#. They don't have a whole lot of close friends.

They may know a lot of people. They may even call them friends. But they don't have many really close buddies. There is most likely no one in their life they can talk to about everything.

@1#0. They are unpredictable.

You never know quite how your love interest will behave or what kind of mood they will be in. One day they may be really sweet and seem almost normal and the next day they may avoid you altogether. Their behavior never ceases to surprise you.

How To Get Your Ex Girl Back

Winning a girl back is much harder than catching the eye of a new girl, but if you really want to reignite an old flame, there are a few things you can do to maximize your chances. To get her back, you have to make her want you, show how much you've changed, and then make the move.

Part 1: Making Her Want You Again

#1# Give her some space. 

The first thing you need to do is give the girl some space. If you start knocking down her door and calling her every five minutes she'll only pull further away from you. The amount of space and time you give her depends on what happened when you tried to date her. If you ended a serious relationship, you'll need to give her more space than you would if you had just dated a few times.

• Don't call her, chat with her at parties, or email her just to see how she's doing.
• If you see her socially, be polite and say hi, but make it clear that you're not going to bother her.
• Just don't give her too much space. If you leave her alone for a few months, that will give her plenty of time to find someone new.

#2# Give yourself some time to reflect. 

Not only should you give her some space, but you should give yourself some space to reflect and think about what went wrong in the relationship. Take the time to sit down and ask what you did to make her not want you; were you too attentive, too moody, or too distant? Whatever you did, you have to make sure never to do it again if you want a moment of her day.

• Write down the things that went wrong. Consider what you can do to improve this kind of behavior.
• Don't date anyone else during the reflection period. Focus on self-improvement and working on not repeating the same mistakes.
• Don't pursue her until you've figured out what went wrong and know how to change it.

#3# Stay busy. 

Though you should avoid getting busy in the bedroom while you're trying to win your girl back, you should try to live a busy and active life so you can work on being independent and pursuing your interests. If you're just sitting around waiting for enough time to pass to start trying to hang out with her again, she'll know.

• Continue pursuing your hobbies and interests. Don't stop doing all of the things you love because your heart is aching.
• Spend time with your friends. They'll cheer you up and lend you a fresh perspective.
• Work out. Your self-esteem will improve if you exercise a few times a week, and all the better if she sees you out running.

#4# Let her see you having a great time. 

Once you've given her some space and have worked on self-improvement, she'll be much closer to wanting you. But now you have to put all the pieces together and let her see what an amazing guy you are and how much fun it is to be around you. Be strategic. Without looking like a stalker, make sure you're hanging out in some of the same places so she can see what a blast it is to be around you.

• Laugh it up. If she sees you, try to laugh with your friends as much as you can without being too obvious about it.
• Be animated. If she's around, be very animated and interested in the conversations you're having, showing that you're a passionate guy who loves to talk to his friends.
• Don't ignore her when she sees you. Give her a small wave and go back to the great conversation you were having.
• Dance. That's right. Chances are she was mad that you didn't dance with her more. Let her see you getting down on the dance floor and having a great time.
• Let her see you being your best self. There was obviously something she liked about you, so use your assets to your advantage.

#5# Make her jealous. 

This is an optional move because it depends on the situation. If your relationship ended because she was so jealous that you were always hanging around with other girls, then you shouldn't make her jealous or she'll just be reminded of the reason why things didn't work out between you. But if your relationship ended because she thought you were just too into her, or that she was bored by you, then making her jealous is a great move. Here's how to do it:

• If you're on speaking terms, casually mention other girls. You can mention one girl a few times, leading her to wonder, "Who is this girl?" Or you can just talk about a group of girls, mentioning that you were at a party that was filled with mostly girls but that you were "okay with that."
• Let her see you with other girls. Chat with her for a few minutes before moving on to flirt with another girl that's nearby. Make sure you're close enough for her to watch it happen.
• Don't overdo it. If she hears you talking about other girls and sees you flirting with others, she may want you even more, but if you're all over every girl at every party, you may look desperate or sleazy.

Part 2: Showing Her You Have Changed 

#1# If it was too easy the first time, make her chase you. 

If you can't think of what went wrong in the relationship because you smothered her with love, then chances are that this was exactly what went wrong. She must have felt that your love and relationship was too easy, so you should try to make it more of a challenge.

• Be aloof. You should still give her some attention, but act busy or distracted and like you're not giving all your attention to her for once. This will confuse her and will make her want you more.
• Be sparing with the compliments. If you did nothing but compliment her 24/7 when you were together, give her just one compliment to show that you're not obsessing over her.
• Let her come to you. She was probably used to having you come up to her, touch her, and talk to her all the time; now, it's time for some role reversal. If you're at a party, let her approach you instead of stopping everything you're doing to head her way.

#2# If it was too hard the first time, make it easier.

 

If you broke up because she felt that you didn't give her enough affection or time or that you spent too much time flirting with other women, it's time to do the exact opposite and to make yourself available to her and have no other women on your radar.

• Show her that your schedule is free and that you're up for hanging out whenever. She'll no longer have to hang out with you during the one hour you're free.
• Don't make her jealous. In your case, you should stay away from the other ladies as much as possible to show that you only have eyes for her.
• Take the time to listen. If she thought you didn't care about her feelings before, maintain eye contact and let her talk without interrupting. You can mention something she said in the conversation a day later to show that you really do hang on to her every word.
• Compliment her. If you never complimented her before, she'll see that you changed.

#3# If you hurt her, apologize.

 

If you really want her back, you have to be the man and apologize for what went wrong. If she was hurt by you, she'll want to stay away from you for fear of getting hurt again. So man up and tell her you made a mistake.

• Make sure to do this in person. It won't do if you just send her a text message or an e-mail; it has to be in person otherwise she will see that you are not very serious about this apology and so she won't take it seriously either. So own up and go apologize for what you did to her.
• Be sincere. Maintain eye contact when you talk to her and keep a calm, even tone. She won't believe you if it sounds like you're apologizing just because it's what you should do.
• Be specific. Don't just say, "I'm sorry for everything." Say, "I'm sorry I didn't listen to you when you really wanted to talk. I should have been much more attentive." She will appreciate this, and it will make you seem more self-aware.
• Don't be disappointed if she doesn't accept your apology right away. If she doesn't accept it, she's probably still working through what happened but still appreciates your effort. Just say, "You can't blame me for trying" instead of arguing her into accepting your apology.

#4# Show what a better, more mature person you've become.

 

She should be able to see how much you've changed without you having to say it yourself or to convince her that you're completely different. Face it - many girls are more mature than their male counterparts, so wow her with your ability to be rational and mature.

• Don't be moody. Act even-keeled and calm, and she'll be impressed.
• Be confident. Show her that you're happy who you are and what you do, and she'll be happier with who you are too.
• Be responsible. Show her that you can manage your finances, hold down a good job, and take care of your dog at the same time.
• Don't be jealous. Don't ask her about that guy she's been talking to; this will only encourage her to talk to him more, and will make you look insecure for caring.

Part 3: Making A Move

#1# Tell her how you feel.

 

Once she wants you a bit more and can see that you're a different person, it's time to stop playing games and to tell her how you really feel. How else can you get the ball rolling? If it ended badly, she's not going to ask you to pick things up again, so you need to get your act together and open up.

• Tell her at the right place and time. Pick a time when she's not too busy and you can be alone, ideally at night or in a semi-secluded location.
• Maintain eye contact when you tell her. No looking around, no checking your phone.
• No more Mr. Tough Guy. It's time to be open and honest and to share your true feelings.
• First, acknowledge what went wrong, and apologize for it again if you haven't already. Then, tell her how much you've changed and how much you'd love to give it another try.
• Say, "I can't believe what an idiot I've been. You were the best thing that ever happened to me and I really screwed it up. Let me make it up to you."
• Don't sound like you're begging and pleading; instead, make it sound like barely a question at all. Let her know that you're going to try again, and hopefully you'll get the answer you were looking for.

#2# Take her out. 

If she agrees to go out with you, you better do it right this time. You're lucky enough to be getting a second chance, and third chances are hard to come by. Make the most of your time together and make sure to treat her right. Here's what to do:

• Turn up the romance factor. Bring her flowers and take her to a romantic restaurant. Now, you shouldn't overdo it to the point that she feels uncomfortable. Just add a little bit of the romance that was probably missing before.
• Compliment her. Let her know she looks nice when you pick her up, and compliment her throughout the date.
• Let her know how much you've missed her. Find one or two moments during the date when you tell her how glad you are to have her in your life.
• In the end, be yourself. You can become a better listener, a more attentive person, or just learn to understand her needs, but in the end, you're still you, and you should make sure she likes who you really are. Don't try so hard to show that you've changed that there's nothing left of the old you.

#3# Keep the girl this time.

 

If the date went well, and if there are more dates to follow, you need to make sure the relationship doesn't end for the same reason if you really want to stay with this girl. If she's a keeper, you must remind yourself that you have to continue making her feel special.

• Remind yourself what happened the last time, and vow not to do it again.
• Look at it as starting fresh. You don't have to rehash the old relationship, but work on building something completely new and much better.
• Relax. Just enjoy being with the girl instead of worrying about not screwing up again all the time.

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